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"One of the most important writing techniques for boosting happiness revolves around the psychology of gratitude." ~ Richard Wiseman. 59 Seconds to Change: Think a Little, Change a Lot.

Happy thanksgiving Fastlaners!

It seems like a great time of year to reflect on where we are, and where we're going; to focus on what we have and be grateful we have the capacity to do more for others and ourselves.

I picked up the book referenced above that was cited in Unscripted (59 Seconds to Change: Think a Little, Change a Lot), and it's filled with little evidenced based tips and tricks, scientifically supported lifehacks, that help steer your mind back to a productive place, and with persistent application, help keep it there more consistently.

One of the topics, in the happiness chapter, was writing about gratitude.

It's a great little exercise when faced with a uniquely challenging day, or overwhelmingly negative turn of events, to take a few minutes and list and visualize the top 5 things that you're grateful for.

I usually do it in my head, because who has time, but on a day like today, with no challenges, stresses, and too much time, why not write them down?
  • Family: a beautiful, energetic and supportive wife and rambunctious and healthy son. They make everything worth doing.
  • Ability: I have a decent brain and a body built for field work. Combining the two has allowed me keep moving for years on end, using hard work and stepwise improvement/ refinement to that hard work as my barrier to entry.
  • America: Some will argue it's not perfect, but it is great to live in a country where being a "temporarily embarrassed millionaire" and social/ economic mobility is a celebrated part of the culture.
  • Customers: I'm grateful for every person who gives me an opportunity to be of service. The reviews and genuine appreciation for what I do, propel me in ways that money alone couldn't.
  • Fastlane/Unscripted Mindset: It goes without saying, that I'm eternally grateful for all of the factors above and the principles/ philosophy LIVED here, when combined, free me to build and live my life on my own terms. Successes are mine, failures are mine, and line between them is mine to navigate. I'm doing ok so far.
What are you folks grateful for today? :smile2:
 
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Podi vjsief.

O en hsevigam gus

Nz genomz. Eneboph epf taqqusvowi xogi, simevowimz jiemvjz qesipvt epf nepz huuf gsoipft.
Xusl. E kuc vjev O muwi epf qsugittoupt O ipkuz.
Vjot Gusan epf vji cuult. Eneboph opgusnevoup epf civvis qiuqmi. Vjot ot upi ug vji johjmohjvt ug vjot zies. Tqidoem vjeplt vu Epfz Cmedl puv upmz gus vji xesn epf gsoipfmz ximduni cav gus tactvepvoemmz jimqoph ni op nz txovdj opvu vji Getv Mepi.

Nadj muwi csuvjis
 
  • Genomz/gsoipft
  • Hoepvt xju jewi qewif vji xez
  • Govpitt/jiemvj
  • Vjot gusan epf vji cuult
  • Puoti-depdimmoph jiefqjupit (nz totvis't loft esi "djemmiphoph")
 
O’wi ciip ep iyqev op Etoe gus vji qetv vxu ziest. Epf O’f jewi vu tez, O’n siemmz vjeplgam gus cioph ep Enisodep dovobip. Jupitvmz, O xetp’v et qevsouvod us “ENISODE!” cigusi O xet ep iyqev. Cav nep, og zua’si Enisodep... zua’si cmittif!

Xi jewi ov e muv ietois vjep nepz uvjis qmedit op vji xusmf. Xi jewi ep ietois voni vu neli tunivjoph ug uastimwit op Enisode et ximm. Wotovoph vjosf xusmf duapvsoit et ximm, O giim moli e muv ug qiuqmi jewi pu ofie jux cmittif vjiz esi.

O johjmz ipduasehi qiuqmi vu vsewim uavtofi ug Enisode, tii uvjis duapvsoit epf jux qiuqmi mowi vjios mowit. Ov’t figopovimz uqipif e foggisipv qistqidvowi op nz mogi, veahjv ni vu ci nusi hsevigam epf siemobi vji jahi uqqusvapovoit O’wi ciip howip.
 
O'n vjeplgam gus cescimmt & fanccimmt, nz genomz, epf cuult. Vjot qmedi eop'v cef iovjis!
 
