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Dealing with procrastination when you're comfortable

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This will probably be long…



Well you could first figure out what changed and use that as a starting point but it probably isn’t worth the exercise.

The problem is comfortable is a bad place to be as there is little incentive to move forward. It’s why many people spend their whole lives working in an average job doing average things when greatness was easily within their grasp. Much better to be broke or seriously in debt and about to lose everything. There is nothing like impending doom to create forward motion.



It’s because you are thinking of this as a sprint rather than a marathon. All these quick fixes work like a watch with a broken main spring. You can wind it up and it might run for 30 seconds but if the core mechanics that keep it running day after day are broken then you will tire of constantly having to turn that winder. You will eventually give up and so don’t stand a chance. So, you either fix the broken parts or you create a new set of mechanics that will replace the old broken ones.

To move forward you need some form of incentive. You need to figure out if that incentive needs to be in the form of a push or a pull (or both). A push for example is having a peer group around you that are focused and doing great things. People who will inspire you and push you forward. Accountability partners, people who are a couple of years ahead of where you want to be. People who won’t accept excuses and will give you some tough love.

Pull comes in the form of what rewards will come from your efforts. A new home, a better life, travel, more free time, less stress, (fast cars, loose women). ;)

Whatever you see as a strong, positive motivator.

Both the push or pull (or combination) need to be in the real world. The internet is great but it’s just a screen at the end of the day. Turn it off and it’s gone. Out of sight, out of mind. So your peer group should predominantly exist in the real world. People you can meet up with once, twice or three times a week. Spend time with and help motivate each other.

For a pull buy yourself a cork board, stick it somewhere you will see it every morning and fill it with pictures of the things you desire or motivate you. Create a bread crumb list. Get to A give yourself a reward. Get to B get a bigger reward and work your way up.



What did you do instead during those two hours?

Understand that to move forward successfully you need to plan successfully. ALWAYS make a ToDo list the day/night before. Plan your day from start to finish.

Think about your most important task and what you are going to do to fulfil it before going to sleep then get up and attack it first thing whilst your willpower and motivation is high. If you screw up and do nothing else towards your goals for the rest of the day you have still achieved something solid. But don’t forget to do your list again that evening. Rinse and repeat.

If you are still struggling, then change your environment. This is the #1 issue most of the time but often gets overlooked. If you are not productive in your current environment it is very difficult to force yourself into productivity no matter how hard you try or how many tricks you employ.

I’m just getting back to the grind myself after having to concentrate on other matters. On days I want to work on my business I get up and drive 12 miles to a local town, sit in a café and work until noon. Then I go to the library and work from there until they close. No distractions save for breaks when the clock says its time (Pomodoro).

I could write chapters on this subject. The most important thing for you is creating a consistent habit of productivity rather than procrastination (which is your current habit).

You can’t rely solely on motivation, and willpower is totally overrated. Willpower depletes like sand in an hour glass. Make the most of it first thing in the morning and then rely on strong processes to see you through the rest of the day. Environment is everything. If you are in a productive environment that will carry you forward. A non-productive environment (the one you currently procrastinate in) will pretty much guarantee failure.

So plan your whole day out in advance. Tweak where needed. Once you get into a daily routine that works don’t deviate from it, keep doing exactly the same thing day in day out until it becomes a habit. The first week is the hardest but stick with it. Get three weeks under your belt and there will be no stopping you.

This post is money, theres a great series of videos out there called productivity unleased. Heres a few notes I took on one of the 4 modules

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I have two jobs currently and I am trying to work on a business. If I had financial freedom my life would be the exact same, I'd stay at home and work on my music and dedicate all my time to that. Of course some traveling as well, I'd buy my dream car and I would be happy with that. I wouldn't really spend much of my money, I'm not a big spender just the car and house would need my own in the future and some musical equipment.

Why haven't I started a band? I don't know I guess it's a dilemma between the fastlane and starting a band. With the business I just started dropshipping as I gave up on my previous business idea.

It's possible that you may need some further motivation and I wonder... would you be able to get by financially, even just, with only working one of your two jobs? If you're making enough income currently to be comfortable, then it might help you to get a little uncomfortable in order to motivate you (and it would also free up some time).

