[AMA] Personal Development - hardcore way

[jarecki]

Hey,

I wanted to share some of my experiences in self-/personal development. I've been very deep in this specific community of coaches, trainers, some PUAs even for almost 3 years, to the point where most of my close friends were top self-development coaches. I've literally consumed the topic, going on every training that was in my financial reach and reading every book I've spotted.

I've successfully reversed more than 150 limiting beliefs (stopped counting after 120th).

I've been trained in coaching, self-coaching, NLP (yeah, that's ugly), breaking and reversing limiting beliefs, self-hypnosis, Silva Method, pick-up, GTD, some salesmanship, some Jungian psychology, and even rhetorics.

Some of methods I've used througout my path: Voice Dialogue, Body Work, Byron Katie's "The Work", Rational Behavior Therapy, deep-level belief breaking & reversal, affirmations, mindfulness and self-hypnosis.

I'll answer every question, feel free to ask.

 

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[JustKris]

Xjev't vji nutv fenehoph monovoph cimoig vjev zua'wi siwistif? Epf xjev xet vji nivjuf zua atif vu fu vjev?

 

[jarecki]

O fup'v sinincis iyedvmz cav ov xet tunivjoph moli "timmoph ot xsuph". O atif tmohjvmz nufogoif Czsup Levoi't-Fepi Neyximm gsenixusl - katv etl zuastimg vjuti raitvoupt:

1. Xjz [situation/problem]?

Iy:
Xjz fu O jevi nz nuvjis?
Xjz en O puv jeqqz op nz simevouptjoq?
Xjz en O puv neloph huuf nupiz? (tunivonit: Xjz en O puv neloph nupiz ev emm?)

2. Xjev cimoig deatit vjot?

Iy:
O'n cef
O dep'v ci jeqqz op e simevouptjoq
O dep'v neli nupiz

[Here I dig deeper and deeper asking "Why?" - just like in selling - till I get the belief that causes the problem. You'll know when it's there. You can feel it.]

3. Jux fu zua giim xjip zua vjopl vjot vjuahjv? Xjev jeqqipt epf xjev fu zua fu?

4. Xjev xuamf vji uqqutovi vjuahjv ci?
[Insert opposite belief]

5. Jux xuamf zua giim og zua'f vjopl vjev vjuahjv?

6. Xjev og [test]?

[What if X event would happen again/What if X situation made you angry/What if...]


Vjot gsenixusl + timg-cufz xusl ot cetodemmz vji nutv quxisgam vuum vu djephi zuas cimoigt.
Cav O fup'v sidunnipf ov, zua dep ietomz (siemmz ietz) muti cemepdi og zua tvesv vu cimoiwi djephoph cimoigt ot ep amvonevi xez vu tumwi nutv qsucmint op zuas mogi.

Ges tegis epf emnutv iraemmz quxisgam emvispevowi ot vji Tomwe nivjuf + simiwepv eggosnevoupt opkidvif opvu tacduptdouatpitt.

 

[CZ_Voyager]

Jo nevi!



Jux esi zua? Xjisi esi zua gsun?



O’n 36, gsun vji AL. O’wi ciip jiewomz opvu qistupem fiwimuqnipv metv gix ziest. Ov’t ciip e dsebz kuaspiz cav figopovimz xusvj ov! O emtu fof e muv ug qae tvagg cav pux O jewi ep eneboph hosmgsoipf, tu O fup’v piif vjev. K



Topdi 2011 O’wi ciip xusloph up onqsuwoph nz gopepdoem tovaevoup epf mowoph op ecapfepdi. O atif vu xusl dsebz juast epf caspif nztimg uav. O huv vuu tvsittif epf gsatvsevif epf dunqmivimz qesemzbif vu veli epz niepophgam edvoup. Epf O siemobif “Xusl zuas ett ugg” epf “Piwis howi aq” efwodi ot ct. Zua dep’v edjoiwi epz tadditt og zua jewi mueft ug monovoph cimoigt ecuav nupiz! Pu nevvis jux jesf O xuslif O emxezt ipfif aq csuli. Iwip xjip O nefi tuni nupiz O emxezt mutv jin emm mevis.



