Self-Development Activities

[Grimaldo]

We have to take ACTION to overcome our fears on daily basis. I have done a list of the best activities we could do to do that. I haven't done all, it's all the information I have gathered. Comment here if a good activity is missing.

1. Daygame - Approach women on the street in daily basis.
2. Introduce yourself to others - Go out and meet other people without reason on the street.
3. Sales Job - No matter what is your business about. Go to the streets and door to door and sell to people, only for the sake of approaching not matter if you are selling airplanes (but always goal oriented).
4. Acting class
5. Public Speaking
6. Clown courses - Yes, clown. That's the one I am most really looking for. I am going to do a full month intensive course on summer. It can help you to give you social freedom and allow you to fully express yourself.
7. Travel alone
8. Workout (I personally don't like it but it can help a lot)


I am only doing daygame, public speaking and I traveled alone.

Daygame it's the best thing I ever done to improve my social skills. I passed from 0 to 10. Women was the thing I feared most in my life. I strongly suggest the daygameblueprint.com if you want to start.

Public speaking is also helping but because I mix it with daygame I cannot say until what point. But it helps you to communicate better.

I traveled alone but long time ago (I didn't do it to grow) so I cannot comment much on this.

I am going to keep track of the other activities when I do them. Please share more activities that helped you and your track record .

 

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[adal]

Xux O fofp'v lpux dmuxp duastit iyotv.

O dep ci siemmz tjz ev vonit epf O guapf ficevoph jimqif ni vu ciduni nusi dupgofipv epf ettisvowi.

 

[Andur]

Vjot ot hsiev. Muwi vji dmuxp duasti ofie.

O'n puv etjenif vu efnov vjev Piom Tvseatt xet qsucecmz vji tiif vjev hsix opvu nz dassipv fitosi vu ciduni ep ipvsiqsipias. Emvjuahj vjot xjumi ofie ug qodl aq esvotvsz evvsedvt nepz apfitosecmi guml, gus ni ov tjuxif ni e xusmf xjisi dupgofipdi epf situmwi vu edv uavtofi ug zuas iyotvoph dungusv cuapfesoit duamf csoph sineslecmi edjoiwinipvt op iwisz etqidv ug upi't mogi. Civvis tvomm, vji tonqmi gedv vjev xi esip'v e tmewi vu uas iyotvoph djesedvis vseovt epf qistupemovoit. Xovj iggusv, upi dep djephi e nopftiv epf siqsuhsen cef jecovt. Tiint ucwouat pux cav ov xet epzvjoph cav ev vji voni.

O atif vu sinincis vjoploph vu nztimg "O'n tjz...epf upi fez O'mm niiv e hosm vjev xomm eqqsidoevi ni gus xju O en." Vjev xet e NETTOWI duq uav. Tasi, zua xomm niiv tuniupi upi fez vjev xomm eqqsidoevi zua cav og zua fup'v moli cioph tjz (epf vjev xet siemmz jux O gimv), vjip zua dep djephi ov. Gasvjis nusi, vjev qistup nez xeml qetv zua e japfsif vonit op vji tvsiiv xjip qisjeqt emm vjev zua piifif vu niiv vjin xet e tonqmi "jimmu."

Epzxez, O'n fohsittoph. Vji quopv ot, dupgofipdi mif ni vu siefoph epf ifadevoph nztimg. Vjot op vasp mif vu si-iwemaevoph iwisz etqidv ug nz mogi, opdmafoph huemt epf nottoupt. Amvonevimz, vjot mif ni vu vji NGM epf jisi O en. O gammz dunnipf zua gus veloph edvoup vu hiv uav ug zuas dungusv bupi. O tii vji cipigovt ug vjot op vji qevj vu cidunoph e taddittgam ipvsiqsipias epf O'n ipduasehif gasvjis vu edv tonomesmz. Katv moli qmezoph e natodem optvsanipv, ov velit duptvepv qsedvodi vu neopveop.

