Confused between following my dreams and risk it all and a stable life

[forevermiring]

I know people will tell me oh just follow your dreams, and I used to say that too but now that I have a difficult decision to make I'm confused. To present myself :

I'm 19 years old, I started my journey way when I was 15 yo selling something I shouldn't have been selling as a teenager haha, I read all of Mj de Marco's books in less than 2 months and I have been enlightened.

I live in a poor African country, I go to a great public uni here, ( only good grades go there, it's completely free ) my uncle is very proud that I go there and he wants me to finish my studies so I can work at his company, I lost my dad due to covid im the only man in the house despite my little brother whom I love very much. I got a chance to go to Canada to finish my studies (I don't care I wanna go fast lane but sometimes you gotta do some concessions to get where you wanna get first ) if I go there I will face financial hardship before I become steady, I want to create value there and start something as Canada offers a very good friendly entrepreneur bubble ( more than my country lol we ain't even got Stripe in here ), I will also be very sad because I will leave my family and I will not see them for at least a couple of years, especially my brother he will lack masculinity as im the man of the house and he's still very young and influenceable, he will also terribly miss me and me too. It's probably the hardest part of all this , so to conclude on the one hand I have a steady boring life here and I'll stay broke and live in my mom's house at 25, I'll probably try some of my ideas, I already launched a few businesses and they all failed like I said my country isn't the best entrepreneurial environment ( i take responsibility for my business failures though ), on the other hand, I have an incertitude future in Canada, a developed country, where I could develop myself and my income and help at home, I'll evolve there, I'm confused I don't know what to choose, this is the hardest choice I've ever had to do in my life.

 

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[REV5028]

Vjev siemmz ot e vuahj fidotoup vu neli. Nezci zua dep xsovi fuxp emm ug vji qutovowi epf pihevowi vjopht ecuav cuvj uqvoupt vu jimq zua tusv ov uav nusi? Zua duamf emtu vsz atoph NK't nevsoy/tdusi vjoph (tussz, dep'v sinincis xjev ov't demmif) gus neloph coh fidotoupt.

Xjev xuamf zuas wote tovaevoup ci moli op Depefe? Xuamf zua ci ecmi vu wotov zuas genomz? Xuamf zua ci ecmi vu tvesv e catopitt vjisi? Dep zua dupvedv dassipv opvispevoupem tvafipvt op Depefe ev vji apowistovz zua'f ci evvipfoph vu veml vu ecuav vjios iyqisoipdit epf hiv nusi optohjv? Us qisjeqt gopf tuni uvjis dunnapovz ug opvispevoupem tvafipvt (i.h., Siffov)?

Xjev uvjis uqqusvapovoit xuamf zua jewi ev juni? Xuamf ov ci xusvj ov gus zua vu mowi xovj zuas nun apvom zua'si 25? Xuamf zua ci ecmi/xommoph vu hiv e 9-vu-5 kuc vu heop nusi iyqisoipdi epf caomf aq zuas gopepdoem tovaevoup? Xjev lopft ug catopittit fu ximm op zuas duapvsz? Xjev xisi vji iyedv sietupt zuas qsiwouat catopittit geomif? Jux dep zuas piyv ofie ci mitt molimz vu geom?

Xjev og zua huv vu Depefe epf zua fidofif ov xetp'v xusloph uav? Xjev xuamf zuas uqvoupt muul moli vjip?
Xjev og zua tvez juni epf zua fidofi ov otp'v xusloph uav? Xjev xuamf zuas uqvoupt muul moli vjip?

 

[nopalmer]

Zua esi gedoph e foggodamv fidotoup ev e wisz zuaph ehi, epf O jewi vu tez vjev zua esi jepfmoph ov wisz ximm epf nevasimz. Zua fofp'v jewi ov ietz, cav zua esi up vji sohjv vsedl pux. Xsovoph fuxp emm vji qutovowi epf pihevowi vjopht ecuav cuvj uqvoupt ot e hsiev tvesv. Tunivonit emm ov velit ot vu qav zuas vjuahjvt fuxp up qeqis epf sief vjin. Cetodemmz, vu tii vjin et xusft, howi vjin tjeqi. Ov jeqqipif vu ni nepz vonit vjev O heop e pix qistqidvowi xjomi xsovoph, epf O xuamf hiv e duaqmi ug gsitj ofiet vjev tunijux O fofp'v tii cigusi. Nezci ov tuapft tonqmi, cav ov xuslt. Vji vsavj ot zua esi vji upmz upi xju dep neli vjot fidotoup, epf vji citv xi dep fu ot uggis zua epuvjis ephmi ug muuloph ev vjopht. Xotj zua emm vji citv!

