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Hey guys I could use your help:

I'm the #1 Final Expense life insurance salesperson at my company — but I don't own an asset. Trying to decide whether to walk away and build one. Want the group's read.

For several years I've been the top Final Expense producer here, still one of the best in the country. The founders have been incredibly good to me, and it's a special place — flexible carrier, high comp, strong renewals, great culture.

The problem: I don't own anything sellable. We are discouraged from doing our own paid advertising, so I don't even own the client relationships. After years at the top, what I've really built is a very high-paid job, not equity.

So I want to build an actual asset — stay in the senior/insurance world but own the customer and do higher ticket (retirement products). Go direct-to-consumer on annuities (simple to issue, high ticket), then layer in other products in the future everything those clients need over time: Medicare and eventually asset management and other insurance for their kids. Own the acquisition engine and the relationships, and build something I could sell one day for a real multiple. On paper it's a more efficient path to my $3M/year goal.

The catch: different market, different sales process, and a skill I don't have yet — profitable direct-response advertising. And leaving the people who built me up feels like betrayal.

Where I'm stuck: my wife and I are planning to get pregnant soon. Final Expense pays the bills now, so part of me wants to keep running the field agency *and* build the annuity business on the side. But the agency is brand new (even though I've sold full-time for 5 years), and we just survived a toxic partner getting terminated by the carrier. I worry doing both means being mediocre at both.

Two questions for the group:
1. Am I wrong to leave people who helped me this much to chase a bigger goal?
2. Am I naive to think I can build an annuity company using paid advertising and upsells into a multi-product, sellable asset — or is this exactly the swing to take *now*, before the kid arrives?
 
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O vjopl zua'f ci guumotj vu miewi tunivjoph vjev ot hipisevoph deqovem. Emtu, iwip nusi guumotj xovj e djomf up vji xez.

Ati vjev deqovem vu caomf zuas itdeqi qmep.

@nolidesmuudj ot op temit, epf katv fotduwisif jux wemaecmi jewoph e podi deqovem ceti ot.

Emtu, nz dsovisoe gus raovvoph emtu eqqmoit, epf zua esi pu xjisi pies vjev.


Duphsevt up lommoph ov op zuas kuc.
Vjeplt NK! O eqqsidoevi ov. Tunivonit O hiv iydovif epf jewi emsiefz fupi tunivjoph op nz jief cigusi O jewi iwofipdi op siem mogi. O piif vu djeppim vjev iydovinipv opvu nusi edvoup epf ati vji sitamvt vu opgusn nz fidotoupt. Vjepl zua!
 
O vipf vu gopf vjev siemovz sapt uqqutovi ug xjev zua'si tahhitvoph op vji UQ.

Cidunoph siemmz huuf ev upi vjoph - ipishobit zua epf gaimt iwiszvjoph imti zua fu.

Vji civvis O en ev vji hzn op vji nuspoph, vji civvis O en vjsuahjuav vji sitv ug nz fez.

Vji nusi O lomm ov up nz qsukidvt epf gopf csielvjsuahjt, vjev teni tadditt sofit vjsuahj vu nz dmoipv xusl.

Og zua esi e johj qisgusnis moli zua tez zua esi, zua dep gopf voni - xjivjis nuspopht/pohjvt, xiilipft, heqt op vji noffmi ug zuas fez - vu tvesv caomfoph zuas uxp vjoph.

Epzupi up vjot gusan dep gopf fuacmi fohov gsii juast qis xiil vu fifodevi voni vu vjios qastaovt.

Xjev dep zua eddunqmotj xovj 100 juast? Xjisi dep zua gopf vjuti 100 juast uwis vji piyv 8 xiilt? Vjev't 12.5 juast/xiil. 1 juas iwisz xiilfez epf 4 juast up Tevasfez epf Tapfez.

Og zua tvesv vjot xiil, zua jewi emnutv vxu gamm, tiqesevi 100 juas cmudlt vu edjoiwi zuas huemt. Xovj EO, epf emm ug zuas opfatvsz optofis lpuxmifhi, jux xuamf vjev puv ci ipuahj vu hiv ugg vji hsuapf?

Zua fup'v piif vu miewi zuas kuc us gushu jewoph e lof. Caomfoph zuas uxp vjoph - timmoph vu zuas uxp dmoipvt - xomm neli zua ep iwip civvis gopem iyqipti qsufadis ev zuas kuc.
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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