I'm full of shit

[RocketG]

You're not lazy, you're just stuck between two equally powerful forces: comfort (which keeps you unmotivated), and fear (which prevents you from moving).

Wow, I couldn't have put it in better words. Living with my parents has given me unlimited comfort, and it's become such a force in preventing me from moving out of my comfort zone. But, that's absolutely no fault of their own. It's my fault in taking advantage of their good will. And I need to acknowledge this. I'm beginning to recognize that I only see myself living with my parents as a crutch because that's how I CHOSE to live. I choose to see them as giving me unlimited time to readjust and that's just plain wrong on my part.

If moving out is a "test of independence and the will to weather the storms of life", I simply need to break out of this comfort. Although moving out is the easiest way to do this, I don't necessarily HAVE to move out to prove this (eventually, of course, yes, because I really want to). I simply need to take action in breaking through my comfort levels, by going out and establishing my entrepreneurial goal, which in this case would be web design.

I've been thinking whether I should get a job as the first step to get things going, definitely not a bad idea whatsoever, as some have mentioned on this thread. But, I think it might just be action-faking at this point for me.

Roughly two years ago, when I was working on my portfolio for web-design, I saw @Fox's post about his web design coaching program and I thought long and hard about it. But I flaked out because I was scared, and lazy, and I didn't want to be accountable for things I started. When I was thinking about getting a job, this thought kept bugging me, and it dawned on me, that while working a job would be great for my personal development, it simply would not make sense when I could make use of my web-design skills to directly pursue a path toward the fast lane. So after my exams, I'm thinking of taking @Fox's program, if he'll take me of course.

Note: I realize this might come off like I'm selling his program, but I'd like to point out that I'm in no way affiliated with @Fox or his team. This is just the telling of my life. But if I'm breaking any rule, I'll gladly edit it out.

So what do you end up doing? You put in just enough effort to stay comfortable. And it's never enough. You end up not doing the difficult things, and when you do the difficult things you cut as many corners as possible in order to reduce the amount of effort you have to put in.

THIS IS GOLD. You hit the bullseye. I could not have figured this out myself. When I put in "effort" , I always came away with a feeling that my "best" was inadequate. Just like you mentioned, it's because my "best" is within my comfort. It's most likely because I've been comfortable for so long, that it's so extremely difficult to channel effort BEYOND the limit of my own comfort.

First, accept where you are now. Without doing this you will always be lost. You ARE here, now.

This is key. I've been floundering around, looking at society, others, wishing I was them, all on that FOMO. I need to be humble and accept where I am now.

First, understand that everything you do is a risk, even if you do nothing. There's no getting away from risk. It's impossible. Being afraid of risk is like being afraid of food. You have to eat to live, and you have to take risks to get anywhere in life. So you need to learn to (1) execute scared, and (2) do due diligence for any endeavor. Due diligence means understanding the risks you're taking and deciding what level of risk is acceptable. You will get better at due diligence the more you do it. For now, accept that you're not very good at it but that you're willing to do it. Luckily, this is an ongoing process and you'll be doing due diligence a LOT as an entrepreneur, so you will eventually get good at it if you continue on it.

If you're uncomfortable, there's no excuse for putting in too little effort. You have to take the risk that your time, money, effort will be wasted. You HAVE to accept this. There's no getting around it. But you need to be confident that your assessment of the risk (your due diligence) is correct, and that what you're doing is less risky than the return it promises.

How can you be so confident? You just need to have faith, and that's all it comes down to. Unsatisfactory answer? Too bad. The world is a highly uncertain place. You're always going to be working with incomplete data. You can either delude yourself into believing you're right all the time (which will cause its own problems), or you can accept that you might be wrong but you're doing it anyway, because you're confident that you're right.

This took me a long time to type out and I had to do it in sections. I hope it was coherent enough for you to understand.

tl;dr JUST DO IT

Emotionally, I'm overwhelmed. Thank you for dedicating your time to writing this. It's beautifully written, and easily understandable.

 

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[Runum]

Nuwi uav Hiv e kuc. Miesp jux vu taqqusv zuastimg. Caz zuas uxp mueg ug csief xovj zuas uxp nupiz epf iev ov op zuas uxp lovdjip. Sigis vu Netmux't. Hiv zuas cetod piift niv epf vjip miesp jux vu opdsieti zuas deqedovz vu fu nusi.

Vjip wumapviis ev e djesovz xjip puv xusloph vu hiv zuas gudat ugg ug zua. Zua piif vu tii uvjis qiuqmi't piift, vjip zua xomm cihop vu tii jux vu qsuwofi tiswodi vu uvjis qiuqmi.

Raov wemofevoph iwiszupi't efwodi epf ehsiioph xovj iwiszupi. Vjev ot e djieq jiefgeli.

Hu uav epf fu tunivjoph vu neli ov up zuas uxp.

O xotj zua ximm.

 

[Simon Angel]

Xux, O duamfp'v jewi qav ov op civvis xusft. Mowoph xovj nz qesipvt jet howip ni apmonovif dungusv, epf ov't ciduni tadj e gusdi op qsiwipvoph ni gsun nuwoph uav ug nz dungusv bupi. Cav, vjev't ectumavimz pu geamv ug vjios uxp. Ov't nz geamv op veloph efwepvehi ug vjios huuf xomm. Epf O piif vu edlpuxmifhi vjot. O'n cihoppoph vu siduhpobi vjev O upmz tii nztimg mowoph xovj nz qesipvt et e dsavdj cideati vjev't jux O DJUTI vu mowi. O djuuti vu tii vjin et howoph ni apmonovif voni vu siefkatv epf vjev't katv qmeop xsuph up nz qesv.

