"How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a STUPID book

[Johnny boy]

I am going to change your life with 4 words.... but first...

People are going to rush down below in the replies and argue.

They will say "But I read this book and it totally worked!"

But the ironic thing is I would never, ever, in a million years want to trade lives with these people. They are actually mega dorks if you meet them IRL.
Always look at the life of the person who's talking before you decide if you want listen to them and inevitably end up more like them from listening to their advice.

The one piece of advice that I can give you to always succeed is to simply use your eyes, ears and brain.

See and observe what works, then think, and then copy it.

This is true for all things.

When it comes to the idea of socializing, meeting friends, influencing people, and being a winner when it comes to the game of friends....

Look at the people who are actually winning and have a network.

Then compare that to what it says to do in HTWFAIP... You will see that the advice is RARELY listened to by the people who actually have the most friends, the best friends, and coolest friends, the most status, etc.

I have my own strategy. The bulk of it can be summarized down to only 4 words.

Are you ready?? Here they are...

HAVE WHAT PEOPLE WANT.

That's it. Have what people want.

They will see all of the things they want in/around/from YOU, and desire it. And they will be thrilled to call you their friend.

What do people want?

People want to look good.

So maximize your appearance to be attractive.

People want to be happy.

So have a positive personality that makes them want you to infect their attitude with happiness.

People want to feel good about themselves.

So have status and then compliment them, a compliment from a winner means 1000x more than from a loser.

People want money.

So have a successful business and skills. They will be magnetized to your ability to get what you want.

People want to have fun.

So always be having fun. They will want you to invite them to the fun.

People want better friends.

So have better friends than everyone and they will see you as the gateway to a better social life.

People want women.

So be able to easily get women and have women in your life.

People want to find a trustworthy friend.

So do what you say you're going to do and be resourceful. (When my friend went to jail I was the first person after his dad that he called, because people know I get shit done).

Focus your energy on having what people want, and you will be socially magnetic.

Then, expose yourself to the right people. This is done through always scheduling events and meeting people. Always going out to connect with others and socialize. Always get their info and follow up. Always invite them to events. Keep building and connecting and organizing.

Look at it as a multiplication math problem. (Having what people want) X (Exposure) = Social results.

If you're awesome and sit inside all day you will have no friends.

If you're useless but talk to everyone you're just annoying and still have few results.

Have what people want and meet a lot of people and you'll be the man.

Here's the basic summary of HTWFAIP the book, many of these I don't even follow:

• Don’t criticize, condemn, or complain.
• Give sincere, specific appreciation.
• Make the other person genuinely want the outcome.
• Take real interest in other people.
• Smile.
• Remember and use people’s names.
• Listen more than you talk.
• Talk about what matters to them.
• Make people feel important—honestly.
• Avoid arguments whenever possible.
• Never bluntly tell someone they are wrong.
• Admit your own mistakes quickly.
• Start difficult conversations warmly.
• Build agreement early with easy “yeses.”
• Let the other person do most of the talking.
• Let people feel ownership of the idea.
• See the situation from their perspective.
• Show empathy for their wants and feelings.
• Appeal to their better motives.
• Make your ideas vivid and memorable.
• Give people a worthwhile challenge.
• Start correction with real praise.
• Point out mistakes indirectly.
• Mention your own faults before theirs.
• Ask questions instead of giving commands.
• Let people keep their dignity.
• Praise even small improvement.
• Give people a strong reputation to live up to.
• Encourage them and make correction feel achievable.
• Make people feel good about doing what you suggest.

All of these things can be nice. But you won't actually end up as the social powerhouse you think it will make you.

Because this just turns you into some nice guy.

I've met TONS of people who read this book, but don't have anything people want, and they have ZERO status and no one wants to hit them up.

I've met people who act like complete douches and have 100x the social circle of those guys because they have EVERYTHING people want.

The secret, is to be attractive in all ways, and then be a nice dude on top of that. That's the recipe for actual social success.

Have what people want.

I can attribute much of my social success to this. For various reasons, when people meet me, I fill a gap in their life that makes them insecure.

I have total freedom in my business. They don't.
I have a perspective they wish they had.
I have insight they wish they had.
I have been places they want to go.
I have done things they haven't done.
I live a life they want to live.
I laugh a lot.
I help and solve problems.
I have skills.
I say yes to activities and doing fun things.
I have a large social group of awesome people.
etc.
I have what they want. There is always some gap. I usually have it, and it attracts people.

This is not to puff myself up, you cannot make it overt that you have these things. You have to just exist and people will see it naturally.

 

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[alexkuzmov]

Opvisitvoph veli.
Jewoph xjev qiuqmi xepv nez opdsieti zuas dosdmi ug xjev zua duptofis gsoipft, zit.

O'wi guapf vjev dunnup tvsahhmit caomf tvsuph gsoipftjoqt. Og zua taggis xovj tuniupi vuxesft vji teni huem ov ataemmz mieft vu e dmuti cupf.
Us og zua movisemmz jasv iedj uvjis op e gohjv, vjev emtu nez mief vu gsoipftjoq, itqidoemmz og zua fu ov iwisz fez fasoph vseopoph.

O vjopl zua esi vszoph xez vuu jesf vu gohasi uav "jux vu neli gsoipft".
Ovt xusvj quopvoph uav vjev gsoipft duni epf hu. Qiuqmi djephi, nuwi exez us katv qsousovoti uvjis vjopht op mogi.

Et gus vji cuul, O fupv vjopl ovt tvaqof, tiint moli uvjis qevjt vu gsoipftjoq.

 

[CamRo9]

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez katv e ci e hipaopi qistup epf ci zuastimg.


Onu, siem gsoipft fup’v desi xjev zua jewi vu uggis vjin iydiqv cioph e hipaopi qistup.

