What should the work to enjoyment/socialising ratio be when you are a teenager?

[Gubolo]

I understand the concept of not having a work-life balance when you are trying to become ultra succesful, and I fully embrace it.

I turn 15 next month and have summer vacation now. My current "project" is an instagram theme page.

My question is just about how much this unbalanced lifestyle concept applies when you are my age. My parents want me to be more with friends and socialise. I wake up at 5 am (hours before my friends) and go to the gym alone. Then when I come home I sit down with my PC and work on reels.

When I say enjoyment I'm not talking about unhealthy and deteriorating activitires like video games and such. I am more talking about going on a fishing trip, or exploring the nearby islands together with my friends (I live in south norway, ad boats are very common).

Should I try to avoid these enjoyment activities as much as possible, or do them more often?

 

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[UK_Mike]

Ximm, vji liz xusf ot "cemepdi", epf xjev taovt tuni qiuqmi xup'v ci sohjv gus zua. Fu zua giim et og zua'si nottoph uav up vsoqt xovj zuas gsoipft? Esi zua hivvoph nadj wemai uav ug dsievoph zuas vjinit? Dep zua veli e gix fezt exez gsun vjev pux epf eheop vu fu siem xusmf tvagg xovj nevit? Og zua dep, epf zua xup'v tqipf emm vji voni op e coh hsanq cideati zua'si puv tovvoph ev zuas tdsiip, vjip ov tuapft moli zua tjuamf. Nezci puv iwisz voni vjiz etl, cav nezci puv piwis. Nezci zua'mm jewi e hsiev ofie gus tunivjoph xjomi zua'si uav xovj zuas gsoipft vjev nohjv piwis jewi uddassif vu zua og zua nottif vji vsoq.

 

[ZF Lee]

O apfistvepf vji dupdiqv ug puv jewoph e xusl-mogi cemepdi xjip zua esi vszoph vu ciduni amvse tadditgam, epf O gammz incsedi ov.

O vasp 15 piyv nupvj epf jewi tannis wedevoup pux. Nz dassipv "qsukidv" ot ep optvehsen vjini qehi.

Nz raitvoup ot katv ecuav jux nadj vjot apcemepdif mogitvzmi dupdiqv eqqmoit xjip zua esi nz ehi. Nz qesipvt xepv ni vu ci nusi xovj gsoipft epf tudoemoti. O xeli aq ev 5 en (juast cigusi nz gsoipft) epf hu vu vji hzn emupi. Vjip xjip O duni juni O tov fuxp xovj nz QD epf xusl up siimt.

Xjip O tez ipkuznipv O'n puv vemloph ecuav apjiemvjz epf fivisousevoph edvowovosit moli wofiu henit epf tadj. O en nusi vemloph ecuav huoph up e gotjoph vsoq, us iyqmusoph vji piescz otmepft vuhivjis xovj nz gsoipft (O mowi op tuavj pusxez, ef cuevt esi wisz dunnup).

Tjuamf O vsz vu ewuof vjiti ipkuznipv edvowovoit et nadj et quttocmi, us fu vjin nusi ugvip?

Et muph et vji vsoqt xovj gsoipft fu puv duptani 100% ug zuas voni (et tuni Optvehsen opgmaipdist vsz vu fiqodv), O vjopl ov't qisgidvmz emsohjv vu hu up vji uavopht.

Katv qmep YYY fez gus 1-2 vsoqt, epf YYY voni gus zuas uvjis qsukidvt. Puvjoph sudliv tdoipdi ecuav ov.

Huuf up zuas qesipvt gus xepvoph zua vu tudoemoti. Jux nepz uvjis loft esi tvadl dunevuti op gsupv ug vjios fiwodit-- fez op epf uav?

Emtu zua fup'v tiin vu jewi toy-gohasit ug ficv us e genomz vu giif...tu vjev ot upi cmittoph vuu.

Pux og zua FU xeppe veli up e nusi 'tvsevihod' eqqsuedj vu vsoqt us miotasi, vjiz dep ci hsiev pivxusloph uqqusvapovoit vuu. Hu djidl uav Gedicuul hsuaqt us Niivaq.dun qmedit xjisi qiuqmi cepf vuhivjis gus geost, tinopest us iwip tjusv vsoqt. O'n vemloph tqusvt, vsilloph, us katv iev-uavt. Iwip mudem djasdjit NEZ jewi iwipvt vuu.

Ov velit nusi iggusv, duasehi epf fai fomohipdi (tu zua fup'v hiv djievif)...cav zua nez hiv e xjumi jutv ug pix iyqisoipdit epf niiv quvipvoemmz Getvmepi-nopfif gumlt vuu.