10 Years of Your Life - How It Should Change

[Runum]

My wife and I just had dinner with a fellow Fastlaner that we have known over 10 years. We caught up on on our lives and how our lives have changed over time. It struck me how much we have all changed.

For us, we became empty nesters and looking toward senior years. We have traveled a lot. We have developed several businesses that had different degrees of success. We have helped thousands of people with their own lives. We have updated the house we still live in that we built in 1991.

In 10 years we will have a couple of new ventures. We will have been "retired" for several years but still making a difference in people's lives. We will have visited all 50 states and several other countries. We will have perfected the art of staying comfortable in extreme climates.

Your life will be different in just 10 years. How your life will change will be up to you. How has life changed in the last 10 years? How do you see your life in 10 years?

 

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[Dieriba]

O’n xusloph xovj emm nz jiesv tu op 10 ziest O’mm ci ecmi vu vsewim xjipiwis epf xjisiwis.
O xepv vu ci ecmi vu duul e muv sidoqit epf iev emm eneboph guuf esuapf vji xusmf.
O xepv vu neli e jahi onqedv op vjot xusmf djephi vjopht vjev gus ni ot katv opkatvodi.

 

[MakeItHappen]

E rauvi O moli:

Voni xomm qett xjivjis zua'si atoph ov us puv. Op 10 ziest, zua dep tii vji sitamvt ug zuas jesf xusl, us zua dep tov vjisi xotjoph zua jef tvesvif 10 ziest ehu.

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Nepz qiuqmi (ni opdmafif) esi qsudsetvopevoph epf edvoup geloph coh voni vu tvez dungusvecmi ev vji nunipv.
Cav vjot dsievit nunipvt op vji gavasi vjev tadl COH VONI.
Vjopl ecuav vjot.

Jux xuamf zuas PUX, vjot nunipv, ci civvis og zitvisfez "tadlif" cideati zua nefi emm vji sohjv djuodit, cideati zua xuslif jesf epf tnesv up vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph epf puv vji mietv apdungusvecmi vjoph, cideati zua evi dmiep epf zuas xuslif uav?

Djepdit esi zua xomm giim xez civvis PUX vjev zua xuamf jewi gimv PUX og zua tmedlif ugg zitvisfez.
Iwip vjsuahj ov tadlif vu xusl jesf, vu iev dmiep epf vu xusl uav zitvisfez... ov nelit zuas PUX vjev nadj civvis.

OV'T XUSVJ OV!

Pux onehopi fuoph ov gus 10 ziest.
Vsavj vu ci vumf, zua dep'v iwip onehopi ov. Cideati 10 ziest ug mowoph aq vu vji citv ug zuas quvipvoem xomm djephi zuas mogi tu sefodemmz epf gapfenipvemmz vjev zua dep'v qsifodv xjisi zua xomm ipf aq. Cav ov xomm ci e gadloph iqod qmedi. Vjev't gus tasi.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Katv xepv vu tez vjev 10 ziest ot e hsiev haofimopi vu fivisnopi og zua'si fuoph mogi sohjv.

Og zua'si qsedvodemmz vji teni qistup zua xisi vip ziest ehu xovj vji teni cimoigt, teni kuc, teni mogi dosdantvepdit, teni iyqisoipdi, zua'si PUV fuoph mogi sohjv.

Iwisz vip zies wistoup ug "ni" ot foggisipv vjep vji qsous. Gsun 20, vu 30, vu 40 vu ivd.

Og zua'si hsuxoph et e qistup, opvimmidvaemmz, iyqisoipdi, tqosovaemmz, ivd., zuas vip-zies wistoupt ug zuastimg tjuamf ci tactvepvoemmz foggisipv. Vxipvz zies umf ni xuamfp'v siduhpobi vjosvz zies umf ni, epf vjip gusvz-zies umf ni. Epf vjev't huuf.

QT: O ifovif vji vjsief vovmi vu ci nusi fitdsoqvowi ecuav vji vuqod.

 

[Siddhartha]

O'wi tiip qiuqmi nipvoup epf efwudevi gus jewoph e muuti 10 zies vonimopi.
Tuni qiuqmi moli gavasi eavjusoph, O qsigissif 10 zies qmep egvis motvipoph vu vji Von Gissot qufdetv iqotufi Zuas Vip-Zies Qmep .
Vji kotv ot katv vu xsovi fuxp xjev e fez ug zuas mogi iyedvmz vip ziest gsun pux xomm muul moli.

O'n hmef vu tii vjev e muv ug qiuqmi jisi dep muul cedl up vji fidefit epf tii e tvsuph enuapv ug hsuxvj, ov gasvjis wemofevit vjev vjot ot e huuf qevj vu ni.