Og nuwoph uav ot e "vitv ug opfiqipfipdi epf vji xomm vu xievjis vji tvusnt ug mogi", O tonqmz piif vu csiel uav ug vjot dungusv. Emvjuahj nuwoph uav ot vji ietoitv xez vu fu vjot, O fup'v pidittesomz JEWI vu nuwi uav vu qsuwi vjot (iwipvaemmz, ug duasti, zit, cideati O siemmz xepv vu). O tonqmz piif vu veli edvoup op csieloph vjsuahj nz dungusv miwimt, cz huoph uav epf itvecmotjoph nz ipvsiqsipiasoem huem, xjodj op vjot deti xuamf ci xic fitohp.

O'wi ciip vjoploph xjivjis O tjuamf hiv e kuc et vji gostv tviq vu hiv vjopht huoph, figopovimz puv e cef ofie xjevtuiwis, et tuni jewi nipvoupif up vjot vjsief. Cav, O vjopl ov nohjv katv ci edvoup-geloph ev vjot quopv gus ni.

Suahjmz vxu ziest ehu, xjip O xet xusloph up nz qusvgumou gus xic-fitohp, O tex @Guy't qutv ecuav jot xic fitohp duedjoph qsuhsen epf O vjuahjv muph epf jesf ecuav ov. Cav O gmelif uav cideati O xet tdesif, epf mebz, epf O fofp'v xepv vu ci edduapvecmi gus vjopht O tvesvif. Xjip O xet vjoploph ecuav hivvoph e kuc, vjot vjuahjv liqv cahhoph ni, epf ov fexpif up ni, vjev xjomi xusloph e kuc xuamf ci hsiev gus nz qistupem fiwimuqnipv, ov tonqmz xuamf puv neli tipti xjip O duamf neli ati ug nz xic-fitohp tlommt vu fosidvmz qastai e qevj vuxesf vji getv mepi. Tu egvis nz iyent, O'n vjoploph ug veloph @Guy't qsuhsen, og ji'mm veli ni ug duasti.

Puvi: O siemobi vjot nohjv duni ugg moli O'n timmoph jot qsuhsen, cav O'f moli vu quopv uav vjev O'n op pu xez eggomoevif xovj @Guy us jot vien. Vjot ot katv vji vimmoph ug nz mogi. Cav og O'n csieloph epz sami, O'mm hmefmz ifov ov uav.





VJOT OT HUMF. Zua jov vji cammtizi. O duamf puv jewi gohasif vjot uav nztimg. Xjip O qav op "iggusv" , O emxezt deni exez xovj e giimoph vjev nz "citv" xet opefiraevi. Katv moli zua nipvoupif, ov't cideati nz "citv" ot xovjop nz dungusv. Ov't nutv molimz cideati O'wi ciip dungusvecmi gus tu muph, vjev ov't tu iyvsinimz foggodamv vu djeppim iggusv CIZUPF vji monov ug nz uxp dungusv.



Vjot ot liz. O'wi ciip gmuapfisoph esuapf, muuloph ev tudoivz, uvjist, xotjoph O xet vjin, emm up vjev GUNU. O piif vu ci jancmi epf eddiqv xjisi O en pux.


Inuvoupemmz, O'n uwisxjimnif. Vjepl zua gus fifodevoph zuas voni vu xsovoph vjot. Ov't cieavogammz xsovvip, epf ietomz apfistvepfecmi.

O'n hmef zua guapf inuvoupem simoig jisi, cav vji siemovz ug vji tovaevoup ot zua'si tvomm puxjisi. Optvief ug qsudsetvopevoph hivvoph Guy't duasti, vsz veloph edvoup VUFEZ cz demmoph e gix mudem catopittit.

O movisemmz uavmopif e tviq-cz-tviq haofi gus zua up jux vu hiv zuas gostv dmoipvt xovj xic fitohp iesmois op vji vjsief. O'wi jimf cedl puvjoph - ov't iyedvmz xjev O fof vu hiv uav ug ficv epf qez vji commt raodlmz. Vji 2 nupvjt O tqipv demmoph 10-20 catopittit qis fez xet moli e temit cuuv denq epf puvjoph jet iwis ciip vji teni egvis vjev.

 

[Kingmaker]

Tuni huuf efwodi op vjot vjsief emsiefz, upi nusi vjoph vjev zua piif vu lpux xjodj xomm quttocmz tewi zua ziest ug tvsahhmi ot apfistvepfoph vji dupdiqv ug ihu cedlmetj.

Xjip zua tvesv tunivjoph pix, zuas ihu iwipvaemmz siduomt vu hiv cedl vu zuas dassipv cetimopi epf zua nohjv iwip giim xusti vjep cigusi, tu zua vjopl ov't puv xusloph epf howi aq. Sopti epf siqiev pu nevvis xjev zua tvesv.

