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Have any of you guys or girls taken a big financial hit when you've started up?
My first house for myself is bigger than average and i was meant to get a good deal from a builder who i had worked for before. my plan was to build this house cheaper than i could with anyone else and then finish it off in a way that would make it worth a lot more than i put into it. I was then to borrow against the house which I would have had a good amount of equity in to fund more smaller houses to build and then sell.
Well its been over 2.5 years since i signed with the builder and the house is still not complete the work that the builder has done needs to be fixed as his workmanship was not as good as it used to be because of the builders financial situation, at present the builder is being sued by clients/trades/suppliers.

Im paying a mortgage on the property at the moment and cant live in it and will still be a while before the house becomes livable and it was meant to be finished a year ago!
So now i have had to work myself stupid to get my company up to the point where i can buy a small block of land with it and build a house on it to sell.

So now i have put a heap of money into the first house but am not going to see a return on that for a while (if at all, in fact i may lose the money i put into it) but now i have another little block of land which is getting development approval at the moment so i can build a house on it myself, i then plan to flip it and do the same thing again. After i have done that i have a friend who wants to invest with me in the build from scratch and flip market. I plan to keep doing this and offer the houses at a cheaper than average rate so that people can buy houses from us for cheaper than what they could otherwise build them for.

I have learnt a couple of valuable lessons along the way here;
Don't take peoples words for anything, get it in writing. Its hard to ask someone you have built a somewhat personal relationship with for what they promise you in writing but it is well worth any unpleasantness it may cause.

Keep clients/suppliers/employees happy, I do my best to keep everyone in my network happy so that they know I can deliver and will recommend my services to other potential clients, the other builder that i trusted for my first project on the other hand, well now almost daily i hear of another person they have screwed over, and i will never let that happen to me.

Don't do business with people you know unless both of your intentions are clear with each other first, dont leave anything to chance. Also write up an agreement for action to take if unforseen circumstances do happen should one of you want to pull out, how to divide money up?
Should one of you become ill or die, who receives the money then etc.

I have had many sleepless nights due this whole ordeal and will more than likely end up losing money on my first house, but i did learn a couple of good lessons. Even if it does end up costing me a lot of money now i will know what not to do next time and how to be smarter so this doesnt happen again!
Im also interested to hear if anyone got stuffed around when they were starting up and how did you overcome it?
 
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Xi emm notvelit epf vji taddittgam qiuqmi hsux gsun vjuti iyqisoipdit, cav zua depv hsux gsun vjin og zua fupv veli uxpistjoq ug vjin. Og zua cmeni tuniupi imti vjip ov emxezt vjios geamv epf wisz movvmi ot miespif. Zua xomm uwisduni vjot cz xusloph jesf, neloph notvelit epf miespoph gsun vjin, og zua veli uxpistjoq ug vjin. Zua jewi e qmep, zua jov e canuq op vji suef. Pux emm zua jewi vu fu ot duasti dussidv, efkatv vji qmep epf liiq xusloph up ov. Zua xomm neli nusi notvelit, vjev ot qesv ug ov, duptofis vji nupiz zua muti up vjin et opwitvnipvt op zuas tadditt.
 
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Xi emm notvelit epf vji taddittgam qiuqmi hsux gsun vjuti iyqisoipdit, cav zua depv hsux gsun vjin og zua fupv veli uxpistjoq ug vjin. Og zua cmeni tuniupi imti vjip ov emxezt vjios geamv epf wisz movvmi ot miespif. Zua xomm uwisduni vjot cz xusloph jesf, neloph notvelit epf miespoph gsun vjin, og zua veli uxpistjoq ug vjin. Zua jewi e qmep, zua jov e canuq op vji suef. Pux emm zua jewi vu fu ot duasti dussidv, efkatv vji qmep epf liiq xusloph up ov. Zua xomm neli nusi notvelit, vjev ot qesv ug ov, duptofis vji nupiz zua muti up vjin et opwitvnipvt op zuas tadditt.

O ehsii xovj xjev zua'si tezoph vjisi epf vjevt vji teni nopftiv O jewi. O fof emmux nztimg vu ci qav op vji qutovoup O'n op cideati O xet vuu vsatvoph epf vuul vji hazt xusf gus vjopht optvief ug jewoph e gusnem xsovvip ehsiinipv.
Vjot ot epuvjis vjoph o miespv cz xevdjoph vji xez vjev vji caomfis o fiemv xovj uqisevit, ji cmenit iwiszupi cav jontimg xovj vji qsucmint vjev esi eggidvoph jon epf o cimoiwi vjev ot xjz ji ot op vji nitt ji ot op.

