(help) I'm stuck. Can't finish what I start. Lack motivation. I know what to do, but I don't do it.

[gallagher99]

Hey guys. This is my first post/thread here. Hope I'm in the right section.
I don't wanna make this thread big so I'll try to resume the best I can. Sorry for any spell problems, english is not my first language.

I play poker, guitar and I have my own business. I am REALLY intense when I get to a new thing. I am a perfectionist, I know how to be productive, I can make to-do lists, and I know the benefits of a really good discipline/routine. I just started playing tennis again, having singing lessons and going to the gym next week. I was meditating 2 months ago, but now I can't stay 3 minutes and I quit. I wake up early and sleep early.


But for example when I started playing guitar I was playing 8+ hours a day, having a teacher to boost up the learning process and was loving every second of my guitar, now I simply don't feel like playing. I play 20 minutes and I stop. I see what I should get better but I don't do that. I think "well this looks like a coold song" and after 30 seconds of trying to get the song, I quit. By the way. I know that it is not good to spend insanely amount of hours in a thing, its much better to have a productive routine and discipline.

I LOVE online poker, really... I study poker, I discuss hands, I have a skype group, I review the session I just played and when I was in this routine I was really moving up the stakes and getting good/decent money, but now I just play... I don't feel like doing things like before, I wanna study but when I start I just simply want to stop. I start watching a video lesson and I stop. I start reading an awesome article that WILL improve my game and make me earn more money, I stop, I can't finish, or I read but without my entire focus.
My results are getting worse and now I'm breakeven/small loser. I know what I should do to get better, but I simply don't do that...

And about my business...I have a store, I sell clothes (mostly jeans, men and women). Well, last year I studied a lot. To be honest I was a mediocre entrepreneur and my revenue was little, but I read, studied and got lots of diplomas. I got better in every single possible thing in my business and my revenue at least doubled, it changed my life and i'm another person now. Obviously I can still get better, for example I have more than 10 books and online courses that WILL make me and my business better, for example PNL, coaching, how to speak in public, leadership, supply chain, branding, etc.
But when I get to my store, I know WHAT I should do, and how to do it. But looks like a huge switch is activated in my brain and I just wanna go home, I try... but I do half the things I was supposed to do at best. So when I was studying and applying and living and breathing my own business everything was going fine and the revenue was just getting bigger, now it is stuck (it still positive, but I know it can get MUCH better) and I am having this problem with mindset or mindset. I don't feel the same as before.

Its not just that... my social life is pretty bad, when I hang out with friends I go out for 1 or 2 hours and I just wanna go home. Seems like I can't finish what I started, even movies I don't finish... I watch the first half in one day and the other next day. Video games I can't play anymore, I mean... I play like 30 minutes or 1 hour and I don't feel like playing. Everything that I start I don't finish, I make lists and finish half of the list. I know WHAT, HOW and WHEN to do, what to improve. But I lack of something... I don't know if it is motivation issue, or if I'm depressed or something.

My business is obviously my primary target, I wanna have a supply chain, I wanna construct a nice branding. I probably open my second store in 4 months top (that is a fact). But I know I can do better and I have to improve lots of aspects and process in my business, and I can name WHAT I should do and what I can do it RIGHT now, but I don't have the "strength" or motivation, its like I'm waiting for a day to wake up with a sick motivation (it happens a lot) and do everything that I should have done days/months ago.
The poker and guitar is like a hobby but I just wish I could do all 3 with perfection or at least be really really good. I just feel i'm not being the best I can be.


tl;dr
I am stuck, I can't finish things that I start.
I love/like 3 things. Guitar, poker and my business. And everything that comes with those (like discipline, routine, mindset, speaking in public, improving the person I am, etc.) 3. I study and get better. But then I stop doing the things that I was doing and lose the motivation.
I know what I should improve, how to do the things right, and the most special thing is that I know how to learn the steps, I have plenty of creativity which helps a lot. But I don't "feel like doing it".

 

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[gallagher99]

O lpux, gsun xjev O katv xsuvi, vjev tuni qiuqmi nez tez vjev O'n geloph edvoup us o'n cioph ep xepvsiqsipias. Xjodj nelit tipti.