My husband quit his job with only a month or two of savings in the bank and was forced to make the business he'd started work at least well enough to pay the bills. I joined him two years later and even though it wasnt bringing in enough income to fully replace my salary yet, that made it more motivating to get out there and make it work. It's now bringing in enough to support both of us in a pretty good lifestyle, but we want more (everything I listed above) which is why we keep going. And over the last five years there have certainly been points where we got comfortable and complacent and the business stagnated, although the cool thing about the right business is that it grows and does work for you even when you're not thinking about it. Also, sometimes your efforts years in the past will come back with a big win after you'd long forgot about it.

To me, having to work for someone else, and trading 5 for 2, was a huge motivator to start my own thing. What I wanted even more than a consistent income was control over my time, and I had to let go of the security of my job to get that. The income came later and now I make more than I did before, with probably a 1 for five ratio (instead of 5 for 2).

Your desires dont have to be rich to want financial independence. If you could make enough money to support yourself through a business, you could stay at home and work on your music whenever you want. There will be some hard work required to get there, but it's well within your reach if you want it. If that's motivating enough to you then get going :)
 

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@LiveEntrepreneur , this is a great topic, and I understand where you are coming from because I can tend to do that, too - become comfortable and so lack the motivation to break out into something else. Some steps that I have taken are:
1. I quit my job, and we are not in any financial stress, but I like to make money, so I will.
2. I want to help my son, and we will learn together.
3. I am depriving myself of things that would make me more comfortable, such as a new vehicle. I am driving a 14-year-old van, and I am not allowing myself to get a new one (or something cooler, lol) until my business income can pay for it.

I could recommend books on habit formation and goal setting but then you'd be action faking reading books instead of doing the work.
you're experiencing resistance, the counter to resistance is work. The resistance doesn't go away, ever. You just work through it.

People with a "strong work ethic" experience resistance, its just they've got the motor memory wired in so that they reach for a shovel instead of sitting on the couch and whipping out the smartphone.

The answer to defeating "not work" is "work"

@MHP368 I think this is so true. I just quit my job (Thursday was my last day), I took the weekend off, and I plan to just take action, and I will put as much effort into my entrepreneural endeavors as I did my job, and perhaps I will work longer and be glad of it. One thing I am not allowing myself to do is to read more books, because I love to read, so have to deprive myself of doing this because I can easily slip into action-faking. If I wouldn't do it at a job, then I'm not going to interrupt my own endeavors with it.

Make the most of it first thing in the morning and then rely on strong processes to see you through the rest of the day.
So plan your whole day out in advance. Tweak where needed. Once you get into a daily routine that works don’t deviate from it, keep doing exactly the same thing day in day out until it becomes a habit. The first week is the hardest but stick with it. Get three weeks under your belt and there will be no stopping you.

@RazorCut - I like these ideas, spelled out. I am going to use the daily planning sheets that I bought from @MJ DeMarco to set my goals, and to stick with them. Your reminder to make goals the process will help me stick to the path that I set up.

So, @LiveEntrepreneur, I appreciate you starting this thread, because it was very timely for me, too.
 

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So last few months my procrastination has gotten really bad, I don't know what changed but I am just putting off doing stuff that I need for my business idea. The real truth is and I hate to admit it is that the situation isn't bad enough for me to change it, I am just too comfortable like I want the benefits but find it hard to push my self to do it. But for example last year I would have been in the same position, but wasn't as bad as it is now. I've even done stuff like cold showers to get out of my comfort zone and looking at some Google tips to try and fix this, but I feel like I am just looking for a quick solution and nothing is working.

Just wondering anyone who has been in this position how did you deal with it? I was in fact supposed to write this post over 2 hours ago, and start some work but the comfort is taking over.
I'm a master of procrastination in fact i'm doing it right now.
7:30 am sunday in london and its my birthday.
that said , you procrastinate due to either being terrified of stepping out of your comfort zone.
or because you are totally clueless about something you have to do .
or becasue you have zero interest want or need to do what you should be doing.

if its due to fear...you have to force yourself to do it...make a quick list and start hitting it..even whilst fearful
if its becasue you are totally clueless...then start ..get started by beginning it and then using tons of effort to learn how to do it and just fumble your way through this dificult taks until it is done
if you actually have zero interest..then recognize this fact ...admit it to yourself, and start planning to do something else.
 

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Just wondering anyone who has been in this position how did you deal with it?