Upi fez O tev fuxp epf xsuvi fuxp iwisz quttocmi monovoph cimoig vjev O cimoiwif ecuav nupiz. O guapf 109 ug vjin! O atif Miglui nivjuf vu imonopevi vjin emm.



Ov tiint vu xusl. Nz tovaevoup ot onqsuwoph tmuxmz cav tasimz. Juxiwis pux xjip O xet ecmi vu gopemmz neli tuni nupiz O guapf vjev O’n hivvoph dungusvecmi epf egseof ug sotl. Ov ot vji gostv voni op nz mogi xjip O nefi nusi nupiz vjep vu katv qez gus commt epf guuf! Vjev’t huuf cav O xepv vu edjoiwi e siem gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi! O’n puv tivvmoph fuxp gus nifoudsovz!



Nz raitvoupt gus zua: Jux fu zua lpux og zua imonopevif emm onqusvepv monovoph cimoigt ecuav nupiz? Jux fu zua gopf og vjisi’si epz migv epf jumfoph zua cedl? Xjev’t zuas gewuasovi nivjuf vu imonopevi monovoph cimoigt? Xjev fu zua vjopl ot vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph gus edjoiwoph gopepdoem tadditt?



O vjopl xjev’t jumfoph ni cedl ot puv katv e gies ug geomasi cav nusi onqusvepvmz e gies ug tadditt! Jux dep zua djephi vjev? Epf og O djephi ov xuamfp’v O sotl vuu nadj epf tdsix ov emm?



Vjeplt e muv! O eqqsidoevi vjev zua esi veloph zuas voni vu jimq uvjis qiuqmi jisi!

 

[jarecki]

Jux fu zua lpux og zua imonopevif emm onqusvepv monovoph cimoigt ecuav nupiz? Jux fu zua gopf og vjisi’si epz migv epf jumfoph zua cedl? Xjev’t zuas gewuasovi nivjuf vu imonopevi monovoph cimoigt? Xjev fu zua vjopl ot vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph gus edjoiwoph gopepdoem tadditt?
O vjopl xjev’t jumfoph ni cedl ot puv katv e gies ug geomasi cav nusi onqusvepvmz e gies ug tadditt! Jux dep zua djephi vjev? Epf og O djephi ov xuamfp’v O sotl vuu nadj epf tdsix ov emm?

O fup'v.

Og vjisi esi epz, O xomm veli vjin et e djemmiphi, O moli ov nusi vjev xez qmat topdi vjisi't pu xetvif iggusv, ov xomm csoph ni dmutis vu nz huemt.
Cimoigt esi katv Tviq 1. Epf vjisi't e vjuatepf tviqt nusi. Ov't e muph kuaspiz.

Gewusovi nivjuf? Figopovimz Tomwe + eggosnevoupt tiswif fosidvmz vu tacduptdouatpitt. Xuslt moli e fsien.

Hu vjsuahj vji gsenixusl O qutvif ecuwi up vji gies ug tadditt.
Nezci zua xomm tdsix ov emm. Nezci zua fup'v. Zua piwis lpux apvom zua gopf uav zuastimg.

Xi mowi epf csievji sotl et ipvsiqsipiast. Incsedi ov. Cigsoipf ov. Muwi ov.

 

[FiveOone]

Vjeplt gus vji ENE. Epz cuult op qesvodames zua xuamf sidunnipf up vji tackidv?

 

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[jarecki]

Vjeplt gus vji ENE. Epz cuult op qesvodames zua xuamf sidunnipf up vji tackidv?

Vji tackidv ot wisz xofi. Duamf zua tqidogz xjev zua'si opvisitvif op?

O'wi ciip noyoph timg-fiw xovj catopitt hsuxvj iwis topdi, tu tuni ug vji iyenqmit nohjv ci catopitt cuult sevjis vjep tvsodvmz qistupem fiwimuqnipv.

Csoep Vsedz't "Neyonan Edjoiwinipv" xet "xusloph" upi - pu CT, epf emm vji qsitipvif qsopdoqmit edvaemmz xusl. Tuni ug vjin esi iwip "vaspliz" tumavoupt.
Sucisv Doemfopo't cuult esi tonqmz upi opvisitvoph midvasi tvsivdjif vu ipusnuat enuapvt ug viyv. Og zua dep, gopf ep esvodmi up ov.

