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It didn't work for "me" will be the biggest excuse ever.


I will change "me" part of my "personality" because this sh*t is a byproduct of trauma and neglect, and stories we tell ourselves all the time.



I have used todolists, then tried productivity systems as well as habit tracking through apps, but "none worked for me" will be like very destructive.
I have tried starting business or long term relationships, but it didn't work for "me".
I can't focus because of my mental disorders and depression that is why socialising and being in touch with people will not work for "me"?


If it worked for you, there is huge chance it will work for me if - the stories YOU tell about yourself, and the beliefs with habits you have, then trauma you've healed, identity you crafted will be cultivated in ME through adjustments and etc.



There is no difference whatsoever between you and me on spiritual plane, only thing that does differentiate is ego, and if it says "what worked for him will not work for me" then it is wounded.

The greatness you see in another human being, even if it is fictional character like Mickey Mouse can be cultivated in you, no matter who it is, no matter how your ego and so called "personality" differentiates you YOU CAN CHANGE IT who you think you are.

We possess all human qualities ever existed both good and bad.

It is not "woo-woo" you can recall both courage and fear, love and rage, focus and procrastination you experienced, in every life the qualities will be unique and irreplaceable, this is why you see a good quality in somebody you adore and you cultivate it in YOUR unique life, but the quality is accessible to ANYONE and this is the golden part of humanity.

Only obstacle - stories you tell about yourself, what you identify yourself with, childhood trauma and emotional neglect, personality you associate yourself with and fear that is simply a result of trauma and stories you can change anytime you want.

If you admire greatness in another human being it is your own greatness you are seeing.
It is your algorithm now and forever, go on, make a list of qualities you love in anyone you admire, even if it is a fictional character and cultivate them in your own unique life.
 
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