You deal with it by not procrastinating any more. I know it feels awkward, to suddenly takes action after 6 months, because then you really have to acknowledge to yourself, how little progress you have made. The alternative is waiting and letting your dreams slowly die :smile2:

Leverage also works. If you want, send me (or anyone on this forum) $100, and get it back after you take action and post about it?
Or even $1. In my experience, $1 leverage can be surprisingly effective.

You still need goals and a plan. You can't just be randomly pushing yourself out of comfort zones. Write down your goals on paper. Write down your plan on paper. Losers think about stuff and wonder, why they are losers. If you don't want to be a loser, write it down, and start working. Forget all those videos, just do it.
 
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If anyone has experience with keeping the drive up and not procrastinating once the weekend hits; I'd love to hear your story.
I'm running an expirement right now by taking my PC setup and chucking it in a closet; leaving me with only a laptop and some notepads.
Doing my best to keep myself on track both during and after the workweek.

So guys...I am...going .... To....a....salsa..class! Uncomfortable I am the shittiest dancer possibly on planet earth. Also looks like a much older crowd than me. I knew it would push my comfort zone so I did it.

Enjoy dude, Salsa is a huge amount of fun and great for developing rockstar presence!
 
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You've solved the puzzle right there. It's your why. It's way too weak. There is no passion for success so it's very unlikely you will be able to overcome the procrastination as there is zero incentive. It's a whim rather than a strong desire.
Not sure man. I mean i get the feeling that alot of people here didnt like the process they werent passionate,some were hungry for it. I dont feel that way wish i did though.

With passion that is something to me where u cant wake up to the next morning and do your work i dont have that drive,never really have. The only thing i think about day in and out is starting a band lol.
 

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Hey! Happy Monday :)

I haven’t read all replies as I’m rushing for school run so apologies if I’m repeating. I just wanted to share what I do in this position...

My husband is the breadwinner in our house, he earns enough at the moment for us to be comfortable (for now), but he’s a slave to his job, and we have 3 kids to try and bring up so although we’re good now, we want more for our (not too far off) future.

To overcome this we save just a little bit more each month than we feel comfortable doing. We’ve been doing it for a while now and it’s changed our mindset. Although we have the money, we know it’s not touchable so we feel driven to grow our income. I know it sounds weird but giving yourself a small and restricted budget each month for disposable income really focuses your mind. Sometimes it feels crazy, I’ll be budgeting like mad to make sure we can pay for things but it keeps you hungry! Another benefit is that we now have some investments and have paid down our mortgage by 35k.

Now I wouldn’t recommend this as a lifestyle choice - it feels fun now because we know we’re using it to grow, but to scrimp as a way of life, just no!

Everyone’s circumstances are different, look at your own life and set targets but ours are to do this until our youngest is at school in September and until my business starts to pick up.

To sum up, tell your brain you’re uncomfortable, poverty drives me, it might drive you... push yourself.

Have a great day x
 
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Then that's what you should do. Start a band if that's the ONE thing that drives you. What instrument(s) do you play? Do you sing? Do you write songs? What genre?

The people here who didn't like the process still ground it out as it wasn't the journey that motivated them but the destination. You have little desire to grind it out so maybe you should pursue your desires and come back to entrepreneurship if/when you feel that need.
Maybe not sure yet, this business stuff hasn't gone anywhere after 4 years so might be the end of the chapter soon. Just hope this isn't another mistake lol. But yeah starting a band definitely something I have the drive for, some would say I am looking for the easy way out, maybe.
 

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A few questions...

I don't know your current situation, are you currently employed or if not, how do you earn your income? What is the difference between where you are right now and where you would be with financial freedom? What, if anything, would you do differently every day having achieved financial freedom? How would you spend your time? How would you spend your money? If you're passionate about starting a band, why haven't you done so? Would having financial freedom change your ability or willingness to start one?

For me, the biggest motivator in wanting financial freedom was having total control over my time. Only having to work when I wanted to. It took a year or two, but I've pretty much done that, and now my motivation comes from wanting to increase my quality of life, which for me means being able to afford to purchase a home outright and I live in Hawaii so that is no small feat. To have fun toys (surfboards, paddle boards, mountain bikes) and lots of time to pursue my hobbies. To be able to travel with my husband (and eventually children) whenever I want, and to be able to help out our families who struggle financially.