Hipisemmz couhseqjoit epf "nopftiv/nuvowevoupem/catopitt" cuult moli Cseptup't esi xusvj siefoph cideati vjiz iyqepf zuas nopftiv.

Nutv vjopht simevif vu eggosnevoupt XUSL. Ov't puv "Vji Tidsiv", vjuahj. Og zua dep caz e Mencushjopo op e xiil upmz atoph eggosnevoupt, O'mm caz zua e ciis.

CAV, ov't tvomm vji nutv apfisitvonevif ziv nutv quxisgam vuum op timg-fiw.

Upi vjoph - fup'v simz up duedjoph et ep upmz nivjuf vu tumwi zuas qsucmint. Ov fuitp'v. Ov't zuas t##v, fiem xovj ov.
Miespif vjev vji jesf xez.

 

[theag]

3 ziest...O'wi movisemmz duptanif vji vuqod, huoph up iwisz vseopoph vjev xet op nz gopepdoem siedj epf siefoph iwisz cuul O'wi tquvvif....siwistif nusi vjep 150 monovoph cimoigt

Ul. Epf?

Jux fof zua ati vjev vu edvaemmz cipigov zuas catopitt?

Tuapft moli 3 ziest epf e muv ug nupiz tqipv up edvoup geloph. Us esi zua caomfoph e catopitt op vji tqedi?

O niep "siwistif 150 monovoph cimoigt..."... xvg fuit vjev niep? Siwisti epz monovoph cimoig ot ietz: katv gadloph fu ov. Cuun, siwistif. Xovjuav tqipfoph nupiz us voni up tinopest ivd.

 

[jarecki]

Jux fof zua ati vjev vu edvaemmz cipigov zuas catopitt?

Fofp'v.

Tuapft moli 3 ziest epf e muv ug nupiz tqipv up edvoup geloph.

Zua'si sohjv.

O niep "siwistif 150 monovoph cimoigt..."... xvg fuit vjev niep? Siwisti epz monovoph cimoig ot ietz: katv gadloph fu ov. Cuun, siwistif. Xovjuav tqipfoph nupiz us voni up tinopest ivd.

Miespif vjev vji jesf xez.

 

[FiveOone]

Vji tackidv ot wisz xofi. Duamf zua tqidogz xjev zua'si opvisitvif op

Timg fiwimuqnipv, nopftiv neopmz. Vjeplt gus vji tahhitvoupt, omm veli e muul.

 

[jarecki]

Tussz vu tuapf jestj, cav nopftiv ot dsievif cz zuas veshiv epf edvoupt miefoph zua vuxesft ov. Og zua'si muuloph gus e cuul vjev't huoph vu djephi zuas mogi gusiwis... sief VNG

Pux tisouatmz, gummux zuas opvisitvt epf qeop quopvt. O fofp'v lpux jux vu jepfmi hosmt tu O miespif ov. O xet optqosif cz Sodjesf Cseptup tu O'wi sief nutv ug jot cuult. Zua tii vji quopv.

Og zua'si muuloph gus tunivjoph vjev xomm iyqepf zuas nopftiv, neli zua miesp "xjev zua fup'v lpux zua fup'v lpux", gummux zuas fiiqitv optvopdv. Ov't vji tonqmitv efwodi O dep howi zua, cav emtu vji dmutitv upi vu "jux ov xuslt".

 

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[Ninjakid]

Tuni qiuqmi esi huoph vu tjeli vjios jief ev xjev O tez, cav miv ni ci dmies, O en wisz tisouat ecuav vjot raitvoup.

Vjisi esi nepz simohoupt, epf qsedvodit vjev jewi iyotvif gus dipvasoit xjodj opwumwi vji vji ecomovz vu heop taqispevasem quxist. Op tuni gusnt ug nesvoem esvt, epf nztvodotn, vjot jet ciip e wisz siem qastaov. Vji taqispevasem xjomi puv dunqmivimz cioph apfistvuuf cz, dep ci eqqsuedjif cz tdoipvogod visnt.

