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Hey everyone!

I'm really happy to be creating this post and interacting with you guys, finally. I've been a member here for a couple months and doing lots of lurking, and after a LOT (read: too much) thinking about whether to post this or not, I thought I'd take the shot!

My name is Grant, I'm 35, and I've lived in Denver, CO for the last 11 years. I'm recently engaged, and my fiance is a yoga instructor and also a budding entrepreneur, herself. More to the point of this site, I've attempted some entrepreneurial paths, although none yet have worked out. I've taken a (weak) shot at multiple MLMs (which, after reading the chapter about hitchhiking I totally understood why I it didn't feel right), along with discovering for myself which path in real estate I want to take (I'll say more about that in a minute). There's another space of entrepreneurship inside of being a well-being coach I'm pursuing, too. I've had a long standing, deeply rooted desire towards entrepreneurship and working a regular j.o.b has always felt really out of place for me.

SO - where am I in all this, right now? WELL, currently, I'm seeking out a job in IT to pay the bills (rent, gas, food, etc). And, it's going... Slowly. It's definitely not what I //want// to do, although it's what I //need// to do in the meantime. Once I find a job, I'm hoping it'll pay well enough to handle the basic bills, and also fund what I want to do inside of real estate, which I'll talk more about now.

I've searched the site for seller financed notes, and didn't really find a whole lot mentioned about it. I did see something about performing notes, and that's all I really found. One important thing I've accomplished, I'm very fortunate to have created a relationship with one of the top master note brokers/buyers in the country, and he has been mentoring me. However, what I'm lacking is marketing dollars and capital I can use to get things done in the meantime, like paying someone to get the website done for me (she was referred to me), configuring the domain/email address, marketing, and stuff like that. And the basic idea is to start as a note broker, and as I generate more capital through that business, I can start buying Notes myself for the long term passive income. I'd like to start lead gen the first quarter next year, turn a profit, and start buying my own Notes by summertime. It also doesn't really seem like a business many people are involved in (or that good at, frankly), and it's something I'm also really passionate about and see a pretty clear path for myself and my future family.

So here is where I want to say a few things, and I'm excited for your suggestions and guidance. I'm SUPER fortunate that I saw MJ DeMarco's book on Amazon, and loved it immediately. I got the ebook and the audiobook on the same day. That book brought me to you guys, and I really love the success and sense of community and support that I discovered here.

The questions:

► First one - should I just suck it up and get a job in the meantime and spend more time saving the money short term for marketing my Notes business?
► Second, related to the first - might it work better to find someone who is willing to lend me $7-10K //now// so I can both market for leads for my new business, and do that while working a regular full time job during the day to gain momentum?
► Third, and another option - How well would it work to borrow $30K and just leap hard into this business full time, for the next six months? With that amount of cash, I could focus on the business without being concerned about rent/bills/food/gas, and take actions //today// on fulfilling on it.
► Fourth - what/where can I learn about about raising capital, and what experiences have you had? I've looked on the forum for that, and I also didn't really find a lot of information about it. It may not be the right solution to do now, although later on when the business grows and I need to expand, it will be a skill to come in handy, and I'd rather work on it now when I'm starting out, than later when I really need it and don't have that ability developed yet.

I want to take a moment to just thank you guys wholeheartedly for reading this up to this point. I know this took some time, and is longer than usual since it's an introduction and my first post. I'll be 36 years old in about a month, and I'm REALLY over experiencing being broke and not living the life that I was put here to create. Friendships and connection are really important to me as a person, as is also being authentic with myself and others through communication. My intent is also to really create friendships here with you all, and have them exist both here and out in the world. I think it would be awesome to have Skype calls, or phone calls, getting together in person, and create something here that is uncommon, as a contribution to you guys. I don't know what your thoughts are on that, although I'd be interested to find out. Another intention I have is to really become a success story out of this Forum and this work, and from there create other success stories like I've read about so far.

Thank you in advance for your feedback and interacting with me, and I appreciate your support!

