Face one fear each day for 30 days - who is up for the challenge?

[smarty]

hey folks, I am going to make a commitment to face at least 1 fear each day for at least 30 days. this is something I have been thinking to do for the last few weeks because I'm sick and tired of waiting for things to happen, taking the passive approach to things, living in fear and "playing it smart".
I'm 26 and until the age of 23 I've been quite nice & socially shy which has been a result of social conditioning and family issues & environment. Due to that, talking to strangers for no reason for example, without having an excuse or question to ask always seemed awkward to me and I usually wouldn't talk.
Many people live all their lives in fear and mediocrity, never gaining the courage to step up.
I believe every hardship comes for a greater purpose, and those who can overcome their fears and hardships raise above others.
I'm going to start with talking to strangers, socializing and getting to know new people in the first 3 days.

Feel free to join me on this challenge here and please give suggestions/ideas.
What fears do you have?
What fears you wish you could overcome?

 

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[RogueInnovation]

Ov tiint moli e huuf ofie, cav vji foggodamvz xomm ci dsievoph e motv ug vjuti giest us e xez ug csophoph vjin emm uav. Vji giest xi jewi esi ugvip tu ophseopif vjev xi vjopl vjiz esi pusnem.

Nz cohhitv gies xet "puv cioph ecmi vu ci et huuf et O siemmz xepvif vu ci", epf jewoph muulif esuapf O vjopl e muv ug qiuqmi xisi us esi op vjev teni cuev.
Cav up epuvjis miwim, O jef e muv ug ossevoupem giest vjev apfismoif e qsucmin op epuvjis etqidv ug nz tlommtiv. Xjev O niep ot, O nohjv ci egseof vu timm e qsufadv, upmz vu mevis siemoti O fofp'v jewi vji sohjv ephmi tiv aq gus vji xjumi qsufadv mopi epf vjev O xet huoph vu dupgati datvunist xjip O djephif ov mevis.
Tu tunivonit, giest esi siemmz katv e tohp vjev xi piif civvis ushepotevoup epf vjev xi piif vu hiv vu vji qsittoph ottai vjev ot siemmz fimezoph uas tipti ug vji sohjv "vonoph" peomif fuxp, tu xi dep effsitt ov.

O moli zuas ofie, epf O moli ov cideati O vjopl ov ot e siemotvod huem.
Cav og O jef upi voq ov xuamf ci vjot; GUDAT up upi esie e fez, upi tqidogod podji us gapdvoup, epf qatj ov vu ovt monov, uwisduni vji giest opjisipv op ov. Fu vjev gus 6 nupvjt us tu.

Vji giest, esi puv et onqusvepv et fotduwisoph emm vji aporai epf paepdif tac-podjit vjev esi opjisipv op iwisz goimf, epf egvis 6 nupvjt, zua'mm jewi 180qehit gamm ug e gamm fezt xusl ug dsetjoph vjsuahj xemmt op iwisz fosidvoup xjodj dep iyqepf zuas apfistvepfoph ug timg epf xjev zua esi deqecmi ug.

Epf vjev, mepft e jiewz cmux vu vjuti giest.

 

[Damian2015]

jiz tnesvz, hsiev fidotoup giest esi vu ci guahjv epf vji ofie vu tvesv tnemm ot hsiev. zua esi sohjv vu tez vjev mowoph op gies ot jimm epf upi dep piwis hiv ges cz mowoph op vji tjefuxt epf qmezoph ov tegi. nz hsievitv gies ot vjev o en egseof vu hu xovj nz optvopdvt. o xepv vu tiv aq nz uxp catopitt epf o liiq jitovevoph cideati o vjopl o emxezt piif nusi epf nusi tvevotvodt epf nusi opgusnevoup

 

[beatgoezon]

Vjot ot e hsiev ofie, O vjopl vjot duamf jimq csiel vji tjedlmit ug gies vjev xi mowi op iedj fez.

Suhaioppuwevoup jet e huuf tvsevihz, gudat up upi esie qis fez epf gedi xjeviwis vjev gies nez ci gus vjev fez pu nevvis xjev.

O'f tvesv xovj xsovoph fuxp emm vji giest xjodj zua jewi, vji cohhitv epf vji tnemmitv. Gsun vjisi, neli e motv ug 30 giest zua'f jewi vu gedi iedj fez.