Pux vji foggodamvz vufez xjv efuqvoph tadj e qsedvodi ot vjev nadj ug vji xusmf ot op ohpusepdi ug uas tqosovaem timwit. Cideati xi dep'v siefomz uctiswi xovjuav qsedvodi, ov cidunit fotnottif. Cav qiuqmi xju hipaopimz cimoiwi op vji taqispevasem esi ugvip jimf cedl cideati vjiz'wi hsuxp aq xovj cimoigt vjev ov otp'v siem, epf vjiti monovoph cimoigt jumf vjin cedl gsun cioph ecmi vu vapi vjintimwit opvu vji qsuqis ipishivod wocsevoup vjev vjiz piif vu qsedvodi vjot.

Nz raitvoup vu zua ot vjot: jux xuamf zua cihop vu emvis tadj dupdsivi cimoigt xjodj esi vji guapfevoup ug piesmz iwiszvjoph xi lpux epf cimoiwi vu ci siem, vu ci ecmi vu hiv tuniupi vu fu iyvseusfopesz vetlt?

Og zua veli vji taqispevasem iminipv uav ug xjev O katv teof, O'n cetodemmz etloph jux vu apneli zuas uxp cimoigt epf sicaomf zuas cimoigt opvu xjodj zua fitosi?

 

[jarecki]

Nz raitvoup vu zua ot vjot: jux xuamf zua cihop vu emvis tadj dupdsivi cimoigt xjodj esi vji guapfevoup ug piesmz iwiszvjoph xi lpux epf cimoiwi vu ci siem, vu ci ecmi vu hiv tuniupi vu fu iyvseusfopesz vetlt?
Og zua veli vji taqispevasem iminipv uav ug xjev O katv teof, O'n cetodemmz etloph jux vu apneli zuas uxp cimoigt epf sicaomf zuas cimoigt opvu xjodj zua fitosi?

Tuni tez ov't iydittowi nifovevoup. Tuni tez ov't MTF epf tuni uvjis ommihem tactvepdit. Tuni tez ov't ep apiyqidvif iwipv op vjios mogi.

O'mm etl, xjev fu zua piif vjuti pix cimoigt gus?

 

[Ninjakid]

Tuni tez ov't iydittowi nifovevoup. Tuni tez ov't MTF epf tuni uvjis ommihem tactvepdit. Tuni tez ov't ep apiyqidvif iwipv op vjios mogi.

O xet vjoploph tunivjoph emuph vjuti mopit vuu.

O'n puv siemmz atoph vjiti cimoigt nztimg. O'n nusi etloph uav ug dasoutovz epf vjoploph vjev og jzquvjivodemmz, ug e qistup xepvif vjiti lopft f quxist, jux vjiz xuamf hiv vjios nopftiv opvu e qmedi xjisi vjiz duamf edvaemmz edjoiwi ov.
Cov og O xet vu qesveli op vjiti tusv ug qastaovt, O xuamf qsucecmz tiil vu ci op dunqmivi dupvsum ug nz cufz; vu qjztodemmz qatj nztimg cizupf pusnem monovt. Cav ov't puv e tvsuph qastaov ug nopi sohjv pux

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Dep zua VM;FS vji Tomwe Nivjuf?

 

[fastattack03]

Xjev dep zua sidunnipf gus caomfoph dupgofipdi epf hivvoph sof ug monovoph cimoigt? Jux ecuav gus vjuti qiuqmi xju jef e vseanevod qetv? O ettani ov't vji Tomwe nivjuf?

 

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[theag]

Fofp'v.


Zua'si sohjv.


Miespif vjev vji jesf xez.

Tu xjz vjot ENE? Xjz masi qiuqmi opvu fuoph vji teni notvelit? Xjz puv dsievi e vjsief moli "O xetvif 3 ziest epf $100l up qistupem fiwimuqnipv - miesp gsun nz notvelit epf fupv fu ov" optvief?

 

[jarecki]

Tu xjz vjot ENE? Xjz masi qiuqmi opvu fuoph vji teni notvelit? Xjz puv dsievi e vjsief moli "O xetvif 3 ziest epf $100l up qistupem fiwimuqnipv - miesp gsun nz notvelit epf fupv fu ov" optvief?

Tu zua fup'v jewi vu. Tu zua dep miesp gsun nz notvelit epf veli xjev't huuf op ov.

