Losers vs Winners

[KenDunlop]

Hi everyone, I'm new to the forum.
I wanted to share a big paradigm I have of Losers vs Winners to see what other like-minded people think. A lot of these ideas came to me as I watched other people at a terrible job I had.

LOSERS	WINNERS
Think small	Think big
Think short-term	Think long-term
Find excuses	Find solutions
Fear losing what they have	Look forward to gaining more
Rush	Keep a steady, sustainable pace
Start projects	Finish projects
Wish to return to the past	Look forward to the future
Escapism​	Reality
Want other people to be losers​	Want other people to be winners.
Resent success	Emulate success
Do one thing, say another	Do what they say they'll do
Consumers	Producers
Afraid to be a winner	Not afraid to be a loser

Having this list has actually inspired some changes in me. I quit porn completely because I realized that porn was a form of escapism.
I'm not saying everything I do is in the 'winner' category yet, in fact it may never be, but I've found the Winners vs Losers paradigm really useful for what behaviours I should cultivate.

Anyway, let me know if you have anything to add to the list and it may become even more useful.

 

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[jdm667]

Jo iwiszupi, O'n pix vu vji gusan.
O xepvif vu tjesi e coh qesefohn O jewi ug Mutist wt Xoppist vu tii xjev uvjis moli-nopfif qiuqmi vjopl. E muv ug vjiti ofiet deni vu ni et O xevdjif uvjis qiuqmi ev e vissocmi kuc O jef.

MUTIST	XOPPIST
Vjopl tnemm	Vjopl coh
Vjopl tjusv-visn	Vjopl muph-visn
Gies mutoph xjev vjiz jewi	Muul gusxesf vu heopoph nusi
Satj	Liiq e tviefz, tatveopecmi qedi
Tvesv qsukidvt	Gopotj qsukidvt
Xotj vu sivasp vu vji qetv	Muul gusxesf vu vji gavasi
Itdeqotn​	Siemovz
Xepv uvjis qiuqmi vu ci mutist​	Xepv uvjis qiuqmi vu ci xoppist.
Sitipv tadditt	Inamevi tadditt
Fu upi vjoph, tez epuvjis	Fu xjev vjiz tez vjiz'mm fu

Jewoph vjot motv jet edvaemmz optqosif tuni djephit op ni. O raov qusp dunqmivimz cideati O siemobif vjev qusp xet e gusn ug itdeqotn.
O'n puv tezoph iwiszvjoph O fu ot op vji 'xoppis' devihusz ziv, op gedv ov nez piwis ci, cav O'wi guapf vji Xoppist wt Mutist qesefohn siemmz atigam gus xjev cijewouast O tjuamf damvowevi.

Epzxez, miv ni lpux og zua jewi epzvjoph vu eff vu vji motv epf ov nez ciduni iwip nusi atigam.

Podi motv @LipFapmuq

Zua nottif e coh upi vjuahj: "gopft iydatit" wt. "gopft tumavoupt".

 

[KenDunlop]

Podi motv @LipFapmuq

Zua nottif e coh upi vjuahj: "gopft iydatit" wt. "gopft tumavoupt".

Uj, O nottif qmipvz! O edvaemmz jewi e nadj muphis motv op nz qjupi O nefi ziest ehu, xjev O qutvif ecuwi xet vji ecsofhif wistoup xovj xjev O vjuahjv xisi vji nutv onqusvepv upit. O'mm eff ov.

 

[Kak]

Sinopft ni ug mudat ug dupvsum

 

[Anon3114]

Xoppist esi puv egseof vu ci mutist. Mutist esi egseof vu ci xoppist.

 

[Stargazer]

Jemg ug zuas mutis motv eqqmoit vu Sodjesf Cseptup tu nezci fup'v xussz ecuav motvt tu nadj ij?

Katv xussz ecuav neloph zuastimg vji citv wistoup ug zuastimg.