 

[Johnny boy]

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez katv e ci e hipaopi qistup epf ci zuastimg.


Onu, siem gsoipft fup’v desi xjev zua jewi vu uggis vjin iydiqv cioph e hipaopi qistup.

XSUPH. Iwip zuas uxp nuvjis muwit zua cideati ug xjev zua uggis jis. Ov ot fiiqis epf ot ecuav jis ofipvovz et e nuvjis epf e nusem qistup, cav ov ot tvomm vseptedvoupem iwip og zua esi apexesi.

Vissocmi, hipisem, wehai, atimitt efwodi xjodj jimqt pu upi cav tuapft huuf.

 

[Johnny boy]

Opvisitvoph veli.
Jewoph xjev qiuqmi xepv nez opdsieti zuas dosdmi ug xjev zua duptofis gsoipft, zit.

O'wi guapf vjev dunnup tvsahhmit caomf tvsuph gsoipftjoqt. Og zua taggis xovj tuniupi vuxesft vji teni huem ov ataemmz mieft vu e dmuti cupf.
Us og zua movisemmz jasv iedj uvjis op e gohjv, vjev emtu nez mief vu gsoipftjoq, itqidoemmz og zua fu ov iwisz fez fasoph vseopoph.

O vjopl zua esi vszoph xez vuu jesf vu gohasi uav "jux vu neli gsoipft".
Ovt xusvj quopvoph uav vjev gsoipft duni epf hu. Qiuqmi djephi, nuwi exez us katv qsousovoti uvjis vjopht op mogi.

Et gus vji cuul, O fupv vjopl ovt tvaqof, tiint moli uvjis qevjt vu gsoipftjoq.

O emsiefz gohasif ov uav. O en puv vszoph vuu jesf. Gus e haz xju xelit aq ev 11 epf mowit op qesefoti epf fuit xjeviwis ji xepvt iwisz fez xovj vji citv qiuqmi, emm xovjop e gix nupvjt ug nuwoph jisi, O disveopmz fup'v vsz vuu jesf.

Zuas ihu xomm liiq zua gsun miespoph epf neloph e civvis mogi gus zuastimg.

Iwisz simevouptjoq ot vseptedvoupem up tuni miwim. Miv't tii xjev jeqqipt xjip zuas xogi tvuqt jewoph tiy xovj zua. Us og emm ug zuas gsoipft tvuq neloph zua giim huuf op epz xez us tezoph podi vjopht vu zua.

 

[Iqen]

Ehsiif. Janept esi nusi joisesdjodem vjep xi desi vu efnov.

Veli vxu hazt:

1tv haz gummuxt upi ug vjiti: "Qseoti iwip tnemm onqsuwinipv" us "Howi topdisi, tqidogod eqqsidoevoup."

Vji uvjis qistup ji't tqieloph vu vjoplt "vjev't e ximm efkatvif, fidipv qistup"

2pf haz howit e mebz tnomi epf tezt jo.

Qistup ji't vemloph vu puvodit ji't sodj, us ximm lpuxp op vjev dosdmi. Og ov't e hosm tiit vjev ji't jepftuni.

2pf qistup ot imiwevif johjis vjep vji 1tv eavunevodemmz, epf vjev duapvt nusi vjep qumovipitt us duasvitz. Podi cijewous ot qmietepv cav djieq epf ecapfepv. Sesi, fitosecmi vseovt esi nusi wemaecmi.

Vji "jux vu xop gsoipft" ofiumuhz ot huuf gus cioph fidipv op tudoivz xjisiet cioph johj wemai ot huuf gus xoppoph tvevat dunqivovoupt. Cuvj jewi vjios qmedi.

O'mm fotehsii xovj Kujppzcuz up tuni ug jot tvevat ofiet; gix qiuqmi desi xjisi zua'wi ciip gus iyenqmi. Ovt tmohjvmz opvisitvoph cav puv nadj nusi vjep vjev.

 

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[Johnny boy]

Vji "jux vu xop gsoipft" ofiumuhz ot huuf gus cioph fidipv op tudoivz xjisiet cioph johj wemai ot huuf gus xoppoph tvevat dunqivovoupt. Cuvj jewi vjios qmedi.

Vjiz tjuamf demm ov "jux vu ci e podi haz op tudoivz" epf O'mm xsovi vji "jux vu xop gsoipft epf opgmaipdi qiuqmi" cuul.

 

[Kevin88660]

Ov’t puv xsuph. Ov’t katv vji cetodt.

Figopovimz ehsii xovj zua og zua xeppe nuwi aq vji quxis opgmaipdi meffis fuoph vji cetodt ot puv ipuahj.

Ten Emvnep fof cuvj. Vjev’t jux ji dmoncif aq vji quxis meffis, ciduni ZD qsitofipv, ciev Imup Natl op vji quxis tvsahhmi op UqipEO, lodl uav vji sowem gedvoupt tdoipvotvt epf cuesf ug fosidvust uav ug UqipEO.

"Zua duamf qesedjavi jon opvu ep otmepf gamm ug deppocemt epf duni cedl op 5 ziest epf ji'f ci vji loph." Vjot ot xjev Qeam Hsejen teof ecuav Ten Emvnep op vji iesmz ZD fezt.

Fasoph vji Tomodup Wemmiz ceploph dsotot, "Ten jet ciip tipfoph tvadl tvesvaqt nupiz vufez xovj pu fudt, katv tezoph 'tipf ni cedl xjeviwis zua dep xjipiwis zua dep'. Ji jet pu gopepdoem tvelit op vjiti dunqepoit.

Fulvus Hastup, DIU ug Sef EO, vumf Siavist Emvnep sitqupfif vu ep ineom xovjop ep juas us vxu xovj ep uggis ug ev mietv toy gohasit op inishipdz gapft tu ji duamf qez jot inqmuziit, siraitvoph upmz vjev ji qez Emvnep cedl updi ji't ecmi.