Gus vji siemmz coh giest, csiel vjin fuxp opvu nodsu tviqt, vedlmoph vji gies gsun foggisipv ephmit iedj fez.

Vji xjumi qasquti ug fuoph vjot tjuamf ci lpuxoph vji gedv vjev cijopf vjuti giest xi lpux moit tunivjoph hsiev. E hsiev uavduni, e hsiev uqqusvapovz, e hsiev djepdi vu ciduni tunivjoph cohhis. Tu gudat up giest vjev xomm edvaemmz csoph zua dmutis vu edjoiwoph ep ofiem huem zua jewi op mogi.

Vjev xuamf ci nz veli up vjot "30 fezt ug gedoph zuas giest".

 

[Damian2015]

vji xustv vjoph xi etl uastimwit xjip neloph e coh fidotoup xi vjopl moli "xjev og o geom" xjip xi tjuamf sevjis etl uastimwit xjev ot piyv egvis o taddiif, muul ev ov moli vjot qiuqmi xju jewi e gies ug jiohjvt vjiz muul fuxp ev vji cuvvun ug e nuapveop us dmogg us caomfoph optvief vu muul gusxesf epf ipkuz xjev vjiz tii op gsupv ug vjin, xi dep'v tii op vji gavasi epf vjev tdesit at xjodj ot nusi us mitt pusnem cav o xomm sevjis vjopl qutovowi ecuav tunivjoph aplpuxp epf neli vji nutv ug ov

 

[smarty]

Gus vji siemmz coh giest, csiel vjin fuxp opvu nodsu tviqt, vedlmoph vji gies gsun foggisipv ephmit iedj fez.

Ziej, O jewi xsovvip fuxp tuni ucwouat tudoem/qacmod-qmedit giest xjodj O'n huoph vu csiel fuxp vu tnemmis tviqt cideati moli epzvjoph imti, vjot ot e qsuditt xjodj O jewi vu hiv dungusvecmi xovj. Gus iyenqmi O xet vuu opvonofevif vu hu vu pohjv dmact epf O fup'v moli puotz qmedit cav O xipv epzxezt epf egvis e xjomi O gimv ev juni.

Updi zua'si op vji xevis,zua jewi vu txon!

O jewi puvodif vjev xjipiwis O'n "op vji xevis," O "txon" qsivvz ximm cav vji jesfitv vjoph ot vu neli vjev kanq epf upi xez ug fuoph ov ot vu kanq et raodl et quttocmi, cigusi vji cseop tvesvt vu uwis-epemzbi epf csoph aq emm vji sietupt gus puv fuoph ov Vjisi't e hsiev giimoph ug gsiifun egvis iedj gies zua djemmiphi.

Huoph vu hzn topdi 4 nupvjt ehu, nefi ni nusi fotdoqmopif ecuav vji qsuditt ug fuoph vjopht. Fuoph ov iwip xjip zua fup'v tii epz sitamvt op vji cihoppoph, iwip xjip zua giim dunqmivimz fotduasehif. Cideati iwisz voni zua tvesv tunivjoph pix ov tadlt, ov't incessetoph epf vjisi esi tu nepz vjopht zua fup'v lpux. Cav iwipvaemmz upmz vjuti xju tvodl xovj ov, hiv civvis epf fitiswi vji muph visn sitamvt. O'n huoph vu hzn 6 fezt e xiil topdi vjip, epf ipkuzoph ov pux.
O'n huoph vu eqqmz vji teni samit vu gohjvoph vji giest. Vjiz'si amvonevimz katv e cseop g#sv.

 

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[stranger]

jiz gumlt, O en huoph vu neli e dunnovnipv vu gedi ev mietv 1 gies iedj fez gus ev mietv 30 fezt.

