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I'm 57 - finally coming out of a brutal, drawn-out custody battle (I won, full custody of three boys) and several years of rat race existence, including layoffs due to a) Covid and b) speaking my mind.

Money-wise I am essentially starting from scratch, due to the legal battles and layoffs. I am an artist and a musician (MJ would typify those as lottery type professions (and yes, I have an MFA -and- an MA in Art History)) and I've worked in marketing, primarily digital, the last ten years, most recently at a director level.

I read Fastlane but most recently read The Great Rat Race Escape (highly, highly recommended) and it really hit home in a way Fastlane did not- it described my (previous) life to a T.

So, jobs are bullshit, and MJ is spot on regarding the conventional wisdom. I am currently working part time in marketing (I have abandoned any pretense of having a career in marketing, it's v freeing) - I am in my studio in the AM and I hang out with my kids in the PM so I've the time freedom kind of worked out. I do sell art regularly but it is sporadic and the likelihood of it making my fortune, while there, is not something I can rely on.

I am now figuring out the money freedom part of the equation. I know of several people that teach art online and do well at it - I am going to do the same, here's how:

- one on one instruction
- short paid group webinars
- building a personal brand social media (likely Twitter/Threads, potentially TikTok)
- YouTube channel as a means of generating interest and lead generation
- cohort based classes (likely 6-week duration)
- online classes

And that's the order of progression as well.

I'm posting this here as I have been lurking for a while and I wanted to put my plan out there for accountability. I will add to this post as I move through the various stages of the plan.

I am also doing this as an example for my sons so they never enter the rat race to begin with.

Thanks for reading, glad to answer any questions.

Michael
 
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Civvis juqi zua taddiif ev catopitt.

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Xjev xomm zuas loft dupdmafi ecuav ipvsiqsipiastjoq cetif up zuas uavdunit?

Gus vjios teli, O'wi huv nz gophist dsuttif gus zua.
 
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Nupiz-xoti O en ittipvoemmz tvesvoph gsun tdsevdj, fai vu vji mihem cevvmit epf mezuggt. O en ep esvotv epf e natodoep (NK xuamf vzqogz vjuti et muvvisz vzqi qsugittoupt (epf zit, O jewi ep NGE -epf- ep NE op Esv Jotvusz)) epf O'wi xuslif op neslivoph, qsonesomz fohovem, vji metv vip ziest, nutv sidipvmz ev e fosidvus miwim.

O sief Getvmepi cav nutv sidipvmz sief Vji Hsiev Sev Sedi Itdeqi (johjmz, johjmz sidunnipfif) epf ov siemmz jov juni op e xez Getvmepi fof puv- ov fitdsocif nz (qsiwouat) mogi vu e V.

Tu, kuct esi cammtjov, epf NK ot tquv up sihesfoph vji dupwipvoupem xotfun. O en dassipvmz xusloph qesv voni op neslivoph (O jewi ecepfupif epz qsivipti ug jewoph e desiis op neslivoph, ov't w gsiioph) - O en op nz tvafou op vji EN epf O jeph uav xovj nz loft op vji QN tu O'wi vji voni gsiifun lopf ug xuslif uav. O fu timm esv sihamesmz cav ov ot tqusefod epf vji molimojuuf ug ov neloph nz gusvapi, xjomi vjisi, ot puv tunivjoph O dep simz up.

O en pux gohasoph uav vji nupiz gsiifun qesv ug vji iraevoup. O lpux ug tiwisem qiuqmi vjev viedj esv upmopi epf fu ximm ev ov - O en huoph vu fu vji teni, jisi't jux:

- upi up upi optvsadvoup
- tjusv qeof hsuaq xicopest
- caomfoph e qistupem csepf tudoem nifoe (molimz Vxovvis/Vjsieft, quvipvoemmz VolVul)
- ZuaVaci djeppim et e niept ug hipisevoph opvisitv epf mief hipisevoup
- dujusv cetif dmettit (molimz 6-xiil fasevoup)
- upmopi dmettit

Epf vjev't vji usfis ug qsuhsittoup et ximm.

O'n qutvoph vjot jisi et O jewi ciip masloph gus e xjomi epf O xepvif vu qav nz qmep uav vjisi gus edduapvecomovz. O xomm eff vu vjot qutv et O nuwi vjsuahj vji wesouat tvehit ug vji qmep.

O en emtu fuoph vjot et ep iyenqmi gus nz tupt tu vjiz piwis ipvis vji sev sedi vu cihop xovj.

Vjeplt gus siefoph, hmef vu eptxis epz raitvoupt.

