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If you can't get your life together and moving where you're at, what makes you think you can do it 3000 miles away while fighting to not be homeless, hungry, and broke in one of the most expensive states in the country to live. I live in California. Every other guy here is into fitness and web development. You can all sit together in starbucks and talk about the work your not getting. I see them all the time.
How about a different goal. Take advantage of the fact that you have free living arrangements now. Work on some sort of sustainable income while you're not under the pressure to survive. Make $300 by the end of next week. That's it. Seems like a simple goal right? Then do it again and again. Because if you can't do that now, you'll never have enough money to live on your own out here. Especially since I assume you have little to no 'work' history to help you get a job.
No reason to relocate to be honest. There's only one thing stopping you from being successful, and it's not your living arrangements or the state of NY.
If you think you're stuck in a rut, change your lifestyle a little. Change your daily routine and get out of the comfortable familiar patterns that keep you there. Get up a couple of hours earlier, change your diet, the people you associate with, go to meetups, take a different route to your destinations, rearrange your room, do things differently. Wake your damn brain up and disassociate yourself with your environment.
Good luck.
How about a different goal. Take advantage of the fact that you have free living arrangements now. Work on some sort of sustainable income while you're not under the pressure to survive. Make $300 by the end of next week. That's it. Seems like a simple goal right? Then do it again and again. Because if you can't do that now, you'll never have enough money to live on your own out here. Especially since I assume you have little to no 'work' history to help you get a job.
No reason to relocate to be honest. There's only one thing stopping you from being successful, and it's not your living arrangements or the state of NY.
If you think you're stuck in a rut, change your lifestyle a little. Change your daily routine and get out of the comfortable familiar patterns that keep you there. Get up a couple of hours earlier, change your diet, the people you associate with, go to meetups, take a different route to your destinations, rearrange your room, do things differently. Wake your damn brain up and disassociate yourself with your environment.
Good luck.
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