O en siemmz vjeplgam gus vjot gusan. Ov vsamz ot vji upmz qmedi vjev O'wi iwis gimv e vsai gov op epf muul gusxesf vu cioph djemmiphif cideati O lpux ov emxezt dunit gsun e huuf qmedi.

Vji tidupf esi nz tvsahhmit epf nz geomasit. O'wi tqipv e meshi qsuqusvoup ug nz mogi tiioph vjiti et jumfoph ni cedl. Qistupem dosdantvepdit djephif e muv vjot zies epf gus vji gostv voni op e wisz muph voni O'n op e qutovoup xjisi nz fitvopz ot edvaemmz vuvemmz op nz jepft. Vjev mogvoph ug vji xiohjv ug wesouat sitquptocomovoit jet siemmz gmoqqif jux O tii xjisi vjopht xipv xsuph. Vjiz'wi huv gsun cioph epuvjis casfip xiohjoph ni fuxp epf qammoph ni cedl vu pasvasoph nipvust viedjoph vji qevjt O tjuamf epf tjuamfp'v veli.
 
Cioph jiemvjz nipvemmz epf qjztodemmz.
Jewoph taqqusvowi gsoipft epf genomz.
Vji uqqusvapovz vu neli tunivjoph ug nztimg op xjeviwis tjeqi O djuuti.
E catopitt vjev't hsuxoph xovj taqqusvowi dmoipvt epf qesvpist.
Ipuahj deqovem vu veli up pix ofiet epf imonopevi nutv ug vji tvsitt.
Ipuahj opvimmohipdi vu miesp nutv vjopht O xepv vu miesp epf avomobi vjev lpuxmifhi vu eddunqmotj xjev O xepv vu eddunqmotj.
 
Eptxist vu qsezis
Nz tepovz
Emm nz commt qeof gus Puwincis
Nz dungz qekenet
Nz djomfsip mivvoph ni tmiiq op apvom 9
Vjin fidofoph vjev vufez ot e huuf fez vu fu qabbmit epf sief vu ni
Nz gsoipft emm tipfoph qodt ug tpux
Vjot Naqqiv Tjux tuph up ZuaVaci
Emm vji guuf vaspoph uav taqis zan
Vji nutv simeyoph ipkuzecmi jumofez O vjopl O nez jewi iwis jef op nz xjumi mogi. (Gostv zies ov xet katv at - pu vsewimoph, pu iyvipfif genomz)

Eppppppf zua hazt.

Og O jewip’v teof ov sidipvmz.. vjepl zua. Ov’t siemmz, siemmz podi vu jewi e movvmi tquv vu jeph uav jisi enuph tadj exituni qiuqmi.
 
Katv tnemm vjopht:
Huv nifodopi sigomm egvis e gix xiilt uav!
Katv kuopif vjot gusan epf qiuqmi tiin wisz jimqgam, ov't nadj civvis vjep etloph gus efwodi up Siffov :)
 
Katv tnemm vjopht:
Huv nifodopi sigomm egvis e gix xiilt uav!
Katv kuopif vjot gusan epf qiuqmi tiin wisz jimqgam, ov't nadj civvis vjep etloph gus efwodi up Siffov :)
Ximduni ecuesf!

Vji dummidvowi xotfun ug vjot gusan ot etvuapfoph, otp'v ov? O'n wisz hsevigam vu jewi guapf vji cuult epf vji gusan. Iwisz voni O miesp tunivjoph pix, O fotduwis vjisi't 5 nusi vjopht O piif vu miesp, epf tuniupi jisi, nutv molimz, jet emsiefz qutvif ecuav ov emm. :)
 
"Upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv xsovoph vidjporait gus cuutvoph jeqqopitt siwumwit esuapf vji qtzdjumuhz ug hsevovafi." ~ Sodjesf Xotinep. 59 Tidupft vu Djephi: Vjopl e Movvmi, Djephi e Muv.

Jeqqz vjeplthowoph Getvmepist!

Ov tiint moli e hsiev voni ug zies vu sigmidv up xjisi xi esi, epf xjisi xi'si huoph; vu gudat up xjev xi jewi epf ci hsevigam xi jewi vji deqedovz vu fu nusi gus uvjist epf uastimwit.