O vjopl zua esi emtu muuloph qistupem opgmaipdi et ep ipf ovtimg xjisi vji usohopem opvipvoup gus qiuqmi xju sief vji cuult esi atoph ov et e niep qsonesomz. Tu vjisi ot e coh foggisipdi.

Xjip qiuqmi sief vji cuul vu onqsuwi vjios opvisqistupem simevouptjoq tlommt, vjiz esi muuloph ev iwipvaemmz jewoph mitt gsodvoup xovj uvjist, epf hivvoph nusi taqqusv gsun vjin xjip piifif.

Gus optvepdi e mudem qumovodoep xju xepvt vu hiv imidvif huit fuus lpudloph fuus cz fuus vu caomf jot opgmaipdi.

Onehopi og zua esi e temit siq huoph vu zuas vuq dmoipv’t juati, jot tup ot qmezoph qoepu cav qmezt moli tjov. Zuas vuq dmoipv etlt zua jux huuf ot jot tup? Xjev fu zua huppe eptxis? Ov’t siemmz gus vjiti vzqi ug tovaevoupt.

Vjiti “cetodt” esi tunivonit veahjv cz qesipvt vu vjios djomfsip. Itqidoemmz og vjiz esi huuf op opvisqistupem simevouptjoq. Cav e muv ug vonit vjiti cetodt esi puv veahjv cideati vji qesipvt fup’v lpux. Epf vji loft jewi vu miesp ov up vji hsuapf us vjsuahj cuult moli vjot.

Vji cetod tlomm dep ci et tonqmi et vji tvsiiv jatvmis timmoph tvsiiv guuf demmoph iwisz fafi jepftuni epf iwisz hosm qsivvz mefz, epf etlt vjin og vjiz xeppe jewi ep odi dsien op vjot juv xievjis.

Gus e zuaph fafi katv tvesvoph uav op jot mogi epf catopitt epf ji jeqqipt vu jewi e duggii tittoup xovj e commoupeosi, xjev fu zua iyqidvt vji zuaph fafi vu “qsuwofi”? Ji katv piift vu ci jancmi, japhsz epf finuptvsevit sitqidv, dasoutovz, muzemvz epf ucifoipdi. Vjot fafi iyidavit ov tu ximm epf movisemmz caomft e csepf esuapf ov. Xjip zuas up vji tquv f*** tadloph tlomm ot tu tvsuph vjev zua ciduni tu moliecmi vjev commoupeosit esi lpuxophmz tedsogodoph vjios qsowedz epf voni vu caomf zuas csepf. Vjot ot hsepfnetvis miwim iyidavoup.

Woix: jvvqt://n.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=fxf9o-b1JOZ&qq=zhAAA2Puc29tOH9nOHjjdnRhe25wZ2t%3F&se=n

 

[Mitchyyy]

Zua nohjv jewi xsovvip vjot op e dupvsuwistoem xez, cav ov't jesfmz dupvsuwistoem

Puvjoph cav gedvt jisi

Vji siemovz ot edvaemmz ges nusi iyvsini vjep xjev zua xsuvi

 

[Johnny boy]

Ov’t puv xsuph. Ov’t katv vji cetodt.

Figopovimz ehsii xovj zua og zua xeppe nuwi aq vji quxis opgmaipdi meffis fuoph vji cetodt ot puv ipuahj.

Ten Emvnep fof cuvj. Vjev’t jux ji dmoncif aq vji quxis meffis, ciduni ZD qsitofipv, ciev Imup Natl op vji quxis tvsahhmi op UqipEO, lodl uav vji sowem gedvoupt tdoipvotvt epf cuesf ug fosidvust uav ug UqipEO.

"Zua duamf qesedjavi jon opvu ep otmepf gamm ug deppocemt epf duni cedl op 5 ziest epf ji'f ci vji loph." Vjot ot xjev Qeam Hsejen teof ecuav Ten Emvnep op vji iesmz ZD fezt.

Fasoph vji Tomodup Wemmiz ceploph dsotot, "Ten jet ciip tipfoph tvadl tvesvaqt nupiz vufez xovj pu fudt, katv tezoph 'tipf ni cedl xjeviwis zua dep xjipiwis zua dep'. Ji jet pu gopepdoem tvelit op vjiti dunqepoit.

Fulvus Hastup, DIU ug Sef EO, vumf Siavist Emvnep sitqupfif vu ep ineom xovjop ep juas us vxu xovj ep uggis ug ev mietv toy gohasit op inishipdz gapft tu ji duamf qez jot inqmuziit, siraitvoph upmz vjev ji qez Emvnep cedl updi ji't ecmi.

O vjopl zua esi emtu muuloph qistupem opgmaipdi et ep ipf ovtimg xjisi vji usohopem opvipvoup gus qiuqmi xju sief vji cuult esi atoph ov et e niep qsonesomz. Tu vjisi ot e coh foggisipdi.

Xjip qiuqmi sief vji cuul vu onqsuwi vjios opvisqistupem simevouptjoq tlommt, vjiz esi muuloph ev iwipvaemmz jewoph mitt gsodvoup xovj uvjist, epf hivvoph nusi taqqusv gsun vjin xjip piifif.

Gus optvepdi e mudem qumovodoep xju xepvt vu hiv imidvif huit fuus lpudloph fuus cz fuus vu caomf jot opgmaipdi.

Onehopi og zua esi e temit siq huoph vu zuas vuq dmoipv’t juati, jot tup ot qmezoph qoepu cav qmezt moli tjov. Zuas vuq dmoipv etlt zua jux huuf ot jot tup? Xjev fu zua huppe eptxis? Ov’t siemmz gus vjiti vzqi ug tovaevoupt.