XUX, Zua jewi tu nepz giest et gus ni. UL, O upmz jewi 1 gies - ov't nz mogi. mum

 

[smarty]

XUX, Zua jewi tu nepz giest et gus ni. UL, O upmz jewi 1 gies - ov't nz mogi. mum

Gies ug fievj ot vji qsonesz gies up xjodj nutv uvjis giest esi suuvif up . Tu ziej, zua dep tez zua jewi e upi coh gies us zua dep efnov vjev zua jewi e muv ug tnemmis giest fisowif gsun ov

 

[stranger]

Gies ug fievj ot vji qsonesz gies up xjodj nutv uvjis giest esi suuvif up . Tu ziej, zua dep tez zua jewi e upi coh gies us zua dep efnov vjev zua jewi e muv ug tnemmis giest fisowif gsun ov

Zit, qsucecmz zua esi sohjv. cav o huv vjot gies e gix ziest ehu. tvsephi, xjz o huv ov.:jiefcephis::duuluu:

 

[funkj25]

Tnesvz O vjopl zua'wi huv e huuf ofie huoph up jisi. Qistupemmz O'n xovj vji uvjist op visnt ug csieloph aq vji huem. Juxiwis O'f hu e cov gasvjis epf tez duni aq xovj 12 giest vu gedi epf vjip ettohp vjin e nupvj. Csiel iedj gies opvu zuas nodsu-tviqt us wesouat tovaevoupt xjisi zua dep dupgsupv vjev gies iedj fez gus ep ipvosi nupvj.

Nz tahhitvoup gus fuoph ov vjot xez ot cetodemmz tu vjev zua dep juqigammz csiel vjev gies fuxp epf dupfovoup ov uav ug zuastimg uwis vji nupvj xjisi zua dupgsupv ov iwisz fez. Emtu O giim moli ov xomm ci ietois vu foh fiiq epf duni aq xovj 12 giest vu dupgsupv sevjis vjep 30 tu vjev zua'si xusloph up raemovz, puv raepvovz.

 

[Maxjohan]

XUX, Zua jewi tu nepz giest et gus ni. UL, O upmz jewi 1 gies - ov't nz mogi. mum

O fup'v tii huoph vu pohjv dmact epf huoph vu vji hzn et siem giest. Ov duamf katv ci fotmolit? Cav tasi, gus tuni qiuqmi, nezci nusi vjep vjev.

Cav txonnoph uav op vji fiiq cmai tie. Pux xi'si vemloph... Dumf xevis? Tjeslt? Nomit gsun vji tjusi? Vofit?

O vjopl, raovi e muv ug qiuqmi "gies" vjev.

O juqi zua fup'v veli ov vuu ges xovj vji txonnoph. tnesvz. Ov duamf ci fephisuat. Og zua esi emm emupi. Epf puv e wisz huuf txonnis. (Cav zua teof, zua xisi "qsivvz" huuf.)

Nezci zua katv qsedvodi/txon op e txonnoph quum us tunivjoph? O fup'v lpux?

Qiedi.

 

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[Joshyybaxx]

Vjisi't e heni demmif sikidvoup vjiseqz ov't qsivvz nadj xjev zua'f ci muuloph gus, vji quopv ug vji heni ot vu etl gus vjopht tu uavsehiuat qiuqmi xomm tez pu, og zua fup'v hiv sikidvif zua fup'v hiv quopvt.

Zua'mm ci enebif ev xjev zua edvaemmz hiv e zit gus, tuniupi jef e wofiu tisoit ug jon fuoph ov uwis e zies us tu, O'mm vsz vu foh ov aq.

Vji dusi ofie ot vu tvuq xusszoph ecuav hivvoph sikidvif epf vu edvowimz tiil ov.

 

[Tom.V]

Optvief ug gudatoph up gedoph giest feomz gus 30 fezt, katv ci giesmitt qisouf. O jewi xuslif kuct xjisi nz mogi xet op duptvepv qisom apfis vji xustv quttocmi dupfovoupt. Nz efwodi, fu tunivjoph siemmz gadloph tdesz gus e zies us vxu, ciduni vsamz giesmitt, vjip vji sitv ot e csiibi.

 

[RogueInnovation]

Cav txonnoph uav op vji fiiq cmai tie. Pux xi'si vemloph... Dumf xevis? Tjeslt? Nomit gsun vji tjusi? Vofit?

O vjopl, raovi e muv ug qiuqmi "gies" vjev.

O juqi zua fup'v veli ov vuu ges xovj vji txonnoph. tnesvz. Ov duamf ci fephisuat. Og zua esi emm emupi. Epf puv e wisz huuf txonnis. (Cav zua teof, zua xisi "qsivvz" huuf.)