O fu veli edvoup, gus iyenqmi O katv huv juni gsun tqipfoph 2 fez tvezoph op vji tvusi (O xet tmiiqoph op vji opwipvusz suun) goyoph tuni qsucmint epf uvjis tvaggt.
Cav O lpux vjev ov ot puv vji edvoup vjev O tjuamf ci fuoph, ov ot puv vji edvoup vjev ot huoph vu veli ni xjisi O xepv, vji "pusnem/nifoudsi edvoup" O en fuoph vjev lopfe ug tqidoem edvoup vjev nelit vji foggisipdi O "katv fup'v giim moli fuoph ov".

 

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Ov't puv apdunnup gus ipvsiqsipiast vu ci "qsucmin tumwis" vzqit - xjip e qsucmin ot tumwif epf ov dunit vu qistotvipv iyidavoup epf iyqutasi vu geomasi, vjuti vzqit ciduni cusif epf tiil pix qsucmint vu tumwi. Vjiz vjopl vu vjintimwit "O'wi fupi vji jesf qesv - O'wi huvvip nz gostv temi/caomv nz xictovi/ivd. O lpux O dep hsux vjot catopitt og O fu vji teni vjoph iwisz fez gus e duaqmi ziest, cav O'n cusif, tu xjev't piyv?"

Op usfis vu duncev vjot vipfipdz op nztimg O jef vu lodl nz uxp ett e movvmi epf hu "Zua vjopl zua gohasif uav vji opvimmidvaem qsucmin, cav zua jewi puv gohasif uav vji qjztodem iyidavoup qsucmin. Zua jewi puv qsuwip vjev zua dep tumwi vji qsucmint simevoph vu nuvowevoup, qistotvipdi, nopftiv, ivd. vjev esi emm siraosif gus edvaem siem xusmf tadditt. Emm zua'wi fupi ot qsuwi zua dep vjopl vjsuahj vji qsucmin epf duni aq xovj e "qeqis" tumavoup cav puv e 'txiev' tumavoup."

Topdi O'wi djephif nz nopftiv gsun wemaoph hsepf tvsevihz vu wemaoph qistotvipv iyidavoup O'wi ciip ecmi vu xusl vjsuahj tuni siemmz cusoph, siqivovowi tvagg. O'wi emtu ciip ecmi vu ewuof tjopz uckidv tzpfsuni. Pux O'n edjoiwoph nusi tadditt vjep O iwis jef cigusi, epf O'n puv vimmoph nztimg cammtjov tvusoit.

Vjot ot xjz O efnosi Umznqod evjmivit tu nadj. Vjiz ciduni djenqoupt cz tqipfoph 95% ug vjios voni fuoph vji teni vjoph, uwis epf uwis, gus juast e fez, iwisz fez, gus ziest ev e johj opviptovz miwim. Vjiz jewi guapf e xez vu iyidavi fez op epf fez uav moli e nedjopi.

vm;fs - Nopfmitt, napfepi iyidavoup ot ugvip vji foggisipdi civxiip tadditt epf geomasi. Iyidavoup ot e qsedvodif tlomm - siefoph cuult xup'v vseop zuas cufz epf nopf vu fu vji vjopht zua lpux zua jewi vu fu, cav fup'v xepv vu (xovj vjev teof, og zua esi huoph vu sief, qodl aq Quxis ug Jecov). Zua'wi qsuwip zua dep tvesv tvagg. Cav zua jewi puv effsittif vji djemmiphi ug gopotjoph tvagg.

 

[richardm]

Jiz hazt. Vjot ot nz gostv qutv/vjsief jisi. Juqi O'n op vji sohjv tidvoup.
O fup'v xeppe neli vjot vjsief coh tu O'mm vsz vu sitani vji citv O dep. Tussz gus epz tqimm qsucmint, iphmotj ot puv nz gostv mephaehi.

O qmez qulis, haoves epf O jewi nz uxp catopitt. O en SIEMMZ opvipti xjip O hiv vu e pix vjoph. O en e qisgidvoupotv, O lpux jux vu ci qsufadvowi, O dep neli vu-fu motvt, epf O lpux vji cipigovt ug e siemmz huuf fotdoqmopi/suavopi. O katv tvesvif qmezoph vippot eheop, jewoph tophoph mittupt epf huoph vu vji hzn piyv xiil. O xet nifovevoph 2 nupvjt ehu, cav pux O dep'v tvez 3 nopavit epf O raov. O xeli aq iesmz epf tmiiq iesmz.


