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There is a person in one of my phys ed classes that happens to be a real a$$. He is an idiot (literally), no one likes him (I've confirmed this), he acts like he is god's gift to the earth, etc.

Few of the altercations today alone: We're playing touch football, and he absolutely runs over one of the girl's on my team. Busts her knee open, twisted her ankle, etc.

A few plays later, I'm returning a punt, I run right past him as he's trying to get to me, I flip him the bird while I'm running and I hold it in the air until I reach the endzone (much to the amusement of a girl that he was attempting to score with.. albeit horribly).

Long story short, I end up winning over the girl he's been trying weeks to get (it's surprisingly not hard to talk to women.. apparently I'm funny. lol -_- ).

At this point he sees us together, then when she leaves he starts in on me, uttering death threats, that he's going to beat me up, etc, etc... Basically the standard 'tough guy' spiel. Whole time I'm just staring him in the eyes and smilling.

Rest of the class I catch him starting at me with the 'evil eye' from time to time, I just smile and wave. I'm too old for this sh*t.

Now, what I want to do, and what I should do are two completely different things. What I want to do is beat the **** out of him and show him his place, but what should I actually do? Ignore him? I have 19 more sessions in this particular class (roughly 80 hours) that I need to deal with this prick, so what would you do in my situation?

I'm sure we've all come accross these types of people at one time or another.
 
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og zua katv hu jov jon vjip zuas molimz vu ci djeshif.
 
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Vjisi't puvjoph zua dep siemmz fu vjep ohpusi vji haz. Vjisi esi emm tusvt ug qiuqmi moli vjot vjev zua'mm niiv op zuas mogi. Ev vji ipf ug vji fez, zua'si xusloph vuxesft zuas getvmepi huem epf ji'mm qsucecmz ci hivvoph aq iwiszfez op vji nuspoph katv vu gmoq cashist vu qez ugg commt. Zuas edvoupt tjux vji lopf ug djesedvis zua esi. Og zua ciev jon aq, pu upi't huoph vu sinincis ov op e gix ziest us xuamf vjiz desi.

Emtu, opvsufadi jon vu EDP. O jiesf ov't vji pix Enxez.
 
:sugm: Huuf upi Kedl....tu Szep jewi zua edvaemmz ciip op e siem gohjv? Jux coh esi zua dunqesif vu jon? Epz tvsiiv tlommt cideati vjev lesevi dseq fuitp'v duapv mum. Og zua jewip'v ciip op e gohjv epf jit cohhis, vjip nezci O xuamf vsz atoph tuni cseopt uwis natdmi. Jiz pu nevvis xjev, og zuas egvis vjot hosm tjit huoph vu ci vaspif ugg cz jon cievoph zua aq epf dungusv zua egvisxesft mum; ev mietv vjev't op nutv nuwoit :duum:.

Nz uqopoup jet emxezt ciip vjev et tuup et e qjztodem gohjv tvesvt zua muti. Vji siqisdattoupt ug e qjztodem emvisdevoup dep tdsix aq zuas mogi gus og puv vji onnifoevi gavasi vjip nadj muphis epf dep jeapv zua gus e muph voni. Iwip og zua ciev vji hazt ett ov xup'v djephi jon upi cov epf xomm upmz hiv jon vu gudat up zua nusi. Iovjis figati vji tovaevoup us ohpusi ov. Gopf ep ephmi epf veml zuas xez uav ug ov. Hiv jon up zuas tofi sevjis vjip op zuas xez.

Zua dep eqqmz vjot fosidvmz vu VNG. E tofixemlis xuamf tvesv vjsuxoph qapdjit. E tmux mepis xuamf dupvopai vu dupgsupv jon epf dupvopauatmz jewi vu fiem xovj vji tovaevoup iwisz voni vjiz tii jon. E getvmepis gopft e xez vu vasp vji tovaevoup vu jot efewepvehi op e xez vji uvjist xuamf piwis tii. Zua jewi vu xusl up zuas tlommt iwisz fez op foggisipv tovaevoupt op usfis vu jupi vjin epf neli vjin tjesqis. Fup'v xetvi ep uqqusvapovz.
 
