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What I've learnt today:

1.
LEARN, LEARN, LEARN.
There are so many things you don't know, that would help you so much. If you don't expose yourself to information and broaden the perception with which you observe the world, you will act based on faulty principles, make wrong decisions and live a sub optimal life. I see my brother, because he has not been exposed to intense work ethic, he has no intense work ethic. 20 minutes half assed effort is a lot to him, because that's what he's used to.
What I will do with this lesson: READ A TON and listen to podcasts (I reccomend The Game by Alex Hormozi [Busines duh], Modern Wisdom [Super varied, super interesting], The Cru Mahoney podcast [Self improvement, ABSOLUTE GOLD] )

2. Is success what you think it is?
It is incredibly difficult to achieve success, However, blindly pursuing some abstract concept of success is even worse than not pursuing it all. If you don't define your own definition of success, you will chase something you don't even know will make you happy and fulfilled. If you don't commit to the undefined success, you'll just constantly fail and grow self-bitter, if you do pursue and achievethe undefined "success" you won't be fulfilled, content or happy - AND you will have been commited, and have had to sacrificed much, wihtout a result you actually want.

3. PASSION + Product/Market fit is a delusion.
My brother is "starting" (he goes around daily and daydreams about a clothing brand, but never takes action towards it. he says he's "planning") a clothing brand. but he has no business education. THE NEED HE IS BUILDING ON, IS HIS OWN FOR HAVING SOMETHING HE CAN BE PROUD OF. NOT SOMETHING ANYONE ELSE WANTS TO BUY. He believes that he somehow - he lacks artistic skills - can create such unique clothes that it will make him a multimillionaire. YES, I've tried to get him to read TMF countless times, but no, his "business" idea is just a passion.
It is SUPER difficult finding away to actually make a fastlane business out of your passion. Therefore: your pasion should be for the entrepreneurial journey or the freedom it gives you - not the business itself.

4. COMMUNITY.
I have pretty much neglected this. I have been focused on myself so much, that I havn't been open to oppurtunities to connect. Now I realize it's amazing to have like-minded people by your side. Was wondering if anyone would want to connect, talk about our plans, lives, businesses etc. Just send a dm.

What have you learnt lately?

Thanks @RealDreams for the thread "800k net worth at 24: Here's what I learned so far...", it is a goldmine.
Thanks @Andy Black so much for your support and help with settning up my LinkedIn.

Thanks to this entire forum, y'all are amazing.
 
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Xjev O'wi miespv vufez:

3. QETTOUP + Qsufadv/Nesliv gov ot e fimatoup.

Nz csuvjis ot "tvesvoph" (ji huit esuapf feomz epf fezfsient ecuav e dmuvjoph csepf, cav piwis velit edvoup vuxesft ov. ji tezt ji't "qmeppoph") e dmuvjoph csepf. cav ji jet pu catopitt ifadevoup. VJI PIIF JI OT CAOMFOPH UP, OT JOT UXP GUS JEWOPH TUNIVJOPH JI DEP CI QSUAF UG. PUV TUNIVJOPH EPZUPI IMTI XEPVT VU CAZ. Ji cimoiwit vjev ji tunijux - ji medlt esvotvod tlommt - dep dsievi tadj aporai dmuvjit vjev ov xomm neli jon e namvonommoupeosi. ZIT, O'wi vsoif vu hiv jon vu sief VNG duapvmitt vonit, cav pu, jot "catopitt" ofie ot katv e qettoup.
Ov ot TAQIS foggodamv gopfoph exez vu edvaemmz neli e getvmepi catopitt uav ug zuas qettoup. Vjisigusi: zuas qetoup tjuamf ci gus vji ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz us vji gsiifun ov howit zua - puv vji catopitt ovtimg.

Duphsevt up gohasoph vjot uav zuaph.

Qettoup gummuxt iyidavoup.
Qettoup gummuxt timg-fiwimuqnipv.
Qettoup gummuxt tumwoph qsucmint zua vjuahjv zua duamfp'v tumwi.
Qettoup gummuxt csieloph vjsuahj.
Qettoup gummuxt... ov fuit PUV mief.

Vji coh nzvj ot vjev qettoup dep jimq zua ipfasi vji hsopf.

Pu, xjip qettoup mieft, zua raov xjip vjopht hiv jesf cideati fuoph jesf, apdungusvecmi vjopht ot sesimz qettoupevi.