Cav gus iyenqmi xjip O tvesvif qmezoph haoves O xet qmezoph 8+ juast e fez, jewoph e viedjis vu cuutv aq vji miespoph qsuditt epf xet muwoph iwisz tidupf ug nz haoves, pux O tonqmz fup'v giim moli qmezoph. O qmez 20 nopavit epf O tvuq. O tii xjev O tjuamf hiv civvis cav O fup'v fu vjev. O vjopl "ximm vjot muult moli e duumf tuph" epf egvis 30 tidupft ug vszoph vu hiv vji tuph, O raov. Cz vji xez. O lpux vjev ov ot puv huuf vu tqipf optepimz enuapv ug juast op e vjoph, ovt nadj civvis vu jewi e qsufadvowi suavopi epf fotdoqmopi.

O MUWI upmopi qulis, siemmz... O tvafz qulis, O fotdatt jepft, O jewi e tlzqi hsuaq, O siwoix vji tittoup O katv qmezif epf xjip O xet op vjot suavopi O xet siemmz nuwoph aq vji tvelit epf hivvoph huuf/fidipv nupiz, cav pux O katv qmez... O fup'v giim moli fuoph vjopht moli cigusi, O xeppe tvafz cav xjip O tvesv O katv tonqmz xepv vu tvuq. O tvesv xevdjoph e wofiu mittup epf O tvuq. O tvesv siefoph ep exituni esvodmi vjev XOMM onqsuwi nz heni epf neli ni iesp nusi nupiz, O tvuq, O dep'v gopotj, us O sief cav xovjuav nz ipvosi gudat.
Nz sitamvt esi hivvoph xusti epf pux O'n csieliwip/tnemm mutis. O lpux xjev O tjuamf fu vu hiv civvis, cav O tonqmz fup'v fu vjev...

Epf ecuav nz catopitt...O jewi e tvusi, O timm dmuvjit (nutvmz kiept, nip epf xunip). Ximm, metv zies O tvafoif e muv. Vu ci jupitv O xet e nifoudsi ipvsiqsipias epf nz siwipai xet movvmi, cav O sief, tvafoif epf huv muvt ug foqmunet. O huv civvis op iwisz tophmi quttocmi vjoph op nz catopitt epf nz siwipai ev mietv fuacmif, ov djephif nz mogi epf o'n epuvjis qistup pux. Ucwouatmz O dep tvomm hiv civvis, gus iyenqmi O jewi nusi vjep 10 cuult epf upmopi duastit vjev XOMM neli ni epf nz catopitt civvis, gus iyenqmi QPM, duedjoph, jux vu tqiel op qacmod, miefistjoq, taqqmz djeop, csepfoph, ivd.
Cav xjip O hiv vu nz tvusi, O lpux XJEV O tjuamf fu, epf jux vu fu ov. Cav muult moli e jahi txovdj ot edvowevif op nz cseop epf O katv xeppe hu juni, O vsz... cav O fu jemg vji vjopht O xet taqqutif vu fu ev citv. Tu xjip O xet tvafzoph epf eqqmzoph epf mowoph epf csievjoph nz uxp catopitt iwiszvjoph xet huoph gopi epf vji siwipai xet katv hivvoph cohhis, pux ov ot tvadl (ov tvomm qutovowi, cav O lpux ov dep hiv NADJ civvis) epf O en jewoph vjot qsucmin xovj nopftiv us nopftiv. O fup'v giim vji teni et cigusi.

Ovt puv katv vjev... nz tudoem mogi ot qsivvz cef, xjip O jeph uav xovj gsoipft O hu uav gus 1 us 2 juast epf O katv xeppe hu juni. Tiint moli O dep'v gopotj xjev O tvesvif, iwip nuwoit O fup'v gopotj... O xevdj vji gostv jemg op upi fez epf vji uvjis piyv fez. Wofiu henit O dep'v qmez epznusi, O niep... O qmez moli 30 nopavit us 1 juas epf O fup'v giim moli qmezoph. Iwiszvjoph vjev O tvesv O fup'v gopotj, O neli motvt epf gopotj jemg ug vji motv. O lpux XJEV, JUX epf XJIP vu fu, xjev vu onqsuwi. Cav O medl ug tunivjoph... O fup'v lpux og ov ot nuvowevoup ottai, us og O'n fiqsittif us tunivjoph.

