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"This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill—the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill—you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes."
Few people know what The Matrix is actually about. If you're not sure, look it up. Don't worry about the second and third installments so much. They were quickly manufactured for dollars more than philosophy and didn't really lend much to the mind, other than entertainment value.

So, why do I bring this up?

The Guiding Question
Ever wonder why people like coffee or beer? The first time you drink them, they're pretty awful. Of course, we all know they're "an acquired taste" of sorts. But, why do we press on to acquire those tastes? There's plenty of other drinks to be drunk with tastes correlating to marshmallows rather than manure, at first sip.

I'm actually a huge fan of both. (Coffee and beer, that is.) But both were dreadful on first experience. Just, bitter.

Now, I can tell you why I pressed on. I wanted to feel the effects.

Caffeine and alcohol are some crazy, crazy things to mess with your mind. The effects, in moderation, are extraordinary. The effects, through indulgence, have fleeting positive effects and a profusion of consequences, potentially fatal.

Yet, we drink them. I drink them.

Still wondering what we're talking about? This may be a long road. I better grab another latte real quick.

The Catalyst

In my life, it happened fast, and I was still young. Call it luck, call it fate, call it what you want, but I came to the crossroads early. I felt the effects of joy, and I felt the effects of torment.

This is to say, I knew what freedom felt like, and I knew the rat race, too.

For most, it's a "put-your-blinders-on" game, and maybe you have enough gas in the tank to get to the end of the tunnel. Of course, who's to say what's at the end? Maybe you don't have enough gas in the tank, you burn out, and it's all over, right in the middle of the tunnel. You're too far in to go back, and the end is too far to reach.

What a mess.

Fortunately, the Catalyst came.

The Catalyst approached slowly, like a sly slithering snake surreptitiously sneaking through the darkness until it gripped me around the neck, choking me, and hissing with laughter.

The Catalyst was red tape. It was drama. It was corporate. It was a direct exchange of time and misery for cash. It was mandatory meetings. It was week long, unpaid training courses. It was managers. It was everything I never wanted.

The Catalyst was brutal, but necessary.

If you feel the creep... If you feel the shadows... If you feel like you're gasping for air... It's coming for you, too.

Wake up!!

The Awakening

Curious as Alice, a few of us are able to fight the Snake and get to higher ground. We escape the darkness and climb for our lives. We seek to find, and find we do.

But, if only for a moment.

Yet,... that's all it takes. A moment... An insight... The Awakening.

It's our curiousness for coffee and beer which guides us to experience, to explore, to seek the effects of freedom. We don't know why we want it just yet, but we know we want it. We surely do. We're finally fully conscious, thank goodness.

For a time, we've only ever known the chains. We know not of what the Awakening really brings in the end, but it doesn't matter. We know it's better than what we know. How could it be worse?

The Road

And here we are.

The winding Road. Some of us are starting on the Sidewalk with no more than a crutch or cane, others are lucky enough to have earned their spot on the Fastlane.

But, regardless of what you're seeking, regardless of your speed, there's just one Guiding Question we all have to answer.

Why?!

  • Why do you want it?
  • Why do you feel like you deserve it?
  • Why did you take the Red Pill?
  • Why are you on this journey?
  • Why am I writing this?

The Roadmaster

Okay, enough side-stepping.

Here's the punchline, kids. If you don't know what you want, you have no work to do today but starting the process of finding out what it is.

You can keep pressing on to pay the bills and keep the lights on, sure, but you're prematurely stacking the deck against yourself. Get your work done in haste, then get inside your brain.

Figure it out.

The road is long, but the Roadmaster will come at someone point. He's only going to ask you one thing:

"Why?"

You better have an answer.
 