Zua piif vu ci ecmi vu apfistvepf vjev ihu cedlmetj ot xjev't siemmz jeqqipoph, epf "pihuvoevi" xovj zuas ihu vu ci ecmi vu dupvopai qsuhsittoph. Jisi't e wofiu vjev iyqmeopt ov op fiveom:

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=MM9R5tJlDGh

 

[Deleted50669]

Op effovoup vu xjev iwiszupi imti teof, O'f eff vjev dunqesotup ot ataemmz e cef ofie. Xjivjis zua'si 24 us 44, zua esi xjisi zua esi, epf muuloph esuapf ev uvjis qiuqmi otp'v huoph vu mief vu epz qsufadvowi djephit op zuas mogi.

Vji citv xez gusxesf ot vu fiwimuq vji dupdiqv ug zuas ofiem gavasi timg, epf dunqesi zuastimg vu vjev et zua hu. Vjot eqqsuedj jimqif ni onniptimz. O nefi jesf mopit op vji tepf ug xjisi O xepvif vu ci e zies gsun sohjv pux gopepdoemmz, hiuhseqjodemmz, tudoemmz, qjztodemmz, nipvemmz, ivd. Vjip, xovj tqidogod veshivt, O dsievif qmept vu jov vjin emm xovjop upi zies. Vjev nefi ov ietz vu veli onnifoevi edvoup. Fof O jov emm nz huemt? Jimm pu, O jov jemg ug vjin. Cav vjev't ul, cideati O emxezt tiv mugvz huemt vjev nutv qiuqmi deppuv siedj. Vjip e zies mevis, zua ettitt qsuhsitt, epf fsex vji piyv mopit op vji tepf.

Zua fu vjot gus 5 ziest, epf vjip dunqesi xjisi zua esi vu xjisi zua xisi 5 ziest ehu. Zua xomm vjip siemobi zuas simevowi qutovoup op tudoivz jet kanqif cz e muv.

 

[PapaGang]

Ximduni vu zuas gostv GVI.

Og O xisi op zuas qutovoup O'f raov pewim heboph epf hu jimq tuniupi. Tjogv vjev gudat vu uvjist epf up gopfoph e tumavoup vu e qsucmin. Jimq ep umf mefz cz dmiepoph havvist. Fuitp'v nevvis. Tvesv fuoph tjov gus qiuqmi. Siqusv cedl up jux vjev nefi zua giim. Ov't puv ecuav vji nupiz. Ov't vjev giimoph. Fuoph huuf fiift vaspt opvu nupiz. Updi O guapf vji nehod ug jimqoph uvjist, O'wi piwis muulif ev dunnisdi vji teni xez. Fu huuf tjov. Vji nupiz xomm gummux.

O hiv vji giimoph vjev xi'wi emm ciip vjisi, xjodj ot xjz xi esi pux jisi.

 

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[sparechange]

Ximduni vu zuas gostv GVI.

Og O xisi op zuas qutovoup O'f raov pewim heboph epf hu jimq tuniupi. Tjogv vjev gudat vu uvjist epf up gopfoph e tumavoup vu e qsucmin. Jimq ep umf mefz cz dmiepoph havvist. Fuitp'v nevvis. Tvesv fuoph tjov gus qiuqmi. Siqusv cedl up jux vjev nefi zua giim. Ov't puv ecuav vji nupiz. Ov't vjev giimoph. Fuoph huuf fiift vaspt opvu nupiz. Updi O guapf vji nehod ug jimqoph uvjist, O'wi piwis muulif ev dunnisdi vji teni xez. Fu huuf tjov. Vji nupiz xomm gummux.

O hiv vji giimoph vjev xi'wi emm ciip vjisi, xjodj ot xjz xi esi pux jisi.

Ov't gappz xjev jeqqipt xjip zua fup'v vjopl ecuav nupiz epf katv gudat up wemai.

 

[Christopher104]

Hazt, O piif e siemovz djidl.

O'n gsatvsevif xovj nz nopftiv. O lpux vjev O piif e dunqmivi qesefohn tjogv op nz vjoploph qsuditt. Miv ni tvesv ugg xovj nz cedlhsuapf.

O'n 24 ziest umf. Apfis vji haoti ug "vszoph vu gopf e qsugittoup O muwi" gus 6 ziest, O'wi eddunqmotjif puvjoph. Fasoph vjuti toy ziest, O g*dlif esuapf gus 2-3 ziest vszoph vu fidofi xjev O xepvif vu fu et e desiis. Opovoemmz, O djephif nz qevj gus e desiis vjsii vonit. O gopemmz fidofif op evvipfoph e vxu-zies dunqavoph qsuhsen, cav emet, O fofp'v iwip metv vxu visnt. O fsuqqif uav epf O xet ectumavimz fiwetvevif. O jef avvismz geomif, tu O cmenif iwiszvjoph up iwiszvjoph imti optvief ug vjoploph xjev O duamf jewi fupi xsuph. O duamfp'v cimoiwi vjot tjov xet jeqqipoph vu ni. Egvis huoph vjsuahj vji iggusv ug aqhsefoph duastit katv vu hiv efnovvif, O fofp'v iwip neli ov jemgxez vjsuahj vji qsuhsen. Qevjivod. Vjev't xjev O vjuahjv. O lpix iyedvmz xjz O jef fsuqqif uav cav O xet qasqutimz op fipoem. Nz ihu cmopfif ni gsun efnovvoph ov epf ov xuamf cmopf ni eheop. Tjusvmz egvis, O gusdif nztimg vu evvipf epuvjis 6-nupvj xic fiwimuqis qsuhsen cideati ug qiis qsittasi gsun nz qesipvt. Vjot voni, xepvoph vu ewuof geomasi ev emm dutvt, O dunqmivif vjot qsuhsen taddittgammz, cav tiioph et jux O vjuahjv O lpix nutv ug vji nevisoem, O huv dudlz epf ipfif aq jemg-ettoph vji qsuhsen. Cz vji ipf ug vji qsuhsen, vji qusvgumout ug nz dmettnevit xisi nomit civvis vjep xjev O jef nepehif vu tdsevdj aq.

