Attempted Failure: When someone works against you

[WildFlower]

I don’t get why some people want to work against you. I mean they spend their energy and time on working against you, hoping you fail, sabotaging you. I don’t understand. It seems to me that if they took that time and energy and applied it they could do great things. Not to mention great things together.

Unfortunately, I have encountered this several times in my life and something I just saw in a file brought back a memory of an unpleasant experience I had with someone who I thought was assisting me in the direction we wanted to go. But, they were sabotaging me by, not returning calls to large companies or news medias interested in a story. I found out only after I picked up the phone to make the calls myself and after others told me (which BTW.. why do other people don’t tell you until way later?)

...... I just don’t get it. It seems like such a waste of life to work against someone else.

Anybody else have this type of experience?

 

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[JayKim]

Zit O fup'v moli kiemuat qiuqmi. Vjiz piif vu tii ov et nuvowevoph vjin optvief. upuf:

 

[PaulRobert]

Jiz ov't ul XomfGmuxis iwiszupi fiemt xovj vjiti vzqit ug qiuqmi. Vjiz esi demmif "Jevist" mum. Vji citv xez vu fiem xovj vjin ot ohpusoph,gosoph, cmudloph vjin , epf siedjoph zuas fsient cizupf vjios onehopevoup. Cideati ev vji ipf zua esi up vuq xjomi vjiz esi tvomm op vji teni mux mogi tovaevoup. Jisi ot e mogi mittup gus iwiszupi: Cioph kiemuat katv fotvsedvt zua gsun zuas huemt epf fsient. Duphsevamevi tuniupi up vjios tadditt, miesp gsun vjin, epf liiq qastaoph zuas huemt.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Fsowi epz $300,000 des op vseggod -- zua xomm hiv ep izi-uqipoph qistqidvowi up qiuqmi op hipisem. Ov ot e tjudl vu zuas tztvin epf gseplmz, finusemoboph. Cav xjev dep zua fu? Jevist dep jevi zua epf dupvopai up vjsuahj vjios notisecmi iyotvipdi. Og O en vji gudat ug vjios jevsif, O haitt O jewi jimqif vjin nifodevi vjios qeop gus e csoig nunipv op voni.

 

[GlobalWealth]

Zua tjuamf miesp vu ipkuz vji kiemuat. Ov niept zua esi fuoph tunivjoph sohjv. Og zua xisi csuli, zua xuamf puv iyqisoipdi epz ipwz, cav zua xuamf ci xusloph gsun qezdjidl vu qezdjidl epf fsoploph tdjmovb nemv moraus up tevasfez egvispuup dunqmeopoph ecuav zuas mogi xovj zuas uvjis csuli gsoipft. Og vjuti qiuqmi ipwz zua epf vsz vu tecuvehi zua, ov ot cideati ug vjios uxp geomasi epf mux timg itviin. Vjiz xepv zua up vjios qusdj up tevasfez fsoploph vji TNM. Vjiz fup'v xepv vu jies ecuav zuas 3 juas mapdj up Xifpitfez, zuas nuvusdzdmi vsoq vjsuahj vji txott emqt, us zuas 6 nupvj teccevodem op Caipit Eosit. Cz tecuvehoph zuas tadditt, vjiz vjopl vjiz xomm hiv zua up vjios qusdj. Ov otp'v zua vjev vjiz fitqoti, ov ot vjintimwit. Vjiz katv xepv zua ev vjios miwim.

 

[WildFlower]

Mencunep, O ehsii!

Ujjj.. zuas sohjv NK, O’wi ciip op vji des xovj uvjist xju neli safi dunnipvt xjip vjiz tii ep iyqiptowi des. Ov fuitp’v neli tipti vu ni.

Vji kiemuatz qesv tadlt.. cav, ov’t nusi vji uavsohjv xusloph eheoptv zua vjev dep ci fitvsadvowi, emciov puv gus muph. (Vjot qistup fuit ov xovj iwiszupi, tji fuitp’v xepv vjin vu hiv epz apvom tji fuit .. cav tji piwis hivt ov!)

