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Every time I do this, I fail. And so will you.

Discussion in 'Lessons from Success/Failure' started by Guts, Mar 16, 2019 at 12:11 AM.

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    Hello guys. I wanted to mention something about my experiences in life that are applicable for business and day to day life. Every time I doubted myself, I found myself doing worse. I gave myself a reason to fail. It's like just the idea of me doubting myself made me lose my confidence. And without confidence, there is no execution. You see, fear only helps me survive. But it never let me live. I never lived my full potential because I was afraid of failure, afraid of losing my comfortable life that is not really comfortable to begin with. The next time I act, I will embrace failure for it is nothing more than a lesson that is supposed to be taught. I will think of the actions I want to do, but no longer will doubt encumber my confidence.

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    I also noticed this
    What kind of helps me is saying "F*ck you" to myself everytime i begin to doubt myself.

    this kind of Aggression is what helps me through many situations.
    its important to note that im not hating on myself, im basically cursing loud in my head and just Attack !

    a Simple "Lets go" or smth simular can also fire you up i guess haha.
     
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    *Tries to life the X-Wing out of the swamp using the force. Luke struggles and the X-Wing crashes back into the swamp.
    Luke: We're never going to get out of here R2.
    *Yoda notices a defeated look on Luke's face. Yoda then gets the X-Wing out of the swamp using the Force.
    Luke(in awe): I don't believe this!
    Yoda: That is why you fail.
    *Star Wars force theme song begins to play...
     
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    Very true. Fear goes hand in hand with limiting beliefs and glass ceilings.

    The quote often attributed to Henry Ford of "Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right" is a powerful reminder of the importance of mindset.

    A lot of the doubt is caused by fear of failure itself.

    I posted this some years back:

    Failure is a step forward not backwards.
     
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    Doubt is poison. It sabotages us by preventing action. Action is the antidote. Action--and its results--show us the way forward.
     
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    It is fascinating for me that as adults, at least as far as I can tell, most of us have to rediscover that.

    As children, we were much less afraid of failure. Or otherwise, we never would have learned to walk after failing at the begin. And so on.

    Somewhere in our growing somewhere happens where we might have to rediscover that intrinsic "don't give a f*ck about failing" we had as children. And then grab a hold on it and never lose it again.

    At least this is something that happened in my own life.

    I came back to a point where I was as a child were I do things that I know there is a very high chance they might fail but I still do them. Since the worst things that can happen is usually either I wasted time, got laughed on or had to retry in another way.

    In short, nothing terrible. But that's was often enough for me in the past to restrict my actions.

    The only thing left to say is, let's keep on failing forward until we die.
     
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    There is definitely a truth in that.

    You have to get out of your comfort-zone to accomplish things...
     
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    Fake it until you become it.

    That's what I've learned from Amy Cuddy's book "Presence". In short, pretend you are what you want to be, practice being what you want to be and ultimately you will become this person.

    If you tend to constantly doubt yourself, pretend you are the best at what you are doing and just fake-act the same way as this successful person would. That can apply to various situations. For me it was to overcome my fear at public speaking and getting better at it.

    And also observe other people. You will see that nobody is 100% confident in what they are doing. NOBODY. You may not see it because people may FAKE confidence but everybody at some point felt that they were "not enough" to do something. We all have self-doubt. It's just a matter of overcoming it and making it a smaller voice in your mind than it is today. You will get there :)
     

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