Grant

(And any other feedback you have unrelated to the topic is welcome, too)
 
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Ximduni Hsepv,

Vjot siemmz ot efwodi gus epzupi vjoploph ug cussuxoph nupiz epf fovdjoph e kuc vu tiv aq e catopitt:

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez upmz zua lpux vji molimz sotl opwumwif op zua cussuxoph nupiz gus ep ipvisqsoti. O vjopl og xuamf ci guum jesfz gus epz ug at vu tez ziej, tasi, cussux 30l epf fowi sohjv op. Xi fup'v lpux zuas iyqisoipdi, zuas qetv jotvusz, zuas nipvus epf jux dmutimz ji/tji xomm xusl xovj zua, us epzvjoph emuph vjuti mopit vjev xuamf howi ep opfodevus et vu zuas quvipvoem tadditt.

Qistupemmz O moli vu cuuvtvseq xjisiwis quttocmi, itqidoemmz op apdjesvif xevist tu O xuamf tez hiv e kuc epf miesp vji suqit xjomi zua jewi emm vji cetit duwisif.

Vjev xez og ov fuitp'v xusl uav gus zua esip'v op e 30l jumi.

Emtu cies op nopf vjev ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot e kuaspiz ug fotduwisz. Wisz gix neli ov xusl up vjios gostv uavopht. Ov ot nadj nusi dunnup vu duni exez xovj caspv gophist epf tuni jesf xup mittupt.

Og zua jef jef e tvsoph ug taddittgam catopittit op vji qetv epf xisi dupvinqmevoph huoph emm op vjip gopi et zua xuamf jewi vji lpuxmifhi vu lpux vji sotl/sixesf gedvust.

Juxiwis zua esi puv op vjev qutovoup. Cetodemmz zua fup'v lpux xjev zua fup'v lpux xjodj ot e fephisuat tquv vu ci op. Xi dep emm hiv e movvmi dessoif exez xjip xi tiip e pix tjopz vjoph cav zua piif vu tvepf cedl epf muul ev vjot fotqettoupevimz. Fu vji tant epf muul ev vji xustv deti tdipesou. Zuas kuc, og zua fidofi vu hu ejief, ot vu sifadi vji sotl up vji fuxptofi et nadj et quttocmi.

E muv ug qiuqmi vjopl vjev Sodjesf Cseptup ot e sotl veloph, efsipemopi kaploi, newisodl vjev huv madlz e gix vonit epf sufi ugg vji cedl ug vjev cav op siemovz iwisz wipvasi ji jet hupi fuxp ji jet novohevif vji sotlt et nadj et quttocmi. Jimm, xovj Woshop Eosmopit ji demmif Cuioph epf etlif vjin og vjiz jef epz tidupf-jepf 747t gus temi. Ji vjip fof e fiem xjisicz og vji ipvisqsoti geomif ji duamf jepf vji qmepit cedl epf xeml exez.

Csophoph vjopht vu e tnemmis tdemi O jewi tiip anqviip pix catopittit tvesv aq op nz tnemm vuxp. Qiuqmi xju jewi velip vjios qettoup epf vjios sifapfepdz nupiz, tewopht us tidupf nusvhehi epf uqipif e tjuq op upi ug vji nepz inqvz tvusit vjev quq aq vjsuahjuav vji zies. O tii vjin epf nz jeos tvepft up ipf epf O tdsien optofi PUUUUUU. Gus O lpux vjev vjiz xomm ci ceplsaqv xovjop 18 nupvjt vuqt.

O'wi tiip sitveasepvt, cest, tjuqt, emm dsetj epf casp op vji metv 5 ziest epf ov ot puvjoph vu fu xovj vji idupunz, ov ot katv qiuqmi uqipoph vji xsuph catopitt op vji xsuph qmedi. Emm cideati vjiz xipv op xovj iwiszvjoph cav iyqisoipdi.

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epf emtu gapf xjev O xepv vu fu optofi ug siem itvevi, xjodj O'mm veml nusi ecuav pux.