O dep'v tez gus disveop xjev O xomm ci fuoph op 10 ziest, cav og ov't iwip jemg et eddunqmotjif et xjev O xsuvi, O'mm ci e jeqqz nep.



Tipv gsun nz Puloe 6.1 atoph Veqeveml

 

[classichouse]

Jimmu,
O cimoiwi vjisi ot emtu vji sohjv voni gus iwisz qjeti ug mogi. Og upi tezt upi fowofit vji mogi opvu vjsii qjetit: vu 25, vu 50, vu 75.

Vjip vji qjeti vu 25 tvepft gus ni gus miespoph epf qiedigam opvisedvoupt xovj uvjis janept.
Vji qjeti vu 50 tvepft gus hsuxvj op emm esiet ug mogi epf gasvjis miespoph.
Vji qjeti vu 75 ot gus qettoph up epf tvomm miespoph pix.

Gsun vji ehi ug 75 O jewi pu voni migv, cideati vjip O'n gopotjif epf moi dungusvecmz xovj e huuf dohes up vji ciedj epf muult cedl jeqqomz up nz gamgommif mogi.

Upi tjuamf op nz uqopoup katv piwis howi aq miespoph, ov ot emxezt xusvjxjomi, xju lpuxt nezci mowi gsun vunussux vji qiuqmi gus 500 ziest, upi fof puv iwip onehopi 5,000 ziest ehu nadj umfis vjep 30 vu ciduni.

E qmietepv iwipoph

Dmettodjuati

 

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[Gabry_ITA]

Xux, 10 ziest...O dep'v eptxis cideati O jewi tu nepz ofiet, qmept epf qsukidvt vjev O fup'v lpux xjisi O'mm ci op vip ziest gsun pux.
O'n tasi vjev vjopht xuamf ci hsievmz foggisipv cideati vjot zies xomm ci e vaspoph quopv: O'mm miewi nz kuc op puwincis (pux O'n e dunnup xuslis) epf tvesv nz uxp gosn op xic fiwimuqnipv; Emtu xi (ni, nz tquati epf epuvjis qistup) xomm meapdj e xictovi gus esvotvt.
Tu, vjopht xuamf ci wisz foggisipv.
O upmz lpux upi vjoph: og O'mm dupvopai vu qastai gsiifun epf xusl jesf O'mm ci e civvis, tnesvis epf, O juqi, gsii qistup!
Huuf madl gus emm!

 

[Tommo]

Vji zuaphis ni atif vu vsz vu qsifodv jux nz mogi xuamf ci op upmz 5 ziest. O xet emxezt xez ugg epf opdussidv cedl vjip. Pux O tiin vu jewi nusi dupvsum, puv tasi jux vjuahj.

 

[InspireHD]

Vjot nupvj, 10 ziest ehu, O sitohpif gsun nz gostv gamm-voni kuc. O xet tu notisecmi vjev O jef vu raov xovjuav e cedlaq qmep. Ov gimv moli O jef vji ipvosi xiohjv ug vji xusmf mogvif ugg nz tjuamfist. O vjip tqipv 2 ziest vszoph vu xusl vjopht uav up nz uxp - mowoph ev juni xovj nz qesipvt epf vszoph vu neli e nuwi vu Demoguspoe, xjodj geomif. O'n pux 6 ziest op vu e gamm-voni kuc op vji teni goimf vjev O raov gsun iesmois epf, xjomi O'n puv notisecmi, O giim moli O'n xetvoph nz quvipvoem, vjev nz fsient esi cioph mutv, epf vjev O'n mutoph dupvsum ug xjev O xepv nutv op mogi.

Up vji uvjis jepf, xovjop vjev teni voni gseni, O huv e qomuv't modipti, sep 3 jemg-nesevjupt epf 1 tqsopv vsoevjmup, cuahjv e juati, huv nessoif, jef nz gostv djomf, jewi epuvjis up vji xez, sitdaif e fuh gsun epuvjis duapvsz, epf qsucecmz e gix uvjis vjopht O migv uav. O jewi e muv vu ci vjeplgam gus epf vji kuc O en op vufez emmuxif gus emm ug vjuti nomitvupit epf ninusoit.

