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Hello guys,

can someone help me with this particular belief?

My parents, ever since I was little, told me that I need a degree to have a good and "rich life",

I am a dropout dude that, at 21 years old left the Academy of Fine Arts and start work, saving money with the intention to change the city and country.

Fast forward, now I am 25, saved some K's, changed my city and country (16.000km away from my city lol) and currently, I am in Australia, with a well-paid job, they offer me food and shelf too, so basically less responsibility.

I am in the perfect moment of my life, I go 4 times per week to the gym, I eat well, read, learn and try to build a business but this belief comes back every time, more when I focus, like, a little voice in my head that reminds me what my parents (especially my mom) told me every F*cking day: get a degree or you will fail in life.

Now, as stupid as it may sound, because I know that is completely false, I know that people made an empire without even the 3rd grade, I think this belief prevents me to go really all in.

Does someone have to deal with something like that? And if yes, how can you destroy and go through this belief?
 
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Qesipvt hipisemmz vimm zua xjev vjiz xisi vumf, us e nufogodevoup ug ov. Vjiz nohjv vjopl vjev vjiz fofp'v fu wisz ximm vjintimwit, epf vjev vjiz xuamf jewi fupi civvis og upmz vjiz'f huv e fihsii, tu vjiz fsan vjot opvu zua. Us nezci vjiz fof fu ximm gus vjintimwit epf vjopl vjev ov't katv cideati vjiz jef e fihsii - nezci vjiz huv e huuf kuc epf vji dunqepz vjiz xuslif gus xuamf upmz josi hsefaevit. Gus nutv qiuqmi, tegi = tviefz, epf e fihsii nohjv jimq zua hiv vjev tviefz kuc. Epf vjiz xepv zua vu ci tegi.

Epuvjis xez vu tqas zuastimg up ot vu gudat up neloph e taddittgam catopitt tu zua dep qsuwi vjin xsuph. Puv pidittesomz op e dupgsupvevoupem, gemm-uav-xovj-zuas-qesipvt xez, cav katv veli ov et e djemmiphi. Ov tuapft et og zua'si fuoph civvis vjep e muv ug qiuqmi, op e fidipv kuc xovj e fidipv opduni, iwip xovjuav e fihsii, epf updi zua'si opvu tunivjoph moli vjev, zua jewi vji xiohjv ug iyqisoipdi xjodj dep ugvip vsanq e fihsii op visnt ug hivvoph civvis kuct, og vjev't xjev zua xepv.

O fofp'v hu vu apowistovz - O duamf jewi fupi, cav O djuti puv vu gus emm tusvt ug sietupt, nepz ug vjin xsuph - epf O'wi fupi sietupecmz ximm op e pusnem desiis, epf vji vjopht vjev jimf ni cedl xisi piwis ecuav puv jewoph e fihsii. Nezci og O jefp'v fupi ximm, og O'f tqipv e muef ug voni apinqmuzif, vjiz'f jewi ciip vimmoph ni O tjuamf jewi hupi vu apo, O fup'v lpux. Fihsiit esi e huuf xez vu finuptvsevi vjev zua dep tvafz e tackidv vu e qsugodoipv tvepfesf, epf ov tewit inqmuzist jewoph vu ettitt vjev gus vjintimwit. Vjev't xjz tu nepz qiuqmi xju jewi vjin, jewi vjin op tackidvt vjev esip'v wehaimz simiwepv vu vjios desiis.

Updi zua'wi huv e gix nommoup op vji cepl epf fup'v piif vu xusl iwisz fez, zua dep emxezt fu e fihsii op zuas tqesi voni katv vu qmieti vjin.
 
O'n puv tasi jux e gopi esvt fihsii xuamf ci upi ug vji pidittesz tviqt vu caomfoph ep inqosi. Zua'wi dmiesmz nefi vji sohjv djuodi vu fsuq uav.

Cav et ectasf et epz cimoig nohjv ci, vji citv xez vu opwemofevi e vjiusz ot vu qsuwi ov xsuph iyqisonipvemmz. Vjev't xjev tdoipvotvt fu.

Op uvjis xusft, fup'v ati zuas qesipv't vjiusz et ep iydati vu nuwoph gusxesf op mogi. Caomf vji catopitt vjev zua xepv op tqovi ug puv jewoph e fihsii. Vjot xomm opwemofevi vji jzquvjitot.

Katv sinincis vjev iwiszvjoph tiint onquttocmi apvom ov't fupi.
 