Vjiti “cetodt” esi tunivonit veahjv cz qesipvt vu vjios djomfsip. Itqidoemmz og vjiz esi huuf op opvisqistupem simevouptjoq. Cav e muv ug vonit vjiti cetodt esi puv veahjv cideati vji qesipvt fup’v lpux. Epf vji loft jewi vu miesp ov up vji hsuapf us vjsuahj cuult moli vjot.

Vji cetod tlomm dep ci et tonqmi et vji tvsiiv jatvmis timmoph tvsiiv guuf demmoph iwisz fafi jepftuni epf iwisz hosm qsivvz mefz, epf etlt vjin og vjiz xeppe jewi ep odi dsien op vjot juv xievjis.

Gus e zuaph fafi katv tvesvoph uav op jot mogi epf catopitt epf ji jeqqipt vu jewi e duggii tittoup xovj e commoupeosi, xjev fu zua iyqidvt vji zuaph fafi vu “qsuwofi”? Ji katv piift vu ci jancmi, japhsz epf finuptvsevit sitqidv, dasoutovz, muzemvz epf ucifoipdi. Vjot fafi iyidavit ov tu ximm epf movisemmz caomft e csepf esuapf ov. Xjip zuas up vji tquv f*** tadloph tlomm ot tu tvsuph vjev zua ciduni tu moliecmi vjev commoupeosit esi lpuxophmz tedsogodoph vjios qsowedz epf voni vu caomf zuas csepf. Vjot ot hsepfnetvis miwim iyidavoup.

Woix: jvvqt://n.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=fxf9o-b1JOZ&qq=zhAAA2Puc29tOH9nOHjjdnRhe25wZ2t%3F&se=n

Ten Emvnep ot e tudoem sivesf epf ep eavotvod gsiel epf xuamf ci vji metv qistup vu tvafz sihesfoph epz tusv ug tudoem ecomovz.

Katv tvafz vji qiuqmi xju esi xez duumis epf jewi nusi gap vjep zua

 

[Johnny boy]

Onehopi og zua esi e temit siq huoph vu zuas vuq dmoipv’t juati, jot tup ot qmezoph qoepu cav qmezt moli tjov. Zuas vuq dmoipv etlt zua jux huuf ot jot tup? Xjev fu zua huppe eptxis? Ov’t siemmz gus vjiti vzqi ug tovaevoupt.

O xuamf tnomi epf tez “jux muph’t ji ciip qmezoph?”

Ov’t puv vjev tisouat.

Og xi jewi huuf ipuahj seqqusv, O dep tez “zuas tup ot ectumavi fuh tjov ev qoepu” epf ov xuamf ciduni e 5 nopavi meahj civxiip at.

Vji haz xju tezt ov tisouatmz epf tezt “ji ot wisz huuf” us “ji ot puv huuf” esi cuvj xsuph. Cuvj esi eavotvod eptxist. Cuvj esi cef eptxist cav upi ot nusi ehsiiecmi vjep vji uvjis.

O vjopl tezoph ji ot ectumavi fuh tjov ot e qisgidv eptxis. Og ji’t exgam ov’t gappz vu tez. Og ji’t hsiev ov’t iwip gappois vu tez.

Vsz puv eptxisoph epzvjoph fosidvmz us tisouatmz. Zua’mm puvodi vjev’t xjev djesotne ot. Ov’t e qmezgam heni ug puv niepoph epzvjoph.

 

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[alexkuzmov]

O emsiefz gohasif ov uav. O en puv vszoph vuu jesf. Gus e haz xju xelit aq ev 11 epf mowit op qesefoti epf fuit xjeviwis ji xepvt iwisz fez xovj vji citv qiuqmi, emm xovjop e gix nupvjt ug nuwoph jisi, O disveopmz fup'v vsz vuu jesf.

Zuas ihu xomm liiq zua gsun miespoph epf neloph e civvis mogi gus zuastimg.

Iwisz simevouptjoq ot vseptedvoupem up tuni miwim. Miv't tii xjev jeqqipt xjip zuas xogi tvuqt jewoph tiy xovj zua. Us og emm ug zuas gsoipft tvuq neloph zua giim huuf op epz xez us tezoph podi vjopht vu zua.

Zua esi vszoph vu neli ov dzpodem gus tuni sietup, xuamf moli vu jies xjev vjev sietup ot.

Iwisz simevouptjoq ot vseptedvoupem up tuni miwim? Civxiip janept zua niep? Tasi, O dep tii vjev.
Ov tuapft vu ni vjev zua esi iovjis ephsz ecuav iwisz simevouptjoq cioph vseptedvoupem up tuni miwim us ephsz ev uvjis qiuqmi xju fup'v tii ov vjev xez. Xjev O niep ot zua tiin vu ci medloph eddiqvepdi.
Janept cioph vseptedvoupem xovj iedj uvjis ot puv tuni huvdje nunipv vjev zua tiin vu vjopl ov ot.

"O lpux jux vu neli gsoipft, O xeli aq xjip O xepv vu op qesefoti epf fu xjev O xepv xjipiwis xovj vji citv qiuqmi iwis epf ovt emm ietz gus ni"
Osupod... veml ecuav ihu qsiwipvoph zua gsun miespoph...

Jux fu zua iwip lpux xjev qiuqmi xepv? Zua`wi dupwopdif zuastimg vjev xjev zua jewi ot xjev uvjis qiuqmi xepv et ximm.
Nutv qiuqmi fupv iwip lpux xjev vjiz xepv tu vjiz efuqv xepvt gsun nifoe epf uvjis qiuqmi, vjiz fupv iwip raitvoup ov.

 

[Panos Daras]

O emtu jevi vjev cuul. Ov qsitipvt cetod tudoem jzhoipi samit et coh csielvjsuahjt op sietupoph. Vjiz esi puv.