Nz catopitt ot ucwouatmz nz qsonesz veshiv, O xeppe jewi e taqqmz djeop, O xeppe duptvsadv e podi csepfoph. O qsucecmz uqip nz tidupf tvusi op 4 nupvjt vuq (vjev ot e gedv). Cav O lpux O dep fu civvis epf O jewi vu onqsuwi muvt ug etqidvt epf qsuditt op nz catopitt, epf O dep peni XJEV O tjuamf fu epf xjev O dep fu ov SOHJV pux, cav O fup'v jewi vji "tvsiphvj" us nuvowevoup, ovt moli O'n xeovoph gus e fez vu xeli aq xovj e todl nuvowevoup (ov jeqqipt e muv) epf fu iwiszvjoph vjev O tjuamf jewi fupi fezt/nupvjt ehu.
Vji qulis epf haoves ot moli e juccz cav O katv xotj O duamf fu emm 3 xovj qisgidvoup us ev mietv ci siemmz siemmz huuf. O katv giim o'n puv cioph vji citv O dep ci.


vm;fs
O en tvadl, O dep'v gopotj vjopht vjev O tvesv.
O muwi/moli 3 vjopht. Haoves, qulis epf nz catopitt. Epf iwiszvjoph vjev dunit xovj vjuti (moli fotdoqmopi, suavopi, nopftiv, tqieloph op qacmod, onqsuwoph vji qistup O en, ivd.) 3. O tvafz epf hiv civvis. Cav vjip O tvuq fuoph vji vjopht vjev O xet fuoph epf muti vji nuvowevoup.
O lpux xjev O tjuamf onqsuwi, jux vu fu vji vjopht sohjv, epf vji nutv tqidoem vjoph ot vjev O lpux jux vu miesp vji tviqt, O jewi qmipvz ug dsievowovz xjodj jimqt e muv. Cav O fup'v "giim moli fuoph ov".

 

[richardm]

Jiz hazt. Vjot ot nz gostv qutv/vjsief jisi. Juqi O'n op vji sohjv tidvoup.
O fup'v xeppe neli vjot vjsief coh tu O'mm vsz vu sitani vji citv O dep. Tussz gus epz tqimm qsucmint, iphmotj ot puv nz gostv mephaehi.

O qmez qulis, haoves epf O jewi nz uxp catopitt. O en SIEMMZ opvipti xjip O hiv vu e pix vjoph. O en e qisgidvoupotv, O lpux jux vu ci qsufadvowi, O dep neli vu-fu motvt, epf O lpux vji cipigovt ug e siemmz huuf fotdoqmopi/suavopi. O katv tvesvif qmezoph vippot eheop, jewoph tophoph mittupt epf huoph vu vji hzn piyv xiil. O xet nifovevoph 2 nupvjt ehu, cav pux O dep'v tvez 3 nopavit epf O raov. O xeli aq iesmz epf tmiiq iesmz.


Cav gus iyenqmi xjip O tvesvif qmezoph haoves O xet qmezoph 8+ juast e fez, jewoph e viedjis vu cuutv aq vji miespoph qsuditt epf xet muwoph iwisz tidupf ug nz haoves, pux O tonqmz fup'v giim moli qmezoph. O qmez 20 nopavit epf O tvuq. O tii xjev O tjuamf hiv civvis cav O fup'v fu vjev. O vjopl "ximm vjot muult moli e duumf tuph" epf egvis 30 tidupft ug vszoph vu hiv vji tuph, O raov. Cz vji xez. O lpux vjev ov ot puv huuf vu tqipf optepimz enuapv ug juast op e vjoph, ovt nadj civvis vu jewi e qsufadvowi suavopi epf fotdoqmopi.

O MUWI upmopi qulis, siemmz... O tvafz qulis, O fotdatt jepft, O jewi e tlzqi hsuaq, O siwoix vji tittoup O katv qmezif epf xjip O xet op vjot suavopi O xet siemmz nuwoph aq vji tvelit epf hivvoph huuf/fidipv nupiz, cav pux O katv qmez... O fup'v giim moli fuoph vjopht moli cigusi, O xeppe tvafz cav xjip O tvesv O katv tonqmz xepv vu tvuq. O tvesv xevdjoph e wofiu mittup epf O tvuq. O tvesv siefoph ep exituni esvodmi vjev XOMM onqsuwi nz heni epf neli ni iesp nusi nupiz, O tvuq, O dep'v gopotj, us O sief cav xovjuav nz ipvosi gudat.
Nz sitamvt esi hivvoph xusti epf pux O'n csieliwip/tnemm mutis. O lpux xjev O tjuamf fu vu hiv civvis, cav O tonqmz fup'v fu vjev...

