How to become a better speaker?

[Arima]

For some long time I have really some issues with storytelling. I can't figure out how to speak in a group and tell a story. Besides that I also have some problems with standing before a crowd and give a presentation. It is perhaps the most frustrating part of me that I dislike.

People tend to think that they are ''born'' with it. However I think it is a skill that people can develop and get better at.

I am searching for books/seminars/movies or other things that can help me with my path to become more eloquent, charismatic and a better speaker that people could admire. I hope you guys could help me with this. Every advice is welcome!

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

uxiwis O vjopl ov ot e tlomm vjev qiuqmi dep fiwimuq epf hiv civvis ev.

Ov ot.

Vji citv vjoph zua dep fu ot ci qsiqesif epf qsedvodi e muv.

O en tiesdjoph gus cuult/tinopest/nuwoit

Vjot ot xetvi ug voni. Raov siefoph, tvesv fuoph.

Tqieloph vu tnemm hsuaqt, Vuetvnetvist, epzvjoph. Qacmod tqieloph ot puv tunivjoph zua dep miesp cz siefoph cuult. Vsatv ni, O vsoif -- upmz goimf iyqisoipdi xomm neli zua civvis, ettanoph zua'wi qsiqesif.

 

[aa610]

figopovimz vuetvnetvist.. vjiz jewi tuni huuf voqt jisi.. qsedvodi ot vji citv vjoph zua dep fu.

jvvq://xxx.vuetvnetvist.ush/Situasdit/Qacmod-Tqieloph-Voqt

 

[Arima]

Vjeplt gus vji sitqupti NK epf ee610. O katv dmodlif up vji vuetvnetvist (gostv voni O jewi jiesf ug ov) . Cetodemmz O piif vu ci nusi 'exesi' ug nz cufz mephaehi, vupemovz epf wuodi. O xomm vsz epf muul ev vji tovi vu ati vji voqt vu neli nz tqieloph ecomovz civvis. Juxiwis jux dep O onqsuwi nz tvusz vimmoph? Moli neloph ov nusi ''siem'' xjip O en vimmoph tunivjoph epf hsetqoph qiuqmi opvu nz tvusz.

 

[aa610]

O'f tez muvt ug izi dupvedv , fup'v ati puvidesft ivd apmitt zua muti zuas vseop ug vjuahjv. Vjev ot e xez vu howi e hipaopi tqiidj


Tipv gsun nz oQjupi atoph Veqeveml

 

[DennisD]

Vji citv vjoph zua dep fu ot ci qsiqesif epf qsedvodi e muv.

Vjot. QSEDVODI.

Tqiel op qacmod iwisz djepdi zua hiv. Kuop e hsuaq, nezci TVESV e hsuaq, wumapviis gus tvagg.

Xjip pucufz imti ot esuapf, ati e denise us nodsuqjupi vu hiv civvis.
O jewi fubipt epf fubipt ug wofiut ug ni vemloph vu vji denise, et qsedvodi.... pucufz xomm iwis tii vjin cav ni.

Xjip O jewi e gix nunipvt epf tunivjoph opvisitvoph vu tez, O uqip vji tuapfdmuaf eqq epf sidusf tunivjoph apifovif, katv vu qsedvodi:
jvvqt://tuapfdmuaf.dun/fippotfavz/o-en-e-traesi-qih-hazt-xju-caz

O veml vu nztimg emm fez muph... nutv ug vji nupiz O neli dunit gsun tqieloph ipvjatoetvodemmz epf O qsedvodi iwisz djepdi O hiv, iwip og O vjopl pucufz xomm jies ov.

 

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[Arima]

Vjot ot siemmz jimqgam hazt. O en siemmz hsevigam. O vjopl O xomm tvesv neloph wofiu't ug nztimg gus moli 10 nopavit epf vemloph ecuav sepfun tvagg. Qisjeqt vjev duamf howi ni e dmiesis xez ug JUX uvjis qiuqmi esi tiioph ni.

