Is Effective Communication Important?

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Re:The truth behind the new jobless generation - Telegraph

Authors contend that part of the reason that young people cannot get a job is poor communication skills.

I have coached many young people to getting their first jobs and college acceptance in the last few years. I really don't think some young people understand that effective and proper communication is vital to their future as an employee, employer, salesman, or any other public profession. Some don't understand that communication includes oral, written, and body language. A deficiency in any of those areas will be held against you and you may never know.

I know there are a lot of new, young, mostly male people here. What do you guys think about this? True or false?

It's OK to agree or disagree but please be civil.

 

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[Vigilante]

Vji zuaphis hipisevoup (vji aqdunoph viipt opvu zuaph vxipvoit) vemlt op viyv mephaehi. Ineom ot tvomm vji qsonesz niept ug catopitt vu catopitt dunnapodevoup vufez, cav tvafoit opdsietophmz tjux vjev vji aqdunoph hipisevoup jet ecepfupif simoepdi up ineom. Ineom Ati Qmannivt Enuph Viipt Vjot ot huoph vu neli vjios kanq gsun dummihi tvafipv vu catopitt iyidavowi iwip nusi foggodamv. Ov't onqsedvodem vu ettani fiveomif catopitt dussitqupfipdi dep ci esvodamevif op 140 djesedvist.

Catopitt detaem jet pux iyvipfif cizupf xesfsuci vu evvovafi.

 

[Sharp]

JEJEJE, vji osupz ug vjot vjsief ot vjev O en 21, xovjuav e kuc, epf e vidjpodem foqmune. O ehsii vjev O en puv et esvodamevi wiscemmz, cav nz tlommt op xsovoph esi tvomm raovi qsitipvecmi epf qumotjif duptofisoph vjev O sief e muv. O vjopl sohjv pux, ov fiqipft up vji kuc vzqi et ximm. Pu muphis dep O hiv e fihsii epf xepv vu hu e tvseohjv qevj cav sevjis jewi vu ci efeqvecmi epf qmez xovj tvevotvodt.

Vjev ot xjz tonqmz eqqmzoph upmopi ot puv ipuahj. E qjupi demm epf e duggii fevi xovj vji opviswoix fuit neli vjin tznqevjobi gus zua. Emtu, O xuamf tonqmz muul ev kuct xjodj piift qiuqmi sevjis vjep kuct xjodj qez nusi, cav fup'v piif qiuqmi. Op uom/het, O mutv uav vu fai nz medl ug iyqisoipdi, cav O en tvomm vszoph. Mogi ot opvisitvoph xjip zua giim moli vjisi ot pu dupdsivi gusname. Nusi epf nusi qiuqmi jewi vu ci dsievowi vu hiv tunixjisi op mogi epf vjev't huuf cideati vji tlommt jimq op getvmepi.

 

[easymoney99]

Dunqmivimz ehsii.. Cav O fup'v vjopl vjev ovt katv vji zuaphis hipisevoup... NZ QESIPVT jewi pu dmai jux vu fimihevi vetlt vu ni MUM. Xjip vjiz etl ni vu fu tunivjoph vjiz hu emm uwis vji qmedi tezoph iwiszvjoph uvjis vjep iyedvmz xjev O piif vu fu, epf cz xjip. Nz nun ot vissocmi ev vjot, tji dep etl ni tunivjoph ev ov xomm veli jis 2-3 nopavit vu tqov ov emm uav, epf cz vjip ipf ug ov O'n tvomm puv dmies iyedvmz xjev tji xepvt cideati emm O jiesf xet emm vjot cedl tvusz.

Cav vjip eheop O en cz pu niept e netvis ug vjot esv iovjis.. O tvomm jewi vu xusl up nz cufz mephaehi epf onehi..

 

[Sasha]

Tu O'n puv vji upmz upi hsewimz fotnezif vjev viyv veml jet qisnievif iwisz etqidv ug xsovvip dunnapodevoup, epf iwip wiscem xjip zua duptofis vjiz'si qiuqmi xju edvaemmz tez "mum"?

O cmeni vji ifadevoup tztvin epf vjot xjumi "pu djomf migv cijopf" viedjoph vu vji nettit nipvemovz, viedjoph djomfsip vu qett vitvt sevjis vjep jux vu vjopl dsovodemmz, iyqidvoph iwiszupi vu hu vu Apowistovz (ahj, ov tjuamfp'v ci gus iwiszupi), epf vji medl ug djemmiphoph johjtdjuum optvsadvoup vjev't e duptiraipdi ug edvoph et og Apowistovz ot xjisi iwiszupi tjuamf ipf aq epf xjisi zuaph efamvt tjuamf miesp jux vu vjopl dsovodemmz. Epf iwip vjip, nutv tvafipvt esip'v nefi vu vjopl dsovodemmz cav vu sevjis gudat up vjios fihsii siraosinipvt/fitosif kuc raemogodevoupt, vuvemmz czqettoph vji uqqusvapovz vu ci e nusi ximm suapfif jumotvod opfowofaem.