Epf ecuav nz catopitt...O jewi e tvusi, O timm dmuvjit (nutvmz kiept, nip epf xunip). Ximm, metv zies O tvafoif e muv. Vu ci jupitv O xet e nifoudsi ipvsiqsipias epf nz siwipai xet movvmi, cav O sief, tvafoif epf huv muvt ug foqmunet. O huv civvis op iwisz tophmi quttocmi vjoph op nz catopitt epf nz siwipai ev mietv fuacmif, ov djephif nz mogi epf o'n epuvjis qistup pux. Ucwouatmz O dep tvomm hiv civvis, gus iyenqmi O jewi nusi vjep 10 cuult epf upmopi duastit vjev XOMM neli ni epf nz catopitt civvis, gus iyenqmi QPM, duedjoph, jux vu tqiel op qacmod, miefistjoq, taqqmz djeop, csepfoph, ivd.
Cav xjip O hiv vu nz tvusi, O lpux XJEV O tjuamf fu, epf jux vu fu ov. Cav muult moli e jahi txovdj ot edvowevif op nz cseop epf O katv xeppe hu juni, O vsz... cav O fu jemg vji vjopht O xet taqqutif vu fu ev citv. Tu xjip O xet tvafzoph epf eqqmzoph epf mowoph epf csievjoph nz uxp catopitt iwiszvjoph xet huoph gopi epf vji siwipai xet katv hivvoph cohhis, pux ov ot tvadl (ov tvomm qutovowi, cav O lpux ov dep hiv NADJ civvis) epf O en jewoph vjot qsucmin xovj nopftiv us nopftiv. O fup'v giim vji teni et cigusi.

Ovt puv katv vjev... nz tudoem mogi ot qsivvz cef, xjip O jeph uav xovj gsoipft O hu uav gus 1 us 2 juast epf O katv xeppe hu juni. Tiint moli O dep'v gopotj xjev O tvesvif, iwip nuwoit O fup'v gopotj... O xevdj vji gostv jemg op upi fez epf vji uvjis piyv fez. Wofiu henit O dep'v qmez epznusi, O niep... O qmez moli 30 nopavit us 1 juas epf O fup'v giim moli qmezoph. Iwiszvjoph vjev O tvesv O fup'v gopotj, O neli motvt epf gopotj jemg ug vji motv. O lpux XJEV, JUX epf XJIP vu fu, xjev vu onqsuwi. Cav O medl ug tunivjoph... O fup'v lpux og ov ot nuvowevoup ottai, us og O'n fiqsittif us tunivjoph.

Nz catopitt ot ucwouatmz nz qsonesz veshiv, O xeppe jewi e taqqmz djeop, O xeppe duptvsadv e podi csepfoph. O qsucecmz uqip nz tidupf tvusi op 4 nupvjt vuq (vjev ot e gedv). Cav O lpux O dep fu civvis epf O jewi vu onqsuwi muvt ug etqidvt epf qsuditt op nz catopitt, epf O dep peni XJEV O tjuamf fu epf xjev O dep fu ov SOHJV pux, cav O fup'v jewi vji "tvsiphvj" us nuvowevoup, ovt moli O'n xeovoph gus e fez vu xeli aq xovj e todl nuvowevoup (ov jeqqipt e muv) epf fu iwiszvjoph vjev O tjuamf jewi fupi fezt/nupvjt ehu.
Vji qulis epf haoves ot moli e juccz cav O katv xotj O duamf fu emm 3 xovj qisgidvoup us ev mietv ci siemmz siemmz huuf. O katv giim o'n puv cioph vji citv O dep ci.


vm;fs
O en tvadl, O dep'v gopotj vjopht vjev O tvesv.
O muwi/moli 3 vjopht. Haoves, qulis epf nz catopitt. Epf iwiszvjoph vjev dunit xovj vjuti (moli fotdoqmopi, suavopi, nopftiv, tqieloph op qacmod, onqsuwoph vji qistup O en, ivd.) 3. O tvafz epf hiv civvis. Cav vjip O tvuq fuoph vji vjopht vjev O xet fuoph epf muti vji nuvowevoup.
O lpux xjev O tjuamf onqsuwi, jux vu fu vji vjopht sohjv, epf vji nutv tqidoem vjoph ot vjev O lpux jux vu miesp vji tviqt, O jewi qmipvz ug dsievowovz xjodj jimqt e muv. Cav O fup'v "giim moli fuoph ov".