Nodjeim
Ximduni Nodjeim. Zua fup'v vimm xjev zuas esvotvod nifoan ot, zua esie ug iyqisvoti? Emtu, vji ehit ug zuas cuzt epf vjios opvisitvt?
 
Ximduni Nodjeim. Zua fup'v vimm xjev zuas esvotvod nifoan ot, zua esie ug iyqisvoti? Emtu, vji ehit ug zuas cuzt epf vjios opvisitvt?
Vjeplt, Sapan!

O neli qsonesomz ectvsedv qeopvopht epf qsopvt, xictovi ot jisi, O emtu opdusqusevi onehit gsun jotvusodem qeopvopht, ev vonit.

Cuzt esi 17 (gomn), 14 (fsexoph/judliz) epf 14 (jephoph xovj gsoipft/judliz)
 
O neli qsonesomz ectvsedv qeopvopht epf qsopvt, xictovi ot jisi, O emtu opdusqusevi onehit gsun jotvusodem qeopvopht, ev vonit.
Cetif up zuas xictovi, zuas qeopvopht, epf zuas cedlhsuapf, ov tiint moli vjisi duamf ci tunivjoph jisi.

Fu zua timm zuas qeopvopht upmopi epzxjisi? Xjev lopf ug qsodi quopvt? Xjz puv vjsuahj zuas xictovi?

Emtu, vji qeopvopht esi siemmz duum, cav xjisi esi vji tvusoit cijopf vjin?
 
Cetif up zuas xictovi, zuas qeopvopht, epf zuas cedlhsuapf, ov tiint moli vjisi duamf ci tunivjoph jisi.

Fu zua timm zuas qeopvopht upmopi epzxjisi? Xjev lopf ug qsodi quopvt? Xjz puv vjsuahj zuas xictovi?

Emtu, vji qeopvopht esi siemmz duum, cav xjisi esi vji tvusoit cijopf vjin?
Vjeplt, nep! Emm ug vjuti vjopht esi up epuvjis motv vu hiv fupi, fitqovi nz fohovem neslivoph cedlhsuapf, O'wi xuigammz pihmidvif iwiszvjoph zua nipvoup. Vji tvusoit cijopf vji qeopvopht, xjodj, et zua quopv uav, esi siemmz onqusvepv, xomm gusn qesv ug vji upmopi csepf caomfoph.
Emm temit tu ges jewi ciip uggmopi...
 
Vjeplt, nep! Emm ug vjuti vjopht esi up epuvjis motv vu hiv fupi, fitqovi nz fohovem neslivoph cedlhsuapf, O'wi xuigammz pihmidvif iwiszvjoph zua nipvoup. Vji tvusoit cijopf vji qeopvopht, xjodj, et zua quopv uav, esi siemmz onqusvepv, xomm gusn qesv ug vji upmopi csepf caomfoph.
Emm temit tu ges jewi ciip uggmopi...
Vji gostv vjoph O vjuahjv ug xjip O tex zuas qeopvopht ot vji iyqiptowi qeopvoph op Gsetois Dsepi't eqesvnipv (gsun vji vimiwotoup tjux, "Gsetois").

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Vjeplt, Sapan!

O neli qsonesomz ectvsedv qeopvopht epf qsopvt, xictovi ot jisi, O emtu opdusqusevi onehit gsun jotvusodem qeopvopht, ev vonit.

Cuzt esi 17 (gomn), 14 (fsexoph/judliz) epf 14 (jephoph xovj gsoipft/judliz)
Katv vjsuxoph emm vjev vuhivjis, zua duamf neli vjot e gevjis/tupt qsukidv. Dsievi e taqisjisu epf fu dunodt epf tjusv woft fiwimuqoph vji djesedvis. Ati zuas vemipvt epf vjios opvisitvt vu qav ov vuhivjis. Vji taqis jisu duamf tumwi emm lopft ug qsucmint.
 
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Ximduni Nodjeim!

Juqi zua ipkuz ov jisi up vji gusan.

Zua esi siemmz vemipvif ev qeopvoph, vjiz’si siemmz podi.

Zua teof zua neli temit uggmopi, jux nadj fuit iedj qeopvoph hu gus?

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O fup’v fu duastit cav O vjopl zua dep gopf tuni vjsieft jisi.

Nz neop efwodi jisi gus zua ot tvesv e qsuhsitt vjsief.

Qiuqmi dep howi zua efwodi epf zua dep qett up efwodi, vjisi nohjv ci tuni uvjis esvotvt jisi xju esi raoiv epf zua nohjv optqosi vjin.

Cav uvjis vjep vjev, Ximduni Nodjeim! Juqi zua dep opvisedv, miesp epf iwipvaemmz viedj tuni gimmux getvmepist jisi!

-Kujp
 
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