Me and my girlfriend were together for a year & 3 months. It was the longest relationship for each of us. During this time we had grown so close to each other. She is 22 and I am 27. She was good to me and I was definitely good to her. I treated her better than all of my previous girlfriends and she was the best girlfriend I've had so far.
Overall our relationship was great. She didn't have any family here so I welcomed her to mine. We had nothing but love for her. She liked my family and how strong our bond was and my family liked her too. We spent a lot of time together and had plenty of fun. She always told me about the things that she never did so I did as much of those things as I could with her. We were always acting silly, playful and goofy with each other.
We were very loving and affectionate towards each other. I know I was. I was always touching her, grabbing her, smacking her on her a$$ and kissing on her. She had the softest cheeks. She started to get annoyed because I would always kiss and pinch on her cheeks....hahaha. I always told her how perfect her skin was. I had all types of sweet names for her. I made her feel good, comfort and loved.
As with all relationships, we had our issues. I had the "don't care" issues and she had the "attitude & temper" issues. But through it all, we never stayed mad at each for long. After each argument, we always talked face to face or over the phone and were back good. She liked how if we had an argument, I'd come over and talk to her. She said no one ever did that with her.
As time went on she told me that she would be moving back to her hometown (4 hours way) after she graduated from cc. She had quit her job a couple months prior and her lease was up the same month. Things between us started to go downhill and it got closer and closer to her departure. We started arguing more and it felt as if we were both giving up on us.
We talked many times about her moving away and she felt as if I didn't care. I told her that I didn't want her to move away but I also told her that she has to do whats best for her. It also didn't help that I would sometimes say stupid **** like long distance relationship don't work and crap. I couldn't see it actually happening but that time came.
We broke up on May 3 on her graduation day. I picked an argument with her because she didn't call me back that previous night and it spiraled out of control. I went to her graduation but I didn't go with her and her family out to dinner. I told her to spend that time with her family. She got mad and told me I was full of ****. After a bunch of text back and forth, she ended it. "I been done so were done. Bye." We were still texting and I told her that I wanted to talk so I went over her house that night and we talked for a long while.
I went over her house and kicked it with her the next day. She was going home for a week and wanted to see me but little did I know that would be my last time seeing her. While she was home she started to get more distant. No more good morning & night texts. She hit me many times with "I'll call you back" and never did.
She told me that she loved & respected me too much to lose me and wanted to be friends. I told her that I didn't want that and if she couldn't be my girl I didn't want it at all. I gave her my best wishes. After thinking all night I realized my feelings were too strong for her, I went back on my word. The next day I told her exactly how I felt and that I wanted us and not friends. Didn't work.
I then found out that another guy is in the picture. Found this out on Facebook. Looks like this guy's been in the picture for a minute and possibly while we were together. He's much older and turning 39 this year. This is odd because she always said she would never date someone that much older than her. I'm seeing her posting kissy faces on his page & liking all his statuses and he liking all her posts too.
When I saw this it felt like 1000 razor blades were slicing & dicing through my heart. I asked her who is this guy and if thats her "new boo". She never admitted to anything and said its just somebody that likes her. But, I know bullshit when I see it and hear it.
I didn't talk to her for a couple days after that. She then unfriended me on Facebook. I blocked her and the guy. She called me a few hours later and I didn't answer nor returned the call.
The next day she texted some pic message with a quote with a message from her saying "have a nice life. ur smart u will do well". I responded 4 hours later with my best wishes.
With all this going on, I thought she hated me. So I called her a couple days later and told her that I didn't want it to be any bad blood between us. She said that she still loved me and that she will always be a my (sweet name I gave her). She told me that she had came and got the rest of her stuff. I told her that that was f*cked up because I wanted to see her one last time. But, I didn't get that.
During our talks about here moving back home, she said it was only going to be for a few months because she misses her family. She said she was coming back but all of that quickly went out the window.
She called a couple times to see how I'm doing but I havent talked to her since May 23. I haven't called or texted. She hasn't called or texted.
I wasn't perfect and I know I could have done better but I never thought that she would do that to me. I was really good to her.
What I don't like is how it seems like she is on top, back with her family, has someone already and isn't thinking about me, while I'm left feeling the bullshit.
I am much better now than when this started. Its been a month since I seen her and I think about her nonstop each day. Too nervous to even call her now. Doesn't feel comfortable anymore.