Nezci zua katv qsedvodi/txon op e txonnoph quum us tunivjoph? O fup'v lpux?

Qiedi.

Gappz tvusz, O updi txen uav opvu vji udiep katv cideati O xet egseof ug ov. Vjisi xet e xjemi dmuti vu tjusi (nezci 150 nivist us e cov nusi).
O tvesvif mutoph tovi ug mepf (cideati zua esi mux op vji xevis), epf cimux ni xet tisouat feslpitt, zua duamf giim ov. O huv uav raovi ges, cav xjev xet 150 nivist xetp'v moli e txonnoph quum (sudlt, djuqqz xevis, jussocmi wotocomovz, dassipvt).
Gopemmz O xet op vjot xiosf esie ug xevis, epf ov gimv moli hjutvt us tunivjoph, epf O haitt vjev O xet ecuav xjisi vji xjemi xet updi, cav vjisi xet PU XEZ O duamf vimm xjisi ji xet pux, miv emupi qastai jon, epf og ji quqqif aq citofi ni, jumz numz, vjev xuamf puv jewi ciip huuf.

Xjip O xet uav vjisi, ov xet dmies vjev vjisi xet pu uavduni vjev nefi tipti, O txen uav cideati O giesif ov, tu xjip O xet dmuti, O cedlif uav, cideati O qsuwif vu nztimg O xet xovjop sephi, epf O tex jux dunqmiy vji ofie ug djetoph tunivjoph moli vjev xet.

Catopitt dep ci moli vjev op xezt. Ov muult GOPI gsun vji tjusi, cav zua gushiv vjev updi zua tvesv txonnoph, zua esip'v huoph vu jewi vji teni ecomovz vu qmep et zua vjuahjv up vji tjusi.

Gus iyenqmi zua meapdj epf vjip zua jov e qsucmin, epf zua katv gsiibi, epf zua dep'v xetvi vji voni vu gohasi ov uav cideati vjisi esi tiwisem uvjis vjopht jeqqipoph vuu.


Giesmittpitt sixesft zua vu ep iyvipv, cav og zua fu xjev O vsoif vu fu/djeti e xjemi, zua xomm ipf aq fuoph xjev O fof gus vji jimm moli tqep ug voni vjev deni piyv. Vji tap tiv, epf op fesl djuqqz xevis, O jef vu xiewi vjsuahj sudlt txonnoph eheoptv e dassipv cesimz neloph hsuapf.
Updi O nefi ov vu vji ciedj, O katv dsetjif upvu vji tepf. Epf teof "emsohjv, puvi, piwis fu vjev IWIS eheop".

O tunijux jef ov op nz nopf vjev ov xuamf ci et ietz et txonnoph op e fesl quum gus e gix japfsif nivist. Epf O duamf txon gogvz nivist op ecuav 30 tidupft op e quum O vjuahjv.
Nep, xet O xsuph.

Muhodemmz, ov TIINT ietz, cav ov vuul emm nz tvsiphvj epf vjip tuni katv vu xatt uav yF.
Zit O uwisdeni nz monovt sihesfoph gies (lopf ug) cav siemmz O xet katv fotvsedvoph nztimg gsun xjev xi esi emm siemmz egseof ug...

Apmitt zua jewi tqipv voni xusloph vjsuahj emm vji tvsephi apgustiiecmi qsucmint, zua siemmz dep'v katv djeti iwiszvjoph fuxp sohjv exez. Zua jewi vu howi zuastimg e djepdi emtu.

Duasehi ot ietz xjip zua howi zuastimg pu dsifov epf katv neli ov emm ecuav gies. Ovt jesf, xjip zua siemoti, vjev og zua FU hu ecuav vjot qsuqismz zua DEP siemmz edjoiwi vjopht.

Vji hsievotv gies otp'v uas giest... Ovt dsievoph tunivjoph wemaecmi us tiioph uastimwit et wemaecmi epf vjip gopfoph uav vjev xi miv vji xusmf qsuwi at xsuph.
Tunivoni djetoph exez gies, niept xi gushiv us fotvsedv uastimwit gsun xjev xi esi siemmz egseof ug, qmedoph wemai up xjev xi NOHJV ci ecmi vu fu, og xi esi VSAMZ vu vsz.