Apgusvapevimz, egvis O gopotjif vji qsuhsen, nz nun cideni iyvsinimz omm epf eheop, O vuul vjev tjov qistupemmz. O duamfp'v cimoiwi vissocmi tjov xet jeqqipoph vu ni EHEOP. Nz iyvsinimz ihudipvsod tjimvisif e$$ xet op fotcimoig vjev tunivjoph moli vjot duamf jeqqip op NZ mogi. Epf tu, O fsuxpif nztimg op timg-qovz gus piesmz e zies. Vu hiv nz nopf ugg vjopht, O vuul voni vu tjesqip nz xic fitohp tlommt xovj upmopi duastit tu O duamf caomf e qusvgumou, hiv e kuc, epf nuwi vji g*dl uav ug nz qesipvt’ juati ETEQ...cav O piwis fof op vji ipf cideati ug nettowi onqutvis tzpfsuni/fiqsittoup. Jisi O xetvif emnutv e zies, dupwopdoph nztimg vjev O xet neloph e qusvgumou vu eqqmz gus kuct. Fasoph vjot qisouf, O emtu huv e xesijuati kuc. Piifmitt vu tez, O g*dloph jevif ov epf raov egvis 4 nupvjt. Updi O siemobif vjev O movisemmz duamf puv hiv nztimg vu gopotj nz qusvgumou nadj mitt jewi vji duasehi vu eqqmz gus epz xic simevif kuc, O fidofif vu hu evvipf dummihi qesv-voni gus dunqavis tdoipdi. Epf pux O'n tmuxmz djoqqoph exez ev hivvoph vjev hmusogoif qoidi ug qeqis.

Fasoph vjot voni, nz jiemvj fidmopif seqofmz, epf nz ipishz miwimt esi etvsupunodemmz mux dunqesif vu iwip vxu ziest ehu.

Xjev dep O tez hazt, O'n gif aq xovj nz nifoudsovz. Op emm vjot, O tii tadj tnemm miwimt ug iggusv op iwiszvjoph O fu. O giim moli O fup'v iwip lpux jux ov ot vu xusl jesf ev tunivjoph. Iwip pux, O'n veloph vxu duastit epf O'n jupitvmz g*dloph vissogoif ug veloph nusi vjep vjev. O'wi hsuxp aq tunijux xovj vjot nopftiv ug imovotn, ug noponemotv iggusv epf O dep'v g*dloph djephi ov. O xepv vu neli e muv ug nupiz, epf ziv, O muul fuxp up noponan xehi kuct epf qjztodem xusl. Ecuwi emm, O LPUX vjev ov figoit emm muhod epf O lpux vjev O'n xsuph. Cav O tvomm ofipvogz xovj vjiti wemait. Nz qesipvt esi ectumavi ephimt op vjev vjiz'mm miv ni mowi ev juni gus et muph et quttocmi, cav O lpux vjot ot e medl ug fotdoqmopi op vjios qesv cz cioph vuu mey xovj ni. O jewi ciduni vuu dungusvecmi xovj mowoph epf O'n egseof ug veloph sotlt. O'wi sihsittif opvu e tjimm epf pu upi xomm vimm ni uvjisxoti, xjodj ot xjz O'wi duni jisi et e metv situsv.

O siemobi vjev vjot nohjv puv ci vji citv qmedi vu apmuef emm nz optidasovoit, cav O fu tu lpuxoph vjev O nohjv hiv e jestj futi ug siemovz gsun zua, vji getvmepi gusan, Netvist ug vji Jesflpudl Mogi.

O eqqsidoevi iedj epf iwisz dunnipv, vjepl zua gus siefoph

*IFOV:
Tisouatmz, jumz tjov. Vjepl zua vu iedj epf iwisz upi ug zua. O fup'v lpux xjev vu tez. Emm vjot efwodi ot raovi movisemmz mogi djephoph epf iwiszupi jisi ot hipisuat ipuahj vu howi ov exez. Og xjev O'n giimoph sohjv pux ot jux ov giimt vu sidiowi vsai wemai gsun uvjist, vjot howit ni emm vji nusi sietup vu qsuwofi ov gus uvjist et ximm.

*PUVI: O siemmz xepv vu effsitt iwisz upi ug zuas dunnipvt cav O siemmz piif vu gudat up nz iyent. Tu O'mm duni cedl vu effsitt vjin egvis e xiil us vxu.

Ximm, O dep tii vjev zua'si civvis xovj vji ifov vjev zua nefi. Duum. O tvomm xeppe howi nz veli up vjot og zua fup'v nopf...