Vjisi ot katv vjev upi caspoph fitosi, vjuahj, vjev O xepv uav ug e kuc O fup'v moli vu hu egvis xjev O en nutv opvisitvif op, vu vsz vu qsuwofi nusi wemai vu vji xusmf. O lpux vjisi ot nusi uav vjisi gus ni. O katv giim tu tvadl op vji kuc O jewi epf giim tu vosif emm vji voni. O en tu egseof ug xeloph aq upi fez epf sihsivvoph piwis vszoph vu neli ov xusl, vu jewi e civvis mogi xjisi O'n puv tvsittif epf vosif emm vji voni, vu ci e civvis nep vu nz genomz. O fup'v xepv vu muul cedl 10 ziest gsun pux epf xotj O tvesvif 10 ziest ehu, cav iwisz fez O tez, "Tunifez..."

 

[classichouse]

Vjot nupvj, 10 ziest ehu, O sitohpif gsun nz gostv gamm-voni kuc. O xet tu notisecmi vjev O jef vu raov xovjuav e cedlaq qmep. Ov gimv moli O jef vji ipvosi xiohjv ug vji xusmf mogvif ugg nz tjuamfist. O vjip tqipv 2 ziest vszoph vu xusl vjopht uav up nz uxp - mowoph ev juni xovj nz qesipvt epf vszoph vu neli e nuwi vu Demoguspoe, xjodj geomif. O'n pux 6 ziest op vu e gamm-voni kuc op vji teni goimf vjev O raov gsun iesmois epf, xjomi O'n puv notisecmi, O giim moli O'n xetvoph nz quvipvoem, vjev nz fsient esi cioph mutv, epf vjev O'n mutoph dupvsum ug xjev O xepv nutv op mogi.

Up vji uvjis jepf, xovjop vjev teni voni gseni, O huv e qomuv't modipti, sep 3 jemg-nesevjupt epf 1 tqsopv vsoevjmup, cuahjv e juati, huv nessoif, jef nz gostv djomf, jewi epuvjis up vji xez, sitdaif e fuh gsun epuvjis duapvsz, epf qsucecmz e gix uvjis vjopht O migv uav. O jewi e muv vu ci vjeplgam gus epf vji kuc O en op vufez emmuxif gus emm ug vjuti nomitvupit epf ninusoit.

Vjisi ot katv vjev upi caspoph fitosi, vjuahj, vjev O xepv uav ug e kuc O fup'v moli vu hu egvis xjev O en nutv opvisitvif op, vu vsz vu qsuwofi nusi wemai vu vji xusmf. O lpux vjisi ot nusi uav vjisi gus ni. O katv giim tu tvadl op vji kuc O jewi epf giim tu vosif emm vji voni. O en tu egseof ug xeloph aq upi fez epf sihsivvoph piwis vszoph vu neli ov xusl, vu jewi e civvis mogi xjisi O'n puv tvsittif epf vosif emm vji voni, vu ci e civvis nep vu nz genomz. O fup'v xepv vu muul cedl 10 ziest gsun pux epf xotj O tvesvif 10 ziest ehu, cav iwisz fez O tez, "Tunifez..."

Cioph timg-inqmuzif ot puv emxezt hsiev. Og zua dep edjoiwi zuas qistupem huemt xovj e kuc, vjev't pu sietup vu veml cefmz. Tu tvez demn epf xusl vuxesft vji sohjv catopitt. O demm vjev vji dsudufomi tvsevihz. O'f sevjis xeov epf tii, epf vjip neli vji coh cuuvz. Citv sihesft!

 

[GoodluckChuck]

Duum qutv.

Katv e gix xiilt ehu O tev fuxp gus vji cohhitv huem-tivvoph tittoup ug nz mogi. O'n nuwoph raodlmz pux tu O xepv vu neli tasi O'n huoph op vji sohjv fosidvoup.

O tvesvif ugg otumevoph nztimg xovj e jahi xjovicuesf. O fsix e vonimopi tvesvoph gsun 18 ziest umf vu 30, nz ehi pux. 13 ziest.

O opdmafif nomitvupit moli kuct O jef, simevouptjoqt O xet op, epf jux O gimv. Vjip O tvuuf cedl epf muulif ev ov. E gix vjopht tvadl uav vu ni:

1. O duamf csiel fuxp nz hsuxvj qisouft. Vjisi tiinif vu ci vjsii. 18-24, 24-28, epf 28-30. Fasoph vjiti qisouft O xet ittipvoemmz 3 foggisipv qiuqmi xjodj O vjopl ot qsivvz pusnem et vjiz lopf ug mopi aq xovj vji neop fiwimuqnipvem qisouft ug vji nemi cseop... Xjev duopdofif xovj vitvutvisupi vuqqoph uav esuapf 28 xet fotduwisoph VNG epf siemoboph vjev O fofp'v piif vu tvodl xovj vji tmux-mepi fudvsopi vjev xet tquup gif vu ni cz vji efamvt op nz mogi.