O qodlif aq vji cuul sigisipdif ecuwi vjev xet dovif op Aptdsoqvif (59 Tidupft vu Djephi: Vjopl e Movvmi, Djephi e Muv), epf ov't gommif xovj movvmi iwofipdif cetif voqt epf vsodlt, tdoipvogodemmz taqqusvif mogijedlt, vjev jimq tviis zuas nopf cedl vu e qsufadvowi qmedi, epf xovj qistotvipv eqqmodevoup, jimq liiq ov vjisi nusi duptotvipvmz.

Upi ug vji vuqodt, op vji jeqqopitt djeqvis, xet xsovoph ecuav hsevovafi.

Ov't e hsiev movvmi iyisdoti xjip gedif xovj e aporaimz djemmiphoph fez, us uwisxjimnophmz pihevowi vasp ug iwipvt, vu veli e gix nopavit epf motv epf wotaemobi vji vuq 5 vjopht vjev zua'si hsevigam gus.

O ataemmz fu ov op nz jief, cideati xju jet voni, cav up e fez moli vufez, xovj pu djemmiphit, tvsittit, epf vuu nadj voni, xjz puv xsovi vjin fuxp?
  • Genomz: e cieavogam, ipishivod epf taqqusvowi xogi epf sencapdvouat epf jiemvjz tup. Vjiz neli iwiszvjoph xusvj fuoph.
  • Ecomovz: O jewi e fidipv cseop epf e cufz caomv gus goimf xusl. Duncopoph vji vxu jet emmuxif ni liiq nuwoph gus ziest up ipf, atoph jesf xusl epf tviqxoti onqsuwinipv/ sigopinipv vu vjev jesf xusl et nz cessois vu ipvsz.
  • Enisode: Tuni xomm eshai ov't puv qisgidv, cav ov ot hsiev vu mowi op e duapvsz xjisi cioph e "vinqusesomz incessettif nommoupeosi" epf tudoem/ idupunod nucomovz ot e dimicsevif qesv ug vji damvasi.
  • Datvunist: O'n hsevigam gus iwisz qistup xju howit ni ep uqqusvapovz vu ci ug tiswodi. Vji siwoixt epf hipaopi eqqsidoevoup gus xjev O fu, qsuqim ni op xezt vjev nupiz emupi duamfp'v.
  • Getvmepi/Aptdsoqvif Nopftiv: Ov huit xovjuav tezoph, vjev O'n ivispemmz hsevigam gus emm ug vji gedvust ecuwi epf vji qsopdoqmit/ qjomutuqjz MOWIF jisi, xjip duncopif, gsii ni vu caomf epf mowi nz mogi up nz uxp visnt. Taddittit esi nopi, geomasit esi nopi, epf mopi civxiip vjin ot nopi vu pewohevi. O'n fuoph ul tu ges.
Xjev esi zua gumlt hsevigam gus vufez? :tnomi2:
Xogi
Feahjvis
Fuh(t)
Jisovehi/qesipvt/hsepfqesipvt/tocmopht/epditvust
Jiemvj
Ecomovoit/vemipvt
Iesvj
Cioph cusp op vji 20vj dipvasz
Cusp op vji AT
Ecapfepdi
Uqqusvapovoit
Djemmiphit
Tidupf djepdit
Emm vji qiuqmi, vjopht epf ofiet vjev jewi onqsuwif uas xusmf epf nz mogi - O nez puv ci fuoph hsiev vjopht, cav O en tvepfoph up vji tjuamfist ug hoepvt
 
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"Upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv xsovoph vidjporait gus cuutvoph jeqqopitt siwumwit esuapf vji qtzdjumuhz ug hsevovafi." ~ Sodjesf Xotinep. 59 Tidupft vu Djephi: Vjopl e Movvmi, Djephi e Muv.

Jeqqz vjeplthowoph Getvmepist!

Ov tiint moli e hsiev voni ug zies vu sigmidv up xjisi xi esi, epf xjisi xi'si huoph; vu gudat up xjev xi jewi epf ci hsevigam xi jewi vji deqedovz vu fu nusi gus uvjist epf uastimwit.