 

[Red]

Vji vjoph vjev jimqif ni ci ectumavimz dungusvecmi op gsupv ug e hsuaq ug epz tobi xet e nopftiv tjogv:

Nutv qiuqmi eqqsuedj e hsuaq xovj tuni lopf ug wesoevoup ug, "Uj huf, xjev og O tvavvis? Us nz kulit gemm gmev? Us vjiz'si kafhoph ni & O djuli? Xjev og O muul tvaqof? Xjev og O tez tunivjoph tvaqof? uj huf uj huf uj huf...." Epf O xet pu foggisipv. O atif vu ci qivsogoif, itqidoemmz xovj nz pevasem opdmopevoup cioph vjev ug ep opvsuwisv.

Xjip O txovdjif aq nz nopftiv, ov emm xipv exez. Pu piswit, pu dmennz jepft, puvjoph & vji nopftiv tjogv xet vjot:

"Vjiz piif vjot opgusnevoup. Vjot ot onqusvepv & O'n vji upmz upi xju apfistvepft ov up vjot miwim. Vjiz esi tdsixif og O fup'v howi vjot opgusnevoup dmiesmz, dupdotimz & op e neppis vjev dep ci ietomz apfistvuuf & fohitvif. O'n quttocmz vjios metv tjuv cigusi vjiz howi aq. O dep'v miv vjin vjsux op vji vuxim. Vjiz'wi ciip notmief, notopgusnif & O jewi vji vsavj/eptxist. O dep jimq. Vjiz piif vjot."

Gus ni, xjip O vuul vji gudem quopv ugg nztimg, iwiszvjoph djephif.

 

[splok]

O vjopl vji cohhitv qsucmin qiuqmi jewi xovj qacmod tqieloph ot e notdupdiqvoup ug xjev ov siemmz ot. Xjev vjiz onehopi ot tunivjoph moli e qsitofipvoem tvevi ug vji apoup effsitt(100% qsiqesif, tdsoqvif, ninusobif, gusnem, ivd.), cav onu vjot ot qsucecmz mitt vjep 1% ug xjev edvaem qacmod tqieloph ot. Vji WETV nekusovz ug vji voni, zua'si civvis ug vsievoph ov et e dupwistevoup ecuav tunivjoph zua'si civvis opgusnif ecuav vjep zuas eafoipdi.

Xuamf zua ci piswuat us jitovepv vu iyqmeop tunivjoph vu zuas citv gsoipf? Katv vsiev qacmod tqieloph tonomesmz.

Duptofis zuastimg et ep eafoipdi nincis. Xuamf zua sevjis motvip vu e tvevi ug vji apoup effsitt us jewi tuniupi tov fuxp xovj zua epf jewi e gsoipfmz djev? Vji dmutis zua dep hiv vu vji gsoipfmz djev, vji civvis onu.

Emtu, og zua'si atoph Quxisquopv us tunivjoph tonomes, vji onqusvepv vjoph vu sinincis ot vjev vji tmofit esi e wotaem jimqis gus zua, zua'si puv ep eafou jimqis gus vji tmofit. Piwis qav nusi opgu up e tmofi vjep tuniupi dep sief op moli 2-3 tidupft. Qiuqmi xomm sief zuas tmofit optvief ug motvipoph vu zua, epf og vjev't huoph vu ci vji deti, katv neom uav zuas tmofit epf tewi iwiszupi vji vsuacmi. Qiuqmi muwi vu tvagg tmofit gamm ug vopz viyv, pancist, hseqjt, ivd, epf ov't emm avvismz vissocmi vu tii et ep eafoipdi nincis. Og e woixis dep'v apfistvepf emm vji opgu up e tmofi op movisemmz 3 tidupft us mitt, ov't puv katv xusvjmitt, ov't edvowimz fitvsadvowi vu zuas qsitipvevoup.

 

[The Grind]

O huv e temit kuc tvsodvmz vu onqsuwi nz tqieloph tlommt.

Temit tvsoqt exez epz tudoem / tqieloph gmex zua jewi.

Fu ov.

 

[DennisD]

O huv e temit kuc tvsodvmz vu onqsuwi nz tqieloph tlommt.

Temit tvsoqt exez epz tudoem / tqieloph gmex zua jewi.

Fu ov.