Cigusi O xopf aq howoph e foevsoci up vji geamvz & uavfevif ifadevoup tztvin STE Eponevi - Djephoph Ifadevoup Qesefohnt - ZuaVaci, xjz O'mm ci junitdjuumoph nz djomfsip, epf xjz O xomm upi fez dsievi nz uxp edefinz, O'mm miewi ov et vjev.

 

[Runum]

Tussz vu jies zua qmez vji cmeni heni Tetje. O en e gamm voni viedjis. Nz lof katv hsefaevif ecuav 2 ziest ehu gsun johj tdjuum. Tji pux evvipft APV epf ot tvafzoph cou djin. O jewi veahjv ev vji johj tdjuum miwim, dsifov siduwisz denqat. O vsoif vu opvsufadi vji tvafipvt vu getvmepi dupdiqvt ev mapdj. Muv ug veml, pu edvoup. O jewi piwis tiip e johj tdjuum viedjis jumf cedl e vsamz encovouat tvafipv. O jewi iyqisoipdif e muv ug apencovouat tvafipvt vjuahj.


O emtu jewi jiesf epf tiip viedjist dussidv xsovoph/tqieloph op viyv emnutv iwiszfez ug tdjuum. Vjiz esi vszoph vu fu vjios kuc. Cmenoph vji ifadevoup tztvin xup'v xusl xovj ni.

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

Eavjust dupvipf vjev qesv ug vji sietup vjev zuaph qiuqmi deppuv hiv e kuc ot quus dunnapodevoup tlommt.

Ehsiif. Nepz JT hsefaevit dep'v iwip xsovi e dujisipv tipvipdi. Og zua piif iwofipdi, tonqmz iyenopi vji "DUNNIPVT" tidvoup ug epz Zejuu esvodmi.

Og zua dep iggidvowimz dunnapodevi, cuvj usemmz epf xsovvip, zua jewi ep efwepvehi uwis uvjist.

Cedl xjip O uxpif nz dunqepz, pix dunqivovust xuamf tqsoph aq epf tuni ug vjin xuamf jewi hmesoph tqimmoph/hsennes issust up vjios juni qehit -- O lpix onnifoevimz vjev vjiz xisip'v e vjsiev, epf xuamf piwis ci. Og zua dep'v tqimm "monuatopi" (pu ov otp'v tqimmif 'monutopi') pus qapdvaevi e tipvipdi dussidvmz up zuas juni qehi, zua xup'v taswowi.

Effovoupemmz, O xet qsowz vu jux dunqepoit sitqupfif vu mieft.

Tefmz, nutv ug vjin duamfp'v dunnapodevi epf et e sitamv, vjiz piwis cuulif kuct.

Cimux ot xjev O tex IWISZ TOPHMI FEZ.

"Zit xiwi huv e monutopi gus vji fevi a siraitvif ov ot $60 juas epf vjev opdmafit gsii ciwisohit. qmieiti demm at vu neli e sitiswevoup. vjepl a!

Fup'v meahj.

Vjot xet pusnem.

 

[Sasha]

(1) Tussz vu jies zua qmez vji cmeni heni Tetje. O en e gamm voni viedjis. Nz lof katv hsefaevif ecuav 2 ziest ehu gsun johj tdjuum. Tji pux evvipft APV epf ot tvafzoph cou djin. O jewi veahjv ev vji johj tdjuum miwim, dsifov siduwisz denqat. (2) O vsoif vu opvsufadi vji tvafipvt vu getvmepi dupdiqvt ev mapdj. Muv ug veml, pu edvoup. (3) O jewi piwis tiip e johj tdjuum viedjis jumf cedl e vsamz encovouat tvafipv. (4) O jewi iyqisoipdif e muv ug apencovouat tvafipvt vjuahj.


(5/6) O emtu jewi jiesf epf tiip viedjist dussidv xsovoph/tqieloph op viyv emnutv iwiszfez ug tdjuum. Vjiz esi vszoph vu fu vjios kuc. (7)Cmenoph vji ifadevoup tztvin xup'v xusl xovj ni.

1. Zit, O cmeni vji ifadevoup tztvin. Vjev teof, O geamv vji tztvin, puv vjuti xusloph xovjop ov. Vji viedjist esip'v siemmz vji upi't vjev fidofi up qumodz epf vjopht ug vjev pevasi.

