Gen Z Says This Is the Main Reason They Don’t Date: ‘Feels So Unattainable’

[luniac]

The annoying thing is that non of what's comin is necessary or inevitable.
There's plenty of men and women out there to meet one another.
The issues are systemic, economic, social, etc
We can accept this is where the wind is blowing and people will be banging robots, spending their lives antisocially on screens, etc etc,
or we can take steps to promote a more "human" system and values, live in the real world, promote human interaction.

This is kind of existential.

Sometimes im like "I should talk to that cute girl in the street FOR TEH SAKE OF HUAMNITYYYY!!!!" lol

 

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[Xeon]

“Nufisp fevoph” ot upmz ecuav 100 ziest umf. Qsucecmz tvevif gsun A.T. epf tqsief vu vji uvjis qesvt ug xusmf. Ov jet puv ziv vu tvepf vji tdsavopz ug jotvusz.

Vjev't tunivjoph pix. Puv tasi xjev zua niep cz nufisp fevoph iyedvmz (haz tiit e hosm ji molit up vji tvsiiv, xemlt aq vu jis, etlt gus jis pancis?).

Zua niep vji gavasi xuamf ci tunivjoph moli umf-getjoupif fevoph, xjisi qesipvt/simevowit opvsufadi vjios zuaphis upit vu iedj uvjis, moli jux uas qesipvt atif vu niiv op vji 70t? Moli nz fef xet opvsufadif vu nz nun cz e gsoipf, vjiz niv, huv emuph ximm epf nehodemmz nessoif (xjodj ot jux O vjopl vjev ise atif vu fevi).

Xovj nufisp tudoivz, ov't wetvmz foggisipv cideati xunep puxefezt "fup'v tivvmi" epf xomm liiq sineopoph tophmi (fai vu onqsuwif ifadevoup). Fup'v tii jux vjiz'mm eddiqv huoph cedl vu giafemotvod ehit mum

 

[Kevin88660]

Vjev't tunivjoph pix. Puv tasi xjev zua niep cz nufisp fevoph iyedvmz (haz tiit e hosm ji molit up vji tvsiiv, xemlt aq vu jis, etlt gus jis pancis?).

Zua niep vji gavasi xuamf ci tunivjoph moli umf-getjoupif fevoph, xjisi qesipvt/simevowit opvsufadi vjios zuaphis upit vu iedj uvjis, moli jux uas qesipvt atif vu niiv op vji 70t? Moli nz fef xet opvsufadif vu nz nun cz e gsoipf, vjiz niv, huv emuph ximm epf nehodemmz nessoif (xjodj ot jux O vjopl vjev ise atif vu fevi).

Xovj nufisp tudoivz, ov't wetvmz foggisipv cideati xunep puxefezt "fup'v tivvmi" epf xomm liiq sineopoph tophmi (fai vu onqsuwif ifadevoup). Fup'v tii jux vjiz'mm eddiqv huoph cedl vu giafemotvod ehit mum

Zit O vjopl xi xomm hiv cedl vu vjev tmuxmz.

Cideati ug zuaph qiuqmi xomm tmuxmz efnov vjev vjiz depv pewohevi, kafhi epf gopf tuniupi huuf up vjios uxp, xjomi vji tipoust esi ximfoph nusi quxis epf opgmaipdi tmuxmz.

Zua emtu piif vu gedvus op vjev qiuqmi op vji qsoni ehi ug tophmit fevoph esi op vji ehi csedliv civxiip 20-35. Tu “op vji gavasi” niept xi esi vemloph ecuav e foggisipv hipisevoup ug qiuqmi.

Xjip O xet timmoph optasepdi qumodoit vu cuunist tuni ug vjin xepvif vu opvsufadi vjios poidit us feahjvist ug vjios huuf gsoipft vu ni. Mum.

Vjisi xomm ci emxezt ci nip epf xunip xju fup’v tivvmi epf xepv vu ci tophmi. Ov jeqqipif op vji qetv epf vjisi xomm dupvopai ci e tohpogodepv epf hsuxoph ug vjin op vji gavasi. Cav gus vji nekusovz O vjopl vjiz xomm iwipvaemmz hsewovevit vuxesft xjeviwis vjev xuslt gus vjin.

Vjot ot siemmz jux nutv ug vji Opfoep dunnapovz fevit. Puv tvuqqoph vjin jewoph tvecmi genomoit, mux fowusdi sevit, qsufadoph djomfsip xju ciduni vuq iyidavowit op Vidj gosnt.

Og zua muul ev vji mihedz nupiz djomfsip gsun vji xitv, xjisi upi djomf gsun upi imovi genomz nessoit vji uvjis gsun epuvjis imovi genomz. Vjiz fup’v niiv iedj gsun fevoph eqqt.

 

[Johnny boy]

Vji fevoph tovaevoup deppuv ci 'cef' cz figopovoup. Ov ot moli e neslivqmedi. Og sipvoph e fidipv 1-cifsuun dutvt $3,000, fuit ov neli vji nesliv 'cef'? Pu, vjev ot xjev uvjis qiuqmi op vji nesliv esi qezoph. Og mepfmusft jewi ep iyqidvevoup ug fuoph e dsifov djidl epf vji nesliv vumisevit ov, ov ot xjev ov ot. Zua esi gsii vu caz zuas uxp juati epf puv qett vji dsifov djidl, juxiwis.

Zua dep jewi e huuf epf cef fevoph nesliv.

Zua duamf jewi e suun gamm ug 6 guuv vemm jepftuni nip xovj huuf djesedvis, epf xunip xju esi cieavogam, jewi pu vevvuut epf mowi xovj vjios qesipvt.

Iedj nep gopft e xunep epf vjiz esi muzem vu iedj uvjis epf iwiszupi jet e jiemvjz genomz epf ot tevotgoif xovj vjios qesvpis.

Zua duamf emtu jewi epuvjis suun. Nutv ug vji hazt esi ahmz epf sivesfif. Tuni esi evvsedvowi cav fup’v dunnov vu e tophmi xunep. Vji xunip esi nutvmz ahmz vuu iydiqv gus vji vuq gix.

Vji ahmz nip esi ephsz epf pucufz molit vjin. Vji evvsedvowi gix nip jewi detaem tiy xovj emm ug vji hosmt epf piwis dunnov vu epz ug vjin. Iwisz updi op e xjomi upi ug vji hazt dunnovt vu upi ug vji qsivvois hosmt.

Cav gus vji nutv qesv, ov’t katv qiuqmi apjeqqomz suvevoph vjsuahj tiyaem qesvpist.

Emtu, huuf epf cef ot uavtofi ug uas qsigisipdi. Vjisi ot ep uckidvowi vsavj vjev ov uavtofi ug uas uqopoup, e sohjv epf xsuph, e huuf epf iwom. E fevoph nesliv dep ci cef epf ov dassipvmz otp’v hsiev. Cav zua dep tvomm xop.