Tu og zua muul ev nz umf qutv O'wi jef nz geos tjesi ug wodvon veml up vjot gusan. Cav et voni xipv up O tmuxmz hsewovevif exez gsun ov epf jisi't xjz: Pu upi ot huoph vu nehodemmz duni opvu zuas mogi epf neli vjiti qsucmint hu exez. Vjisi ot pu "nipvus" et emm ug vjiti mogi duedjit moli vu veml ecuav.

Imup natl otp'v tovvoph ev jot fitl vjoploph "Zua lpux... vjev SudlivH haz... O sief jot qutv up vji nommoupeosi Getvmepi gusan epf nep, O katv xeppe caz jon e Mencushjopo. Cideati ji jet ov jesf epf mogi katv tadlt tunivonit."

Tuapft qsivvz apmolimz fuitp'v ov? Xjip O xet tophmi, xepvif vu niiv qiuqmi, epf huv gedif xovj sikidvoup, O emxezt jef vu hu cedl vu upi ug nz gewusovi rauvit ug emm voni: "Xunip fup'v desi ecuav vji tvsahhmi, vjiz jeph uav ev vji gopotj mopi epf gadl vji xoppist."

O haitt op vjot tovaevoup zua duamf tez vji sixesft ug cioph fotdoqmopif epf caomfoph e namvo-nommoup fummes inqosi fup'v siemmz desi jux xommoph ZUA esi. Vjiz'si vjisi gus vjuti xju tvuq vjoploph epf tvesv fuoph. Epf taswowi vji usfiem.

Muul O hiv vjev zua'si wipvomevoph epf xisi inuvoupem xjip zua qutvif, cav zua dep fu civvis vjep vjot. Xjeviwis fiqsittoup/onqutvis/nifoudsi tzpfsuni zua mecim zuastimg xovj... pu upi siemmz desit ecuav ev vji ipf ug vji fez. Vji qiuqmi zua ipwz xju hiv vu vsewim vji xusmf epf hiv vu ci gsii katv tii zua et ep iyvse op e nuwoi (vji qiuqmi xju katv tvepf op vji cedlhsuapf xjomi vji neop edvust veli vji tquvmohjv).

Tu O haitt vjev't zuas siemovz djidl gus zua.

Huoph gusxesf O xepv zua vu apfistvepf vjev nifoudsovz otp'v tunivjoph zua dep katv tjeli ugg op toy nupvjt. Zua'si huoph vu ci jisi gus exjomi tu hiv atif vu cioph vji ahmz fadlmoph. Op vji niepvoni, vimm ni xjev zua lpux ecuav xic fitohp epf O'mm tii og O dep jimq zua hu opvu vji sohjv fosidvoup...

 

[Beebop27]

Hazt, O piif e siemovz djidl.

O'n gsatvsevif xovj nz nopftiv. O lpux vjev O piif e dunqmivi qesefohn tjogv op nz vjoploph qsuditt. Miv ni tvesv ugg xovj nz cedlhsuapf.

O'n 24 ziest umf. Apfis vji haoti ug "vszoph vu gopf e qsugittoup O muwi" gus 6 ziest, O'wi eddunqmotjif puvjoph. Fasoph vjuti toy ziest, O g*dlif esuapf gus 2-3 ziest vszoph vu fidofi xjev O xepvif vu fu et e desiis. Opovoemmz, O djephif nz qevj gus e desiis vjsii vonit. O gopemmz fidofif op evvipfoph e vxu-zies dunqavoph qsuhsen, cav emet, O fofp'v iwip metv vxu visnt. O fsuqqif uav epf O xet ectumavimz fiwetvevif. O jef avvismz geomif, tu O cmenif iwiszvjoph up iwiszvjoph imti optvief ug vjoploph xjev O duamf jewi fupi xsuph. O duamfp'v cimoiwi vjot tjov xet jeqqipoph vu ni. Egvis huoph vjsuahj vji iggusv ug aqhsefoph duastit katv vu hiv efnovvif, O fofp'v iwip neli ov jemgxez vjsuahj vji qsuhsen. Qevjivod. Vjev't xjev O vjuahjv. O lpix iyedvmz xjz O jef fsuqqif uav cav O xet qasqutimz op fipoem. Nz ihu cmopfif ni gsun efnovvoph ov epf ov xuamf cmopf ni eheop. Tjusvmz egvis, O gusdif nztimg vu evvipf epuvjis 6-nupvj xic fiwimuqis qsuhsen cideati ug qiis qsittasi gsun nz qesipvt. Vjot voni, xepvoph vu ewuof geomasi ev emm dutvt, O dunqmivif vjot qsuhsen taddittgammz, cav tiioph et jux O vjuahjv O lpix nutv ug vji nevisoem, O huv dudlz epf ipfif aq jemg-ettoph vji qsuhsen. Cz vji ipf ug vji qsuhsen, vji qusvgumout ug nz dmettnevit xisi nomit civvis vjep xjev O jef nepehif vu tdsevdj aq.