Through it all, I'm still living. Been in the gym 5 days a week for the past month. Seeing gains. All kiiiinds.
Overall our relationship was great. She didn't have any family here so I welcomed her to mine. We had nothing but love for her. She liked my family and how strong our bond was and my family liked her too. We spent a lot of time together and had plenty of fun. She always told me about the things that she never did so I did as much of those things as I could with her. We were always acting silly, playful and goofy with each other.
We were very loving and affectionate towards each other. I know I was. I was always touching her, grabbing her, smacking her on her a$$ and kissing on her. She had the softest cheeks. She started to get annoyed because I would always kiss and pinch on her cheeks....hahaha. I always told her how perfect her skin was. I had all types of sweet names for her. I made her feel good, comfort and loved.
As with all relationships, we had our issues. I had the "don't care" issues and she had the "attitude & temper" issues. But through it all, we never stayed mad at each for long. After each argument, we always talked face to face or over the phone and were back good. She liked how if we had an argument, I'd come over and talk to her. She said no one ever did that with her.
As time went on she told me that she would be moving back to her hometown (4 hours way) after she graduated from cc. She had quit her job a couple months prior and her lease was up the same month. Things between us started to go downhill and it got closer and closer to her departure. We started arguing more and it felt as if we were both giving up on us.
We talked many times about her moving away and she felt as if I didn't care. I told her that I didn't want her to move away but I also told her that she has to do whats best for her. It also didn't help that I would sometimes say stupid **** like long distance relationship don't work and crap. I couldn't see it actually happening but that time came.
We broke up on May 3 on her graduation day. I picked an argument with her because she didn't call me back that previous night and it spiraled out of control. I went to her graduation but I didn't go with her and her family out to dinner. I told her to spend that time with her family. She got mad and told me I was full of ****. After a bunch of text back and forth, she ended it. "I been done so were done. Bye." We were still texting and I told her that I wanted to talk so I went over her house that night and we talked for a long while.
I went over her house and kicked it with her the next day. She was going home for a week and wanted to see me but little did I know that would be my last time seeing her. While she was home she started to get more distant. No more good morning & night texts. She hit me many times with "I'll call you back" and never did.
She told me that she loved & respected me too much to lose me and wanted to be friends. I told her that I didn't want that and if she couldn't be my girl I didn't want it at all. I gave her my best wishes. After thinking all night I realized my feelings were too strong for her, I went back on my word. The next day I told her exactly how I felt and that I wanted us and not friends. Didn't work.
I then found out that another guy is in the picture. Found this out on Facebook. Looks like this guy's been in the picture for a minute and possibly while we were together. He's much older and turning 39 this year. This is odd because she always said she would never date someone that much older than her. I'm seeing her posting kissy faces on his page & liking all his statuses and he liking all her posts too.
When I saw this it felt like 1000 razor blades were slicing & dicing through my heart. I asked her who is this guy and if thats her "new boo". She never admitted to anything and said its just somebody that likes her. But, I know bullshit when I see it and hear it.
I didn't talk to her for a couple days after that. She then unfriended me on Facebook. I blocked her and the guy. She called me a few hours later and I didn't answer nor returned the call.
The next day she texted some pic message with a quote with a message from her saying "have a nice life. ur smart u will do well". I responded 4 hours later with my best wishes.
With all this going on, I thought she hated me. So I called her a couple days later and told her that I didn't want it to be any bad blood between us. She said that she still loved me and that she will always be a my (sweet name I gave her). She told me that she had came and got the rest of her stuff. I told her that that was f*cked up because I wanted to see her one last time. But, I didn't get that.
During our talks about here moving back home, she said it was only going to be for a few months because she misses her family. She said she was coming back but all of that quickly went out the window.
She called a couple times to see how I'm doing but I havent talked to her since May 23. I haven't called or texted. She hasn't called or texted.
I wasn't perfect and I know I could have done better but I never thought that she would do that to me. I was really good to her.
What I don't like is how it seems like she is on top, back with her family, has someone already and isn't thinking about me, while I'm left feeling the bullshit.
I am much better now than when this started. Its been a month since I seen her and I think about her nonstop each day. Too nervous to even call her now. Doesn't feel comfortable anymore.
Through it all, I'm still living. Been in the gym 5 days a week for the past month. Seeing gains. All kiiiinds.
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