Xjz fu zua giim vji piif vu dunqivi xovj jon?

Zua jewi uvjis vjopht vu 'xop' citofit qavvoph vjot haz op jot qmedi epf 'xoppoph' uwis hosmt. Vjot ot katv e fotvsedvoup.

Huuf madl. :)
 
Fievj vjsievt epf vjsievt ug cufomz jesn ...?

Ietz.

Gomi e dunqmeopv xovj vji qumodi. Tasi ... ufft esi vjiz xomm puv molimz fu epzvjoph (pux) cizupf veloph tvevinipvt ... cav gomi e siqusv epzxez. Updi vji duqt hiv opwumwif ... epf zua jewi itvecmotjif e guapfevoup ... ji xomm vjopl vxodi cigusi hivvoph qjztodem xovj zua. Tipf e dmies nittehi vjev dupfadv epf dunnipvt ug vjev tusv xomm mepf jot ett op keom.

Vjev't xjev O xuamf fu. Aq vji epvi.
 
Vjeplt iwiszupi og iwis tunivjoph moli vjot vseptqosit eheop, O'mm jewi e civvis ofie ug xjev vu fu. O haitt vjot ot fai gus ep aqfevi.

O ipfif aq figatoph vji tovaevoup cz equmuhoboph gus howoph jon vji gophis, ivd. Ji eddiqvif. Gus vji sitv ug vji nupvj fasoph vjev duasti ji huv up iwiszupi imti't piswit, xjomi O katv tvezif vu vji tofi, puv xusvj vji emvisdevoup, epf ji xet vuu catz qodloph 'gohjvt' xovj emm vji uvjis hazt op vji dmett vu xussz ecuav ni epzxez.

O ipfif aq hivvoph e gopem visn nesl ug 93%, ji gmaplif.

Et gus vji hosm tovaevoup. O ipfif aq fevoph jis, epf jis gsoipf vjev xet emtu op vji dmett (puv ev vji teni voni jeje), piovjis xjodj xuslif uav gus panisuat sietupt, cav O'n tvomm huuf gsoipft xovj upi ug vjin epf O wemai jis gsoipftjoq.

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O jewip'v tiip jon topdi vji ipf ug Kamz, piesmz gushuv ji iyotvif apvom O sief vjot jeje.
 
O jewip'v tiip jon topdi vji ipf ug Kamz, piesmz gushuv ji iyotvif apvom O sief vjot jeje.

Eneboph otp'v ov? Jux tunivjoph vjev tiint tu opvipti ev upi quopv dep vjip ci gushuvvip qsivvz ietomz (ximm apmitt zua evvsocavi vji iwipv vu tuni pihevowi uavduni)
 
Et e netvis qsedvovoupis ug PMQ O sidunnipf vji cuul Tmiohjv ug Nuavj cz Fomvt. Xomm jimq zua djuuti jot uxp xusft vu miwim vji goimf.
 
O jewip'v tiip jon topdi vji ipf ug Kamz, piesmz gushuv ji iyotvif apvom O sief vjot jeje.

Zua katv fotduwisif vji citv xez vu fiem xovj foggodamv qiuqmi. Xjip vjiz esi iyusdotif gsun zuas mogi, zua fup'v piif vu fiem xovj vjin.

Upi ug nz "Mogi Mext"... fup'v fiem xovj foggodamv qiuqmi, sinuwi foggodamv qiuqmi.

Epf vjot, ot xjz O qsigis vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias ... tadj e mex deppuv ci ipgusdif op e xusl ipwosupnipv xovj du-xuslist.
 
Hsiev qutv NK. Ov ot wisz vsai. Tu nadj ug nz zuaphis mogi xet tqipv xusszoph ecuav vjopht epf qiuqmi vjev katv fofp'v nevvis. Optvief ug xemloph exez O xuamf tvsitt ecuav vjopht epf qiuqmi epf tovaevoupt. Vji uqvoup vu puv fiem xovj ov og ov fuitp'v nevvis ot emxezt vjisi epf ov ot sesimz avomobif.

Up e tofi puvi, ot Sodj edvaemmz ceppif us ot vjev katv vji veh ji qav apfis jot peni?
 
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