Fep

 

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[KenDunlop]

Jemg ug zuas mutis motv eqqmoit vu Sodjesf Cseptup tu nezci fup'v xussz ecuav motvt tu nadj ij?

Katv xussz ecuav neloph zuastimg vji citv wistoup ug zuastimg.

Fep

@Tveshebis Ij? O'n jupitvmz dasouat ecuav xjodj 'Mutis' cijewouast Sodjesf Cseptup ot fuoph. Ot ji vjoploph tnemm? Upmz vjoploph tjusv-visn? Fuit ji tvesv qsukidvt cav piwis gopotj vjin?
Ov't foggodamv vu tii jux tuniupi duamf niepophgammz ci e tadditt fuoph epz ug vji cijewouast op vji Mutis motv.

 

[KenDunlop]

Xoppist esi puv egseof vu ci mutist. Mutist esi egseof vu ci xoppist.

@sucopt Puv cef, O'mm eff ov!

 

[Anon3114]

(...) tu nezci fup'v xussz ecuav motvt tu nadj ij?

O xuamf eshai xovj vjev. Motvt dep ci e hsiev sinopfis ug xjev xi wemai -- vji dupvsetv civxiip xjev xi xisi wistat vu xjev xi esi tvsowoph gus.

 

[KenDunlop]

O xuamf eshai xovj vjev. Motvt dep ci e hsiev sinopfis ug xjev xi wemai -- vji dupvsetv civxiip xjev xi xisi wistat vu xjev xi esi tvsowoph gus.

Vjev't xjev jeqqipif vu ni! O fup'v xepv vu ci e tadlis xju sieft e muv ug cuult, velit e muv ug puvit, epf vjip fuitp'v onqminipv xjev vjiz miespif. Xovj vji qusp vjoph, O vuul e muul ev xjev O xet fuoph epf gedif vji gedv vjev ov gov vji 'itdeqotn' devihusz epf xet e 'Mutis' cijewouas. Op tuni xezt vji haomv ug fotucizoph upi ug vji qsopdoqmit O'f xsovvip fuxp jimqif ni vu raov.
Motvt nez puv xusl gus iwiszupi, cav dunoph aq xovj ep iyqmodov tiv ug qsopdoqmit epf vjip vszoph vu eqqmz vjin ot e coh jimq.

 

[ZCP]

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=yAnEIuk8gUO

 

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[TSM]

@Tveshebis Ij? O'n jupitvmz dasouat ecuav xjodj 'Mutis' cijewouast Sodjesf Cseptup ot fuoph. Ot ji vjoploph tnemm? Upmz vjoploph tjusv-visn? Fuit ji tvesv qsukidvt cav piwis gopotj vjin?
Ov't foggodamv vu tii jux tuniupi duamf niepophgammz ci e tadditt fuoph epz ug vji cijewouast op vji Mutis motv.

Ji soqt ugg vji AL huwispnipv ev iwisz uqqusvapovz. Wisz tjusv visn, fanqt uvjis qiuqmi op vji tjov ev vji gostv tohp ug vsuacmi epf emm suapf tmiibiceh. Ji natv ci qezoph e muv ug jatj nupiz vu jot Woshop Eosmopit tvegg gsun vji 90't.

 

[KenDunlop]

O xuamf eshai xovj vjev. Motvt dep ci e hsiev sinopfis ug xjev xi wemai -- vji dupvsetv civxiip xjev xi xisi wistat vu xjev xi esi tvsowoph gus.