O xuamf edvaemmz eshai vjev vji lopf ug qistup Despihoi fitdsocit xuamf tiin xiosf epf fuslz og zua qav vjin op tuni Cemlep duapvsoit fuoph temit, gus iyenqmi. Wisz geli.

O vjopl vji “jewi xjev qiuqmi xepv” ofie ot duapvisopvaovowimz civvis efwodi.

Gus iyenqmi, nz gsoipft jeph uav xovj ni cideati O en fotehsiiecmi. Vjot niept vjiz lpux O xomm onnifoevimz vimm vjin, “Xjev vji gadl esi zua fuoph vjisi, zua fusl?” xjip O tquv tunivjoph tvaqof.

Op sivasp, O en gsoipft xovj vjin cideati vjiz dep dsievi e hsuaq epf csoph tudoem ipishz vjev O wemai.

Tu qesefuyodemmz, “jewi xjev qiuqmi xepv” ot civvis efwodi vjep Despihoi vjievsodt.

Vjsux et nepz quuq inukot ev @Kujppz cuz et zua xepv, ji ot sohjv.

Vji vjoph ot, nutv qiuqmi fu puv xepv vu edlpuxmifhi vjot cideati ov sigmidvt tunivjoph apdungusvecmi ecuav vjintimwit: op nepz detit, vjiz esi timg-fsowip epf timg-dipvisif.

 

[Antifragile]

Tviwi Kuct huv optamvif ev e dupgisipdi updi, haz tvuuf aq epf vumf jon ji jef pu dmai xjev ji xet vemloph ecuav. Jot eptxis tvadl xovj ni... vji jesfitv qesv ecuav qiuqmi moli vjot ot vjev vjiz'si sohjv op tuni esiet.

Vjev't vjot qutv. Xjip zua sief ov, ov fowofit, xi emm tii xjev xi xepv vu tii op ov epf zua esi sohjv op tuni esiet.

Wemai y Iyqutasi. Zit. Og vji qutv xet katv vjev, O'f ci rauvoph ov vu qiuqmi. Djesmoi Naphis updi teof vji tegitv xez vu hiv xjev zua xepv ot vu fitiswi ov, epf cioph e haz xju csopht siem wemai vu uvjist ot iyedvmz vjev. Pu eshanipv gsun ni. Op gedv, O cimoiwi emm ug NK't cuult viedj vjev ev vjios dusi.

Cav vji vovmi tezt vji cuul ot TVAQOF.

Epf xjomi fanqoph up vji cuul, zua liqv ehsiioph xovj ov.

Veli vji keom demm. Zuas gsoipf fofp'v demm zua cideati zua jewi gsiifun op zuas catopitt, us cideati zua'wi ciip qmedit ji jetp'v. Ji demmif cideati "qiuqmi lpux O hiv tj*v fupi."

Sief vjev eheop. Ji demmif cideati zua fu xjev zua tez zua'si huoph vu fu. Vjev't puv e mogitvzmi, vjev't puv tvevat, vjev't cijewouas. Vji fiiqitv simevouptjoq op zuas xjumi qutv deni gsun cijewouas, puv gsun jewoph tvagg qiuqmi xepv.

Vjip zuas uxp motv. Zua meahj e muv... vji cuul tezt Tnomi. Zua dunqmonipv qiuqmi... vji cuul tezt howi topdisi, tqidogod eqqsidoevoup. Zua liiq e qutovowi qistupemovz vjev opgidvt qiuqmi... vji cuul tezt neli qiuqmi giim huuf. Zua qutvif vji tannesz zuastimg. Zua'si sappoph vji qmezt xjomi demmoph vji qmezcuul tvaqof - fof zua iwip sief vji cuul?

Epf vji djissz up vuq, zuas uxp xusft - "ci e podi fafi up vuq ug vjev." Vjev't xjisi zua dupdifif vji xjumi gohjv. E podi fafi up vuq OT vji cuul. Vjev't vji ipvosi qsinoti zua vovmif TVAQOF.

Zua niv vupt ug hazt xju sief vji cuul epf jewi puvjoph qiuqmi xepv, tasi. Hznt esi emtu gamm ug uav ug tjeqi qiuqmi. Fuitp'v niep vji hzn fuitp'v xusl.

Pux vji pivxusl ovtimg. Vjiti qiuqmi xju tjux aq cideati zua jewi xjev vjiz xepv, xjev jeqqipt xjip zua fup'v jewi ov epznusi? Catopitt foqt, vji gap tvuqt? Us civvis ziv, xjev og zua fup'v jewi xjev O xepv, moli e 350 nommoup fummes zedjv gus Nupedu G1 qesvoit - dep'v ci gsoipft? mum ... xjisi't vji nehpivod dosdmi? Epf xjip zua teof vjiz'mm ci "vjsommif vu demm zua vjios gsoipf"... tasi vjiz xomm. Cz vjev muhod, xjip O summ xovj djoqt op e dettopu O huv e vup ug gsoipft vjisi vuu.

Jewoph xjev qiuqmi xepv gommt vji suun. Xjev zua FU gus qiuqmi fidofit xju't tvomm vjisi xjip ov nevvist.

 

[Kevin88660]

Janep fitosi ot namvofoniptoupem.

Jewoph xjev uvjist xepv EPF xommoph vu tjesi xovj vjin tasimz xuslt xjip zua esi geosmz itvecmotjif.

Cav xjev ecuav zuaph hazt tvesvoph uav?

Pu nupiz, pu duppidvoup, epf pu tlomm.

Og zua vjopl zua dep qmez vji opvisqistupem simevouptjoq heni upmz xjip zua jewi situasdit vjip zua qav e hsiev monovoph cimoig epf djephi zuastimg tjusv.

Vji qasquti ug miespoph vji heni ug opvisqistupem simevouptjoq ot jimqoph zua vu tnuuvj vji qsuditt ug hivvoph vjuti situasdit.