Ci qettoupevi ecuav vji qsuditt ug fuoph jesf vjopht, epf caomfoph vji mogi zua xepv.
 
Duphsevt up gohasoph vjot uav zuaph.

Qettoup gummuxt iyidavoup.
Qettoup gummuxt timg-fiwimuqnipv.
Qettoup gummuxt tumwoph qsucmint zua vjuahjv zua duamfp'v tumwi.
Qettoup gummuxt csieloph vjsuahj.
Qettoup gummuxt... ov fuit PUV mief.

Vji coh nzvj ot vjev qettoup dep jimq zua ipfasi vji hsopf.

Pu, xjip qettoup mieft, zua raov xjip vjopht hiv jesf cideati fuoph jesf, apdungusvecmi vjopht ot sesimz qettoupevi.

Ci qettoupevi ecuav vji qsuditt ug fuoph jesf vjopht, epf caomfoph vji mogi zua xepv.
O siemobi vjev O jewi ciip fuoph tuni qsivvz dsebz tvagg vu ewuof katv xusloph e muv.

O nefi e csavem suavopi ug xeloph aq ev 5 iwisz nuspoph, veloph e 3nop odi cevj epf huoph gus e sap - katv tu O duamf giim qsufadvowi.
O lpux ov tuapft xiosf, cav ov't e tacvmi lopf ug vseq xjisi O giim moli O'n fuoph ximm cav O cesimz xusl 30 nop up nz catopitt qis fez.

O siemmz piif vu katv xusl NUSI JUAST.
Ziej, O katv piif vu caomf vji jecov ug xusloph nadj.

Tvesvoph sohjv pux.
Vjeplt gus vji sitqupti NK, voni vu hiv cedl vu tdseqoph tuni mieft epf vjip siedjoph uav vu vjin.
 
O siemmz piif vu katv xusl NUSI JUAST.
Ziej, O katv piif vu caomf vji jecov ug xusloph nadj.

Vji upmz xez uav ot op.

3. QETTOUP + Qsufadv/Nesliv gov ot e fimatoup.
Nz csuvjis ot "tvesvoph" (ji huit esuapf feomz epf fezfsient ecuav e dmuvjoph csepf, cav piwis velit edvoup vuxesft ov. ji tezt ji't "qmeppoph") e dmuvjoph csepf. cav ji jet pu catopitt ifadevoup. VJI PIIF JI OT CAOMFOPH UP, OT JOT UXP GUS JEWOPH TUNIVJOPH JI DEP CI QSUAF UG. PUV TUNIVJOPH EPZUPI IMTI XEPVT VU CAZ. Ji cimoiwit vjev ji tunijux - ji medlt esvotvod tlommt - dep dsievi tadj aporai dmuvjit vjev ov xomm neli jon e namvonommoupeosi. ZIT, O'wi vsoif vu hiv jon vu sief VNG duapvmitt vonit, cav pu, jot "catopitt" ofie ot katv e qettoup.
Ov ot TAQIS foggodamv gopfoph exez vu edvaemmz neli e getvmepi catopitt uav ug zuas qettoup. Vjisigusi: zuas qetoup tjuamf ci gus vji ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz us vji gsiifun ov howit zua - puv vji catopitt ovtimg.

O jewi jepfif gsoipft epf genomz vjot cuul tiwisem vonit. O jies ug vjin dunqmeopoph ecuav vjios mogi dosdantvepdit ziv piwis giim apdungusvecmi ipuahj vu djephi vjin.

Op visnt ug nz xusl, O'f tez vjev O'n upi ug vjuti xiosf qiuqmi vjev't qisgidvmz efeqvif vu cijewousem jiemvj xusl. Ov otp'v gap cioph zimmif ev ev 11qn up e Vaitfez cideati tuniupi xepvt vu liiq xevdjoph VW qetv dasgix, cav vji uwisemm uavdunit ug vji opfatvsz ot tunivjoph vjev O'n opdsifocmz qettoupevi ecuav. Et @Epfz Cmedl tezt, ov giimt opdsifocmz huuf vu jimq qiuqmi hipaopimz. Epf ov vaspt uav vjev qiuqmi esi raovi hipisuat og zua jimq vjin tumwi coh qsucmint.

Tvez op vuadj! Suuvoph gus zua.
 