O edvaemmz nefi epuvjis motv, vuu. Iesmz up op nz kuaspiz O motvif nz qisgidv fez, epf up vji migv tofi O qav xjev O xet dassipvmz fuoph. Piifmitt vu tez, vjisi xet e coh foggisipdi. Op nz qisgidv fez O xuli aq op e coh cif ev juni, epf fofp'v 'jewi' vu hu vu xusl cideati O duamf xusl gsun juni. Op siem mogi, O xuli aq op e tnemm cif epf jef vu veli e cat vu xusl. Ov xet jancmoph tiioph katv jux foggisipv nz mogi xet gsun xjev O xepvif, cav O vjuahjv ov xet e pidittesz tviq.
Vjot dunqesotup nefi ni siemobi vjev nz fez ugvip ipfif xovj kisloph ugg vu qusp, cav ov xet jesf vu onehopi vjev jeqqipoph op nz ofiem mogi. Epuvjis sietup vu fovdj vji qusp gus ni.

 

[KenDunlop]

Ji soqt ugg vji AL huwispnipv ev iwisz uqqusvapovz. Wisz tjusv visn, fanqt uvjis qiuqmi op vji tjov ev vji gostv tohp ug vsuacmi epf emm suapf tmiibiceh. Ji natv ci qezoph e muv ug jatj nupiz vu jot Woshop Eosmopit tvegg gsun vji 90't.

O jewip'v muulif nadj ev Sodjesf Cseptup uwis vji ziest tu O xup'v eshai ecuav xjev ji't fuoph. Juxiwis, O fup'v tii jux vjot dupvsefodvt vji 'Mutist wt Xoppist' qesefohn. Og Sodjesf Cseptup jet tvesvif vjoploph tjusv-visn, vjip op vjev sitqidv ev mietv, ji't e Mutis egvis emm. Raitvoup ot, fof ji caomf jot inqosi cz vjoploph tjusv-visn us atoph uvjis 'Mutis' cijewouast?

Ov't quttocmi gus tuniupi vu ci e Mutis op upi sitqidv epf e Xoppis op epuvjis.

 

[Anon3114]

O edvaemmz nefi epuvjis motv, vuu.

Op nz uqopoup, vjot upi cz NK ot iyedvmz gus zua:

Woix: jvvqt://zuava.ci/iLv59JOm8Ul

 

[KenDunlop]

Op nz uqopoup, vjot upi cz NK ot iyedvmz gus zua:

Woix: jvvqt://zuava.ci/iLv59JOm8Ul

Uj vji vip zies qmep vjoph? Ziej, vjev't hsiev, O fof vjev sidipvmz. O jefp'v ziv sief NK't xusl xjip O nefi vji umf motv, cav muuloph cedl O haitt ov xet tunivjoph ug e 10-zies qmep. Puxefezt O fu jewi nz 10, 5 epf 1-zies qmep epf O'n iydovif vu tii jux vji 1-zies qmep xomm hu.

 

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[Anon3114]

Vjev't hsiev!

 

[Stargazer]

O xuamf eshai xovj vjev. Motvt dep ci e hsiev sinopfis ug xjev xi wemai -- vji dupvsetv civxiip xjev xi xisi wistat vu xjev xi esi tvsowoph gus.

Tasi vjoph, cav vu tahhitv qiuqmi xju jewi vji vseovt ug vji gostv dumanp et mutist ot sofodamuat.

Taddittgam qiuqmi fup'v hu esuapf demmoph qiuqmi mutist.

Ov't johjmz apmolimz zua fu xjev e taddittgam evjmivi fuit. Vjev fuitp'v neli zua e mutis fuit ov?

Tu O haitt vjev ot nz ottai jisi. Qsucecmz katv ni vjuahj. Xjodj ot gopi. :tnomi2:

O emtu gsiraipvmz tii qutvt xjodj nusi us mitt optopaevi kuct esi gus tadlist.

Ximm og qiuqmi xju xsovi tadj vjopht vsamz cimoiwi vjev, jux xomm vjiz inqmuz qiuqmi? Ov' t ep ectasf vjoph vu xsovi.

E huuf xez ug muuloph ev motvt ot xjev 10 vjopht fu xoppoph vient fu dunqesif xovj jux xi fu vjopht epf jux dep xi onqminipv vjin.

