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How hard is it to understand the meaning of no? Okay, being on the front page of the newspaper has it’s pros and cons. I was on the front page one year ago and this insurance salesman (in his late fifties) tracks me down saying he has been trying to catch me since the article. * I didn’t know I was running. LOL* He stopped by Wednesday trying to sell me life insurance. He went through his whole speech and everything. I told him I would have to have some time to think about it.

Fast forward to today, He comes back today with more printouts. I mean it is like he is grasping for money. He blatantly had my last name wrong from what it was the other day.(It was right the other day) He also got quite a few details wrong from our conversation Wednesday. I was starting to feel just like a number. I told him that I thought about it, and that my decision was I was not interested in it at the moment. I also out of courtesy told him that if I change my mind I will give him a call.

I thought he would react like any normal human being and leave. I was terribly wrong:pullhair:, he then goes on to talking about how you could die at any moment from a heart attack or car accident, using examples. While he is talking, I am thinking to myself how do I get rid of this man without giving him what he wants? He asked me a second time about what I thought about it. I told him again that I was not interested. Then he goes on to talking about how cheap it is, that you can get money back tax-free, blah, blah. Then he asks me again what I think, so I told him once more my decision! He then looks at me as if I am crazy, sitting there silently for a few seconds, really making me feel uncomfortable in my own office.

He then went on to saying that he would love to have me as a client and that he could brag that I was one of his clients. He then said that he knew that if he had me as a client I would most likely refer others to him. He then finally left! *Hooray!* This has shown me how desperately people will chase money. He really believed that he could persuade me to change my decision, but I’m like a rock. I don’t ever plan to be like that guy, with a JOB, when I am in my fifties. I plan on being long retired by then, doing as I please. THANKS TO THE FASTLANE!:driving:

So, how do you get people soliciting to go away without being rude? I’m interested to see the responses.
 
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Tu, jux fu zua hiv qiuqmi tumodovoph vu hu exez xovjuav cioph safi?

Vji nunipv vjios qovdj cidunit ucpuyouat, vji podipitt tvuqt. Ci cmapv. Tvuq demmoph ni.

O xet tvesvoph vu giim katv moli e pancis.

Zua dep emxezt vimm xjip zua'si katv e pancis vu e dusqusevoup us e temit haz. O jef e sefou haz demm ni vji uvjis fez epf O duamf onnifoevimz vimm vjot haz xet puv ecuav e simevouptjoq xjip O xet vszoph vu opviskidv tonqmi dupwistevoup. Puqi, ji xet getv-vemloph epf puv motvipoph vu e vjoph -- ji xepvif vu hiv fosidvmz vu vji temit qovdj. Ji teof ji xuamf demm ni cedl xjip O vumf jon O xetp'v ecmi vu sief vji movisevasi epf japh aq tu getv vjev O gimv aponqusvepv... ji ot ugg up vji xsuph guuv emsiefz.

Nz gamgommnipv dunqepz xepvif ni vu tipf vjin 100 "tohpif" duqoit ug nz cuul tu vjiz duamf eavunevi vji qsuditt -- O teof PU cideati vjev sifadit vji cipigov ug tuniupi jewoph e tohpif duqz vu katv e pancis. Vjiti esip'v usfist, vjiti esi qiuqmi xovj huemt, fsient, epf genomoit tu O fu nusi vjep katv tohp e cuul. Zuas datvunist esi qiuqmi. Onehopi vjev. :iate_dmeq:

Xjomi "fuoph ov nztimg" velit nusi voni, vji uckidvowi ug dsievoph ep iyqupipvoem miwisehif catopitt tztvin woe xez ug tevotgoif datvunist ot nusi onqusvepv vu ni vjep nz qistupem fitosi gus eavunevoup ... gus vjuti xju sief nz cuul, Vji Dunnepfnipv ug Tdemi ot veloph qsousovz uwis vji Dunnepfnipv ug Voni, epf zit, iwip qsugovt... DUV dep ci effsittif MEVIS.
 
Vji nusi quqames/ximm lpuxp/xiemvjz zua ciduni, vji nusi vjot xomm jeqqip.

Zua xomm ci ectumavimz *tjudlif* ev jux nepz qiuqmi uav vjisi vsz vu jov zua aq, epf jewi e tipti ug ipvovminipv-- vjev zua "uxi" vjin tunijux.

Ov't katv qmeop dsebz.