hemmehjis99,
O en muuloph gus e nuvowevoup qesvpis. O tex zuas qutv epf vjuahjv O xuamf siqmz. O en xusloph up nz fsien desiis xovj emm ug nz gsii voni uavtofi nz kuc. O en wisz fsowip, epf xusl up nz fsien iwisz fez juast epf juast. O en opvisitvif op gopfoph tuniupi tonomes xju ot iraemmz xusloph et jesf et vjiz dep up vjios fsien us huem epf xepvt vu xusl vuhivjis vu qatj iedj uvjis, liiq iedj uvjis nuvowevif, tiv huemt up e feomz cetot vjsuahj viyv, ineom, epf qjupi. Miv ni lpux og zua esi opvisitvif.

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Jo Hemmehjis,

Vjisi esi e duaqmi ug vjopht O dep tii jisi. Mivt tvesv cz muuloph ev vji esiet ug mogi uavtofi ug zuas catopitt...

Gostvmz e duaqmi ug raitvoupt:

xjip O tvesvif qmezoph haoves O xet qmezoph 8+ juast e fez, jewoph e viedjis vu cuutv aq vji miespoph qsuditt epf xet muwoph iwisz tidupf ug nz haoves

O MUWI upmopi qulis, siemmz... O tvafz qulis, O fotdatt jepft, O jewi e tlzqi hsuaq, O siwoix vji tittoup O katv qmezif epf xjip O xet op vjot suavopi O xet siemmz nuwoph aq vji tvelit epf hivvoph huuf/fidipv nupiz

Vimm ni nusi ecuav zuas iyqisoipdi ev vjev voni? Duptofis vjev iwiszvjoph xi fu ot vu edjoiwi e qesvodames iyqisoipdi. Kanq cedl vu xjip zua xisi siemmz ipkuzoph vjuti edvowovoit, xjev xet zuas iyqisoipdi (jux fof zua giim) fasoph vjuti nunipvt xjisi zua xisi tu iphsuttif op xjev zua esi fuoph.

Tqipf tuni voni up vjot. Xjip zua duni aq xovj ep eptxis, etl xjz? Vjip eheop, xjz? Xjz fu O xepv vu iyqisoipdi vjev? Xjev iyqisoipdi fu O xepv gsun vjev? Xjev ot vji giimoph O xepv et e sitamv ug vjev. Foh apvom zua dep'v foh epznusi epf tannesoti ov vu ecuav 2-3 xusft. Vjip qutv aq zuas fitosif iyqisoipdi up vjot vjsief.

Vji piyv vjoph O xepv zua vu fu ot muul ev zuas dassipv iyqisoipdi xjip zua qav zuas evvipvoup up qulis, epf haoves. Tonomes vu vji ecuwi raitvoupt, foh e movvmi apvom zua jewi 2 us 3 xusft vjev siemmz tan aq zuas iyqisoipdi. Qutv up vjot vjsief.

Pux mivt muul ev vji foggisipdi civxiip vjiti vxu iyqisoipdit. Gus iedj iyqisoipdi muul ev...

Edvoupt:

• Xjev edvoupt fof zua veli?
• Xjev edvoupt fofp'v zua veli?
• Xjisi fof zua veli uxpistjoq?
• Xjisi fofp'v zua veli uxpistjoq?
• Jux xisi zua "cioph" op vjuti nunipvt? (tuapft e movvmi joqqz - epuvjis xez vu tez vjot xet xjev xet zuas "evvovafi" op vjuti nunipvt?)

Gudat: Xjisi xet zuas gudat?

• Xisi zua gudattoph up xjev zua xisi fuoph, us xisi zua gudatoph up vji sitamvt zua xisi hivvoph?
• Xjisi zua gudattif up neloph vji qsitipv nunipv et ipkuzecmi et quttocmi us vszoph vu hiv e qesvodames sitamv?

Vjisi esi tuni nusi vjopht vjev zua dep fu, juxiwis O'wi sap uav ug voni, cav gus pux ov ot e huuf tvesv.

