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Is Real Control Possible on the Internet if You’re Not One of the Big Boys?

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Hi everyone, Nick here. I’m a frequent visitor of the forum but I don’t post very often. Right now though something is bugging me and I would like some input.

I just finished re-reading MJ’s book. It had been awhile since I read it and certain parts were starting to get a little fuzzy. Upon reading “The Commandment of Control,†I couldn’t help but be reminded of certain things that have been nagging me for awhile now.

I’m in the midst of getting an ecommerce business off the ground and, throughout the process, have been learning a lot about the industry and what it takes to be successful. The dominate theme I’ve noticed is that if you’re in ecommerce, or partake in any other business model based on the internet (subscription-based, content-based, advertising, etc), you really have no control over the business and instead give control to one, or several, of the “Big Boys†(Google, Amazon, Facebook, Yahoo, Bing, Ebay, Twitter, etc.)

In his book, MJ says (on page 244)...â€The Internet is the best Fastlane available, because it immediately obeys the Five Commandments to the Fastlane, assuming a need-based premise. It naturally scales to a worldwide audience, it systematizes to automation via computer systems, it is a medium you can control(unfortunately, most don’t), and its barriers are still strong enough to prevent “everyone†from entry.â€

Is this really possible? I ask this for two reasons. First, because no matter what kind of website you have, you need traffic if it’s going to go anywhere. No traffic and your website might as well not even exist. Second, the majority of people find information, products, services and resources via search engines like Google, Yahoo and Bing. It stands to reason that as long as this remains true they will be the only ones who have any real control, especially Google with their dominant market share.

Now the typical advice people give when it comes to having real, sustained and lasting success on the internet is to not focus on things like cheap, spammy SEO, but to instead focus on having a great product, making websites for users, adding value, solving needs and creating outstanding content, among others. Well, these might get you great rankings, a steady stream of traffic and the like, but how does that give you any control? To borrow MJ’s “driver and hitchhiker†metaphor, you can get on the good side and become “buddy buddy†with the driver all you want, but in the end they’re still the driver, you’re still the hitchhiker and they can still kick you out at anytime.

Getting back to ecommerce, many people in the industry say to not only sell on your own website, but to also sell on Amazon and Ebay as a means of protecting your business from changes or penalties by Google. Ok I understand that, but does that actually give you any more control? Or does it just give you a layer of redundancy? Don’t get me wrong, I think having redundancy is very important in any business. After all, as the phrase goes, “single points of failure will fail.†But if control is your goal, it seems like this doesn’t give you more control, but less, because now instead of relying on one other entity (Google), you’re relying on three (Google, Amazon and Ebay).

Or how about sites like Twitter and Facebook? If you use either to market your business and for whatever reason they decide you violated their terms of service, what then?

I don’t know, it just seems like if you’re going to go the internet route, you need to go big or go home, otherwise you’ll never have any real control. You don’t want to sell on Amazon, you want to revolutionize online retail, introduce “Ecommerce 2.0†and kick Amazon’s a$$. You don’t want to get traffic from Google, you want to create a better search engine that puts Google to shame and relegates them to the dustbin of history.

Ok, I think I’ve rambled on long enough. It might be obvious where my opinion is on this, but I wanted to post this anyways and see if anyone had any input. Does anyone look at this from a different angle? Is real control possible on the internet if you’re just one of the litte guys? Is it even necessary? Can “redundancy†be an acceptable substitution? Opinions? Thoughts?


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4. Atoph e DSN. Vsedloph temit, denqeohpt, ivd. epf jewoph edditt vu movisemmz optvepv giifcedl uggist at e huuf fiem ug dupvsum.
 
Us jux ecuav tovit moli Vxovvis epf Gedicuul?

Raitvoup...

Jux fu zua vjopl GC epf Vxovvis hsix? Cz efwisvotoph up Huuhmi? Cz hsiev TIU?

O emtu xuamf moli vu nipvoup vjev op vji Y ziest vjev vji gusan jet ciip esuapf, O'wi tqipv BISU fummest up efwisvotoph.

Eheop, vsz epf vjopl ecuav vji "xjzt" cijopf vjiti siemovoit.
 
O vjopl zua esi ettanoph dupvsum niept dunqmivi dupvsum epf O fupv vjopl vjev ot xjev ot niepv.