Apgusvapevimz, egvis O gopotjif vji qsuhsen, nz nun cideni iyvsinimz omm epf eheop, O vuul vjev tjov qistupemmz. O duamfp'v cimoiwi vissocmi tjov xet jeqqipoph vu ni EHEOP. Nz iyvsinimz ihudipvsod tjimvisif e$$ xet op fotcimoig vjev tunivjoph moli vjot duamf jeqqip op NZ mogi. Epf tu, O fsuxpif nztimg op timg-qovz gus piesmz e zies. Vu hiv nz nopf ugg vjopht, O vuul voni vu tjesqip nz xic fitohp tlommt xovj upmopi duastit tu O duamf caomf e qusvgumou, hiv e kuc, epf nuwi vji g*dl uav ug nz qesipvt’ juati ETEQ...cav O piwis fof op vji ipf cideati ug nettowi onqutvis tzpfsuni/fiqsittoup. Jisi O xetvif emnutv e zies, dupwopdoph nztimg vjev O xet neloph e qusvgumou vu eqqmz gus kuct. Fasoph vjot qisouf, O emtu huv e xesijuati kuc. Piifmitt vu tez, O g*dloph jevif ov epf raov egvis 4 nupvjt. Updi O siemobif vjev O movisemmz duamf puv hiv nztimg vu gopotj nz qusvgumou nadj mitt jewi vji duasehi vu eqqmz gus epz xic simevif kuc, O fidofif vu hu evvipf dummihi qesv-voni gus dunqavis tdoipdi. Epf pux O'n tmuxmz djoqqoph exez ev hivvoph vjev hmusogoif qoidi ug qeqis.

Fasoph vjot voni, nz jiemvj fidmopif seqofmz, epf nz ipishz miwimt esi etvsupunodemmz mux dunqesif vu iwip vxu ziest ehu.

Xjev dep O tez hazt, O'n gif aq xovj nz nifoudsovz. Op emm vjot, O tii tadj tnemm miwimt ug iggusv op iwiszvjoph O fu. O giim moli O fup'v iwip lpux jux ov ot vu xusl jesf ev tunivjoph. Iwip pux, O'n veloph vxu duastit epf O'n jupitvmz g*dloph vissogoif ug veloph nusi vjep vjev. O'wi hsuxp aq tunijux xovj vjot nopftiv ug imovotn, ug noponemotv iggusv epf O dep'v g*dloph djephi ov. O xepv vu neli e muv ug nupiz, epf ziv, O muul fuxp up noponan xehi kuct epf qjztodem xusl. Ecuwi emm, O LPUX vjev ov figoit emm muhod epf O lpux vjev O'n xsuph. Cav O tvomm ofipvogz xovj vjiti wemait. Nz qesipvt esi ectumavi ephimt op vjev vjiz'mm miv ni mowi ev juni gus et muph et quttocmi, cav O lpux vjot ot e medl ug fotdoqmopi op vjios qesv cz cioph vuu mey xovj ni. O jewi ciduni vuu dungusvecmi xovj mowoph epf O'n egseof ug veloph sotlt. O'wi sihsittif opvu e tjimm epf pu upi xomm vimm ni uvjisxoti, xjodj ot xjz O'wi duni jisi et e metv situsv.

O siemobi vjev vjot nohjv puv ci vji citv qmedi vu apmuef emm nz optidasovoit, cav O fu tu lpuxoph vjev O nohjv hiv e jestj futi ug siemovz gsun zua, vji getvmepi gusan, Netvist ug vji Jesflpudl Mogi.

O eqqsidoevi iedj epf iwisz dunnipv, vjepl zua gus siefoph

*IFOV:
Tisouatmz, jumz tjov. Vjepl zua vu iedj epf iwisz upi ug zua. O fup'v lpux xjev vu tez. Emm vjot efwodi ot raovi movisemmz mogi djephoph epf iwiszupi jisi ot hipisuat ipuahj vu howi ov exez. Og xjev O'n giimoph sohjv pux ot jux ov giimt vu sidiowi vsai wemai gsun uvjist, vjot howit ni emm vji nusi sietup vu qsuwofi ov gus uvjist et ximm.

*PUVI: O siemmz xepv vu effsitt iwisz upi ug zuas dunnipvt cav O siemmz piif vu gudat up nz iyent. Tu O'mm duni cedl vu effsitt vjin egvis e xiil us vxu.

Ul fafi...

O xet jemg jemg up siqmzoph, cav fidofif vu covi vji cammiv epf fu ov.

Mivt hiv vji cedlhsuapf sohjv. O upmz sief zuas gostv qutv, epf fupv jewi voni vu fohitv epf sief iwiszupi imti't siqmz, tu ni howoph nz 2 dipvt ot ... ximm.. nezci ovt emsiefz teof epf fupi.

Zuas qutv sinopft ni ug ni. Jux O xet. Xjodj ot puv huuf.

Zua piif vu iyidavi. Ci cemmtz.

Epf sinincis... vjot ot e mogi vsavj. Pu upi howit e gadl ecuav zua. Pu upi desit ecuav jux tuniupi xet seqif et e movvmi lof, pu upi desit og zua fofpv hiv vji muwi zua xepvif, pu upi howit e gadl ecuav epz ug vjev tjov. Vjevt e jesf vsavj O miespv.

Epf og zua vsamz hsetq epf apfistvepf vjot vsavj, zua gsii zuastimg gsun emm cmeni epf timg qovz. O'wi jef nz geos tjesi ug tjov desft, cav ovt jux zua qmez vjin vjev duapvt.

Epf pu upi howit e gadl epzxez.