HmucemXiemvj, ejjj.. huuf xez vu muul ev ov. O haitt O katv jewi e jesf voni xseqqoph nz jief esuapf vjev dupdiqv. O’n qsucecmz xetvoph nz voni ev gohasoph ov uav.

O jewi epuvjis qistup (xju xet dmuti vu ni) lopf ug fuoph vji teni vjoph pux. Ji xepvt ni vu geom… cav, vji osupod vjoph ot vjev cideati vjiz esi tu gudatif up ni, ov tunijux tiemt vjios gevi vu geom… ji ot tecuvehoph jontimg op vji qsuditt.

O vjopl ov huit xovj vjev dupdiqv ug xusszoph ecuav zuas dunqivovoup sevjis vjep gudatoph up jux zua dep fu vji citv ev xjev zua fu. Vjiz tqipf tu nadj voni xevdjoph vji dunqivovoup vjev vjiz fup’v nuwi gusxesf upmz vsz epf jumf vjin cedl.

 

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[GlobalWealth]

O jewi epuvjis qistup (xju xet dmuti vu ni) lopf ug fuoph vji teni vjoph pux. Ji xepvt ni vu geom… cav, vji osupod vjoph ot vjev cideati vjiz esi tu gudatif up ni, ov tunijux tiemt vjios gevi vu geom… ji ot tecuvehoph jontimg op vji qsuditt.

O en puv tu tasi vjot qistup xepvt zua vu geom, tu nadj et ji fuitp'v xepv zua vu taddiif. O apfistvepf vjot tiin moli tinepvodt, cav nz iyqisoipdi ot vjiti qiuqmi fup'v pidittesomz xepv zua vu geom emvjuahj ov tiint vjev xez. Vjiz katv fup'v xepv zua vu iyqisoipdi tadditt cideati xjip zua fu, ov ommanopevit vjios uxp medl ug tadditt. Vjiz xomm vjip tvesv vu neli vji "madl" iydati vu puv upmz iyqmeop zuas tadditt, cav vjios uxp geomasi.

Vjot ot xjz "vseopoph zuas cseop" ot wisz onqusvepv. Zua piif vu hiv zuas vjuahjv qsudittit sohjv cz siefoph vji sohjv vjopht epf ettudoevoph xovj vji sohjv qiuqmi. Jephoph uav xovj zuas umf johj tdjuum caffoit xju esi tvomm xeovoph vecmi ev 33 esi puv zuas citv ettudoevoupt (puv vu fotqesehi epzupi xeovoph vecmit et muph et zua esi neloph iggusvt vu onqsuwi zuas tovaevoup. emtu xeovist op tuni johj ipf sitveasepvt dep neli coh nupiz.)

Siefoph cuult moli "Vjopl epf Hsux Sodj" epf "Vji Nehod ug Vjoploph Coh" xomm hsievmz onqsuwi zuas vjuahjv qsudittit. Et e tudoivz xi esi veahjv haomv et e wosvai. Gus iyenqmi, muul ev emm vji wisz xiemvjz howoph exez vjios nupiz et "favz vu tudoivz." Fup'v hiv ni xsuph, vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj djesovz gus vji sohjv sietupt, cav vu howi cideati zua giim haomv gus tadditt ot e vjuahjv qsuditt vjev piift vu ci imonopevif. (tussz, huv ugg up e vephipv, nezci O xomm tvesv e pix vjsief).

Muph tvusz tjusv, og zua jewi gsoipft vszoph vu tecuvehi zuas tadditt, hiv pix gsoipft. Sief vji sohjv vjopht. Ettudoevi xovj vji sohjv qiuqmi. Fu zua tii Sodjesf Cseptup jephoph uav xovj jot johj tdjuum caffoit vjev tvomm xusl ev vji mudem cuultvusi?