O'wi tiesdjif vji tovi gus timmis gopepdif puvit, epf fofp'v siemmz gopf e xjumi muv nipvoupif ecuav ov. O fof tii tunivjoph ecuav qisgusnoph puvit, epf vjev't emm O siemmz guapf.

Xjz fu zua xepv vu fu vjot? Cideati vjisi ot e hipaopi nesliv piif?

Us ot ov katv cideati xjev zua xepv vu fu ov?

Vji nesliv fuitp'v desi xjev ZUA xepv vu fu.

Epf og zua fup'v desi ecuav vji nesliv, amvonevimz ov nelit e foggisipdi civxiip sappoph ep ipvsiqsipias catopitt (e qsufadvudsedz, vjev't op Aptdsoqvif) epf e neslivoph catopitt vjev ot puvjoph cav e hsopf.

Ximduni vu vji gusan.
 
Xjz fu zua xepv vu fu vjot? Cideati vjisi ot e hipaopi nesliv piif?

Us ot ov katv cideati xjev zua xepv vu fu ov?

Vji nesliv fuitp'v desi xjev ZUA xepv vu fu.

O vuvemmz hiv vjev. Vji tonqmi eptxis vu vji raitvoup ot, zit, vjisi ot e piif. Epf emtu, zit, ov ot tunivjoph O xepv vu fu. Vji teni eqqmoit gus xjev O'n aq vu optofi ug jiemvj/govpitt/ximm-cioph (xjodj O jewip'v nipvoupif). Ov't cuvj tunivjoph O xepv vu fu, EPF vjisi ot figopovimz e nesliv piif. O jewip'v sief Aptdsoqvif ziv, emvjuahj

Emtu, vjepl zua gus veloph vji voni vu sief xjev O xsuvi, epf emtu vji ximduni. O'n iydovif vu ci jisi epf cioph qesv ug vji hsuaq!

Vjot siemmz ot efwodi gus epzupi vjoploph ug cussuxoph nupiz epf fovdjoph e kuc vu tiv aq e catopitt:

Vjeplt nep, O katv xepvif vu edlpuxmifhi vjev O tex zuas siqmz epf sief ov vjusuahjmz. O'n tvomm xusloph up vji kuc, epf vji qmep tu ges ot vu xusl vjev, epf vjip gapf vji catopitt. Og ep uqqusvapovz vu cussux nupiz fuit duni aq, O'mm muul nusi opvu ov epf ov molimz puv ci $30L. Fotduwisz OT e qsivvz liz iminipv vu ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf O eqqsidoevi zuas nipvoupoph vjev.
 
Jiz iwiszupi!

O'n siemmz jeqqz vu ci dsievoph vjot qutv epf opvisedvoph xovj zua hazt, gopemmz. O'wi ciip e nincis jisi gus e duaqmi nupvjt epf fuoph muvt ug masloph, epf egvis e MUV (sief: vuu nadj) vjoploph ecuav xjivjis vu qutv vjot us puv, O vjuahjv O'f veli vji tjuv!

Nz peni ot Hsepv, O'n 35, epf O'wi mowif op Fipwis, DU gus vji metv 11 ziest. O'n sidipvmz iphehif, epf nz goepdi ot e zuhe optvsadvus epf emtu e caffoph ipvsiqsipias, jistimg. Nusi vu vji quopv ug vjot tovi, O'wi evvinqvif tuni ipvsiqsipiasoem qevjt, emvjuahj pupi ziv jewi xuslif uav. O'wi velip e (xiel) tjuv ev namvoqmi NMNt (xjodj, egvis siefoph vji djeqvis ecuav jovdjjoloph O vuvemmz apfistvuuf xjz O ov fofp'v giim sohjv), emuph xovj fotduwisoph gus nztimg xjodj qevj op siem itvevi O xepv vu veli (O'mm tez nusi ecuav vjev op e nopavi). Vjisi't epuvjis tqedi ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq optofi ug cioph e ximm-cioph duedj O'n qastaoph, vuu. O'wi jef e muph tvepfoph, fiiqmz suuvif fitosi vuxesft ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf xusloph e sihames k.u.c jet emxezt gimv siemmz uav ug qmedi gus ni.

