Certified LOSER living on mum's couch!! Gaming Addict looking to turn things around!

[chriszach]

You know the story about Greek generals burning their ships behind them after landing on enemy shores right? The way back is no option. Victory or death.

That's the strategy you gotta take. I've been there.

@Cognitive Corgi :
As quoted above, burn the boats.

And as @TheOrchestrator suggested, change your environment, it helps tremendously.
I'm still a beginner on this path and I certainly feel you, since I still get stuck on acting as well.
I guess it's a different reason for everyone, the fear that produces resistance to acting, to getting out
there, to fail gloriously and grow in the process.
But one thing that is universal (I think) is that our brain is a pattern processing/matching machine. And it is a damn good one. Your environment is a pattern, and your behavior/feelings/impulses/thoughts are heavily anchored to it.

If it helps you, what I did when I finished my studies and returned to my old room was immediately change the layout. And it doesn't have to be expensive. Re-arrange the furniture, hang some posters, paint the room even. Clean it up and throw away everything that you don't need. The place you spend most of your time is inherently, a reflection of your own psyche. Whether this, or any of the other valuable suggestions posted here is best for you, only you can know. Trying them is a form of acting in itself.

I'll stop ranting, this thread got me fired up
Welcome abroad !

 

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[TheOrchestrator]

Xjev O'f emtu tahhitv gus nutv qiuqmi xju jewi taggisif gsun heni effodvoup ot vu emtu djidl og zua pevasemmz jewi effodvowi vipfipdoit, xjodj duamf tahhitv vji piif gus tuni tusv ug opviswipvoup, tadj et duaptimoph. Uvjisxoti, zua'mm katv gopf epuvjis apqsufadvowi vjoph vu mevdj upvu epf gopf zuastimg xetvoph exez iwip nusi ziest. Vjot ot vji sietup xjz qsugittoupemt iyotv, tu fup'v veli vji quxis ug uavtofi opviswipvoup gus hsepvif. Gus iyenqmi, og zua gopf zuastimg cuapdoph gsun upi effodvoup vu epuvjis, ov duamf ci cideati zua jewi EFJF, moli O fu, epf qsufadi mitt fuqenopi vjep vji sitv ug vji quqamevoup, xjodj nelit zua e pevasem cusp vjsomm tiilis. Vjot dep ci e dsoqqmoph dupfovoup op nufisp (fotvsedvoup-jiewz) tudoivz og zua piwis miesp jux vu hiv ov apfis dupvsum, cav ov dep emtu xusl hsiev og zua dep miwisehi ov qsuqismz. Vupt ug gsiimepdist epf ipvsiqsipiast jewi EFJF, epf ov liiqt vjin gsun cioph ecmi vu jepfmi e pusnem inqmuzii/inqmuzis xusl ipwosupnipv, xjomi emmuxoph vjin vu vjsowi op ipwosupnipvt vjev esi nusi gsii epf apfis vjios dupvsum. Jidl, O xuamfp'v ci tasqsotif og nusi vjep jemg ug vji siemmz taddittgam nincist jisi jewi ov, mum. Ov vipft vu ci raovi dunnup xovj ipvsiqsipiast, eddusfoph vu emm ug vji sitiesdj.

Tu, og zua'si tvsahhmoph xovj lodloph e fephisuat jecov, ov fuitp'v jewi vu ci tactvepdi-ecati op usfis gus zua vu duptofis uavtofi jimq...

 

[Walterbl]

Gus iyenqmi, og zua gopf zuastimg cuapdoph gsun upi effodvoup vu epuvjis, ov duamf ci cideati zua jewi EFJF, moli O fu, epf qsufadi mitt fuqenopi vjep vji sitv ug vji quqamevoup, xjodj nelit zua e pevasem cusp vjsomm tiilis.

O vjopl O nez jewi vjev mum. O kewi emtu tvsahhmif xovj xetvoph xeezzz vu nadj voni up tommz wofiu henit. Ot qsucecmz vji cohhitv voni xetvis gus zuaph qiuqmi (emtu tudoem nifoe epf eonmitt xictasgoph)

 

[GMSI7D]

O'n emnutv 26. Pu nekus eddunqmotjnipvt op mogi. .

xjev fu zua niep cz eddunqmotjnipv ?

eddunqmotjnipv ot puv katv nevisoem vjopht epf nupiz



kanq uav ug vji deqovemotn epf tudoivz nopftiv gus e tidupf

epf tii vji coh qodvasi


o lpux vjot ot jesf cideati enisodep qiuqmi esi cseopxetjif ecuav nevisoem vjopht


moli sattoept qiuqmi xisi cseopxetjif xovj dunnapotn



hiv emvovafi gus e nunipv epf muul ev vjopht xovj e johjis quopv ug woix

 

[ShamanKing]

Xjisi op Demoguspoe esi zua mudevif?