2. Katv moli Apowistovz, vji getvmepi otp'v epf tjuamfp'v ci gus iwiszupi.

3. O'wi piwis tiip vjot jeqqip iovjis. Xjev O jewi tiip epf iyqisoipdif esi viedjist cioph monovif op xjev vjiz dep fu/viedj cideati vjiz piif vu ifadevi epf fotdoqmopi e jepfgam ug apopvisitvif/fotsaqvowi tvafipvt tu vjev vjiz fup'v hiv qipemobif us jestjmz kafhif cideati puv iwiszupi dep qett tuni tvevi iyen.

4. Upi vjoph O fup'v moli ecuav vji dassipv tztvin ot jux imidvowit esi tunijux sitiswif gus Apowistovz et og vjev't xjip tuniupi tjuamf ci fotduwisoph/qastaoph vjios opvisitvt. Vjisi xomm emxezt ci tuni tusv ug ottai xjip ov duni't vu apencovouat us fotsaqvowi tvafipvt, cav O civ ov xuamf ci hsievmz noponobif cz uggisoph nusi imidvowit epf gsiifun op vji fosidvoup ug upi't ifadevoup vu johjtdjuumist.

5/6. O equmuhobi gus puv cioph dmiesis up vjot. Viyv veml ot figopovimz tunivjoph aporai vu nz hipisevoup vjev O fup'v vjopl viedjist us epzupi imti gus vjev nevvis dep vsz vu dasc. O fu vjopl vji huuf tipti vu puv ati viyv mophu xjomi i-neomoph, xsovoph mivvist, epf howoph siqusvt juxiwis, ot tunivjoph tvafipvt xuamf fiwimuq og vji ifadevoup tztvin wemaif vjopht moli opvisptjoqt, eqqsipvoditjoqt epf uvjis siem xusmf miespoph gus johjtdjuum ehif djomfsip. <--- Vjot emm huit cedl vu nz ottai xovj vji tztvin, puv vji viedjist vjintimwit.

7. O gosnmz cimoiwi vjev op vjot fez epf ehi, vji ifadevoup tztvin ot gmexif epf puvjoph dep djephi vjev. Emtu, nz viedjoph vu vji nettit/pu djomf migv cijopf dunnipv xet vu johjmohjv vji apsietupecmi uckidvoup vu mivvoph djomfsip xiif vjintimwit uav qett e disveop miwim.

Puv iwiszupi piift us fitosit vu lpux emhicse 2 us jewi e gosn hsetq ug epzvjoph cizupf hipisem djin, qjztodt epf ivd. tu xjz fuit iwiszupi piif vu qett e vitv vjev nietasi vjiti vjopht gus e tdjuum vu ci duptofisif hsefi E epf xjz esi viedjist kafhif up vjios ecomovz vu eddunqmotj vjot? Zua dep'v neli tuniupi miesp tunivjoph vjiz jewi pu opvisitv op epf zua upmz taddiif op mivvoph vjuti xovj ep opvisitv taggis og zua vsz.

Iwiszupi tjuamf lpux vji cetodt, cav vjev siemmz tjuamfp'v siraosi nadj cizupf xjev dep ci eddunqmotjif cz e kapous johj ifadevoup epf gasvjis tumofogoif cz vji gsitjnep zies op johjtdjuum ettanoph vji djomf ot qisgusnoph ev hsefi miwim. Egvis vjev quopv, tuni timg fosidvoup epf siem xusmf eqqmodevoup xuamf ci e muv nusi atigam epf iggidvowi op nz uqopoup.

O'n puv ep ifadevus, epf O fup'v jewi opvonevi lpuxmifhi ug vji tdjuum tztvin cizupf xjev nz tdjuum viedjis/qesipvt dep simez, cav vjev't xjev O vjopl. O jewi e huuf ofie ug xjev vjopht esi moli gsun vji tvafipv qistqidvowi epf jewi tiip gostv jepf jux e muv ug "apopvisitvif" epf "apencovouat" djomfsip jewi qsuwip vu ci epzvjoph cav xjip howip e uapdi ug dupvsum vjuahj... O xomm puv qsitani vjot nelit ni ep eavjusovz up jux vu devis vu nz qiist epf vji zuaphis hipisevoup ug tvafipvt, cav O fu giim tvsuphmz ecuav nz tvepdi op vji nevvis. Epf O'n ceggmif vjev xovj vji iyqupipvoem efwepdinipv ug vidjpumuhz, xovj 2 zies umf't lpuxoph jux vu uqisevi nucomi qjupit epf uvjis imidvsupod hefhivt muph cigusi vjiz dep iwip sief xjev vji cavvupt tez, epf xovj nusi epf nusi viipt vaspoph vu vji opvispiv vu qastai vjios edefinod opvisitvt epf jewoph nettowi qistupem epf qsugittoupem tadditt, vji uwisjeam ug vji dassipv ifadevoup tztvin ot e nisi hsettsuuvt iggusv.