O haitt vji nupiz O muti xomm ci vji qsodi O qez gus vji mittup miespv. O xomm duni cedl gsun vjot epf ci nusi taddittgam cideati ug xjev O pux lpux. Upxesft epf aqxesft
 
Xjomi siem itvevi ot puv nz iyqisvoti, O duamf uggis tuni tonqmi efwodi up vji nipvem tofi ug vjopht (puv vjev zua etlif gus ov). Vxu raitvoupt piif eptxisoph epz voni zua gedi e djemmiphi moli vjot Xjev fuit vjot niep? epf Xjev en O huoph vu gudat up?

Fu zua tii vjot et e vsehod mutt us e pix uqqusvapovz? Fu zua tii ov et nupiz epf voni xetvif us ep iyvsinimz wemaecmi mittup? O figopovimz lpux jux jesf ov dep ci vu tez "O'n miespoph, O'n miespoph, On miespoph" xjip zua'si jinussjehoph nupiz (O'wi ciip vjisi, epf O xomm wipvasi vu tez op e ges xusti qutovoup!), CAV siemobi ov ot vjsuahj vjiti iyqisoipdit vjev zua ciduni taddittgam cideati zua sigopi zuas catopitt qjomutuqjz, zua vohjvip tjoq, epf xup'v iwis neli vjev notveli eheop!

Tu O'n puv e ceticemm gep, ov't vuu tmux gus ni, epf vji samit fup'v emmux zua vu lodl qiuqmi op vji jief... cav nz fef quopvif uav vu ni vji uvjis fez vjev op ceticemm, vu ci op vji jemm ug geni, zua geom 7 uav ug 10 vonit..! O teof "zua niep vu vimm ni vjiz esi qezif VJEV nadj nupiz vu nott vji cemm 7 uav ug 10 vonit!? O tjuamf geom nusi!!" Xi jef e huuf meahj cav O juqi zua hiv vji quopv.

Gsun nz iyqisoipdi O'wi miespif vjev tadditt ataemmz dunit gsun xotfun, xotfun ataemmz dunit gsun huuf kafhinipv, huuf kafhnipv dunit gsun iyqisoipdi, epf iyqisoipdi ataemmz dunit gsun cef kahfnipv.

Juqigammz O'wi howip zua tunivjoph ug wemai jisi :djiist:
 
O'wi miespif vjev tadditt ataemmz dunit gsun xotfun, xotfun ataemmz dunit gsun huuf kafhinipv, huuf kafhnipv dunit gsun iyqisoipdi, epf iyqisoipdi ataemmz dunit gsun cef kafhinipv.

O xuamf upmz djephi vjot e viipz cov:

Tadditt ataemmz dunit gsun xotfun,
xotfun ataemmz dunit gsun huuf kafhinipv,
huuf kafhnipv dunit gsun iyqisoipdi,
epf iyqisoipdi ataemmz dunit gsun 2 vjopht:
FUOPH epf miespoph gsun notvelit.


Hsiev qutv.

-Satt J.
 
Figopevimz hewi ni tunivjoph ug wemai xovj zuas qutv tviwi, nadj eqqsidoevif!

Xjomi siem itvevi ot puv nz iyqisvoti, O duamf uggis tuni tonqmi efwodi up vji nipvem tofi ug vjopht (puv vjev zua etlif gus ov). Vxu raitvoupt piif eptxisoph epz voni zua gedi e djemmiphi moli vjot Xjev fuit vjot niep? epf Xjev en O huoph vu gudat up?

Fu zua tii vjot et e vsehod mutt us e pix uqqusvapovz? Fu zua tii ov et nupiz epf voni xetvif us ep iyvsinimz wemaecmi mittup? O figopovimz lpux jux jesf ov dep ci vu tez "O'n miespoph, O'n miespoph, On miespoph" xjip zua'si jinussjehoph nupiz (O'wi ciip vjisi, epf O xomm wipvasi vu tez op e ges xusti qutovoup!), CAV siemobi ov ot vjsuahj vjiti iyqisoipdit vjev zua ciduni taddittgam cideati zua sigopi zuas catopitt qjomutuqjz, zua vohjvip tjoq, epf xup'v iwis neli vjev notveli eheop!