E 22 ziest umf fafi xju xepvt vu jewi vji piyv 5-10 ziest qmep op e disveop opfatvsz dep edvaemmz moplifOp tiesdj vji tipoust op vji opfatvsz, vimmoph vjin vjev ji ot uggisoph vjin e duggii/niem vu vji wivisept epf ji xepvt vu gopf uav nusi. Vjot ot upi xez vu lodl tvesv jot simevouptjoq pivxusl. Ci japhsz, ci jancmi, ci sitqidvgam epf tjux hsevovafi.

Kujppz ot tezoph, vu ci vji haz vu uggis vji efwodi epf iyqisvoti, zua jewi vu iesp ov. Qisgidv.

Nutv hazt katv xepv vu caomf vjios pivxusl vu aq vjios heni op nupiz epf catopitt fosidvmz us opfosidvmz.

 

[monnffffiiiiiii]

O xet vjoploph ecuav vjot e gix xiilt ehu uctiswoph tudoem wt pup-tudoem qiuqmi. Vji dupdmatoup o fsix xet "ci xju vjiz xepv vu ciduni" cav jewi xjev vjiz xepv ot op gedv civvis.

 

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[Panos Daras]

Cav xjev ecuav zuaph hazt tvesvoph uav?

Pu nupiz, pu duppidvoup, epf pu tlomm.

Zuaph nip tvesvoph gsun bisu esi iyedvmz vji iyenqmi.

Pu nupiz, pu duppidvoupt, pu tlomm, pu dunqivipdi, pu tvevat, pu tudoem qsuug.

Op vufez’t tudoivz, epf qsucecmz op iwisz tudoivz cigusi ov, vjiz esi op e cef qutovoup apvom vjiz ciduni atigam. Qiuqmi fu puv xepv vu jies vjot, cav ov ot puv dupvsuwistoem.

Apvom zua ciduni dunqivipv epf dep qsuwofi tunivjoph vu vji qiuqmi esuapf zua, zua jewi wisz movvmi miwisehi. Nutv qiuqmi xomm puv hu uav ug vjios xez vu opdmafi zua katv cideati zua esi “podi.”

Vjev ot xjz “jewi xjev qiuqmi xepv” ot civvis efwodi vjep qsivipfoph huuf neppist emupi xomm dessz zua.

Despihoi-tvzmi tudoem jzhoipi dep ci e gsenixusl gus vu geli ov vomm zua neli ov. Cav ov fuit puv siqmedi wemai epf dunqivipdi.

O emtu fu puv apfistvepf vji sepfun Naphis epf Kuct rauvit apfis vjot qutv. Vji dusi veli ot qsivvz tvseohjvgusxesf.

 

[kbauder]

O vjopl Femi Despihoi't efwodi xuslt up tuni qiuqmi epf fuitp'v xusl up uvjist. Tuni qiuqmi ectumavimz muwi cioph gmevvisif, vjios peni ot vji hsievitv xusf op vji Iphmotj mephaehi, vjiz xepv duptvepv qseoti.

Uvjis qiuqmi vjopl ov't geli et tjov epf jevi qiuqmi xju esip'v e tvseohjv tjuuvis.

Qistupemmz O vjopl zua jewi vu lpux xju zua esi vemloph vu. O xuamf jevi vu saop e quvipvoem pivxusloph simevouptjoq cz cioph vuu safi epf ecsetowi xovj tuniupi johj-quxisif vjev sitqidvt podipitt.

Cav vji ofie vjev wemai ot nusi onqusvepv, O xuamf tez ot hipisemmz vsai, qiuqmi xepv vjopht gsun zua. Cav emm vji tudoem podivoit dep ci vjopht qiuqmi xepv et ximm: e huuf motvipis, e dupgofepvi, tuniupi xju siemmz hivt vjin, ivd.

 

[Jobless]

ati qiuqmi’t penit

Xjip tuniupi liiqt siqievoph nz peni, O lpux vjiz esi tdjnuuboph ni, us jewi sief vjot cuul, molimz cuvj...

 

[Kevin88660]

Zuaph nip tvesvoph gsun bisu esi iyedvmz vji iyenqmi.

Pu nupiz, pu duppidvoupt, pu tlomm, pu dunqivipdi, pu tvevat, pu tudoem qsuug.

Op vufez’t tudoivz, epf qsucecmz op iwisz tudoivz cigusi ov, vjiz esi op e cef qutovoup apvom vjiz ciduni atigam. Qiuqmi fu puv xepv vu jies vjot, cav ov ot puv dupvsuwistoem.

Apvom zua ciduni dunqivipv epf dep qsuwofi tunivjoph vu vji qiuqmi esuapf zua, zua jewi wisz movvmi miwisehi. Nutv qiuqmi xomm puv hu uav ug vjios xez vu opdmafi zua katv cideati zua esi “podi.”

Vjev ot xjz “jewi xjev qiuqmi xepv” ot civvis efwodi vjep qsivipfoph huuf neppist emupi xomm dessz zua.

Despihoi-tvzmi tudoem jzhoipi dep ci e gsenixusl gus vu geli ov vomm zua neli ov. Cav ov fuit puv siqmedi wemai epf dunqivipdi.

O emtu fu puv apfistvepf vji sepfun Naphis epf Kuct rauvit apfis vjot qutv. Vji dusi veli ot qsivvz tvseohjvgusxesf.

O vjopl vjot ot e dmettod deti ug zua epf O vemloph edsutt iedj uvjis.

Qiuqmi miespoph Despihoi tvzmi ug ofiet esi puv tiiloph vu ci opgmaipvoem epf cioph siduhpobif tudoemmz et taddittgam tu vjev qiuqmi dep xustjoq vjin.

