Well, I thought it would be a bit different
So I am now in the middle of negotiations about the work needed to be done on an apartment building. The building has 8 apartments, all tenants are homeowners, no renters there. I am talking to "vaad bayt", basically one of the tenants who is elevated by law to the level of a heavily restricted non-profit, allowed to collect money from tenants and to use that money to maintain shared property. Here in Israel, almost all apartment buildings have a vaad bayt.
So vaad bayt, sweet lady, presented me with a work that needed to be done, I sat with it and started to come up with the price. I`ve calculated the amount of materials required, workforce hours and so on. Then I proceeded to split the cost to all the apartments and tried to estimate what sum per apartment will be a sum that would be easy to pay for their approximate demographics. And, in line with Middle-Eastern bargaining traditions, I`ve stated the highest sum I came up with, aiming to bargain it and eventually to lower it like 20-30%. To my astounishment, vaad bayt agreed almost immediately (but not THAT imideately, firstly she bombarded me with questions and details for like 3 weeks). But still, we agreed on this elevated price, and I know it is higher than whatever she could have got in the market, INCLUDING us. And take note that she herself is paying only 12.5% of that sum.
And today, after all has been finalized, she returned to me with a question about some personal project she wants done on her apartment. I took the details, we talked about her needs and wants, and I proposed to her the price, much lower than I would have taken be it a stand-alone project. Like, 60% lower in terms of labor cost. Not because I am sleazy, but because I took into account that all our heavy equipment will already be on that roof, and we do not need to specifically travel there, so I do not need the full price to be satisfied.
Only after we agreed (and believe me, she was HAPPY with the price) I thought that what I did there was basically a bribe or a sweetener to a decision-maker. As if I took a local politician to the restaurant to celebrate the deal... And here I was, with my naive beliefs that bribing is some shady stuff done in a dark alley and including some briefcase exchange in the lights on a car.
What do you think? Is it a bribe here? And if it is not - than where does bribing start? What if I include such propositions in my sales? Like "since we will be there nontheless - we can make you this and this at a heavily reduced price"
So I am now in the middle of negotiations about the work needed to be done on an apartment building. The building has 8 apartments, all tenants are homeowners, no renters there. I am talking to "vaad bayt", basically one of the tenants who is elevated by law to the level of a heavily restricted non-profit, allowed to collect money from tenants and to use that money to maintain shared property. Here in Israel, almost all apartment buildings have a vaad bayt.
So vaad bayt, sweet lady, presented me with a work that needed to be done, I sat with it and started to come up with the price. I`ve calculated the amount of materials required, workforce hours and so on. Then I proceeded to split the cost to all the apartments and tried to estimate what sum per apartment will be a sum that would be easy to pay for their approximate demographics. And, in line with Middle-Eastern bargaining traditions, I`ve stated the highest sum I came up with, aiming to bargain it and eventually to lower it like 20-30%. To my astounishment, vaad bayt agreed almost immediately (but not THAT imideately, firstly she bombarded me with questions and details for like 3 weeks). But still, we agreed on this elevated price, and I know it is higher than whatever she could have got in the market, INCLUDING us. And take note that she herself is paying only 12.5% of that sum.
And today, after all has been finalized, she returned to me with a question about some personal project she wants done on her apartment. I took the details, we talked about her needs and wants, and I proposed to her the price, much lower than I would have taken be it a stand-alone project. Like, 60% lower in terms of labor cost. Not because I am sleazy, but because I took into account that all our heavy equipment will already be on that roof, and we do not need to specifically travel there, so I do not need the full price to be satisfied.
Only after we agreed (and believe me, she was HAPPY with the price) I thought that what I did there was basically a bribe or a sweetener to a decision-maker. As if I took a local politician to the restaurant to celebrate the deal... And here I was, with my naive beliefs that bribing is some shady stuff done in a dark alley and including some briefcase exchange in the lights on a car.
What do you think? Is it a bribe here? And if it is not - than where does bribing start? What if I include such propositions in my sales? Like "since we will be there nontheless - we can make you this and this at a heavily reduced price"
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