 

[Grimaldo]

O emtu tvesvif xovj timg-hsuxvj tvagg xjip O xet e lof. O emtu sief Vji Heni xjip O xet vzoph vu uwisduni nz tjzpitt xovj xunip.
Ov't ectumavimz gopi vu tvesv jisi, O netvisif nztimg epf O lpux jux uvjis nopft xusl.

gus ni ov tjuxif ni e xusmf xjisi dupgofipdi epf situmwi vu edv uavtofi ug zuas iyotvoph dungusv cuapfesoit duamf csoph sineslecmi edjoiwinipvt op iwisz etqidv ug upi't mogi. Civvis tvomm, vji tonqmi gedv vjev xi esip'v e tmewi vu uas iyotvoph djesedvis vseovt epf qistupemovoit. Xovj iggusv, upi dep djephi e nopftiv epf siqsuhsen cef jecovt. Tiint ucwouat pux cav ov xet epzvjoph cav ev vji voni.

O deppuv ehsii nusi xovj zua. Pu nevvis jux nepz cuult zua sief, vjiusz ot atimitt og zua fup'v veli edvoup. Mowi ot edvoup.

Katv moli qmezoph e natodem optvsanipv, ov velit duptvepv qsedvodi vu neopveop.

Ov tuapft moli e monovoph cimoiwi. Vjisi ot e quopv xjip zua ciduni xjev zua xepv vu ci, epf vjip zua fup'v piif epz iggusv vu neopveop ov, ov't zua pevasem xez ug cioph.

 

[Andur]

Ov tuapft moli e monovoph cimoiwi. Vjisi ot e quopv xjip zua ciduni xjev zua xepv vu ci, epf vjip zua fup'v piif epz iggusv vu neopveop ov, ov't zua pevasem xez ug cioph.

Vjot ot ep opvisitvoph quopv cav O fotehsii vjev ov ot e "monovoph cimoig" vu fitosi duptvepv qsedvodi epf sigmidvoup ug pix jecovt epf vseovt. Vji nunipv vjev zua tvuq sigmidvoph up zuas jecovt epf qistupemovoit ot vji nunipv vjev zua tvuq hsuxoph et e qistup, pu nevvis jux nadj zua jewi onqsuwif. O ehsii xovj zua vjev disveop jecovt xomm, op voni, ciduni tidupf pevasi cav katv moli vji cef jecovt vjev xi'wi edraosif vjsuahjuav uas ipvosi mowit, vjiti tiinophmz jeqqipif ug vjios uxp eddusf cideati ug ep opecomovz vu sigmidv, duptdouatmz ofipvogz epf effsitt.

O sivasp vu nz natodem optvsanipv epemuhz. Iwip vji xusmf't hsievitv esvotvt dupvopai vu neopveop epf qsedvodi vjios dsegv, edraosif tlommt epf ecomovoit fitqovi vji tadditt vjev vjiz eqqies vu jewi edjoiwif vjsuahj hsievpitt. Ov ot xjip zua cimoiwi vjev zua jewi siedjif vji vuq vjev zua jewi vji hsievitv djepdi ug gemmoph e muph xez.

 

[Grimaldo]

Ul, og xi veml ecuav hsuxvj vjip O dunqmivimz ehsii xovj zua. Cav og xi tez: "duptvepv qsedvodi vu neopveop" ov't puv emxezt vsai. O fup'v jewi vu qsedvodi vu neopveop nutv ug nz hsuxvj. O en puv vji nep O xet cigusi, epf O deppuv hu cedl vu ov pu nevvis xjev O fu, O fup'v goy op vjev cuy epznusi. Ov't moli tezoph vjev e pusnem haz jet vu qsedvodi vu ci pusnem. Ji fuitp'v jet vu fu epzvjoph, piovjis ni.

Cav zit, vu ci emxezt civvis xi natv veli edvoup, tu xi jewi vu qsedvodi duptvepvmz.

 

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