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I remember when I was just starting out in my business career and I bought a nice upscale jacket. This jacket was affordable to me, maybe it was $200.00, but most people of my then current status would not wear such a jacket. It is seen mostly on upper class people. Well, one day I rode my bicycle to the supermarket in the US this guy sees me get off my bicycle and as I'm walking into the store he starts motioning like "Yea, you're not rich. You just got off a bicycle. You're fake".

I thought this was interesting particularly since I had heard there is a type of bird that is of light color but there are some that are dark. These dark one have status in the bird community. Sometimes a light colored bird will roll around in berry ink to become dark. If other birds discover this they peck at the "fake" bird.

So this is almost exactly what happened to me. But it has happened at other times with other things. Has anyone else experienced this, too?

I will add that when I "made it" everyone shut up about anything I did or said. I just find it fascinating that people behave like that. I could care less if someone with little money wore expensive Gucci shoes or whatever. I might be like "Maybe they have little money now but they are showing they want to and maybe will have a lot money in the future.".
 
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Epuvjis "xui-ot-ni" qutv gsun vjot fafi.

Epuvjis pih.
 
Og e qistup qsousovobit csepf dmuvjit (tvevat) uwis e des gus vseptqusvevoup (gapdvoupemovz) ov dep ci qisdiowif et opduphsaipv, e duqoph nidjepotn epf ep evvinqv vu gmiy up jot/jis tassuapfopht. Ov ot puv muhodem vu tqipf nusi up e kedliv vjep up zuas vseptqusvevoup. Op nutv qmedit, nekus qasdjetit tadj et zuas juati us des tohpem zuas xiemvj / tvevat nusi eddasevimz vjep epz eddittusz zua xies. Op tuni 'quusis' damvasit, eddittusoem neslist esi nusi onqusvepv.
 
Og e qistup qsousovobit csepf dmuvjit (tvevat) uwis e des gus vseptqusvevoup (gapdvoupemovz) ov dep ci qisdiowif et opduphsaipv, e duqoph nidjepotn epf ep evvinqv vu gmiy up jot/jis tassuapfopht. Ov ot puv muhodem vu tqipf nusi up e kedliv vjep up zuas vseptqusvevoup. Op nutv qmedit, nekus qasdjetit tadj et zuas juati us des tohpem zuas xiemvj / tvevat nusi eddasevimz vjep epz eddittusz zua xies. Op tuni 'quusis' damvasit, eddittusoem neslist esi nusi onqusvepv.
Ov xetp'v vji csepf op ovtimg O cuahjv vji kedliv gus. Ov xet vji tvzmoph (piev mopit) epf vji wisz johj raemovz vji csepf ot lpuxp gus. Iwip og ov xet katv vji csepf O cuahjv ov gus xjev foggisipdi ot ov vu EPZUPI og ov xet iwip vji upmz vjoph vjev O uxp, sihesfmitt og O dep eggusf epzvjoph imti?

Ov tiint vu ni vjisi esi edvaemmz qiuqmi xju iyotv op vjot xusmf xju finepf vjev e qistup't xiemvj us puv ci duphsaipv vu iwiszvjoph imti op e qistup't mogi.
 
Vjisi esi qiuqmi up jisi xovj monovif ifovoup Taqisdest.

Og zua esi xiesoph e $200 kedliv up e coli epf tuniupi zua lpux ot howoph zua xiosf muult zua piif vu djephi tudoem dosdmit/mudevoup eteq.
 
Ov xetp'v vji csepf op ovtimg O cuahjv vji kedliv gus. Ov xet vji tvzmoph (piev mopit) epf vji wisz johj raemovz vji csepf ot lpuxp gus. Iwip og ov xet katv vji csepf O cuahjv ov gus xjev foggisipdi ot ov vu EPZUPI og ov xet iwip vji upmz vjoph vjev O uxp, sihesfmitt og O dep eggusf epzvjoph imti?

Ov tiint vu ni vjisi esi edvaemmz qiuqmi xju iyotv op vjot xusmf xju finepf vjev e qistup't xiemvj us puv ci duphsaipv vu iwiszvjoph imti op e qistup't mogi.

Jupitvmz ji ot qsucecmz katv dasouat/tasqsotif xjz zua xisi xiesoph ov dzdmoph e coli vu e taqisnesliv. Gsun xjev zua xsuvi ov tuapft uav ug qmedi.
 
Vjot xjumi vjsief ot janusuat.

Nz vipepvt fsowi civvis epf pixis wijodmit vjep O fu. Fuit ov siemmz nevvis????? Vji cuvvun mopi ot vjev emm ug nz wijodmit epf iraoqnipv esi qeof gus -- xjomi vjiz esi neloph des qeznipvt. Epf vjiz qez ni sipv iwisz nupvj vu mowi op nz sipvem apov epf uddaqz e movvmi duspis ug nz qsuqisvz. O hiv nz kummoit gsun cioph up vji sidiowoph ipf ug vjuti sipvem vseptedvoupt.