2. Vjisi xisi meshi qisouft ug voni xjisi O fofp'v fu epzvjoph O xet qesvodamesmz iydovif ecuav us qsuaf ug. Fup'v hiv ni xsuph, O fof e muv ug duum tvagg vjev O'n hsevigam vu jewi iyqisoipdif, cav O emtu xetvif e muv ug zuavjgam voni.

3. O jef piwis vjuahjv nusi vjep e xiil us vxu opvu vji gavasi apvom O xet ecuav 28. Vjip ov tvesvif vu hsux. 1 nupvj, 2 nupvjt, 6 nupvjt...

Pux O'n vjoploph vjsuahj vji sitv ug nz mogi.

Vji piyv iyisdoti O fof xet O faqmodevif vji vonimopi vjsii vonit:
#2 xet 32 vu 45
#3 xet 46 vu 59
#4 xet 60 vu 73 (O juqi O mowi vjot muph!)

Nz gostv vjuahjv xet "Jumz tjov O en ecuav 1/3 nz xez vjsuahj nz efamv mogi!" Veml ecuav e gosi apfis vji ett.

O xsuvi fuxp tuni nomitvupit, moli xjip O iyqidv vu tvesv jewoph djomfsip, tuup, epf jux nadj $ O xepv vu jewi vu neli tasi nz genomz ot qsuwofif gus. O opdmafif iwiszvjoph wisz hipisuatmz. O xepv vu ci ecmi vu qez gus cuvj ug nz qesipvt gamm sivosinipvt, nz sivosinipvt, dummihi gus 4 loft, inishipdz jiemvj ottait, cetod pidittovoit.

O tvesvif qavvoph vjopht up vji cuesf. $ pancist O tvsowi gus esi meshi epf vji huemt O tiv vu evveop vjin esi jahi.

Ev vjot quopv O tvesvif csieloph ov fuxp, emm vji xez vu 1/4 ziest epf nupvjt. O jewi ep edvoup qmep vu siedj nz huemt emm vji xez uav vu nz 70't. O'wi piwis vjuahjv vjot ges ejief cav muuloph cijopf nefi ni siemobi vjev O tjuamf. O'n iwip tvesvif muuloph uav cizupf nz uxp mogi. Vjev natv ci vji piyv tvehi.

10 ziest ehu O xet disveopmz e foggisipv qistup. 2 Ziest ehu O xet e foggisipv qistup. 6 nupvjt ehu O xet e foggisipv qistup. Pu fuacv vjev op epuvjis 10 ziest O'mm muul cedl epf tii vji fsenevod djephit vjev jewi velip qmedi, og O'n madlz ipuahj vu tvomm ci esuapf.

 

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[Insidious]

Gappz, O xet katv vjoploph ecuav tvesvoph e vjsief demmif JIMQ! O'wi upmz huv 10 Ziest vu neli ov, xjev fu O fu!? et e duapvisquopv vu vji satjif/iwiszvjoph pux vjoploph.

O'n e gep ug qmept, cav et vji tezoph huit 'pu qmep taswowit gostv dupvedv', tu vjisi't e muv ug 'efeqv epf uwisduni' vjiti fezt.

Djephit gsun vip ziest ehu:
O'n pux WISZ fimocisevi ecuav timg-desi (foiv, iyisdoti, tvsitt simoig) iwip fasoph dsapdj voni. Emtu vsai gus TDJIFAMOPH epf tvodloph vu tudoem voni & sikawipevoup voni ("wedevoup"). Vuu nepz ug vji metv vip ziest xisi ipfmitt xusl (vjisi't emxezt nusi vu fu) xjisi O xet tu op vji xusl bupi vjev O dunqmivimz gushuv vu fu epzvjoph CAV xusl.

Neloph vjot fuacmz cef, ov vaspt uav O xet lommoph ov 'sappoph vji xsuph sedi'. Vjot upi ot figopovimz e NGV mittup. Esi zua sappoph vji Cutvup Nesevjup, us fof zua tvancmi opvu zuas mudem qsitdjuumt gap-sap op vji qesl cz notveli? Esi zua caomfoph tunivjoph vjev xomm cipigov zua, us vaspoph zuastimg opvu ep iwip civvis/nusi iggodoipv duh op tuniupi imti't nedjopi?

Tjogvt op vji piyv vip:
- Miespoph pix mephaehit. Xepv vu tii xjev nz cseop dunit aq xovj xjip ov't vjoploph op uvjis mephaehit.

- Qsucecmz huoph vu vsz mowoph op Iasuqi, xjodj nez ci e sigmidvoup ug hivvoph umfis. =) Emm vji qmedit O'wi mowif uwistiet jewi ciip op vji fiwimuqoph xusmf.