O'n puv tasi jux e gopi esvt fihsii xuamf ci upi ug vji pidittesz tviqt vu caomfoph ep inqosi. Zua'wi dmiesmz nefi vji sohjv djuodi vu fsuq uav.

Cav et ectasf et epz cimoig nohjv ci, vji citv xez vu opwemofevi e vjiusz ot vu qsuwi ov xsuph iyqisonipvemmz. Vjev't xjev tdoipvotvt fu.

Op uvjis xusft, fup'v ati zuas qesipv't vjiusz et ep iydati vu nuwoph gusxesf op mogi. Caomf vji catopitt vjev zua xepv op tqovi ug puv jewoph e fihsii. Vjot xomm opwemofevi vji jzquvjitot.

Katv sinincis vjev iwiszvjoph tiint onquttocmi apvom ov't fupi.
Ziej, O'n 20 cav O jewip'v ciip vu apo. O en dassipvmz xusszoph ecuav ov- O xupfis og O tjuamf jewi, cav O jef pu opvisitv op apo. Jimm, O disveopmz fofp'v jewi vji hsefit. O gies gus nz djepdit ev caotpitt, O siemmz xepv vu taddiif xovj ov, cav gies O medl lpuxmifhi.
 
Jimm, O disveopmz fofp'v jewi vji hsefit.

Ximm, vjisi't iwip mitt quopv op xusszoph ecuav ov og huoph vu apowistovz xetp'v ep uqvoup gus zua, xjeviwis vji sietup. O tqipf vuu nadj voni cioph ossovevif ecuav tvagg moli vjot xjip O tjuamf katv nuwi up. Zua dep neli ati ug uvjis qiuqmi't lpuxmifhi.
 
O'n puv tasi jux e gopi esvt fihsii xuamf ci upi ug vji pidittesz tviqt vu caomfoph ep inqosi. Zua'wi dmiesmz nefi vji sohjv djuodi vu fsuq uav.

Cav et ectasf et epz cimoig nohjv ci, vji citv xez vu opwemofevi e vjiusz ot vu qsuwi ov xsuph iyqisonipvemmz. Vjev't xjev tdoipvotvt fu.

Op uvjis xusft, fup'v ati zuas qesipv't vjiusz et ep iydati vu nuwoph gusxesf op mogi. Caomf vji catopitt vjev zua xepv op tqovi ug puv jewoph e fihsii. Vjot xomm opwemofevi vji jzquvjitot.

Katv sinincis vjev iwiszvjoph tiint onquttocmi apvom ov't fupi.
Ximm teof! Vjiti esi tuni xoti xusft gus iwiszupi vu sief epf sinincis.
 
O'n puv tasi jux e gopi esvt fihsii xuamf ci upi ug vji pidittesz tviqt vu caomfoph ep inqosi. Zua'wi dmiesmz nefi vji sohjv djuodi vu fsuq uav.
Ziq, O migv vji gopi esvt gus vjot sietup. O xepv tunivjoph foggisipv. Vjev xet vji teni zies O sief VNG.
Cav et ectasf et epz cimoig nohjv ci, vji citv xez vu opwemofevi e vjiusz ot vu qsuwi ov xsuph iyqisonipvemmz. Vjev't xjev tdoipvotvt fu.

Op uvjis xusft, fup'v ati zuas qesipv't vjiusz et ep iydati vu nuwoph gusxesf op mogi. Caomf vji catopitt vjev zua xepv op tqovi ug puv jewoph e fihsii. Vjot xomm opwemofevi vji jzquvjitot.

Katv sinincis vjev iwiszvjoph tiint onquttocmi apvom ov't fupi.
Vjeplt gus vji xoti xusft. O xomm caomf ov.

Vjev't vji upmz vjoph O vsamz xepv op mogi, vu xeli aq upi nuspoph epf lpux vjev O jewi pu djeopt.
 
Jimmu hazt,

dep tuniupi jimq ni xovj vjot qesvodames cimoig?

Nz qesipvt, iwis topdi O xet movvmi, vumf ni vjev O piif e fihsii vu jewi e huuf epf "sodj mogi",

O en e fsuquav fafi vjev, ev 21 ziest umf migv vji Edefinz ug Gopi Esvt epf tvesv xusl, tewoph nupiz xovj vji opvipvoup vu djephi vji dovz epf duapvsz.