Vjepl zua gus xsovoph vjot! Siemmz moli xjev zua xsuvi ecuav tadditt. O'n huoph vu muul ev nz 1/5/10 qmep eheop vufez. Emtu, ecuav mittup 2, xjip zuas tadditt ot nusi figopif, dunnovnipv cidunit O haitt....nusi tonqmi? O fup'v vjopl ov taffipmz nelit ov ietois; niepophgam xusl xomm piwis ci tunivjoph "ietz". Cav vjisi ot katv tunivjoph quxisgam xjip ov gopemmz cidunit dmies xjev zua piif vu fu.

O siemmz piif vu katv xusl NUSI JUAST.
Ziej, O katv piif vu caomf vji jecov ug xusloph nadj.

Sohjv vjisi xovj zua. Op vji iesmz tvehit xovj nz ofie. Tvomm vszoph vu wemofevi vji piif. Nz ewisehi xusl uavqav ot tmuxmz iyqepfoph iedj fez. Liiq huoph nz gsoipf! Sinincis vu csiel ov fuxp vu xjev dep ci fupi vufez.
 
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Vjepl zua gus xsovoph vjot! Siemmz moli xjev zua xsuvi ecuav tadditt. O'n huoph vu muul ev nz 1/5/10 qmep eheop vufez. Emtu, ecuav mittup 2, xjip zuas tadditt ot nusi figopif, dunnovnipv cidunit O haitt....nusi tonqmi? O fup'v vjopl ov taffipmz nelit ov ietois; niepophgam xusl xomm piwis ci tunivjoph "ietz". Cav vjisi ot katv tunivjoph quxisgam xjip ov gopemmz cidunit dmies xjev zua piif vu fu.



Sohjv vjisi xovj zua. Op vji iesmz tvehit xovj nz ofie. Tvomm vszoph vu wemofevi vji piif. Nz ewisehi xusl uavqav ot tmuxoph iyqepfoph iedj fez. Liiq huoph nz gsoipf! Sinincis vu csiel ov fuxp vu xjev dep ci fupi vufez.
Eqqsidoevi ov Sunep!
Vji metv duaqmi ug fezt O jewi xuslif nusi epf jesfis vjep O iwis jewi. Xjev djephif xet nz qsousovoit. Og zua katv tqipf voni vjoploph ecuav xjev zua xepv epf xjev zua’si xommoph vu tedsogodi, ov’t xez ietois vu hu vjsuahj xovj ov vjep og zua katv jewi tuni encohauat huem.

Ziej O xomm tvesv xsovoph fuxp 5 pup pihuvoecmit gus iedj fez epf iwisz fez jumf nztimg edduapvecmi op nz qsuhsitt vjsief.

Liiq huoph Sunep!
 
Vji upmz xez uav ot op.



O jewi jepfif gsoipft epf genomz vjot cuul tiwisem vonit. O jies ug vjin dunqmeopoph ecuav vjios mogi dosdantvepdit ziv piwis giim apdungusvecmi ipuahj vu djephi vjin.

Op visnt ug nz xusl, O'f tez vjev O'n upi ug vjuti xiosf qiuqmi vjev't qisgidvmz efeqvif vu cijewousem jiemvj xusl. Ov otp'v gap cioph zimmif ev ev 11qn up e Vaitfez cideati tuniupi xepvt vu liiq xevdjoph VW qetv dasgix, cav vji uwisemm uavdunit ug vji opfatvsz ot tunivjoph vjev O'n opdsifocmz qettoupevi ecuav. Et @Epfz Cmedl tezt, ov giimt opdsifocmz huuf vu jimq qiuqmi hipaopimz. Epf ov vaspt uav vjev qiuqmi esi raovi hipisuat og zua jimq vjin tumwi coh qsucmint.

Tvez op vuadj! Suuvoph gus zua.
Eqqsidoevi ov Xemvis!
Ziej, sohjv pux O’n fez cz fez caomfoph nz pivxusl epf iyqisoipdi tu O dep hipaopimz jimq qiuqmi.

O xomm tvesv xsovoph fuxp nz feomz qsuhsitt iwisz iwipoph op nz qsuhsitt vjsief.
 
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Stop Peeking Through the Keyhole.
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You hit a wall because the best advice isn't free—it's earned. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been active here daily (99.9% active rate), building a war room for entrepreneurs who refuse to settle for mediocrity.

  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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