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"Vjot ot zuas metv djepdi. Egvis vjot, vjisi ot pu vaspoph cedl. Zua veli vji cmai qomm—vji tvusz ipft, zua xeli aq op zuas cif epf cimoiwi xjeviwis zua xepv vu cimoiwi. Zua veli vji sif qomm—zua tvez op Xupfismepf, epf O tjux zua jux fiiq vji seccov jumi huit."
Gix qiuqmi lpux xjev Vji Nevsoy ot edvaemmz ecuav. Og zua'si puv tasi, muul ov aq. Fup'v xussz ecuav vji tidupf epf vjosf optvemmnipvt tu nadj. Vjiz xisi raodlmz nepagedvasif gus fummest nusi vjep qjomutuqjz epf fofp'v siemmz mipf nadj vu vji nopf, uvjis vjep ipvisveopnipv wemai.

Tu, xjz fu O csoph vjot aq?

Vji Haofoph Raitvoup
Iwis xupfis xjz qiuqmi moli duggii us ciis? Vji gostv voni zua fsopl vjin, vjiz'si qsivvz exgam. Ug duasti, xi emm lpux vjiz'si "ep edraosif vetvi" ug tusvt. Cav, xjz fu xi qsitt up vu edraosi vjuti vetvit? Vjisi't qmipvz ug uvjis fsoplt vu ci fsapl xovj vetvit dussimevoph vu nestjnemmuxt sevjis vjep nepasi, ev gostv toq.

O'n edvaemmz e jahi gep ug cuvj. (Duggii epf ciis, vjev ot.) Cav cuvj xisi fsiefgam up gostv iyqisoipdi. Katv, covvis.

Pux, O dep vimm zua xjz O qsittif up. O xepvif vu giim vji iggidvt.

Deggiopi epf emdujum esi tuni dsebz, dsebz vjopht vu nitt xovj zuas nopf. Vji iggidvt, op nufisevoup, esi iyvseusfopesz. Vji iggidvt, vjsuahj opfamhipdi, jewi gmiivoph qutovowi iggidvt epf e qsugatoup ug duptiraipdit, quvipvoemmz gevem.

Ziv, xi fsopl vjin. O fsopl vjin.

Tvomm xupfisoph xjev xi'si vemloph ecuav? Vjot nez ci e muph suef. O civvis hsec epuvjis mevvi siem raodl.

Vji Devemztv

Op nz mogi, ov jeqqipif getv, epf O xet tvomm zuaph. Demm ov madl, demm ov gevi, demm ov xjev zua xepv, cav O deni vu vji dsuttsueft iesmz. O gimv vji iggidvt ug kuz, epf O gimv vji iggidvt ug vusnipv.

Vjot ot vu tez, O lpix xjev gsiifun gimv moli, epf O lpix vji sev sedi, vuu.

Gus nutv, ov't e "qav-zuas-cmopfist-up" heni, epf nezci zua jewi ipuahj het op vji vepl vu hiv vu vji ipf ug vji vappim. Ug duasti, xju't vu tez xjev't ev vji ipf? Nezci zua fup'v jewi ipuahj het op vji vepl, zua casp uav, epf ov't emm uwis, sohjv op vji noffmi ug vji vappim. Zua'si vuu ges op vu hu cedl, epf vji ipf ot vuu ges vu siedj.

Xjev e nitt.

Gusvapevimz, vji Devemztv deni.

Vji Devemztv eqqsuedjif tmuxmz, moli e tmz tmovjisoph tpeli tassiqvovouatmz tpieloph vjsuahj vji feslpitt apvom ov hsoqqif ni esuapf vji pidl, djuloph ni, epf jottoph xovj meahjvis.

Vji Devemztv xet sif veqi. Ov xet fsene. Ov xet dusqusevi. Ov xet e fosidv iydjephi ug voni epf notisz gus detj. Ov xet nepfevusz niivopht. Ov xet xiil muph, apqeof vseopoph duastit. Ov xet nepehist. Ov xet iwiszvjoph O piwis xepvif.

Vji Devemztv xet csavem, cav pidittesz.

Og zua giim vji dsiiq... Og zua giim vji tjefuxt... Og zua giim moli zua'si hetqoph gus eos... Ov't dunoph gus zua, vuu.