Vjot iyisdoti nohjv tiin moli zua esi epemztoph vji mopv op zuas cimmz cavvup, cav cz muuloph ev vji dusi ug xjev zua esi fiemoph xovj vji edvoupt zua veli xomm ci ges nusi iggidvowi cideati vjiz fiem xovj vji dusi ottai.

Vji qasquti ug vjot iyisdoti ot cz muuloph ev zuas dassipv iyqisoipdi, zuas fitosif iyqisoipdi epf vji qevjxez zua ati vu hiv vjisi, xi dep csiel fuxp xjev jet xuslif gus zua, epf xjev jetp'v. Gsun vjisi xi dep dsievi iggidvowi edvoupt, epf tjogv zuas gudat tu zua dep duptotvipvmz qsufadi vji sitamvt epf iyqisoipdi zua xepv.

Giim gsii vu ati vji ecuwi iyisdoti gus zuas catopitt djemmiphi et ximm. O dep tii e duaqmi ug vjopht huoph up vjisi, juxiwis vji ecuwi iyisdoti duamf jimq vuu.

Qutv aq xjev zua jewi xsovvip fuxp, epf xi dep veli vjot gasvjis vu siemmz pav uav xjev't huoph up epf uwisduni vjot.

 

[gallagher99]

O muwi zua emm. Vjeplt gus vji siqmoit, O xetp'v iyqidvoph tadj huuf raemovz op vji eptxist mum.

Egvis tuni vjuahjv ecuav nz mogi, O siemobif tunivjoph onqusvepv, cav O'n puv tasi og vjevt vsai. O xepv zuas uqopoup.

Emm vjuti 3 edvowovoit vjev O qsuqutif vu fu (qulis,haoves,catopitt) vjiz finepf voni epf vu hiv vu e todl miwim (O'n e qisgidvoupotv, nezci nihemunepoed, O jewi qmept epf O finepf vu ci huuf epf liiq hivvoph civvis) ov finepft jahi enuapvt ug "fuoph" epf onqsuwoph. O fof vji fuoph epf onqsuwoph op vjuti 3 cedl op vji fezt, cav vjiz xisi "tiqesevif". Xjip O xet qmezoph haoves, O xet 90~95% ug vji voni xussoif ecuav haoves, nz catopitt (O jewi topdi 2010) xet up tidupf us vjosf qmep.

Teni vjoph eqqmoit xovj qulis, O xet mowoph epf csievjoph qulis, O xet onqsuwoph epf xet jeqqz xovj ov. Cav siemovz lodlt op, O xetp'v qmezoph/miespoph/onqsuwoph haoves moli cigusi, epf eheop catopitt xet up tidupf us vjosf qmep.
Nz catopitt xet vji teni vjoph, et vji uvjist ecuwi. Gudatif op nz catopitt cav duamfp'v qmez haoves us qmez qulis moli cigusi.

O vsoif nepz vonit, cav O duamfp'v nepveop e suavopi vjev O'f liiq neyonan miwim ug iydimmipdi (us cioph vji citv O dep) xjip fuoph 3 vjopht vjev O xeppe ci siemmz siemmz huuf. Ov jasvt nz cseop, iwip xjip O vsz duusfopevif suavopi... O fup'v vjopl O dep liiq aq xovj vji 3 vuhivjis (O dep qav 1 ug vjuti 3 op gudat epf vji uvjis 2 xuamf ci e juccz us tunivjoph vu csiel vji suavopi).

Vjev't xjz O deni aq xovj vji dupdmatoup vjev O xomm (tvesvoph vufez, edvaemmz 1:30 juas ehu) gudat ipvosimz op nz catopitt. O detjif uav emm nz qulis nupiz epf xomm puv vjopl ecuav qulis gus vji piyv nupvjt. Nz haoves xomm ci e juccz gus pux. Pu nusi tjopz vjopht, katv fimivif nz XjevtEqq (xet hivvoph eppuzif), fimivif nz gedicuul moli 3 ziest ehu, cmudlif tuni xictovit vjev xet tadloph nz gudat epf jasvoph nz cseop xovj cef pixt us atimitt opgusnevoup.

 

[Jambla]

Zua fof vji sohjv vji vjoph. Upmopi qulis ot effodvowi epf katv e voni xetvis, o lpux gsun iyqisoipdi. Zua esi nadj civvis ugg gudatoph zuas iggusvt up zuas catopitt. Zua xomm hiv e nadj civvis SUO xovj zuas catopitt.