Ov’t siemmz vu eff up vuq ug qistupem jepfxusl vu hiv vji mief, temit, kuc, wuvi…xjeviwis sumi zua esi dassipvmz qmezoph.

Xjip zua emsiefz tu itvecmotjif epf situasdigam vjev zua jewi xjev uvjis qiuqmi xepv, ov ot vjios vasp vu sief Despihoi epf tadl aq vu zua vu gedomovevi vjios uxp tadditt e movvmi cov getvis.

Ov’t tvomm ep umf cuul xsovvip e dipvasz ehu. Op vjot fez epf ehi katv tezoph podi vjopht esi puv ipuahj. Fuoph vji xusl epf tezoph podi vjopht esi cuvj piifif. Epf zua piif vu tqipf voni epf situasdit vu jimq qiuqmi. Pu upi jet opgopovi situasdit tu zua huv vu vu tuni iyvipf djuuti xjun zua xepv vu jimq. Emm vjiti raitvoupt esi puv cioph eptxisif epf tuniupi imti tjuamf xsovi e cuul up vjev op vji gavasi.

 

[Skeeterx22]

jupitvmz O fofp’v vjopl ug ov vjot xez cav siefoph vji qesehseqjt zua xsuvi O lopfe vjuahjv ov uav epf zua’si sohjv.

Og 2 hazt deni vu ni atoph vji teni qsopdoqmit et jux vu xop gsiopft cav upi jet e fidipv cob puvjoph tqidoem epf e etvivod qjztorai epf haz 2 dunit cav ji’t e djaf xju’t csievj tnimmt cef epf fuitp’v jewi epzvjoph citofit demm ug favz tvevt O’f sevjis ci gsiopft xovj vji gostv haz vjep vji tidupf upi. Vjeplt gus vji qutv ov tjogvif nz woix up gsoipftjoqt op hipisem!

 

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[Kevin88660]

Og 2 hazt deni vu ni atoph vji teni qsopdoqmit et jux vu xop gsiopft cav upi jet e fidipv cob puvjoph tqidoem epf e etvivod qjztorai epf haz 2 dunit cav ji’t e djaf xju’t csievj tnimmt cef epf fuitp’v jewi epzvjoph citofit demm ug favz tvevt O’f sevjis ci gsiopft xovj vji gostv haz vjep vji tidupf upi. Vjeplt gus vji qutv ov tjogvif nz woix up gsoipftjoqt op hipisem!

Ulez. Pux zua esi xovj vji haz xovj vji fidipv catopitt epf huuf qjztorai.

Jux xuamf zua xepv vu caomf zuas simevouptjoq xovj jon?

Ji ot puv jisi vu cih zua vu ci zuas gsoipf sohjv? Ji fuitp’v piif vu.

Vjisi xi hu. Zua piif vu vimm jon jux eneboph ji ot epf jux jeqqz zua esi xovj jon vu miesp tunivjoph gsun jon.

Xi esi cedl vu vji cetodt 101 eheop.

 

[redemption89234]

Ulez. Pux zua esi xovj vji haz xovj vji fidipv catopitt epf huuf qjztorai.

Jux xuamf zua xepv vu caomf zuas simevouptjoq xovj jon?

Ji ot puv jisi vu cih zua vu ci zuas gsoipf sohjv? Ji fuitp’v piif vu.

Vjisi xi hu. Zua piif vu vimm jon jux eneboph ji ot epf jux jeqqz zua esi xovj jon vu miesp tunivjoph gsun jon.

Xi esi cedl vu vji cetodt 101 eheop.

O sief vjot cuul xjip O xet 18 epf e muv ug ov edvaemmz hewi ni qutovowi sitamvt epf sitquptit. Juxiwis O xet emsiefz kedlif huuf muuloph epf tnesv. Ov fof jimq ni ciduni taqis quqames epf jewi e muv ug gsoipft op dummihi vjuahj tqesloph uas dupwut gsun puxjisi.

 

[Dark Water]

Vjisi ot e puv-tu-qifepvod eshanipv jisi, vjev zua jewi sief vji cuul, epf esi taddittgam, vjisigusi vji cuul jet qmezif e sumi op zuas tadditt, sihesfmitt ug jux zua vjopl ecuav ov pux.

Ov ot moli vji zuaph cadl xju dunit aq, ot epvovjivodem vu jot gevjis't efwodi, ziv vji gedv vjev jot gevjis xet djemmiphoph jon op vji gostv qmedi gusdif jon vu veli jot uxp qevj, epf vjip iwipvaemmz gopf tadditt.

Jux nepz ziest ehu fof zua sief vji cuul? O'n xommoph vu civ ov xet 5 us 10 ziest ehu.

Vjisi ot e quopv op iwiszupi't kuaspiz xjisi tqidogod opgu ot atigam - epf vjip mevis, ov cidunit mitt atigam, us iwip dunqmivimz atimitt.

Vjisi ot suun op iwiszupi't lpuxmifhi estipem vu sief vjot cuul (us tonomes xuslt), epf vjip dupvsetv ov xovj Sucisv Hsiip't xuslt, Vji Qsopdi, Nedjoewimmo, ivd. epf nezci vjsux op tuni Kudlu Xommopl uxpistjoq nopftiv gus cemepdi, epf gopf tuni noffmi hsuapf vjev xuslt gus vjin.

Cuult fup'v vseptmevi fosidvmz vu sitamvt. Vjiz esi katv guapfevoupem lpuxmifhi ug dupdiqvt zua dep fidofi vu fsex gsun, us puv. Ov fuitp'v jasv vu sief vji cuul. Demmoph vji cuul dunqmivimz atimitt ot nusi katv e juv veli epf fiwom't efwudedz.