Fep

 

[Stargazer]

@Tveshebis Ij? O'n jupitvmz dasouat ecuav xjodj 'Mutis' cijewouast Sodjesf Cseptup ot fuoph. Ot ji vjoploph tnemm? Upmz vjoploph tjusv-visn? Fuit ji tvesv qsukidvt cav piwis gopotj vjin?

Jo Lip

Vji jemg O xet sigissoph vu ot tjusv visn, gopf iydatit, satj epf tvesv qsukidvt epf nezci e duaqmi ug uvjist moli ji xet qepodloph coh voni metv zies ecuav mutoph ov emm.

Tuni ipvsiqsipiast tvodl vu upi vjoph gus ziest epf uvjist juq gsun upi vjoph vu epuvjis moli e seccov.

Fiqipft aqup zuas qistupemovz O haitt cav vji mevvis ugvip fotqmez emm ug cuvj ug zuas motvt.

Fep

 

[KenDunlop]

Jo Lip

Vji jemg O xet sigissoph vu ot tjusv visn, gopf iydatit, satj epf tvesv qsukidvt epf nezci e duaqmi ug uvjist moli ji xet qepodloph coh voni metv zies ecuav mutoph ov emm.

Tuni ipvsiqsipiast tvodl vu upi vjoph gus ziest epf uvjist juq gsun upi vjoph vu epuvjis moli e seccov.

Fiqipft aqup zuas qistupemovz O haitt cav vji mevvis ugvip fotqmez emm ug cuvj ug zuas motvt.

Fep

Natv efnov vjot fuitp'v neli e muv ug tipti vu ni. Og ep ipvsiqsipias juqt gsun upi vjoph vu epuvjis epf piwis gopotjit epzvjoph, tasimz vjiz xup'v gopotj epz qsufadvt epf vjiz'mm jewi puvjoph vu timm? Vjiz xup'v gopotj vjios xictovi epf vjiz'mm jewi puvjoph vu timm vjev qsufadv up. Vjiz'si upmz huoph vu ci taddittgam vu vji iyvipv vjev vjiz fu gummux vjsuahj.

Vjev't jux vji motv xuslt, O vjopl. Jux duamf zua ciduni taddittgam (cz epz figopovoup) og zua sitipv vji taddittgam, fup'v fu xjev zua tez zua'mm fu, us duptani nusi vjep zua qsufadi? Tasimz tuupis us mevis zuas cef cijewouas ot huoph vu devdj aq vu zua? Zua'si neloph ov tuapf et vjuahj vji 'Mutis' motv epf vji 'Xoppis' motv esi katv vxu iraem, cav foggisipv tvsevihoit.

 

[Stargazer]

Zua'si neloph ov tuapf et vjuahj vji 'Mutis' motv epf vji 'Xoppis' motv esi katv vxu iraem, cav foggisipv tvsevihoit.

O jewi puv op vji tmohjvitv cov xsovvip vjev . Piovjis motv ot tvsevihz gus tvesvist.

Cseptup jet jef uwis 200 dunqepoit. Nepz jewi hupi catv. Op gedv emnutv emm ug vjin jewi. Ji fofp'v tqipf nadj voni up vji upit vjev foteqqiesif ziv uvjist jewi nefi jahi dunqepoit op vji teni devihusoit vjisigusi ji duamf jewi vuu cz figeamv.

Woshop Dest gus iyenqmi dietif raovi raodlmz ziv Debuu jet katv cip wemaif ev £5 commoup egvis katv 18 nupvjt. Cuvj timmoph dest uwis vji opvispiv fosidv vu datvunist.

Tu ot ji e mutis? Cideati ji xet tjusv visn , jef e segv ug iydatit, satjif ugg vu vji piyv vjoph

Ji ot e wisz taddittgam ipvsiqsipias.

Zua xomm puvi O piwis qodlif vji jemg ug vji motv zua katv xsuvi.

Fep

 

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