Once you've figured out whether financial freedom would change your life enough to motivate you through all the work it will take, then you need to find a way to stay focused and on task especially if the process of building your business (money tree) is a lengthy one. May I ask what your business is or what you are working on? Is there anything about it that excites you? My business is selling textiles, which is not a particularly exciting arena, but I find satisfaction in serving our customers well (providing value) and from the income I receive through doing it. Additionally I find satisfaction in learning new ideas/skills that help me improve my business and allow me to offer more value to more people, and earn exponentially more while doing so.

Hope this helps! Also just go ahead and start your band... What have you got to lose?
I have two jobs currently and I am trying to work on a business. If I had financial freedom my life would be the exact same, I'd stay at home and work on my music and dedicate all my time to that. Of course some traveling as well, I'd buy my dream car and I would be happy with that. I wouldn't really spend much of my money, I'm not a big spender just the car and house would need my own in the future and some musical equipment.

Why haven't I started a band? I don't know I guess it's a dilemma between the fastlane and starting a band. With the business I just started dropshipping as I gave up on my previous business idea.
 

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Is it ok to do it for the destination rather than the "journey"?

Everyone says it's the journey, not the end goal but I feel like I'm the complete opposite. I'm sure OP feels the same.

For example, I'd like to buy a fixer-upper one day and rent it out. Whenever I'm working on a project I completely lose track of time because I am 100% focused and I look forward to the before/after.
I don't think it's a journey, journeys are fun lol.
 

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Sorry you didn't get much out of it.

What I got out of it and what many clients do, is that procrastination is actually something we can look forward to.

We all procrastinate. Everyone does this, not a single person in the world doesn't procrastinate.

What makes a difference is us being honest about where we are procrastinating. Being truthful to ourselves.

And usually, the specific action that we're procrastinating on will bring the greatest result to your business. It's the thing that will grow you the most. You procrastinate because you're afraid, it's too big, OR it doesn't excite you to do that. In that case, delegate it.

Procrastination is a great indicator of the NEXT STEP. If you start your day asking yourself "What am I procrastinating on?" and do it, you'll greatly speed up the growth of your business.

I love procrastination. To me, it works as a compass pointing me in the right direction.

Excellent advice, Tiago.
Thanks for sharing the video & providing your take. I'm going to jump off the forum now, and get some work done :)
 
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It's possible that you may need some further motivation and I wonder... would you be able to get by financially, even just, with only working one of your two jobs? If you're making enough income currently to be comfortable, then it might help you to get a little uncomfortable in order to motivate you (and it would also free up some time).

My husband quit his job with only a month or two of savings in the bank and was forced to make the business he'd started work at least well enough to pay the bills. I joined him two years later and even though it wasnt bringing in enough income to fully replace my salary yet, that made it more motivating to get out there and make it work. It's now bringing in enough to support both of us in a pretty good lifestyle, but we want more (everything I listed above) which is why we keep going. And over the last five years there have certainly been points where we got comfortable and complacent and the business stagnated, although the cool thing about the right business is that it grows and does work for you even when you're not thinking about it. Also, sometimes your efforts years in the past will come back with a big win after you'd long forgot about it.

To me, having to work for someone else, and trading 5 for 2, was a huge motivator to start my own thing. What I wanted even more than a consistent income was control over my time, and I had to let go of the security of my job to get that. The income came later and now I make more than I did before, with probably a 1 for five ratio (instead of 5 for 2).

Your desires dont have to be rich to want financial independence. If you could make enough money to support yourself through a business, you could stay at home and work on your music whenever you want. There will be some hard work required to get there, but it's well within your reach if you want it. If that's motivating enough to you then get going :)
Well with my 2 jobs I only work one shift with my other job, I have a 9-5 job Monday to Friday and weekend usually just a Saturday but sometimes Sunday, I could easily get pass on one job the pay is pretty good but I am keeping my other job because I really enjoy and don't want to give it up.
 

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One thing that’s helpful for me is to have folks that I feel obligated to answer to - that expect to hear from me and see progress, and will slightly kick my a$$ if I come across as unproductive. Do you any have such relationships? Anybody that is waiting to hear an update?

Beyond many other small motivators, this is self-shaming for me if I can’t deliver some good news, or at least a ton of effort in the right direction. We can live with our own shame, but having others disappointed at us hurts a lot more. Mentors, other entrepreneurs - real process/progress minded folks that can call bs on you.
No don't have those type of relationships.
 
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