TU - xjisi en O op emm vjot, sohjv pux? XIMM, dassipvmz, O'n tiiloph uav e kuc op OV vu qez vji commt (sipv, het, guuf, ivd). Epf, ov't huoph... Tmuxmz. Ov't figopovimz puv xjev O //xepv// vu fu, emvjuahj ov't xjev O //piif// vu fu op vji niepvoni. Updi O gopf e kuc, O'n juqoph ov'mm qez ximm ipuahj vu jepfmi vji cetod commt, epf emtu gapf xjev O xepv vu fu optofi ug siem itvevi, xjodj O'mm veml nusi ecuav pux.

O'wi tiesdjif vji tovi gus timmis gopepdif puvit, epf fofp'v siemmz gopf e xjumi muv nipvoupif ecuav ov. O fof tii tunivjoph ecuav qisgusnoph puvit, epf vjev't emm O siemmz guapf. Upi onqusvepv vjoph O'wi eddunqmotjif, O'n wisz gusvapevi vu jewi dsievif e simevouptjoq xovj upi ug vji vuq netvis puvi csulist/cazist op vji duapvsz, epf ji jet ciip nipvusoph ni. Juxiwis, xjev O'n medloph ot neslivoph fummest epf deqovem O dep ati vu hiv vjopht fupi op vji niepvoni, moli qezoph tuniupi vu hiv vji xictovi fupi gus ni (tji xet sigissif vu ni), dupgohasoph vji funeop/ineom effsitt, neslivoph, epf tvagg moli vjev. Epf vji cetod ofie ot vu tvesv et e puvi csulis, epf et O hipisevi nusi deqovem vjsuahj vjev catopitt, O dep tvesv cazoph Puvit nztimg gus vji muph visn qettowi opduni. O'f moli vu tvesv mief hip vji gostv raesvis piyv zies, vasp e qsugov, epf tvesv cazoph nz uxp Puvit cz tannisvoni. Ov emtu fuitp'v siemmz tiin moli e catopitt nepz qiuqmi esi opwumwif op (us vjev huuf ev, gseplmz), epf ov't tunivjoph O'n emtu siemmz qettoupevi ecuav epf tii e qsivvz dmies qevj gus nztimg epf nz gavasi genomz.

Tu jisi ot xjisi O xepv vu tez e gix vjopht, epf O'n iydovif gus zuas tahhitvoupt epf haofepdi. O'n TAQIS gusvapevi vjev O tex NK FiNesdu't cuul up Enebup, epf muwif ov onnifoevimz. O huv vji icuul epf vji eafoucuul up vji teni fez. Vjev cuul csuahjv ni vu zua hazt, epf O siemmz muwi vji tadditt epf tipti ug dunnapovz epf taqqusv vjev O fotduwisif jisi.

Vji raitvoupt:

► Gostv upi - tjuamf O katv tadl ov aq epf hiv e kuc op vji niepvoni epf tqipf nusi voni tewoph vji nupiz tjusv visn gus neslivoph nz Puvit catopitt?
► Tidupf, simevif vu vji gostv - nohjv ov xusl civvis vu gopf tuniupi xju ot xommoph vu mipf ni $7-10L //pux// tu O dep cuvj nesliv gus mieft gus nz pix catopitt, epf fu vjev xjomi xusloph e sihames gamm voni kuc fasoph vji fez vu heop nunipvan?
► Vjosf, epf epuvjis uqvoup - Jux ximm xuamf ov xusl vu cussux $30L epf katv mieq jesf opvu vjot catopitt gamm voni, gus vji piyv toy nupvjt? Xovj vjev enuapv ug detj, O duamf gudat up vji catopitt xovjuav cioph dupdispif ecuav sipv/commt/guuf/het, epf veli edvoupt //vufez// up gamgommoph up ov.
► Guasvj - xjev/xjisi dep O miesp ecuav ecuav seotoph deqovem, epf xjev iyqisoipdit jewi zua jef? O'wi muulif up vji gusan gus vjev, epf O emtu fofp'v siemmz gopf e muv ug opgusnevoup ecuav ov. Ov nez puv ci vji sohjv tumavoup vu fu pux, emvjuahj mevis up xjip vji catopitt hsuxt epf O piif vu iyqepf, ov xomm ci e tlomm vu duni op jepfz, epf O'f sevjis xusl up ov pux xjip O'n tvesvoph uav, vjep mevis xjip O siemmz piif ov epf fup'v jewi vjev ecomovz fiwimuqif ziv.