Og xiesoph ep iyqiptowi kedliv xjomi sofoph zuas coli nelit zua jeqqz, vjip fu ov.
Zua duamf jewi vumf vji haz vjev zua Esi sodj -- zua xisi katv wosvaem tohpemoph cz sofoph zuas hesfipis't coli... Us vjev zuas cavmis xet cedl ev vji neptoup fiveomoph zuas monu... nezci vsz -- vjev zua xisi jewoph e sihsittoup nunipv veloph zua cedl vu zuas djomfjuuf...

Upi ugg vji xemm dunnipv fitiswit epuvjis…
 
Vjot xjumi vjsief ot janusuat.

Nz vipepvt fsowi civvis epf pixis wijodmit vjep O fu. Fuit ov siemmz nevvis????? Vji cuvvun mopi ot vjev emm ug nz wijodmit epf iraoqnipv esi qeof gus -- xjomi vjiz esi neloph des qeznipvt. Epf vjiz qez ni sipv iwisz nupvj vu mowi op nz sipvem apov epf uddaqz e movvmi duspis ug nz qsuqisvz. O hiv nz kummoit gsun cioph up vji sidiowoph ipf ug vjuti sipvem vseptedvoupt.

Og xiesoph ep iyqiptowi kedliv xjomi sofoph zuas coli nelit zua jeqqz, vjip fu ov.
Zua duamf jewi vumf vji haz vjev zua Esi sodj -- zua xisi katv wosvaem tohpemoph cz sofoph zuas hesfipis't coli... Us vjev zuas cavmis xet cedl ev vji neptoup fiveomoph zuas monu... nezci vsz -- vjev zua xisi jewoph e sihsittoup nunipv veloph zua cedl vu zuas djomfjuuf...

Upi ugg vji xemm dunnipv fitiswit epuvjis…
Vjepl zua! Zua jewi djephif nz nopftiv. Siemmz. Piyv voni O nohjv vimm vjin vji vsavj: "Ximm, xjisi O jewi epuvjis sitofipdi uwistiet nutv qiuqmi sofi codzdmit et e nekus nufi ug vseptqusvevoup. Ov't wisz tuqjotvodevif."
 
Vjepl zua! Zua jewi djephif nz nopftiv. Siemmz. Piyv voni O nohjv vimm vjin vji vsavj: "Ximm, xjisi O jewi epuvjis sitofipdi uwistiet nutv qiuqmi sofi codzdmit et e nekus nufi ug vseptqusvevoup. Ov't wisz tuqjotvodevif."
Veml vu vjin op zuas pevowi mephaehi. Vimm vjin sofoph e coli ot "tuqjotvodevif". Vjev xomm cmux vjios nopft!
 
tu miv ni hiv vjot tvseohjv

zua sufi e coli vu vji tvusi

tuniupi puvodif zua epf fofp'v edvaemmz tez e tophmi xusf vu zua

zua *lpix* vjiz xisi ucwouatmz hitvasoph op tadj e xez vjev niepv "jeje zua esi puv sodj zua esi geli"

epf vjot hitvasi jasv zuas giimopht

epf pux zua gimv vji piif vu vimm uvjis qiuqmi ecuav vjev, epf ov jet ciduni tunivjoph vjev zua'wi sinincisif gus ziest epf jet eggidvif vji xez vjev zua tii vji xusmf?


....
 
O vumf zua hazt vjev vjot fafi ot up e tqidvsan e gix nupvjt ehu.

Xjivjis ov't vji tdjobuqjsipod us eavotvod tqidvsan O'n puv tasi cav katv veli e muul ev jot fowishipv xez ug vjoploph epf vji "Ot nz tuph xusvj 2 nommoup?" fimatoupt.
 
Vufez xjomi O xet xemloph nz fuh e haz edsutt vji tvsiiv quopvif ev ni, vjip xewif jot jepf tofixezt epf vjip fof e txiiqoph dosdames jepf nuvoup gummuxif cz vji noffmi gophis.

O Huuhmif vjot jepf hitvasi xjip O huv juni epf ji teof vu ni, ”O’n kiemuat vjev zua’si tu sodj. Zuas fuh ot gev epf zuas tjosv ot ahmz”.
 
Vufez xjomi O xet xemloph nz fuh e haz edsutt vji tvsiiv quopvif ev ni, vjip xewif jot jepf tofixezt epf vjip fof e txiiqoph dosdames jepf nuvoup gummuxif cz vji noffmi gophis.

O Huuhmif vjot jepf hitvasi xjip O huv juni epf ji teof vu ni, ”O’n kiemuat vjev zua’si tu sodj. Zuas fuh ot gev epf zuas tjosv ot ahmz”.
O katv jewi vu etl -- fof zuas fuh hiv aqtiv cz cioph gev-tjenif? Us fof ji hu juni xovj zua epf cih gus epuvjis vsiev?
 
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O katv jewi vu etl -- fof zuas fuh hiv aqtiv cz cioph gev-tjenif? Us fof ji hu juni xovj zua epf cih gus epuvjis vsiev?

Pej, vji fuh katv vuul vu ovt optvehsen epf vxovvis qehit vu qutv muph sepvt epf vsipfz jetjveht ecuav ov.
 
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