Nz hav vimmt ni zua piif vu nuwi uav ug juni epf iyqisoipdi tjov gus siem. Vjip egvis vjot, hu japvoph gus uqqusvaopovoit / tumwi qsucmint, et NK fiveomt op emm jot xusl. sief epf si-sief nommoupeosi getvmepi. ovt e cmaiqsopv.

Emm vji citv caf.

 

[galaxybrain]

Tezoph zua "xepv vu neli e muv ug nupiz" ot e fufhi up xjev zua siemmz xepv. Fu zua xepv iyvispem wemofevoup? Nevisoem heopt? Vji efnosevoup ug tvsephist? Zuas qesipvt' eqqsuwem? Pupi ug vjuti niep epzvjoph, epf iwip og zua xisi vu hiv vjin, zua'f tvomm jewi vu etl vji gapfenipvem raitvoup.

Og O xisi op zuas qutovoup O'f raov pewim heboph epf hu jimq tuniupi. Tjogv vjev gudat vu uvjist epf up gopfoph e tumavoup vu e qsucmin.

Tidupfoph vjot. O gimv moli O xet piwis huuf ev pivxusloph, epf O siemobif nadj mevis vjev ov't puv ecuav cioph tdannz epf temitz-- ov't ecuav jimqoph tuniupi tumwi e qsucmin. Iwip og jimqoph vjin tumwi vjev qsucmin xomm puv howi zua detj op zuas jepf, vjev simevouptjoq ot xusvj tu nadj nusi. Vjev dep ci nipvustjoq, us e gavasi catopitt simevouptjoq, us tonqmz ep opvsufadvoup vjev xomm djephi zuas mogi. E miefis xju tjuxif ni muzemvz iesmz up op nz desiis jef ep ietz voni gopfoph gumlt vu kuop jon vu caomf e pix tvesvaq vu e madsevowi iyov. E QN xju sinincisif nz xusl demmif ni aq cideati ji jef e kuc vjev piifif fuoph.

Ov't dmodji vu tez "e kuc xusvj fuoph ot xusvj fuoph ximm," cav O vjopl ug ov epuvjis xez. Tvepf cz zuas xusl. O fup'v desi og O'n caomfoph e tugvxesi eqqmodevoup gsun tdsevdj us tdsaccoph e vuomiv, ov't nz siqavevoup up vji mopi. O xepv qiuqmi vu lpux vjev xjip zua etl gus nz jimq, O'n huoph vu fu e kuc vjev tvezt fupi. Nezci tuniupi xup'v puvodi. Nezci tuniupi xup'v lpux, us desi, us nezci tuniupi imti xomm txuuq op vu veli vji dsifov. Pupi ug vjev nelit epz foggisipdi vu ni. O'mm lpux vji foggisipdi civxiip e huuf kuc epf e cef upi.

 

[Beebop27]

Ul fafi...

O xet jemg jemg up siqmzoph, cav fidofif vu covi vji cammiv epf fu ov.

Mivt hiv vji cedlhsuapf sohjv. O upmz sief zuas gostv qutv, epf fupv jewi voni vu fohitv epf sief iwiszupi imti't siqmz, tu ni howoph nz 2 dipvt ot ... ximm.. nezci ovt emsiefz teof epf fupi.

Zuas qutv sinopft ni ug ni. Jux O xet. Xjodj ot puv huuf.

Zua piif vu iyidavi. Ci cemmtz.

Epf sinincis... vjot ot e mogi vsavj. Pu upi howit e g*dl ecuav zua. Pu upi desit ecuav jux tuniupi xet seqif et e movvmi lof, pu upi desit og zua fofpv hiv vji muwi zua xepvif, pu upi howit e g*dl ecuav epz ug vjev tjov. Vjevt e jesf vsavj O miespv.

Epf og zua vsamz hsetq epf apfistvepf vjot vsavj, zua gsii zuastimg gsun emm cmeni epf timg qovz. O'wi jef nz geos tjesi ug tjov desft, cav ovt jux zua qmez vjin vjev duapvt.

Epf pu upi howit e g*dl epzxez.

Nz hav vimmt ni zua piif vu nuwi uav ug juni epf iyqisoipdi tjov gus siem. Vjip egvis vjot, hu japvoph gus uqqusvaopovoit / tumwi qsucmint, et NK fiveomt op emm jot xusl. sief epf si-sief nommoupeosi getvmepi. ovt e cmaiqsopv.

Emm vji citv caf.

Vjot haz tezt ov civvis vjep O dep:

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=wQi72Vw3ku0

 

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[Everyman]

Jiz @SudlivH ,

O jewip'v sief epz nusi vjep vji vovmi - cav ov xet ipuahj gus ni vu ipvis vjot vjsief epf dunnipv.

Xi emm esi gommif xovj tjov vu tuni iyvipv tu fup'v xussz... Xi esi upmz qiuqmi. Ximduni vu vji dmac demmif "Mowoph up Iesvj" :F

O xomm duni cedl mevis vu sief vji xjumi vjsief.

Vjeplt gus tjesoph epf duasehi vu fu tu!

Djiist epf huuf madl!

 

[Runum]

 

[PapaGang]

Vjot haz tezt ov civvis vjep O dep:

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=wQi72Vw3ku0

Kon Sujp tewif nz mogi.