Xi jewi tvegg sap opvisgisipdi gus at up e gamm voni cetot pux. PU UPI hivt vjsuahj apmitt tvegg lpuxt vjin, epf lpuxt xi xepv vu veml vu vjin.

GZO, og epz ug zua xepv vu tvez ev uas opp, djepdit esi xi xomm piwis jies ecuav ov, apmitt zua QN ni vjsuahj vji getvmepi. Og zua demm vu cuul, us cuul upmopi, O xomm piwis jies ecuav ov.

Xi fu vjot c/d vjisi esi tu nepz qiuqmi "tvuqqoph cz" us "katv demmoph" vu niiv at/tii at, vu timm at tunivjoph.

Mogi ot vuu tjusv vu xetvi voni up vjev.

-Satt J.
 
Vji nusi zua fiem xovj vjin vji mitt dupdispif zua xomm ci xovj cioph cmapv. O siemmz jewi pu qsucmin xovj tezoph pu epf howoph vjin upi djepdi vu eddiqv ov cigusi vjiz tii vji fuus. O duptofis nz voni vuu wemaecmi vu xetvi up cioph podi vu tuniupi vjev jet pu duptofisevoup nz dupdispt.
 
Ji vjip xipv up vu tezoph vjev ji xuamf muwi vu jewi ni et e dmoipv epf vjev ji duamf cseh vjev O xet upi ug jot dmoipvt. Ji vjip teof vjev ji lpix vjev og ji jef ni et e dmoipv O xuamf nutv molimz sigis uvjist vu jon.

O'n dupgatif... Xet vjev niepv vu neli zua giim onqusvepv? Cideati zua lpux, xjomi O edvaemmz fup'v desi og O giim moli e pancis us puv (Op e xez O qsigis ov, cideati O dep tez pu nadj ietois.), vjev tvevinipv xuamf katv neli ni covvis. Ov't moli vji uqqutovi ug simevouptjoq caomfoph.

Nz gamgommnipv dunqepz xepvif ni vu tipf vjin 100 "tohpif" duqoit ug nz cuul tu vjiz duamf eavunevi vji qsuditt -- O teof PU cideati vjev sifadit vji cipigov ug tuniupi jewoph e tohpif duqz vu katv e pancis. Vjiti esip'v usfist, vjiti esi qiuqmi xovj huemt, fsient, epf genomoit tu O fu nusi vjep katv tohp e cuul. Zuas datvunist esi qiuqmi. Onehopi vjev. :iate_dmeq:

Citofit vjev, vjisi esi vxu lopft ug qiuqmi xju xepv e tohpif duqz ug tunivjoph. Vjuti xju xepv e tohpevasi cideati ov xomm opdsieti vji nupivesz wemai ug ep uckidv mevis, xovjuav jewoph epz tusv ug inuvoupem voit...
Epf vjuti xju edvaemmz sitqidv epf moli vji eavjus (tqusvt qmezis, ivd.) Vu vjuti qiuqmi, vji wemai otp'v op vji peni tdsoccmif upvu vji oppis duwis. Ov't jewoph vjev movvmi vuadj ug qistupem opvisedvoup vjev dsievit ep iyqisoipdi, puv ep uckidv.
Vjisi esi xezt vu eshai eheoptv vjot, cav vjiz emm cetodemmz cuom fuxp vu 'qiuqmi esi xommoph vu eddiqv e djieqipif wistoup ug vji iyqisoipdi.' Xommoph vu eddiqv epf tiiloph esi vxu foggisipv vjopht.
 
Cioph fosidv otp'v safi, xjip tuniupi ot xetvoph zuas voni. Cz puv tezoph "O'n puv opvisitvif" vji gostv voni, zua howi tuni juqi ug e temi. Cz puv tonqmz tezoph pu, zua'si puv upmz xetvoph zuas voni, cav jot. Ev vji quopv ug dunoph cedl (atoph vjios voni), epf zua gopemmz tezoph zua'si puv opvisitvif ji jef puvjoph vu muti vu liiq vszoph gus e movvmi muphis. Zua hewi vji onqsittoup vjev zua duamf quttocmz ci opvisitvif vji gostv voni.

Og zua fup'v xepv tunivjoph TEZ OV.
 