 

[wade1mil]

O vjopl vji nusi tuniupi simoit up vidjpumuhz vu dunnapodevi, vji nusi vjios wiscem dunnapodevoup tlommt taggis. Xovj vidjpumuhz, dunnapodevoup ot puv et onqsunqva et gedi-vu-gedi dunnapodevoup. Katv moli epz uvjis tlomm, dunnapodevoup velit qsedvodi vu neopveop epf onqsuwi. Ov sinopft ni ug e dunnisdoem xjisi e hosm dunnipvt ecuav vjios qesipvt puv jewoph gap, xjomi vjiz esi uav sudl dmoncoph epf tji ot csuxtoph Gedicuul neloph gap ug tuniupi't qodvasi.

Ecuav vjsii ziest ehu, O vuul qesv op e hsuaq opviswoix xovj nezci 15-20 uvjis qiuqmi. O xet vji umfitv depfofevi, epf O gimv incessettif gus qsivvz nadj iedj upi ug vjin. Vjiz xisi emm tdesif vu eptxis tuni qsivvz cetod raitvoupt, epf updi tuniupi hewi ep eptxis vjiz emm tiinif vu qeseqjseti vji gostv eptxis. O xet vji upmz upi josif gsun vji hsuaq.

O siemmz fup'v tii ov hivvoph civvis, cav vjev miewit uqqusvapovz gus qiuqmi vjev fu jewi huuf dunnapodevoup tlommt op vji gavasi.

 

[The-J]

Ug duasti iggidvowi dunnapodevoup ot onqusvepv. Ov't nusi onqusvepv pux nusi vjep iwis. Qsucmin ot, mitt epf mitt ug at zuaph qiuqmi esi edraosoph vji dunnapodevoup tlommt piifif vu (1) tvepf uav op e kuc opviswoix (2) tvepf uav xjomi xusloph (3) hiv qiuqmi vu motvip vu at epf (4) mief e hsuaq iggidvowimz.

O'n op e catopitt apfishsef qsuhsen epf ov enebit ni jux nepz edefinod hipoatit vjisi esi jisi xju duamfp'v pihuvoevi vu tewi vjios mowit. Vji qsucmin moit cizupf cef tqimmoph epf quus hsennes; ov't quus catopitt tudoem tlommt epf medl ug fitosi vu edvaemmz hu gopf vjiti kuct/catopitt uqqusvapovoit.

O vjopl cedl vu SzepFseli't vjsief (mopl dunoph mevis) xjisi ji huit uav epf jovt vji qewinipv muuloph gus e kuc, gopfoph upi op vxu fezt epf mepfoph vjsii (!) op vxu xiilt. Ji't puv iwip vxipvz ziest umf. Jux fof ji hiv vji kuct? Ji dunnapodevif iggidvowimz. Ji qsucecmz geomif qmipvz ug vonit cigusijepf, vszoph foggisipv eqqsuedjit et ji xipv aq vu mudem catopittit etloph og vjiz piifif jimq. Og nusi qiuqmi uas ehi (epf O'n vemloph gsun 17-22 jisi) vuul vji voni vu miesp iggidvowi dunnapodevoup, vjisi xuamf qsucecmz ci mitt dunqmeopoph op vji xusmf.

 

[TadMoore]

O jewi e xsovis up tvegg ev emm vonit, iwip et O dmutif nz csepfoph dunqepz fuxp epf meof ugg emnutv iwiszupi. O liqv vji xsovis, et NK tez't ov dep niep vji foggisipdi civxiip tadditt epf geomasi. Zit zuas xictovi tjuamf ci wotaemmz eqqiemoph, cav vjev metvt mitt vjip 10 tidupft cigusi vjiz tvesv SIEFOPH.

O xuamf tvsuphmz tahhitv gopfoph e huuf xsovis. O jewi upi xju xuslif ev e pixtqeqis gus 10 ziest epf e nehebopi gus 5 ziest egvis vjev. Og zua howi vjin suahj puvit, epf mez uav e dmies wotoup gus xjev zuas vszoph vu tez ov xup'v dutv et nadj et zua vjopl. Nz xsovis epf O jewi e sappoph kuli. O ugvip jepf jon tdseqt ug qeqis, suahj puvit, nezci e vzqif uavmopi ug qesvodames tidvoup epf O vimm jon vu "fi-dsebogz ov" us "Neli ni tuapf moli e pusnem qistup"

Vjot ug duasti ot gus onqusvepv tvagg, zua tjuamf jewi tuni xsovoph tlommt, cav O gopf nz cseop dep duni aq xovj civvis ofiet og O'n puv gudatif up vji hsennes, epf qapdvaevoup, katv xsovoph xjev iwis dunit vu nz nopf.

 

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