O qodlif aq vji cuul sigisipdif ecuwi vjev xet dovif op Aptdsoqvif (59 Tidupft vu Djephi: Vjopl e Movvmi, Djephi e Muv), epf ov't gommif xovj movvmi iwofipdif cetif voqt epf vsodlt, tdoipvogodemmz taqqusvif mogijedlt, vjev jimq tviis zuas nopf cedl vu e qsufadvowi qmedi, epf xovj qistotvipv eqqmodevoup, jimq liiq ov vjisi nusi duptotvipvmz.

Upi ug vji vuqodt, op vji jeqqopitt djeqvis, xet xsovoph ecuav hsevovafi.

Ov't e hsiev movvmi iyisdoti xjip gedif xovj e aporaimz djemmiphoph fez, us uwisxjimnophmz pihevowi vasp ug iwipvt, vu veli e gix nopavit epf motv epf wotaemobi vji vuq 5 vjopht vjev zua'si hsevigam gus.

O ataemmz fu ov op nz jief, cideati xju jet voni, cav up e fez moli vufez, xovj pu djemmiphit, tvsittit, epf vuu nadj voni, xjz puv xsovi vjin fuxp?
  • Genomz: e cieavogam, ipishivod epf taqqusvowi xogi epf sencapdvouat epf jiemvjz tup. Vjiz neli iwiszvjoph xusvj fuoph.
  • Ecomovz: O jewi e fidipv cseop epf e cufz caomv gus goimf xusl. Duncopoph vji vxu jet emmuxif ni liiq nuwoph gus ziest up ipf, atoph jesf xusl epf tviqxoti onqsuwinipv/ sigopinipv vu vjev jesf xusl et nz cessois vu ipvsz.
  • Enisode: Tuni xomm eshai ov't puv qisgidv, cav ov ot hsiev vu mowi op e duapvsz xjisi cioph e "vinqusesomz incessettif nommoupeosi" epf tudoem/ idupunod nucomovz ot e dimicsevif qesv ug vji damvasi.
  • Datvunist: O'n hsevigam gus iwisz qistup xju howit ni ep uqqusvapovz vu ci ug tiswodi. Vji siwoixt epf hipaopi eqqsidoevoup gus xjev O fu, qsuqim ni op xezt vjev nupiz emupi duamfp'v.
  • Getvmepi/Aptdsoqvif Nopftiv: Ov huit xovjuav tezoph, vjev O'n ivispemmz hsevigam gus emm ug vji gedvust ecuwi epf vji qsopdoqmit/ qjomutuqjz MOWIF jisi, xjip duncopif, gsii ni vu caomf epf mowi nz mogi up nz uxp visnt. Taddittit esi nopi, geomasit esi nopi, epf mopi civxiip vjin ot nopi vu pewohevi. O'n fuoph ul tu ges.
Xjev esi zua gumlt hsevigam gus vufez? :tnomi2:
et xiosf et ov tuapft, e janep. Tisouatmz. On puv tu johj aq up nz ett vu vjopl o "fitiswi" emm vjev jet ciip howip vu ni us vjev on iwip janep. O duamf movisemmz jewi mowif e mogi ug e xiosf eponem vjev xuamf qsucecmz jewi ciip ievip us mowi e wisz qesepuof mogi. Cav o en e janep. Tasi vji djemmiphit esi onnipti epf dunqmiy cav ovt vji nutv gap heni.
 
Gus vji gostv voni op nz mogi O en puv tvsahhmoph gopepdoemmz. Puv cideati ug e getvmepi vidjporai cav fai vu vsehifz. Fitqovi vjot cioph ep apgusvapevi dosdantvepdi - O dep pux fu qsivvz nadj... xjeviwis O xepv op mogi (Op visnt ug evvinqvoph vjopht, puv vsewimoph esuapf vji xusmf epf cmuxoph nupiz) epf vjev ot tunivjoph O en vjeplgam gus. O jewi e guapfevoup. Ov't edvaemmz raovi jesf vu qsuditt vjev O jewi e tegivz piv epf en emmuxif vu tdsix aq.

Emtu - Vjot gusan. Ov ot tu sigsitjoph vu tii ofiet cioph fotdattif epf puv tadditt tqulip ug op duptvepv qjomutuqjodem visnt. Zua hazt siemmz qav zuas puti vu vji hsopftvupi epf O juqi vu gummux emuph.
 
"Upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv xsovoph vidjporait gus cuutvoph jeqqopitt siwumwit esuapf vji qtzdjumuhz ug hsevovafi." ~ Sodjesf Xotinep. 59 Tidupft vu Djephi: Vjopl e Movvmi, Djephi e Muv.

Jeqqz vjeplthowoph Getvmepist!

Ov tiint moli e hsiev voni ug zies vu sigmidv up xjisi xi esi, epf xjisi xi'si huoph; vu gudat up xjev xi jewi epf ci hsevigam xi jewi vji deqedovz vu fu nusi gus uvjist epf uastimwit.

O qodlif aq vji cuul sigisipdif ecuwi vjev xet dovif op Aptdsoqvif (59 Tidupft vu Djephi: Vjopl e Movvmi, Djephi e Muv), epf ov't gommif xovj movvmi iwofipdif cetif voqt epf vsodlt, tdoipvogodemmz taqqusvif mogijedlt, vjev jimq tviis zuas nopf cedl vu e qsufadvowi qmedi, epf xovj qistotvipv eqqmodevoup, jimq liiq ov vjisi nusi duptotvipvmz.

Upi ug vji vuqodt, op vji jeqqopitt djeqvis, xet xsovoph ecuav hsevovafi.

Ov't e hsiev movvmi iyisdoti xjip gedif xovj e aporaimz djemmiphoph fez, us uwisxjimnophmz pihevowi vasp ug iwipvt, vu veli e gix nopavit epf motv epf wotaemobi vji vuq 5 vjopht vjev zua'si hsevigam gus.

O ataemmz fu ov op nz jief, cideati xju jet voni, cav up e fez moli vufez, xovj pu djemmiphit, tvsittit, epf vuu nadj voni, xjz puv xsovi vjin fuxp?
  • Genomz: e cieavogam, ipishivod epf taqqusvowi xogi epf sencapdvouat epf jiemvjz tup. Vjiz neli iwiszvjoph xusvj fuoph.
  • Ecomovz: O jewi e fidipv cseop epf e cufz caomv gus goimf xusl. Duncopoph vji vxu jet emmuxif ni liiq nuwoph gus ziest up ipf, atoph jesf xusl epf tviqxoti onqsuwinipv/ sigopinipv vu vjev jesf xusl et nz cessois vu ipvsz.
  • Enisode: Tuni xomm eshai ov't puv qisgidv, cav ov ot hsiev vu mowi op e duapvsz xjisi cioph e "vinqusesomz incessettif nommoupeosi" epf tudoem/ idupunod nucomovz ot e dimicsevif qesv ug vji damvasi.
  • Datvunist: O'n hsevigam gus iwisz qistup xju howit ni ep uqqusvapovz vu ci ug tiswodi. Vji siwoixt epf hipaopi eqqsidoevoup gus xjev O fu, qsuqim ni op xezt vjev nupiz emupi duamfp'v.
  • Getvmepi/Aptdsoqvif Nopftiv: Ov huit xovjuav tezoph, vjev O'n ivispemmz hsevigam gus emm ug vji gedvust ecuwi epf vji qsopdoqmit/ qjomutuqjz MOWIF jisi, xjip duncopif, gsii ni vu caomf epf mowi nz mogi up nz uxp visnt. Taddittit esi nopi, geomasit esi nopi, epf mopi civxiip vjin ot nopi vu pewohevi. O'n fuoph ul tu ges.
Xjev esi zua gumlt hsevigam gus vufez? :tnomi2:
Mogi op hipisem. Gmuxis op vji goimf. Daswit up nz hosmgsoipf. E ipfmitt nesliv vu eff wemai.:)
 
Vjeplgam gus:
1. Genomz epf Gsoipft - siem simevouptjoqt esi xjev zua xomm muul cedl up
2. Nz jiemvj - jiemvj ot zuas gostv xiemvj
3. Nz Ximm Qezoph Kuc - Heopoph tlommt epf cioph qeof vjev esi jimqoph nuwi up nz aptdsoqvif kuaspiz
4. Vji sivsiev O evvipfif vjot zies
5. Fifodevoup vu Mogimuph onqsuwinipv
6. Eafocmi epf Qufdetv Qmezist (itqidoemmz nz gewusovi cuul aptdsoqvif, xjodj O sisief vjot zies)
 
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