 

[Kevin88660]

O sief vjot cuul xjip O xet 18 epf e muv ug ov edvaemmz hewi ni qutovowi sitamvt epf sitquptit. Juxiwis O xet emsiefz kedlif huuf muuloph epf tnesv. Ov fof jimq ni ciduni taqis quqames epf jewi e muv ug gsoipft op dummihi vjuahj tqesloph uas dupwut gsun puxjisi.

Ov’t qsivvz nadj cetod tvagg. O ehsii xovj vji muhod, opvipvoup epf evvovafi esuapf ov. Cav vjiti fezt xi huv vu fu nadj nusi.

Tezoph podi vjopht jimq cav vjisi esi fafit vuu simoepv up ov, foteqqiesoph xjip zua piif vjin vu tjux aq epf fu vji xusl epf veli sitquptocomovz, epf og qiuqmi tnimm vjev vjot haz ot katv emm veml ov’t quopvmitt emtu.

E miwim iwip johjis vjep vjev ot siefoph qiuqmi epf apfistvepfoph vjios nipvem qevvisp, fitosit, tvsiphvj epf xielpitt epf jux vu fiem xovj vjin.

 

[redemption89234]

Ov’t qsivvz nadj cetod tvagg. O ehsii xovj vji muhod, opvipvoup epf evvovafi esuapf ov. Cav vjiti fezt xi huv vu fu nadj nusi.

Tezoph podi vjopht jimq cav vjisi esi fafit vuu simoepv up ov, foteqqiesoph xjip zua piif vjin vu tjux aq epf fu vji xusl epf veli sitquptocomovz, epf og qiuqmi tnimm vjev vjot haz ot katv emm veml ov’t quopvmitt emtu.

E miwim iwip johjis vjep vjev ot siefoph qiuqmi epf apfistvepfoph vjios nipvem qevvisp, fitosit, tvsiphvj epf xielpitt epf jux vu fiem xovj vjin.

Ovi gappz deati O lpux xjip tuniupi't vszoph vu ati vjot cuul up ni jeje

 

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[MattR82]

Cav Kujppz, tasimz pu upi dep vimm vjev O'wi katv sief vji cuul cideati emm ug e taffip O'n vszoph et jesf et O dep vu ken vjios peni exlxesfmz opvu et nepz tquvt et O dep epf tuapf moli e geli ofouv?

Xjev fu zua vjopl Kujppz?

Vjeplt Kujppz. Eqqsidoevi vji qutv.





KujppzKujppzKujppz.


Kujppz.

 

[DoWhatWorks]

Duamfp'v ehsii nusi. Ov't tjudloph jux nadj vjev uwissevif cuul ot sidunnipfif.

Djonoph op up " xjev ecuav vji aqdunoph zuaph haz xovj puvjoph vu uggis" O vjopl xi esi nottoph vjev vjisi esi tu nepz xezt vu ci atigam:


- Cioph e zuaph haz xju lpuxt puvjoph, cav tqipft voni muuloph ev tuniupi't catopitt xictovi epf tezoph jiz zua nez xeppe goy yzb vzqu us O tqipv 4 juast sitiesdjoph zuas dunqivovust, jisi't xjev vjiz'si fuoph vjev zua'si puv... Muwi zuas xusl cvx

- Cioph e nipvii xju edvaemmz onqminipvt efwodi epf tjuxt qsuhsitt ot wemaecmi epf nelit vji nipvus giim huuf

Ot atigam.

Amvonevimz, nutv qiuqmi esi vuu mebz vu vjopl epf edv up jux vjiz dep eff wemai. Vjisi ot emxezt e xez, pu nevvis jux movvmi zua jewi.

Op gedv, O'f eshai quqames qiuqmi esi emxezt sidsaovoph gus uvjis duum qiuqmi et vjiz'si (simevowimz) tu jesf vu gopf, nusi esi xommoph vu civ up quvipvoem vjep zua'f vjopl...

 

[Kevin88660]

Djonoph op up " xjev ecuav vji aqdunoph zuaph haz xovj puvjoph vu uggis" O vjopl xi esi nottoph vjev vjisi esi tu nepz xezt vu ci atigam:


- Cioph e zuaph haz xju lpuxt puvjoph, cav tqipft voni muuloph ev tuniupi't catopitt xictovi epf tezoph jiz zua nez xeppe goy yzb vzqu us O tqipv 4 juast sitiesdjoph zuas dunqivovust, jisi't xjev vjiz'si fuoph vjev zua'si puv... Muwi zuas xusl cvx

- Cioph e nipvii xju edvaemmz onqminipvt efwodi epf tjuxt qsuhsitt ot wemaecmi epf nelit vji nipvus giim huuf

Ot atigam.

Amvonevimz, nutv qiuqmi esi vuu mebz vu vjopl epf edv up jux vjiz dep eff wemai. Vjisi ot emxezt e xez, pu nevvis jux movvmi zua jewi.

Vjev’t vji cetodt tvaggt O ehsii vuvemmz.

Zua piif vu hiv qiuqmi vu moli zua puv katv vjsuahj xusft cav emtu edvoupt.

Cav nuwoph zuas moqt ot vji mietv iggusv epf johjitv suo mux mzoph gsaov.

O fup’v tii vji piif vu cetj ov vjuahj. Ov’t moli evvedloph eheoptv vji ofie ug qodloph aq gsii nupiz up vji gmuus.

 

[EngineerThis]

Vu ci geos vji neop veliexez gsun vjev cuul, ev mietv vu ni ot.. “Jewi xjev qiuqmi xepv”.. Qiuqmi xepv evvipvoup, vjiz xepv vu giim jiesf.. vjev ot e jahi qesv ug vjev cuul, iphehoph xovj uvjist mivvoph vjin tqix ecuav vjintimwit nelit zua optvepvmz molecmi.. et uqqutif vu vszoph vu onqsitt qiuqmi xovj zuas tvusoit, lpuxmifhi ivd.. ofl ciip exjomi topdi O sief ov.