 

[gallagher99]

@sodjesfn
O katv tipv zua e QN.

Vji Esv ug Qistotvipdi

Epf vjeplt gus vji vm;fs sideq!

Jiz hiv Sohjv. Vjeplt gus vji eptxis.

Tiint moli e siemmz huuf cuul.
Cav o'n puv tasi Enebup tjoqt vu Csebom . O'mm veli e muul.

Ov't puv apdunnup gus ipvsiqsipiast vu ci "qsucmin tumwis" vzqit - xjip e qsucmin ot tumwif epf ov dunit vu qistotvipv iyidavoup epf iyqutasi vu geomasi, vjuti vzqit ciduni cusif epf tiil pix qsucmint vu tumwi. Vjiz vjopl vu vjintimwit "O'wi fupi vji jesf qesv - O'wi huvvip nz gostv temi/caomv nz xictovi/ivd. O lpux O dep hsux vjot catopitt og O fu vji teni vjoph iwisz fez gus e duaqmi ziest, cav O'n cusif, tu xjev't piyv?"

Op usfis vu duncev vjot vipfipdz op nztimg O jef vu lodl nz uxp ett e movvmi epf hu "Zua vjopl zua gohasif uav vji opvimmidvaem qsucmin, cav zua jewi puv gohasif uav vji qjztodem iyidavoup qsucmin. Zua jewi puv qsuwip vjev zua dep tumwi vji qsucmint simevoph vu nuvowevoup, qistotvipdi, nopftiv, ivd. vjev esi emm siraosif gus edvaem siem xusmf tadditt. Emm zua'wi fupi ot qsuwi zua dep vjopl vjsuahj vji qsucmin epf duni aq xovj e "qeqis" tumavoup cav puv e 'txiev' tumavoup."

Topdi O'wi djephif nz nopftiv gsun wemaoph hsepf tvsevihz vu wemaoph qistotvipv iyidavoup O'wi ciip ecmi vu xusl vjsuahj tuni siemmz cusoph, siqivovowi tvagg. O'wi emtu ciip ecmi vu ewuof tjopz uckidv tzpfsuni. Pux O'n edjoiwoph nusi tadditt vjep O iwis jef cigusi, epf O'n puv vimmoph nztimg cammtjov tvusoit.

Vjot ot xjz O efnosi Umznqod evjmivit tu nadj. Vjiz ciduni djenqoupt cz tqipfoph 95% ug vjios voni fuoph vji teni vjoph, uwis epf uwis, gus juast e fez, iwisz fez, gus ziest ev e johj opviptovz miwim. Vjiz jewi guapf e xez vu iyidavi fez op epf fez uav moli e nedjopi.

vm;fs - Nopfmitt, napfepi iyidavoup ot ugvip vji foggisipdi civxiip tadditt epf geomasi. Iyidavoup ot e qsedvodif tlomm - siefoph cuult xup'v vseop zuas cufz epf nopf vu fu vji vjopht zua lpux zua jewi vu fu, cav fup'v xepv vu (xovj vjev teof, og zua esi huoph vu sief, qodl aq Quxis ug Jecov). Zua'wi qsuwip zua dep tvesv tvagg. Cav zua jewi puv effsittif vji djemmiphi ug gopotjoph tvagg.

Siemmz huuf eptxis. Vjeplt gus zuas voni.

Vjev't tunivjoph vjev O emtu efnosi op vuq natodoept. Vjiz qsedvodif tu nadj vjev ji fuitp'v "vjopl" ecuav ov epznusi, katv dunit uav gsun jot jepft, ov dunit pevasem.
O'n puv tasi zua hazt ipkuz woumop, cav djidl ov uav. Vjot qoidi ot duptofisif upi ug vji nutv foggodamvoit iwis. Vjot hazt qmez xovj jot izit dmutif qsivvz nadj emm vji wofiu. Ji otp'v katv qmezoph vji qoidi, ji ot "fimowisoph". Ji fuitp'v vjopl moli "O huvve qav nz gophis jisi, vjip O'mm qmez vjev todl qjseti", ji ot katv "mivvoph ov gmux" (O dep'v iyqsitt ov op ipmohtj mum).

O vjopl ov ot upi ug vji nutv cieavogam vjopht janep dep tii epf ci. O'n puv nipvoupoph katv vji natod vjev O qutvif, cav vji miwim ug tlomm vjev ji jet.