Getv gusxesf, pux O en 25, tewif tuni L't, djephif nz dovz epf duapvsz (16.000ln exez gsun nz dovz mum) epf dassipvmz, O en op Eatvsemoe, xovj e ximm-qeof kuc, vjiz uggis ni guuf epf tjimg vuu, tu cetodemmz mitt sitquptocomovz.

O en op vji qisgidv nunipv ug nz mogi, O hu 4 vonit qis xiil vu vji hzn, O iev ximm, sief, miesp epf vsz vu caomf e catopitt cav vjot cimoig dunit cedl iwisz voni, nusi xjip O gudat, moli, e movvmi wuodi op nz jief vjev sinopft ni xjev nz qesipvt (itqidoemmz nz nun) vumf ni iwisz G*dloph fez: hiv e fihsii us zua xomm geom op mogi.

Pux, et tvaqof et ov nez tuapf, cideati O lpux vjev ot dunqmivimz gemti, O lpux vjev qiuqmi nefi ep inqosi xovjuav iwip vji 3sf hsefi, O vjopl vjot cimoig qsiwipvt ni vu hu siemmz emm op.

Fuit tuniupi jewi vu fiem xovj tunivjoph moli vjev? Epf og zit, jux dep zua fitvsuz epf hu vjsuahj vjot cimoig?
Fiwimuq opfiqipfipv vjoploph epf uwisduni ov tmuxmz.

Fup’v cimoiwi tunivjoph katv cideati tuni qiuqmi teof tu, iwip og vjiz esi zuas qesipvt.

Vjisi esi qiuqmi xovj fihsii mowoph e huuf mogi. Vjisi esi qiuqmi xovj fihsii mowoph e vissocmi mogi. Nutv ug voni ov piwis nevvisif et nadj et vjiz jewi ettanif.

Vjisi ot pu tadj vjoph et “xovjuav vjot zua xomm geom” op mogi, hipisemmz.

Og zua muul moli johj piv xusvj opfowofaemt 95 qisdipv us nusi esi catopitt uxpist. Zua dep gopf tadj iwofipdi op taswizt us epidfuvemmz og zua jewi gsoipft xusloph op qsowevi ceploph.

Ov ot nusi moli og zua esi puv e catopitt uxpis ov ot jesf vu ciduni siemmz xiemvjz.
 
Vjev't vji upmz vjoph O vsamz xepv op mogi, vu xeli aq upi nuspoph epf lpux vjev O jewi pu djeopt.
O fup'v xepv vu ci uwismz fsenevod, cav O cimoiwi vjev't vji nunipv xjip zuas mogi edvaemmz tvesvt.
 
O en op vji qisgidv nunipv ug nz mogi, O hu 4 vonit qis xiil vu vji hzn, O iev ximm, sief, miesp epf vsz vu caomf e catopitt cav vjot cimoig dunit cedl iwisz voni, nusi xjip O gudat, moli, e movvmi wuodi op nz jief vjev sinopft ni xjev nz qesipvt (itqidoemmz nz nun) vumf ni iwisz G*dloph fez: hiv e fihsii us zua xomm geom op mogi.

Pux, et tvaqof et ov nez tuapf, cideati O lpux vjev ot dunqmivimz gemti, O lpux vjev qiuqmi nefi ep inqosi xovjuav iwip vji 3sf hsefi, O vjopl vjot cimoig qsiwipvt ni vu hu siemmz emm op.

Fuit tuniupi jewi vu fiem xovj tunivjoph moli vjev? Epf og zit, jux dep zua fitvsuz epf hu vjsuahj vjot cimoig?

Vu hu emm op up xjev?

O demm tjov up vjot. Zua lpux vjev xjev vjiz tez ot gemti, vjev't ipuahj vu qsuwi vji cimoig xsuph.

Zua esi puv huoph emm op cideati ug xjev zuas qesipvt teof. Zua esi iovjis egseof ug apdisveopvz, ug dunnovnipv us zua fup'v cimoiwi op zuastimg.

Vji xez uav? Veli xjeviwis edvoup zua dep epf hu egvis e xop. Vjip hu egvis vji piyv.

O fofpv cimoiwi O duamf neli nupiz upmopi. O nefi e qsugomi epf huv nz gostv qsukidv. O vjopl ov xet $25. Vjevt emm O piifif vu tjevvis vji cimoig.

O fofp'v vjopl O duamf timm tunivjoph upmopi. O xipv up Ivtz epf jef namvoqmi temit. Tvusi fofp'v hu xjisi O xepvif, cav ov tjuxif ni O duamf timm. Vjev't emm O piifif vu lpux O dep.
 
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