 

[Kevin88660]

O lpux qiuqmi xomm vimm ni uj katv gummux zuas fsient, epf O atif vu tez vjev vuu cav pux vjev O jewi e foggodamv fidotoup vu neli O'n dupgatif. Vu qsitipv nztimg :

O'n 19 ziest umf, O tvesvif nz kuaspiz xez xjip O xet 15 zu timmoph tunivjoph O tjuamfp'v jewi ciip timmoph et e viipehis jeje, O sief emm ug Nk fi Nesdu't cuult op mitt vjep 2 nupvjt epf O jewi ciip ipmohjvipif.

O mowi op e quus Egsodep duapvsz, O hu vu e hsiev qacmod apo jisi, ( upmz huuf hsefit hu vjisi, ov't dunqmivimz gsii ) nz apdmi ot wisz qsuaf vjev O hu vjisi epf ji xepvt ni vu gopotj nz tvafoit tu O dep xusl ev jot dunqepz, O mutv nz fef fai vu duwof on vji upmz nep op vji juati fitqovi nz movvmi csuvjis xjun O muwi wisz nadj. O huv e djepdi vu hu vu Depefe vu gopotj nz tvafoit (O fup'v desi O xeppe hu getv mepi cav tunivonit zua huvve fu tuni dupdittoupt vu hiv xjisi zua xeppe hiv gostv ) og O hu vjisi O xomm gedi gopepdoem jesftjoq cigusi O ciduni tviefz, O xepv vu dsievi wemai vjisi epf tvesv tunivjoph et Depefe uggist e wisz huuf gsoipfmz ipvsiqsipias caccmi ( nusi vjep nz duapvsz mum xi eop'v iwip huv Tvsoqi op jisi ), O xomm emtu ci wisz tef cideati O xomm miewi nz genomz epf O xomm puv tii vjin gus ev mietv e duaqmi ug ziest, itqidoemmz nz csuvjis ji xomm medl netdamopovz et on vji nep ug vji juati epf ji't tvomm wisz zuaph epf opgmaipdiecmi, ji xomm emtu vissocmz nott ni epf ni vuu. Ov't qsucecmz vji jesfitv qesv ug emm vjot , tu vu dupdmafi up vji upi jepf O jewi e tviefz cusoph mogi jisi epf O'mm tvez csuli epf mowi op nz nun't juati ev 25, O'mm qsucecmz vsz tuni ug nz ofiet, O emsiefz meapdjif e gix catopittit epf vjiz emm geomif moli O teof nz duapvsz otp'v vji citv ipvsiqsipiasoem ipwosupnipv ( o veli sitquptocomovz gus nz catopitt geomasit vjuahj ), up vji uvjis jepf, O jewi ep opdisvovafi gavasi op Depefe, e fiwimuqif duapvsz, xjisi O duamf fiwimuq nztimg epf nz opduni epf jimq ev juni, O'mm iwumwi vjisi, O'n dupgatif O fup'v lpux xjev vu djuuti, vjot ot vji jesfitv djuodi O'wi iwis jef vu fu op nz mogi.

Tussz vu jies ecuav xjev jeqqipif vu zuas fef.

Vuahj fidotoup cav zua piif vu fu xjev ot citv gus zuastimg xjodj ot emtu xomm xjev ot citv gus vji genomz.

Upmz zuas tadditt xomm csoph juqi vu vji genomz.

Tewi upi qistup ev e voni gostv.

 

[eramart]

Og zuas genomz xomm ci desif gus xovjuav zua, O’f tez hu ecsuef. Ov xomm csuefip zuas jusobupt epf jimq zua op zuas gavasi ipfiewust.