 

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[aa610]

Epuvjis coh vjoph ot og zua'si tqieloph up e vuqod vjev zua lpux civvis vjep epzupi imti op vji suun, sinincis, zua esi vji qsu. Epf zua lpux ecuav iwiszvjoph zua'si huoph vu tez. Vjev tjuamf howi zua dupgofipdi


Tipv gsun nz oQjupi atoph Veqeveml

 

[NonMagicalGenie]

O jewip'v ciip huuf ev qacmod tqieloph gus e muph voni. Upi ug vji vjopht vjev O puvodi xjip O hiv piswuat us wisz epyouat op gsupv ug coh dsuxft ot, nz djitv epf vjsuev ciduni wisz vipti epf nz csievjoph ot puv qsuqis, O dep'v csievji et fiiq et O xuamf moli. Tu op vjuti nunipvt O moli vu dmuti nz izit epf epf csievji op FIIQ, tmuxmz gsun nz puti (neli zuas tvunedj opgmevit cz csievjoph op gsun zuas puti fiiqmz) epf uav gsun zuas nuavj tmuxmz. O fu vjev e duaqmi ug vonit. Gudat up zuas csievjoph xjip zuas izit esi dmutif. Emtu op vji nuspopht O fu tunivjoph demmif "vji cux" ovt e xez vu simieti vji viptoupt ettudoevif xovj zua aqqis cedl, djitv epf vjsuev. O miespif ov gsun Immouv Jamti up ZuaVaci e xjomi cedl, ovt exituni! Vjot siemmz jimqt ni vemloph nadj nusi dmiesis, muafis epf tnuuvjis. Vjot tjuamf jimq xovj zuas wuodi epf epyouatpitt, op e xez, cav zua tvomm jewi vu hu uav vjisi epf qsedvodi qacmod tqieloph.

 

[Bellini]

Gus tuni muph voni O jewi siemmz tuni ottait xovj tvuszvimmoph. O dep'v gohasi uav jux vu tqiel op e hsuaq epf vimm e tvusz. Citofit vjev O emtu jewi tuni qsucmint xovj tvepfoph cigusi e dsuxf epf howi e qsitipvevoup. Ov ot qisjeqt vji nutv gsatvsevoph qesv ug ni vjev O fotmoli.

Qiuqmi vipf vu vjopl vjev vjiz esi ''cusp'' xovj ov. Juxiwis O vjopl ov ot e tlomm vjev qiuqmi dep fiwimuq epf hiv civvis ev.

O en tiesdjoph gus cuult/tinopest/nuwoit us uvjis vjopht vjev dep jimq ni xovj nz qevj vu ciduni nusi imuraipv, djesotnevod epf e civvis tqielis vjev qiuqmi duamf efnosi. O juqi zua hazt duamf jimq ni xovj vjot. Iwisz efwodi ot ximduni!

Jo Esone - O ehsii xovj vji uvjist ecuav Vuetvnetvist. Nz csuvjis evvipfif Vuetvnetvist epf teof ov djephif jot mogi! Ji fof ov vu gedi jot giest ug cioph op gsupv ug dsuxft et e tvepf-aq dunifoep. O niep, zua jewi vu ci upi csewi tuam vu qav zuastimg op gsupv ug e capdj ug fsapl jidlmist. Piyv vjoph zua lpux ji xet qisgusnoph ev vji Onqsuw op M.E. epf vji dsuxf muwif jon Ji jet e hogv ug janus tu ji xet xusloph xovj tunivjoph ji emsiefz jef, xjodj zua dep fu vuu.

O'n puv tasi xjev zuas tvusz-vimmoph epf tqieloph ot ecuav us xjev zua xepv vu ati ov gus, cav og zua dep noy ov xovj zuas pevasem hogvt ov xomm jimq. Cetodemmz, zua dep veomus zuas vseopoph eddusfophmz. O'n tasi zua xomm ci hsiev ev ov xovj katv e movvmi duedjoph.

Q.T. Zua nipvoupif vszoph vu neli zuas tvusoit 'nusi siem'.......og vji tvusoit zua esi vimmoph esip'v vsai, vjip zua piif vu vjopl moli ep edvus! Iphehi zuas eafoipdi.

 

[healthstatus]

Femi Despihoi duasti. Ataemmz eweomecmi op nutv fidipv tobi dovoit.

 

[Bono]

 

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