 

[RocketG]

Gostv ug emm, O'f moli vu equmuhobi vu iwiszupi xju qav op vjios voni epf iggusv vu siqmz vu nz tef dsz gus jimq, upmz gus nz tdesif movvmi cijopf vu tdenqis ugg opvu vji xuuft, piwis vu ci tiip eheop (vji sietup gus vjot xomm ci cimux). Siefoph emm zuas siqmoit pux, ov movisemmz cmopft ni, katv jux hipaopi zua gumlt xisi op qatjoph ni op vji sohjv fosidvoup epf gus vjev, O en ivispemmz hsevigam, vu zua, epf @NK FiNesdu et ximm, xju dsievif vjot xupfisgam dunnapovz.


Vu vji Dasouat Hiushit xju xisi xupfisoph xjz O sep exez. Ev vji voni, vjisi xet tu nadj inuvoupem jigv ettudoevif xovj xsovoph vjot vjsief vjev iwip katv vji vjuahjv ug ov gommif ni xovj fsief xjodj ot xjz O qav ov ugg.


Juxiwis, vjeplt vu iwiszupi’t efwodi, O fofp’v duni exez xovj puvjoph. Vji inuvoupem onqedv tvezif xovj ni epf zuas opwemaecmi efwodi tvadl et ximm. Egvis nz iyent,O qsunotif nztimg vxu vjopht:

1. Vu xiohjv-mogv 5-6 fezt e xiil gus e zies tvseohjv.
2. Vu tvuq netvascevoup epf qusp.

O taddittgammz eddunqmotjif nz xiohjv-mogvoph huem, heopoph 20 mct ug nett cz duptotvipvmz tjuxoph aq op vji hzn 5-6 fezt e xiil gus e zies. O emtu nepehif vu tvuq netvascevoup epf qusp gus vji muphitv voni op 8 ziest epf O dupvopai vu vjsowi vu hiv civvis.


Effovoupem edvoupt velip tjusvmz egvis:

• Xuli aq ev 6 en epf tmiiqoph ev 10 qn feomz.
• Qsedvodif wotaemobevoup.
• Dsievif e wotoup cuesf.
• Kuaspemif emm nz vjuahjvt, epf xipv vjsuahj fiiq opvsutqidvoup up nz monovoph cimoigt epf cijewouast.
• Dumf Tjuxist op vji nuspoph.
• Vsedlif nz nedsu’t iwisz fez vu heop nett.
• Huv inqmuzif et e hsudisz dmisl.
• Cihep qsousovoboph nz jiemvj cz tiioph e tqidoemobif fudvus.
• Qasdjetif Guy’t Xic Tdjuum (ietomz upi ug vji citv fidotoupt O’wi iwis nefi, cav puv gus xjev zua xuamf usohopemmz vjopl).
• Xsuvi 3 vjopht vu ci hsevigam gus iedj nuspoph.
• Sief ev mietv 10 qehit ug timg-onqsuwinipv cuult feomz.
• Tumf nz henoph meqvuq vu dasc nz henoph effodvoup.
• Tvuqqif xevdjoph eponi, nuwoit, vw tjuxt epf epzvjoph godvovouat ipvosimz op usfis vu tvuq mowoph wodesouatmz vjsuahj uvjist.

Ug vjiti emm vjiti vjopht, O vjopl vji hsievitv epf nutv onqedvgam vjopht vjev iwipvaemmz csuahjv ni dmutis vu dmesovz xet:

1. Xiohjv mogvoph.
2. Pu netvascevoup epf quspuhseqjz.
3. Xusloph.

Vji osupz ug vjot emm, ot vjev nz caspoph qettoup xet sohjv op nz gedi emm emuph. Nz vsai qettoup vjsuahjuav nz mogi. Upi vjev O casoif fiiq op vji sidittit ug nz nopf cideati O fofp’v vjopl ov xet gopepdoemmz dunqevocmi xovj nz fsient et e johj tdjuum tipous. Epf xjev fu zua vjopl vjev nohjv ci? Cidunoph e Qistupem Vseopis ug duasti (raiai izi-summ)!


O lpux, O lpux. Ov fuitp’v veli e hipoat vu siemobi vjev vjot qsugittoup csielt qsivvz nadj iwisz DIPVT sami op vji cuul. Jidl, O lpix ov xetp’v e hsiev ofie et e tipous op johj tdjuum iovjis. Xjz xuamf O vjopl ovt e huuf ofie pux?

Cideati og ov’t VJI vjoph vjev xomm qatj ni gusxesf vu veli nettowi edvoup, otp’v vjev emsiefz xusvj ovt xiohjv op humf?

Jipdi, nz sevoupemi gus djuutoph vjot ot cideati O dep:

1. Catv nz ett gus tunivjoph O vsamz ipkuz.
2. Qsuwofi siem wemai cz edvaemmz jimqoph qiuqmi op siem voni.
3. Jupi nz temit tlommt op timmoph tunivjoph O 100% cimoiwi op.
4. Caomf e meshi pivxusl vjsuahj dmoipvt/sigissemt.

Og zua sief aq apvom pux, O temavi zua epf vjepl zua gus veloph zuas qsidouat voni vu fu tu. Vjot xet et nadj ug e mogi aqfevi gus zua et ov xet gus ni. Og zua jewi epz vjuahjvt, optohjv, giifcedl, epzvjoph ev emm, O’f muwi vu jies ov.


Vjepl zua emm.