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Hi,
My name ist anton i am a 20 year old from germany and i am currently in a strugling situation in my life and i would love to learn from your advice.
Let me tell yoy my story real quick.
When i left school i wanted the worst job i could find to help me grow strong from the joke that is our education program.
So i became a cook in the best Restaurant in town. After a year i got really sick because of allergies but made good friends with the chef.
This year he started a new company and asked me to be his assistent and help him build his new business consisting of many restaurants and cantinas, an online shop, caterings and many other projekts.
I worked 60-80 hours a week on that business and learned some really usefull business skills i thoughtmyself (online marketing, managing employes and everything that comes with building a business) while gaining an Entrepreneurial mindset.
I did all that for practically no money since i enjoyed the callenge ( i make 500 bugs a month for those 60-80 hours a week).
But we never installed real goals or systems in the business. So now the days of me my chef and colleges in leadership consist of correting mistakes and problems that the business throws at you for 10 hours a day. Then we work 2-4 hours more trying to move the business forward which doesnt work at all since everybody is always distracted.
I get about 50 emails and 30 calls a day while i try to fix short term problems and its just killing me. I get screamed at all the time for shit i didnt do, either i didnt even know what i had to do since nobody ever told me or i just get 20 hours of work for one day and get told to deal with it.
I really enjoyed the last year. I learned and worked a lot and it shaped me very positivly. But for one year the business is just standing still and we all work all day trying to pay the debts without ever being able to build something long term.
Im doing an education as an office assistant their but never got thaught anything which is good. All skills i know i taught myself and i did every kind of work imaginable (building Websites, fixing machines, marketing, driving delivery trucks, negotiation etc.)
My education will end in one year, although i never worked the job i am supposed to learn and just build up the businnes.
But now i dont think i cant just spend one year fixing short term problems all day for no money. I think the business will go bankrupt in a few years.
So i think i want to quit. I wake up everyday and just want to die and go back to bed, i have no friends and no time toexcercise or study or spend time with the family. So i wanna move on and go to university and study computer science or engineering while continue to build up my marketing know how and figure out what business i want to start
But i think the motive of quitting shit and never going all through with it will continue throughout my life.
What is your expierience with quitting jobs?,
Do you think i should just gulp down the shit for one more year or get out as fast as possible?
How did these deciosions shape your life?
If you have a simmilar story i would love to hear it and learn how it shaped you.
You can call or text me on +49 15906186920
 
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  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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