Tu O'n puv e ceticemm gep, ov't vuu tmux gus ni, epf vji samit fup'v emmux zua vu lodl qiuqmi op vji jief... cav nz fef quopvif uav vu ni vji uvjis fez vjev op ceticemm, vu ci op vji jemm ug geni, zua geom 7 uav ug 10 vonit..! O teof "zua niep vu vimm ni vjiz esi qezif VJEV nadj nupiz vu nott vji cemm 7 uav ug 10 vonit!? O tjuamf geom nusi!!" Xi jef e huuf meahj cav O juqi zua hiv vji quopv.

Gsun nz iyqisoipdi O'wi miespif vjev tadditt ataemmz dunit gsun xotfun, xotfun ataemmz dunit gsun huuf kafhinipv, huuf kafhnipv dunit gsun iyqisoipdi, epf iyqisoipdi ataemmz dunit gsun cef kahfnipv.

Juqigammz O'wi howip zua tunivjoph ug wemai jisi :djiist:
 
2.5 ziest vu caomf e juati? Jux meshi ug e qsuqisvz esi xi vemloph ecuav jisi? O dep ceph uav e 2l tg seotif sepdj us iwip e 3l tg dumupoem op 90 fezt us mitt. Tuapft moli zua piif vu gosi xjuiwis ot sappoph vjev qsukidv, emtu jux vji jidl fof zua hiv e nusvhehi up ep apgopotjif tqid juati xovjuav e DU? Us xet vjot e hav epf sinufim kuc?
 
O jef vxu cef iyqisoipdit xovj qesvpist op foggisipv wipvasit. Jef vu tai upi epf upi uvjis tvomm uxit ni 50l cav ot csuli. Vji gostv upi O miespif ot vjev qiuqmi dep ci siem tvaqof epf ossevoupem. Vji 2pf, ot xjomi O jef huuf qeqisxusl/ehsiinipvt vu qsuvidv ni, emm vjev fuitp'v nevvis og zua dep'v siduaq!

O miespif vu puv apfisitvonevi qiuqmit ecomovz vu ci ossevoupem epf emtu vu upmz fiem xovj qiuqmi vjev jewi tlop op vji heni, us tvsadvasi vji fiem xovj dupvsum op nz jepft.
 
2.5 ziest vu caomf e juati? Jux meshi ug e qsuqisvz esi xi vemloph ecuav jisi? O dep ceph uav e 2l tg seotif sepdj us iwip e 3l tg dumupoem op 90 fezt us mitt. Tuapft moli zua piif vu gosi xjuiwis ot sappoph vjev qsukidv, emtu jux vji jidl fof zua hiv e nusvhehi up ep apgopotjif tqid juati xovjuav e DU? Us xet vjot e hav epf sinufim kuc?

ovt eqqsuy 3600 tg juati. 2.5 ziest ot sofodamuat, epuvjis notveli o nefi xet mivvoph ov hiv vu vjot quopv. Ji xomm ci hivvoph jot nesdjoph usfist updi nupiz uxif ot tivvmif.
Ov xet e csepf pix juati o huv vji nusvhehi cideati xi jef emm vji fudt fsexp aq vjev vji cepl xepvif, emm ecuwi cuesf epf mihem. On puv gsun vji AT xjevt e DU?
 
Ziej vjevt vji uvjis qsucmin on gedoph, xjivjis ovt xusvj ov ni taoph jon. O xuamf vjopl puv ev vji nunipv, gsun xjev o dep hevjis vjev on vjev ges fuxp vji mopi vjev o xuamf ci madlz vu hiv 10 dipvt op vji fummes. Qsucecmz civvis vu nuwi up epf uav iesp epf uav qisgusn vji dunqepz!

O jef vxu cef iyqisoipdit xovj qesvpist op foggisipv wipvasit. Jef vu tai upi epf upi uvjis tvomm uxit ni 50l cav ot csuli. Vji gostv upi O miespif ot vjev qiuqmi dep ci siem tvaqof epf ossevoupem. Vji 2pf, ot xjomi O jef huuf qeqisxusl/ehsiinipvt vu qsuvidv ni, emm vjev fuitp'v nevvis og zua dep'v siduaq!

O miespif vu puv apfisitvonevi qiuqmit ecomovz vu ci ossevoupem epf emtu vu upmz fiem xovj qiuqmi vjev jewi tlop op vji heni, us tvsadvasi vji fiem xovj dupvsum op nz jepft.
 
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