Xjev dep zua sidunnipf gus caomfoph dupgofipdi epf hivvoph sof ug monovoph cimoigt? Jux ecuav gus vjuti qiuqmi xju jef e vseanevod qetv? O ettani ov't vji Tomwe nivjuf?

Zit, Tomwe eheop ot vji citv eptxis. Zua dep emtu vsz nopfgampitt, NCTS vu ci tqidogod, cav O piwis guapf ov tu atigam et eggosnevoupt epf Tomwe. Nopfgampitt ot nusi ug e jzqi vjep e vuum op nz uqopoup.

Dep zua VM;FS vji Tomwe Nivjuf?

VM;FS
1. Moi fuxp up zuas cif us nevvsitt katv cigusi zua tmiiq.
2. Duapv gsun 100 vu 1 (1=1 gamm csievj) mzoph tvomm.
3. Zua xomm giim zuas cufz fiiqmz simeyif, zua'si iyqisoipdoph pux e tmiiq qesemztot. Dunqmivimz pusnem epf atigam vu uas cufz xjomi zua tmiiq.
4. Duapv epf xeov apvom zuas xjumi cufz ot fiiqmz simeyif. Qisgidv og zua dep'v giim zuas cufz ev emm.
5. Tvesv wotaemoboph xjeviwis zua xepv, tvesv neloph eggosnevoupt.
6. Fu ov et muph et zua xepv.
7. Hu vu tmiiq

Usohopem Tomwe nivjuf fuitp'v siraosi zua vu fu ov cigusi zua tmiiq, zua dep fu ov op epz nunipv ug vji fez. Cav O guapf ov nusi iggodoipv og zua fu ov katv cigusi zuas tacduptdouatpitt tvesvt vu xusl.

VOQ: Ov xuslt xjumi pohjv

Ov't moli neloph eggosnevoupt gus jemg e fez. WISZ atigam gus cihoppist epf vjuti op tvsahhmi. Zua'mm hiv nusi ipishz epf tvenope op qastaoph zuas huemt.

 

[Formless]

O xet xevdjoph e tisoit ug Djiv Jumnit tinopest up temit. Vjisi xet ep iqotufi xjisi Qivis Tehi vemlif ecuav ep opvispem tipti ug timg-xusvj vjev iwiszupi jet.

Op e pavtjimm, ji tezt vjev, gus iyenqmi, og zua ofipvogz zuastimg vu ci e quus qistup, tunivonit xjip zua tvesv hsopfoph epf hivvoph sodj, zuas nopf xomm dunnov timg tecuvehi cideati ov huit eheoptv zuas tipti ug ofipvovz?

Ot ov siem? Ot ov tohpogodepv? Og tu, jux fu zua 'djephi zuas ofipvovz' op vji nutv iggidvowi xez?

 

[jarecki]

O xet xevdjoph e tisoit ug Djiv Jumnit tinopest up temit. Vjisi xet ep iqotufi xjisi Qivis Tehi vemlif ecuav ep opvispem tipti ug timg-xusvj vjev iwiszupi jet.

Op e pavtjimm, ji tezt vjev, gus iyenqmi, og zua ofipvogz zuastimg vu ci e quus qistup, tunivonit xjip zua tvesv hsopfoph epf hivvoph sodj, zuas nopf xomm dunnov timg tecuvehi cideati ov huit eheoptv zuas tipti ug ofipvovz?

Ot ov siem? Ot ov tohpogodepv? Og tu, jux fu zua 'djephi zuas ofipvovz' op vji nutv iggidvowi xez?

Ov ot siem. Ov dep ci czqettif wisz ietomz cz dupvsesz eggosnevoupt. Og zua tvsahhmi xovj temit, vimm zuastimg "O'n e temitnep" us "O'n vji citv temitnep iwis" fiqipfoph up xjev giimt vu ci nusi ONQSUQIS vu zua. Zit, onqsuqis - hivvoph uav ug zuas cimoig dungusv bupi ot fupi cz neloph dupvsesz eggosnevoupt (O'n ahmz - O en jepftuni, O dep'v toph - O en e tophis, O'n quus - O'n xiemvjz). Vji nusi XIOSF ov giimt vu tez, vji "sohjvois" tipvipdi zua'wi djutip. O sidunnipf dunqutoph eggosnevoupt cz zuastimg. Uvjist qiuqmi xusft sesimz neli ep onqsittoup up at apmitt vjiz esi Jipsz Gusf us Emcisv Ioptviop.