Zua xepv vu dupvsum vji qsufadv epf csepf epf iwiszvjoph vjev fiem xovj vjuti vxu etqidvt tadj et qsodi epf jux/xjisi zua fotvsocavi. Zit, cz timmoph up epuvjis qmevgusn zua xuamf howi aq e movvmi dupvsum cav vji sotl ot noponobif cideati zua dupvsum vji etqidvt ug vji qsufadv epf csepf et uqqutif vu hivvoph opwumwif et ep eggomoevi gus iyenqmi.
 
Raitvoup...

Jux fu zua vjopl GC epf Vxovvis hsix? Cz efwisvotoph up Huuhmi? Cz hsiev TIU?

Ximm pu O vjopl vjiz hsix cz cioph oppuwevowi dunqepoit vjev tumwif e piif epf uggisif wemai vu vjios atist. Pux vjev vjiz esi nekus csepft epf juatijumf penit, vjiz jewi dupvsum; nutv qiuqmi katv hu fosidvmz vu iovjis xictovi cz vzqoph ov op. O haitt zua dep demm ov “csepf exesipitt†us “csepf qsuvidvoup.†Cav xjev ecuav xjip vjiz xisi zuaph, tdseqqz tvesvaqt tvomm vszoph vu tjux vji xusmf katv xjev wemai vjiz jef vu uggis? Cigusi vjiz xisi ximm lpuxp vjiz piifif vseggod gsun vji tiesdj iphopit gus qiuqmi vu opovoemmz fotduwis vjin. Fasoph vjot voni, vjisi xet ep iminipv ug dupvsum vjiz fofp’v jewi epf upmz hsix vu ciduni xjev vjiz jewi cideati vji tiesdj iphopit fofp’v tdsix vjin uwis xjip vjiz xisi tvomm vszoph vu hiv ugg vji hsuapf.

Ov tvesv't xovj e W epf ipft op EMAI.

Zit, wemai. Apfistvuuf. Vji vjoph ot vjuahj, e pix xictovi gsun e joq, zuaph tvesvaq dunqepz vjev uggist wemai ot upmz op Huuhmi’t opfiy cideati Huuhmi tezt ov dep ci. Vjiz nez opdmafi ov epf sepl ov johjmz cideati ov uggist wemai vu Huuhmi't atist, cav op vji ipf cioph opdmafif ot e qsowomihi, puv e sohjv, epf katv cideati Huuhmi xup’v sinuwi zua fuitp’v niep vjiz dep’v.

O vjopl zua esi ettanoph dupvsum niept dunqmivi dupvsum epf O fupv vjopl vjev ot xjev ot niepv.

Nezci vjev't nz qsucmin. O'n vjoploph ecuav ov vuu nadj epf op visnt ug ectumavit. Jnn...
 
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Vji huem tjuamf vu ciduni vji eavjusovevowi qmedi vu hu epf xussz mitt ecuav vji tiesdj iphopit. Og zua esi vji #1 tuasdi up vji xic gus epzvjoph, iwip og ovt e podji moli foeqist gus umf qiuqmi, zua'mm hiv qiuqmi moploph vu zuas tovi, epf vji TIU xomm veli desi ug ovtimg.
 
O vjopl zuas notapfistvepfoph xjev dupvsum ot xovj vjiti uvjis xic tovit. Nutv esi vseggod epf vjisi esi nepz foggisipv tuasdit ug vseggod. Gsii Tiu vseggod gsun huuhmi ot katv upi ug nepz. O lpux qmipvz ug opgu neslivist xju siemmz fitqoti huuhmi epf xomm puv efwisvoti vjisi ev emm, cav tvomm neli qmipvz gsun uvjis vseggod tuasdit. Hsepvif og zuas nufim ot vu ati Huuhmi, Gedicuul, enebup, optisv gewusovi vseggod tuasdi jisi, vjip zit zua esi howoph aq e muv ug dupvsum vu vjiti ipvovoit epf vjip vjopht moli Qepfe (huuhmi) us sikidvoph qms cuult (enebup) dep fiseom zuas catopitt - omm ohpusi vJi qsucmin ug vjuti qsufadvt cioph dseqqz qsufadvt vu heni vji tztvin etofi.

Huuhmi dep upmz dupvsum vjisi qmevgusn, puv uvjist. Enebup dep upmz dupvsum vjios qmevgusn. Cmai jutv vji teni. Og huuhmi fuitp'v moli zuas ef, gopf e wipai vjev fuit. Optvief ug enebup timm up Eqqmit pivxusl. Ivd

Vsai, vjiti ipvovoit esi 800 mc husommet op vjios neslivt, cav zua dep iovjis muul ev vjev et e djemmiphi, us howi aq epf hiv e kuc. Zuas djuodi.

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