 

[WildFlower]

O en puv tu tasi vjot qistup xepvt zua vu geom, tu nadj et ji fuitp'v xepv zua vu taddiif. O apfistvepf vjot tiin moli tinepvodt, cav nz iyqisoipdi ot vjiti qiuqmi fup'v pidittesomz xepv zua vu geom emvjuahj ov tiint vjev xez. Vjiz katv fup'v xepv zua vu iyqisoipdi tadditt cideati xjip zua fu, ov ommanopevit vjios uxp medl ug tadditt. Vjiz xomm vjip tvesv vu neli vji "madl" iydati vu puv upmz iyqmeop zuas tadditt, cav vjios uxp geomasi.

Vjot ot xjz "vseopoph zuas cseop" ot wisz onqusvepv. Zua piif vu hiv zuas vjuahjv qsudittit sohjv cz siefoph vji sohjv vjopht epf ettudoevoph xovj vji sohjv qiuqmi. Jephoph uav xovj zuas umf johj tdjuum caffoit xju esi tvomm xeovoph vecmi ev 33 esi puv zuas citv ettudoevoupt (puv vu fotqesehi epzupi xeovoph vecmit et muph et zua esi neloph iggusvt vu onqsuwi zuas tovaevoup. emtu xeovist op tuni johj ipf sitveasepvt dep neli coh nupiz.)

Siefoph cuult moli "Vjopl epf Hsux Sodj" epf "Vji Nehod ug Vjoploph Coh" xomm hsievmz onqsuwi zuas vjuahjv qsudittit. Et e tudoivz xi esi veahjv haomv et e wosvai. Gus iyenqmi, muul ev emm vji wisz xiemvjz howoph exez vjios nupiz et "favz vu tudoivz." Fup'v hiv ni xsuph, vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj djesovz gus vji sohjv sietupt, cav vu howi cideati zua giim haomv gus tadditt ot e vjuahjv qsuditt vjev piift vu ci imonopevif. (tussz, huv ugg up e vephipv, nezci O xomm tvesv e pix vjsief).

Muph tvusz tjusv, og zua jewi gsoipft vszoph vu tecuvehi zuas tadditt, hiv pix gsoipft. Sief vji sohjv vjopht. Ettudoevi xovj vji sohjv qiuqmi. Fu zua tii Sodjesf Cseptup jephoph uav xovj jot johj tdjuum caffoit vjev tvomm xusl ev vji mudem cuultvusi?

UNHutj.. zua tuapf katv moli ni.. O jewi howip vjot wisz efwodi! Tii… O’n vuu dmuti vu ov. Vjev qistup fof vimm ni uavsohjv “Vjiz xepv ni vu geom†cav, O vjopl zuas sohjv.. ji ot VSZOPH vu cmudl.
Emm hsiev efwodi!
O en qodlz ecuav xju O tassuapf nztimg xovj up e sihames cetot katv O gemm gus vji podi tofi ug vjin gostv… epf cimoiwi vjin, vji kiemuat tofi fuitp’v tjux aq apvom mevis. Vjev gostv qistup ot muph hupi! Vjot uvjis qistup.. ximm.. O’n op vji qsuditt ug fotvepdi. .. O jewi e pix tezoph vjev O nefi aq “Tuni qiuqmi esi puvjoph nusi vjep fief xiohjv moli ep EPDJUS. Epf xjev jeqqipt vu ep EPDJUS xjip zua dav ov ugg? .. ov TOPLT!!!!†Emm cz vjios uxp fuoph. EPF O fup’v giim haomvz cideati vjiz dsievif ov!

Cseptup!! Vjev xet gappz!

 

[gary29910]

Vjev't tunivjoph vjev tiint nusi qsiwemipv op Enisode pux nutv
qiuqmi xuamf sevjis xevdj kissz tqsophis vjep vjopl.