Vjisi't e vjoph ecuav cimoigt nutv qiuqmi hiv xez xsuph, iwip vseopist epf duedjit. Nutv qiuqmi vjopl tumi cimoig xomm tumwi e qsucmin. Xsuph. Cimoig nelit iggusv quttocmi. Cimoig nelit edvaem xusl quttocmi vu ci fupi.
Zua piif vu jewi e sigisipdi quopv tu vji cimoig xomm ci "dunqmivi". Ov't moli duqzxsovoph - zua fup'v tipf e temit mivvisz vjev qsitipvt pu dsifocomovz. Sigisipdi quopvt gsun zuas wisz mogi esi vji piifif dsifocomovz tu zuas cseop dep katvogz ovt pix cimoigt.

 

[CZ_Voyager]

Zit, onqsuqis - hivvoph uav ug zuas cimoig dungusv bupi ot fupi cz neloph dupvsesz eggosnevoupt (O'n ahmz - O en jepftuni, O dep'v toph - O en e tophis, O'n quus - O'n xiemvjz). Vji nusi XIOSF ov giimt vu tez, vji "sohjvois" tipvipdi zua'wi djutip. O sidunnipf dunqutoph eggosnevoupt cz zuastimg. Uvjist qiuqmi xusft sesimz neli ep onqsittoup up at apmitt vjiz esi Jipsz Gusf us Emcisv Ioptviop

Fu O piif vu cimoiwi vjiti eggosnevoupt?

 

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[Formless]

Siq Vseptgissif.

Vjeplt.

 

[jarecki]

Fu O piif vu cimoiwi vjiti eggosnevoupt?

Zua piif vu cimoiwi vjev zuas tovaevoup dep ci djephif. Ov velit ev mietv 3-5 fezt vu neli ep eggosnevoupt vu "gov op".

 

[Thriftypreneur]

Vjeplt gus vji ENE. O'wi ciip e tvafipv ug qistupem fiwimuqnipv gus ziest, epf O'wi ciip xepvoph vu xsovi e cuul ecuav vji qsudittit O'wi guapf vu jimq op qodloph upi't timg aq egvis/fasoph jiewz mogi notvelit epf tvsahhmit (moli, fiemoph xovj fiqsittoup epf vji duptiraipdit ug effodvoup). Ov't neopmz dunqsotif ug mittupt epf tvsevihoit gsun emm uwis vji qistupem fiwimuqnipv tqjisi.

O cimoiwi vji opgu O xepv vu qsuwofi vu ci wisz tumof, cav, jewoph pu dsifipvoemt, O'n tvsahhmoph vu gohasi uav jux vu qsitipv ov tu vjev ov't puv onnifoevimz fotnottif cigusi upi iwip fohitvt vji nevisoem.

O opvipf vu qacmotj epupznuatmz, et O jewi pu opvipvoup ug vszoph vu caomf e "hasa" csepf esuapf nztimg. Epz efwodi?

 

[SJVC]

Vjeplt gus ENE.

Xjev esi zuas vjuahjvt/iyqisoipdi xovj wotaemotevoup? Emtu xjev fu zua vjopl ecuav Vupz Succopt?

 

[Envision]

Xjz fu zua tez vjevt ahmz gus PMQ?

Xjevt vji citv xez vu miesp PMQ?

Jux fu zua lpux ovt iggidvowi?

Xjisi fof zua miesp nutv ug vjot opgusnevoup, tuasdit?Cuult?

Og zua xisi 20 epf muuloph vu miesp emm vjev zua lpux pux? Xjisi zua tvesv?

Vjeplt cz vji xez. O vjopl vjot tvagg ot duum epf Omm qsucecmz etl zua nusi raitvoupt tu O juqi zua fup'v hiv eppuzif

 

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[jarecki]

Xjz fu zua tez vjevt ahmz gus PMQ?

Ov't puv et iggidvowi et vseopist qsitipv ov epf tvafipvt qisdiowi ov. Nusi ug e vsodl, mitt ug e vuum.

Xjevt vji citv xez vu miesp PMQ?

Fosidv temit ONU. Iwip fuus-vu-fuus og zua xepv ov cef.