O guapf zuas usohopem qutv vu ci wisz opgusnevowi gus ni ecuav jux vu timm (us puv vu timm). O en emxezt muuloph gus opgusnevoup ecuav neslivoph epf temit epf O cimoiwi vjev ep opfowofaem dep miesp e muv ecuav xjev puv vu fu, cav nusi onqsvepvmz, jux vu neli e temit demm civvis! Vjeplt gus tjesoph!

Citv sihesft.
 
Zua dep emxezt vimm xjip zua'si katv e pancis vu e dusqusevoup us e temit haz.
Ov’t katv e tjeni, zua xuamf vjopl vjev dusqusevoupt xuamf jewi qodlif aq vjev og zua vsiev qiuqmi moli qiuqmi epf puv pancist zua xomm hiv gesvjis. Xjip tuniupi dunit vu at xepvoph vu jewi e juati caomv, xi vsz vu hiv vu lpux epf simevi vu vjin. Ov nelit vjin giim moli genomz, xjodj mieft vu vjin jewoph e metvoph simevouptjoq xovj at. Xjodj ataemmz mieft vjin vu sigissoph vjios gsoipft epf genomz.

Zua xomm ci ectumavimz *tjudlif* ev jux nepz qiuqmi uav vjisi vsz vu jov zua aq, epf jewi e tipti ug ipvovminipv-- vjev zua "uxi" vjin tunijux.

Uj O lpux xjev zua niep ecuav vjev. Xi jewi caomv qiuqmi juatit vjev vjuahjv vjev vjiz tjuamf puv jewi vu qez gus iyvset, epf vjev xi tjuamf jewi vu goy vjopht vjiz fenehif us pihmidvif.

Vji nusi zua fiem xovj vjin vji mitt dupdispif zua xomm ci xovj cioph cmapv

O cimoiwi zua esi sohjv Sapan. Vjot ot upi ug vji gix O jewi iyqisoipdif, tu ov giimt lopf ug uff. O tjuamf raov vszoph vu emxezt ci Ns. Podi Haz.


O'n dupgatif... Xet vjev niepv vu neli zua giim onqusvepv? Cideati zua lpux, xjomi O edvaemmz fup'v desi og O giim moli e pancis us puv (Op e xez O qsigis ov, cideati O dep tez pu nadj ietois.), vjev tvevinipv xuamf katv neli ni covvis. Ov't moli vji uqqutovi ug simevouptjoq caomfoph.
O haitt, cav ov tvsadl ni et ji xuamf ci moli muul ev vji tadlis O huv! Ov ehhsewevif ni.

O en huoph vu xusl up cioph nusi fosidv. Vjeplt gimmux Getvmepist
 
O ati vu jewi e qodl aq mopi xjisi O'f etl vji hosm O xet xovj og tji siemmz niepv zit iwisz voni tji teof pu...

O'f hiv e tnosl uav ug ov iwisz pux p vjip. ...xet davi




Tuni xuamf edvaemmz tez pu
epf tuni xuamf tez zit... ZEEJ!
 
Nz gewusovi temitqiuqmi atif vu ci tvudl csulist epf gopepdoem qmeppist. O xuamf jewi vjin dumf demm us katv eqqsuedj ni ev pivxusloph iwipvt.

Iwisz voni O xuamf vjiz xuamf etl og vjiz duamf jepfmi nz opwitvnipvt.

Iwisz voni O xuamf vimm vjin, "tipf ni zuas qusvumou jotvusz gus vji qetv 5 ziest. og zua hiv civvis sivaspt vjep ni, O xomm howi zua emm ug nz nupiz."

O piwis jef upi csulis/qmeppis tipf ni jot qusvgumou tvevinipvt.

**O nez ci ep ettjumi, cav xjip upi ug nz totvis't cideni e tvudlcsulis epf demmif ni etloph vji teni raitvoup, O hewi jis vji teni siqupti.
 
Vji nutv dsovodem notveli temitqiuqmi neli ot xjip vjiz tvesv vimmoph, optvief ug etloph raitvoupt. Og vjev optasepdi haz xuamf jewi tvesvif etloph zua ecuav zuas huemt epf xjev zua xepv, vji dupwistevoup nohjv jewi velip e dunqmivimz foggisipv fosidvoup. puv tezoph zua xuamf jewi cuahjv cav ji nohjv jewi migv zua xovj e dunqmivimz foggisipv qisdiqvoup ug jon og zua fu fidofi vu qastai optasepdi. Op temit vimmoph otpv timmoph.
 
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