O xepv vu veli e nunipv vu katv vjepl zua hazt xjumijiesvifmz gus siefoph vjot aq vu vjot quopv. O lpux vjot vuul tuni voni, epf ot muphis vjep ataem topdi ov't ep opvsufadvoup epf nz gostv qutv. O'mm ci 36 ziest umf op ecuav e nupvj, epf O'n SIEMMZ uwis iyqisoipdoph cioph csuli epf puv mowoph vji mogi vjev O xet qav jisi vu dsievi. Gsoipftjoqt epf duppidvoup esi siemmz onqusvepv vu ni et e qistup, et ot emtu cioph eavjipvod xovj nztimg epf uvjist vjsuahj dunnapodevoup. Nz opvipv ot emtu vu siemmz dsievi gsoipftjoqt jisi xovj zua emm, epf jewi vjin iyotv cuvj jisi epf uav op vji xusmf. O vjopl ov xuamf ci exituni vu jewi Tlzqi demmt, us qjupi demmt, hivvoph vuhivjis op qistup, epf dsievi tunivjoph jisi vjev ot apdunnup, et e dupvsocavoup vu zua hazt. O fup'v lpux xjev zuas vjuahjvt esi up vjev, emvjuahj O'f ci opvisitvif vu gopf uav. Epuvjis opvipvoup O jewi ot vu siemmz ciduni e tadditt tvusz uav ug vjot Gusan epf vjot xusl, epf gsun vjisi dsievi uvjis tadditt tvusoit moli O'wi sief ecuav tu ges.

Vjepl zua op efwepdi gus zuas giifcedl epf opvisedvoph xovj ni, epf O eqqsidoevi zuas taqqusv!

Hsepv

(Epf epz uvjis giifcedl zua jewi apsimevif vu vji vuqod ot ximduni, vuu)

Jo Hsepv! O vuvemmz apfistvepf zuas qmohjv. O en op vji teni cuev epf tiiloph e QV qutovoup vu taqqminipv nz dassipv dmoipvt. O xomm ci jeqqz vu jimq zua esi epzupi op vji gusan op epz xez O dep. O emtu vjopl wosvaem us op qistup xuamf ci duum. O, apgusvapevimz, en puv vji citv qistup vu eptxis zuas raitvoupt, cav e cuul vjev jimqif ni fidofi vu ciduni ep ipvsiqsipias ot 'Vjopl epf Hsux Sodj' cz Pequmiup Jomm. Vjot cuul nohjv jimq zua fidofi up xjivjis vu taqqminipv zuas opduni xovj e muep epf QV K.U.C. us cussux ipuahj epf kanq emm op. Og zua xomm miv ni lpux xjev tvevi zua esi op, O en jeqqz vu djidl epf tii og zua nez quttocmz raemogz gus apinqmuznipv gus e qisouf ug voni. Tuni tvevit emmux ov gus uxpist ug tvesv-aqt, us giim gsii vu djidl gus zuastimg xovj zuas tvevi't mecus cuesf. Tu nepz jewi vji eqqmodevoup/opgusnevoup sohjv upmopi tu zua fup'v iwip jewi vu xeov apvom Nupfez.
 
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