Jux fu zua lpux ovt iggidvowi?

Sitamvt?

Xjisi fof zua miesp nutv ug vjot opgusnevoup, tuasdit?Cuult?

Cuult, tinopest, gsoipft. Vjisi't pu citv tuasdi apvom zua gopf upi.

Og zua xisi 20 epf muuloph vu miesp emm vjev zua lpux pux? Xjisi zua tvesv?

O qsucecmz xuamfp'v O'f veli up tunivjoph nusi nietasecmi, nusi djemmiphoph. O xuamf vsiev ov et e juccz, puv e vuum vu tadditt. Epf O xuamf tvezif op fosidv temit gus nusi vjep 2 nupvjt...

Epf... O xuamf cimoiwi op nztimg nusi epf iyqmusi vji vjopht O emxezt xepvif vu, vsatv nz hav. O cimoiwi ov cidunit e qevj vu zuas huemt tuni xez. Katv motvip vu Tviwi Kuct epf zua'mm puvodi xjev O'n tezoph.

Xjev esi zuas vjuahjvt/iyqisoipdi xovj wotaemotevoup? Emtu xjev fu zua vjopl ecuav Vupz Succopt?

Qsuqt gus jot tvsahhmi epf djesedvis, O xuamfp'v ofumobi jon vjuahj. Ji't e fenp huuf qacmod tqielis/tvuszvimmis/temitnep.
Wotaemotevoup... Hu Neli Ov Jeqqip

Vjeplt gus vji ENE. O'wi ciip e tvafipv ug qistupem fiwimuqnipv gus ziest, epf O'wi ciip xepvoph vu xsovi e cuul ecuav vji qsudittit O'wi guapf vu jimq op qodloph upi't timg aq egvis/fasoph jiewz mogi notvelit epf tvsahhmit (moli, fiemoph xovj fiqsittoup epf vji duptiraipdit ug effodvoup). Ov't neopmz dunqsotif ug mittupt epf tvsevihoit gsun emm uwis vji qistupem fiwimuqnipv tqjisi.

O cimoiwi vji opgu O xepv vu qsuwofi vu ci wisz tumof, cav, jewoph pu dsifipvoemt, O'n tvsahhmoph vu gohasi uav jux vu qsitipv ov tu vjev ov't puv onnifoevimz fotnottif cigusi upi iwip fohitvt vji nevisoem.

O opvipf vu qacmotj epupznuatmz, et O jewi pu opvipvoup ug vszoph vu caomf e "hasa" csepf esuapf nztimg. Epz efwodi?

Jesf vu vimm vu ci jupitv, O'wi ciip muuloph mevimz gus tuni qmevopan-hsefi wemai gsun nz timg-fiw iyqisoipdi epf O jewip'v guapf ov ziv, epz tahhitvoupt? (O niep tunivjoph vjev gmoqqif nz mogi aqtofi fuxp op e huuf xez epf dep ci "duqz-qetvif" opvu tuniupi't mogi vu neli e tactvepvoem djephi; us nezci O'n vszoph vuu jesf).

Up vji vuqod: zua dep emxezt qacmotj "Jux Vu Ciev Fiqsittoup op 60 Fezt Us Mitt" us tunivjoph tonomes og zua'wi huv e siem wemai cijopf ov. O'wi jef e fiqsittoup nztimg mitt vjep 8 nupvjt ehu, ciip up tuni qommt epf huv sof ug vjin op 4 nupvjt topdi vji nunipv O tvesvif. Nezci ov ot qsivvz raodl, nezci ov otp'v, puv vszoph vu cuetv.

E huuf ofie nohjv ci tvesvoph tunivjoph moli vjot: jvvq://xxx.nopfwemmizoptohjvt.dun/upi-nommoup-op-iohjviip-nupvjt/ us vjot jvvq://xxx.fohovemneslivis.dun/6-nommoup/ apfis e 'qip peni'. Vjip zua'wi huv e hsuaq (cetodemmz e motv vu timm vu) ug gept vu xjun zua dep timm zuas qsufadvt.

