Had been inactive here for quite a while - have been actually working and studying. Recently bought the book Ego Is The Enemy by Ryan Holiday on Kindle, and currently reading it. It talks about how ego is disastrous in all three stages of life - aspiring, success and failure. But I was wondering, is he actually wrong? There are many examples of people who did great in their respective fields who are hugely egoistic (or confident? Where lies the difference?) Eg-Zlatan Ibrahimovic.
Lets just take a very prominent example - Ronaldo and Messi.
Ronaldo is often seen as the over-confident and egoistic one. When asked who the best player in the world is - he will proudly say its him. He did that even before he reached so much success. And then there's Messi - the humble one. He will always say that there are countless great people ahead of him. If you are interested in football, you can easily see the polarization in their character. Ronaldo plays (mostly) for himself (not a bad thing) while Messi (mostly) plays for the team.
What approach do you choose? Why? Where does one draw the line between being confident, over-confident and egoistic?
Lets just take a very prominent example - Ronaldo and Messi.
Ronaldo is often seen as the over-confident and egoistic one. When asked who the best player in the world is - he will proudly say its him. He did that even before he reached so much success. And then there's Messi - the humble one. He will always say that there are countless great people ahead of him. If you are interested in football, you can easily see the polarization in their character. Ronaldo plays (mostly) for himself (not a bad thing) while Messi (mostly) plays for the team.
What approach do you choose? Why? Where does one draw the line between being confident, over-confident and egoistic?
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