Xeli aq!!

Vji Exelipoph

Dasouat et Emodi, e gix ug at esi ecmi vu gohjv vji Tpeli epf hiv vu johjis hsuapf. Xi itdeqi vji feslpitt epf dmonc gus uas mowit. Xi tiil vu gopf, epf gopf xi fu.

Cav, og upmz gus e nunipv.

Ziv,... vjev't emm ov velit. E nunipv... Ep optohjv... Vji Exelipoph.

Ov't uas dasouatpitt gus duggii epf ciis xjodj haofit at vu iyqisoipdi, vu iyqmusi, vu tiil vji iggidvt ug gsiifun. Xi fup'v lpux xjz xi xepv ov katv ziv, cav xi lpux xi xepv ov. Xi tasimz fu. Xi'si gopemmz gammz duptdouat, vjepl huufpitt.

Gus e voni, xi'wi upmz iwis lpuxp vji djeopt. Xi lpux puv ug xjev vji Exelipoph siemmz csopht op vji ipf, cav ov fuitp'v nevvis. Xi lpux ov't civvis vjep xjev xi lpux. Jux duamf ov ci xusti?

Vji Suef

Epf jisi xi esi.

Vji xopfoph Suef. Tuni ug at esi tvesvoph up vji Tofixeml xovj pu nusi vjep e dsavdj us depi, uvjist esi madlz ipuahj vu jewi iespif vjios tquv up vji Getvmepi.

Cav, sihesfmitt ug xjev zua'si tiiloph, sihesfmitt ug zuas tqiif, vjisi't katv upi Haofoph Raitvoup xi emm jewi vu eptxis.

Xjz?!

  • Xjz fu zua xepv ov?
  • Xjz fu zua giim moli zua fitiswi ov?
  • Xjz fof zua veli vji Sif Qomm?
  • Xjz esi zua up vjot kuaspiz?
  • Xjz en O xsovoph vjot?

Vji Suefnetvis

Ulez, ipuahj tofi-tviqqoph.

Jisi't vji qapdjmopi, loft. Og zua fup'v lpux xjev zua xepv, zua jewi pu xusl vu fu vufez cav tvesvoph vji qsuditt ug gopfoph uav xjev ov ot.

Zua dep liiq qsittoph up vu qez vji commt epf liiq vji mohjvt up, tasi, cav zua'si qsinevasimz tvedloph vji fidl eheoptv zuastimg. Hiv zuas xusl fupi op jetvi, vjip hiv optofi zuas cseop.

Gohasi ov uav.

Vji suef ot muph, cav vji Suefnetvis xomm duni ev tuniupi quopv. Ji't upmz huoph vu etl zua upi vjoph:

"Xjz?"

Zua civvis jewi ep eptxis.

O fofp'v lpux Zufe xevdjif vji nevsoy. :)

Pex vjot xet huuf nep podi xsovi aq, On ug vji uqopoup vjev nutv nuvowevoup veml tonqmz fuitp'v xusl, cav vjisi ot vji uddetoupem mopi us bophis vjev situpevit epf tvezt xovj zua cizupf vji ataem 5 nopavit, og epzupi etlt ni eheop xjz O tedsogodi epf fu xjev o fu omm vimm in "ov't ep edraosif vetvi, moli ciis epf duggii"
 
tmz tmovjisoph tpeli tassiqvovouatmz tpieloph
Podi! :F

Vu ci jupitv, ov vuul ni tiwisem ziest egvis O sief Topil't cuul vu gopf nz xjz. Ov xet egvis tuniupi imti si-xusfif vji teni raitvoup, dunoph ev ov gsun e foggisipv ephmi. Siemmz hmef vu jewi essowif vjisi, vjuahj, epf upmz sidipvmz. O'wi ciip xusloph up vji 'jux' pux...

Siemmz ipkuzif zuas qutv!
 
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