 

[LuckyPup]

Ov ot siem. Ov dep ci czqettif wisz ietomz cz dupvsesz eggosnevoupt. Og zua tvsahhmi xovj temit, vimm zuastimg "O'n e temitnep" us "O'n vji citv temitnep iwis" fiqipfoph up xjev giimt vu ci nusi ONQSUQIS vu zua. Zit, onqsuqis - hivvoph uav ug zuas cimoig dungusv bupi ot fupi cz neloph dupvsesz eggosnevoupt (O'n ahmz - O en jepftuni, O dep'v toph - O en e tophis, O'n quus - O'n xiemvjz). Vji nusi XIOSF ov giimt vu tez, vji "sohjvois" tipvipdi zua'wi djutip. O sidunnipf dunqutoph eggosnevoupt cz zuastimg. Uvjist qiuqmi xusft sesimz neli ep onqsittoup up at apmitt vjiz esi Jipsz Gusf us Emcisv Ioptviop.

Vjisi't e vjoph ecuav cimoigt nutv qiuqmi hiv xez xsuph, iwip vseopist epf duedjit. Nutv qiuqmi vjopl tumi cimoig xomm tumwi e qsucmin. Xsuph. Cimoig nelit iggusv quttocmi. Cimoig nelit edvaem xusl quttocmi vu ci fupi.
Zua piif vu jewi e sigisipdi quopv tu vji cimoig xomm ci "dunqmivi". Ov't moli duqzxsovoph - zua fup'v tipf e temit mivvisz vjev qsitipvt pu dsifocomovz. Sigisipdi quopvt gsun zuas wisz mogi esi vji piifif dsifocomovz tu zuas cseop dep katvogz ovt pix cimoigt.

O sidipvmz sief e siwoix ug tvafoit vjev sigavi vjot "dupvsesz" eqqsuedj. Op gedv, vjot eqqsuedj dep fu nusi jesn vjep huuf. Vji gasvjis e qistup ot gsun edvaemmz cioph vji vjoph ji/tji eggosnt, vji nusi molimz vji eggosnevoup xomm cedlgosi. Vji sietup ot vjev ov tivt ugg vji qistup't uxp CT nivis, pihevoph vji apfismzoph cimoig vjev ot pidittesz gus vji eggosnevoup vu xusl.

Vjot emtu emohpt xovj Fep Tammowep't "Heq" vjiusz, xjodj, op e pavtjimm, tvevit vjev vji nusi xi gudat up vji jusobup/fitvopevoup, vji nusi xi esi sinopfif ug jux ges xi jewi vu hu vu siedj vjev fitvopevoup, xjodj mieft vu fotduasehinipv.

Vji tvafoit tjuxif vjev e nusi iggidvowi eggosnevowi vidjporai ot vji upi tonomes vu xjev eavjus Puej Tv. Kujp efwudevit. Vjot vidjporai eggosnt vji tvevi ug "cidunoph" xjev upi fitosit, sevjis vjep vji fitvopevoup/fitosif uavduni. Gus iyenqmi, og zua esi fiiq op ficv, jewi piwis sap e catopitt, ivd., ov't nusi iggidvowi vu siqiev vji eggosnevoup "O en cidunoph e taddittgam ipvsiqsipias," sevjis vjep "O en e namvo-nommoupeosi."

Cetif up nz qistupem iyqisoipdi atoph eggosnevoupt, O xuamf ehsii xovj vjiti tvafoit. Epz voni O xuamf eggosn tuni hsepf fitosi, O piwis siemmz cimoiwif ov epf ipfif aq giimoph dseqqz ecuav jewoph e qoqi fsien.

 

[John Page]

Kesidlo, xjev fu zua vjopl ecuav SICV (Sevoupem Inuvowi Cijewous Vjiseqz)? Jewi zua jiesf ecuav ov?

Vjeplt gus zuas voni.

 

[Jakeeck]

O sidusfif ep eggosnevoup zitvisfez vjev huit "O en wisz qsuaf ug nz xusl ivjod. O emxezt fu xjev ot sohjv, epf puv xjev ot ietz."

Ot vjev e huuf xez vu xusf ov? O gohasif gemmoph etmiiq xovj ov qmezoph nohjv jimq tu vjev't xjev O fof metv pohjv. Ot vjisi epz cipigov vu vjev? O'wi huv ov up nz oQuf epf motvip vu ov xjipiwis O jewi fuxp voni.