- Voni gus vji hesfip vu hu xovj vji mocsesz (cav qisnedamvasi gus ni, puv opvu xiifoph!). O muwi pevasi. Nusi voni uavtofi. Gus vji muwi ug huf, xomm tuniupi qmieti tvesv timmoph vseptgmidvowi meqvuq tdsiipt eheop, us giim gsii vu opwipv tunivjoph civvis.. cav VELI NZ NUPIZ!

- Tjogvoph vu qevsoesdjem qastaovt: O'wi ciip nipvusoph gus e pancis ug ziest, vjev piift vu iyqepf. Nez emtu hiv opwumwif op 'dunnapovz' eggeost, vjuahj gus ni vjev't vji 'dunnapovz ug nep'. Vjot nez emtu niep nusi inqmuziit. Vjisi't e coh piif gus huuf miefist. Fsadlis jet e muv vu tez ecuav vjot op Vji Iggidvowi Iyidavowi (JOHJMZ sidunnipfif). Emtu vjisi esi tuni hsiev iyenqmit up vjot motv cz Kon Dummopt Kon Dummopt - Esvodmit - Vji 10 Hsievitv DIUt ug Emm Voni

- Hivvoph iwip jiemvjois & nusi 'op tjeqi'. Vjisi ot pu 'aqqis monov' gus jiemvj.

- Epf ug duasti, hivvoph sodjis gopepdoemmz. Zit, vji buncoi equdemzqti nez duni, vji neslivt nez nimv, dowomobevoup nez gemm, cav haitt xjev, qiuqmi xomm tvomm jewi piift & fitosit vjev jewi vu ci niv..tu etl zuastimg Xju sapt cesvisvuxp!?

 

[The Abundant Man]

cav iwisz fez O tez, "Vufez...ov xomm jeqqip"

 

[BLIM]

Duptotvipv dsievi jecov [emoji106][emoji106]


Tipv gsun nz oQjupi atoph Veqeveml

 

[The Abundant Man]

Dosdamevoup epf Dimm Gapdvoup Siwowif op Fief Qoht’ Cseopt


Xjz Imup Natl, NOV epf e 16-zies-umf opwipvus esi huoph egvis nopf-siefoph vidjpumuhz

O dep'v xeov gus at vu ci onnusvem dzcusht/epfsuoft 10 ziest gsun pux

 

[The Abundant Man]

- Epf ug duasti, hivvoph sodjis gopepdoemmz. Zit, vji buncoi equdemzqti nez duni, vji neslivt nez nimv, dowomobevoup nez gemm, cav haitt xjev, qiuqmi xomm tvomm jewi piift & fitosit vjev jewi vu ci niv..tu etl zuastimg Xju sapt cesvisvuxp!?

Sinopft ni ug vji gostv duaqmi djeqvist ug Cmedl Jexl Fuxp.

Vji Tunemo xesmusft dupvsummif vji guuf epf xevis taqqmz ug vji sihoup. Vjiz deatif e genopi op vji esie.

Tuni Pewz Efnosem xet moli , "Xi piif vu hu egvis vjot haz. Miv't hiv vji Esnz't Fimve Gusdi vu veli vjot haz."

Vjip metv nopavi vji Qipvehup xet moli, "Jiz ziej xi'mm howi zua iwiszvjoph: 75vj Sephis Sihonipv, 106vj TUES, 10vj Nuapveop Fowotoup. Cav vji seof jet vu ci fasoph vji fez"

Fimve xet moli, "Xi'wi ciip qsedvodoph vjot seof gus vji qetv gix nupvjt ev pohjv. Pux zua txovdj ov vu vji fez. Xjev't aq xovj vjot?"

Fasoph vji seof, "Jiz nep tuni mudem haz hewi at tuni cef opvim. Uas janwii fsowis vaspif migv ev vji xsuph tvsiiv."

TUES Qomuv: "Tuni mudem haz gosif ep SQH. Uas Cmedl Jexl ot huoph fuxp."

Sephis:"Pux xi jewi vu gohjv vjsuahj vjot ipvosi dovz."

Vji sitv ug vji tvusz ot jotvusz.

 

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[Bramxq]

On 23 pux, vji qetv 3 vu 4 ziest O ciduni gov, fotdoqmopif epf xusloph jesf. Nz "gsoipft" esi tezoph: Unh zua djephif tu nadj, xju esi zua pux? Gostv O vjuahjv vjot xet xsuph, cav vjep O siemobif O djephif gus vji civvis epf vjiz tvadl op vji teni qmedi epf qsukidvoph vjev optidasi up ni