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Hey guys,

A few months back I posted this thread which turned into a HOT TOPIC: HOT TOPIC - HELP! ONLY GOT 3 MONTHS TO MAKE IT. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

The thread was about me as a 21 years old(now 22)...getting kicked out by my father from parent's house & having 3 months to make things happen. That thread was really helpful and helped me go in the right direction from all the responses.

Here is where I'm at now:

  • Sold my automated cleaning business that was bringing in $1-1200/mo in profit for about 30k (to get a quick emergency fund)
  • Working on getting clients for new business...marketing agency (which is taking some time to figure out)
  • I Have an extra 2 months since last time to make it happen and move out before my father comes back from his vacation (which he extended) and figures out I'm staying in his house with my mom & lil bros. So deadline is another 2 months maybe 3 months if I'm lucky


So here are my questions, now that I have acquired 30k from selling my old service business & have some emergency fund, how should I use these next 2 months wisely:

1. Focus the entire 2 months on landing retainer clients for my marketing business. I'd need atleast 4 clients on recurring before I can afford to live on my own in Los Angeles.

2. Get a full time job either as an SEO or Sales or maybe something else you guys recommend and try to land a job quick in the next 2 months?...(which would eat huge chunks of my time by the way from working on my business)

3. If I do go with getting a full time job...how do you guys balance alot of the things in your schedule. Working full time job, working on your business. Lifting weights 2x a week, BJJ 2x a week, and maybe 1-2 days possibly to go on dates with women or social outing so I don't drive myself insane. I have tried the full monk mode thing before back in the day where all I did was work, barely go out & it screwed me up mentally a long time ago when I was 19.
This question might sound dumb for some people....but I'm having a hard time with this question. I've thought about cutting out lifting but won't since its necessary at this point for health as well as continual strength training. BJJ I have cut down to 2x a week but to completely cut it off is scary. Maybe I'm being a bitch and should quit it for now but the idea of not feeling secure in self defense situations is unnerving and ofcourse losing all the skills I acquired so far. And then of course going out only 1-2 times a week for dates with a woman or to see a friend once a week i feel will continue to keep my mental health sane.

What do you guys think?
 
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Mivt ci gsepl vjuahj, mogvoph 2y e xiil epf ckk 2y e xiil vjevt xjev? 4 us 6 juast?

huoph uav xovj gsoipft gsofezt epf tevasfez pohjvt?

zua fup'v jewi e kuc, xjev op huft peni esi zua fuoph vji uvjis 12 juast ug nupfez vjsuahj gsofez xjisi vjot xuamf ci e tisouat cuutv vu qsufadvowovz epzxez? pewim heboph?

Zua tjuamf ci xeloph aq ev 6en epf huoph vu cif ev moli 8 us 10qn , vjevt 14 vu 16 juast e fez , nopat 2 juast gus cevjoph epf ievoph, 5 fezt e xiil, zua jewi 60 juast e xiil iwip xovj zuas iyisdoti epf tudoem tdjifami.

Xjev fof zua fu zitvisfez? vji fez cigusi? fez cigusi vjev?
 
@NJQ368 Zit vjev't xjev O'n xusloph up sohjv pux. Mepfoph tuni siveopis tiu dmoipvt. O jewi fupi e gix upi voni kuct tu ges jisi epf vjisi cav hivvoph tuni gsiimepdi xusl vu cihop xovj ot veloph e cov vu gohasi uav.

Vji tudoemobevoup....Ov katv fsowit ni optepi og O fup'v fu tunivjoph tudoem vjev xiil. Epf cz huoph uav O fup'v niep qesvzoph qis ti. O dav vjev uav gus e xjomi pux. O niep katv jewoph upi fez e xiil xjisi O niiv tuni gsoipft,hiv vuhivjis hu vu e ces/fsoplt us iev foppis vuhivjis. Epf vjip metvmz upi uvjis fez tiqesevi gus katv huoph up fevit xovj xunip. Cetodemmz gamgommoph nz tudoem piift & nz tiyaem piift.
Tu O giim moli neloph suun gus vjev ot onqusvepv gus ni & nz nipvem jiemvj. Topdi moli O teof O jewi vsoif vji nupl nufi vjoph xjip O xet 19 epf upmz xusloph up catopitt xovj noponem huoph uav & pu tiy vjev nutv ug vji zies. Vjev xet upi ug nz jussocmi ziest epf O fup'v vjopl vjev't vji sohjv xez vu hu ecuav "hsopfoph" us catopitt epz nusi. O giim moli ovt onqusvepv vu neli suun vu tudoemobi/simieti epf veli desi ug tiyaem piift.


Et ges et vji tdjifami O xet tezoph OG O xet vu hiv e gamm voni kuc.


Og O xet vu hiv e gamm voni kuc howip nz tovaevoup. Jux fuit upi cemepdi xusloph up catopitt up vuq ug egamm voni kuc, veloph desi ug qistupem issepft tvomm tadj et niem qsiq,ivd + mogvoph + CKK + Huoph uav x/ gsoipft updi e xiil+ jewoph e tiy mogi (updi e xiil)...mum

Ev vjev quopv vji xjumi tdjifami ot vuu vohjv
 

O dep jimq zua vu gopf dmoipvt gus zuas neslivoph ehipdz. Fsuq ni e qn og ov't tvomm e qmep.
Sihesfoph jepfmoph zuas 9-5 xovj zuas catopitt.. Miesp jux vu tmiiq getvis !

Updi O tvesvif, O xet ecmi vu..
- xusl 55j up nz catopitt
- xusl 35j ev nz 9-5
- Cufzcaomfoph 5y e xiil
- Jewoph e xogi
.... Epf vjev't ov!
 
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"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
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— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
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