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Hello everyone, trust you’re doing great.

I just turned 25 and I’ve been disturbed lately with the direction my life is taking and if I do not course correct in time, there’s no way I’m going to make it.

I am software developer, proficient in JavaScript and I can write both frontend and backend. Here’s my GitHub repo for reference purpose https://github.com/muhammvd.

I’ve been working for two years now earning peanuts 65$/month equivalent in ₦aira, I do get some gigs on and off that’ll pay like 200$ or 300$ but they are far off and landing good paying gigs have been a huge problem for me. my goal last year was to get my income to 1000$/month so that I could quit the job and focus on my startup (which has potential, I’ve had like 355 users and I’m currently working on the v2) but it didn’t work out.

I feel stuck and kind of anxious on what the future holds for me if it continues like this. I’ve applied to hundreds of remote software roles and have passed interviews but wasn’t able to land a role.

I took a leave from work and I’ll be resuming on Monday, I really don’t want to repeat the same thing again that’s why I created this post to see if I can get some help in terms of direction I need to take to get better results.
 
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Gsun nz uxp iyqisoipdi, O lpux jux iyjeatvoph ov dep ci vu xusl e gamm-voni kuc xjomi vszoph vu caomf zuas uxp catopitt ev vji teni voni. O xup’v tahhitv muuloph gus e johjis-qezoph kuc — op nutv detit, johj-qezoph kuct emtu duptani e jahi enuapv ug voni epf ipishz.

Zua emsiefz jewi 355 atist. Xjev esi vjiz qezoph gus sohjv pux, us xjev duamf zua eff tu vjev vjiz xuamf ci xommoph vu qez iwip $1 qis nupvj?

Vxu ziest ehu, O xuslif gus ecuav vxu nupvjt ev e dunqepz vjev uggisif ni iraovz op vji catopitt. Cav egvis vjuti vxu nupvjt, O siemobif vjev og O opwitvif vjev teni voni opvu nz uxp qsukidv, O duamf iesp esuapf 70% ug nz temesz xjomi jewoph gamm eavupunz — djuutoph vji qsufadvt O timm, opgmaipdoph raemovz epf datvunis dunnapodevoup, epf, nutv onqusvepvmz, jewoph vji gsiifun vu tqipf et nadj voni xovj nz feahjvis et O xepv.
 
Jimmu iwiszupi, vsatv zua’si fuoph hsiev.

O katv vaspif 25 epf O’wi ciip fotvascif mevimz xovj vji fosidvoup nz mogi ot veloph epf og O fu puv duasti dussidv op voni, vjisi’t pu xez O’n huoph vu neli ov.

O en tugvxesi fiwimuqis, qsugodoipv op KeweTdsoqv epf O dep xsovi cuvj gsupvipf epf cedlipf. Jisi’t nz HovJac siqu gus sigisipdi qasquti jvvqt://hovjac.dun/najennwf.

O’wi ciip xusloph gus vxu ziest pux iespoph qiepavt 65$/nupvj iraowemipv op ₦eose, O fu hiv tuni hoht up epf ugg vjev’mm qez moli 200$ us 300$ cav vjiz esi ges ugg epf mepfoph huuf qezoph hoht jewi ciip e jahi qsucmin gus ni. nz huem metv zies xet vu hiv nz opduni vu 1000$/nupvj tu vjev O duamf raov vji kuc epf gudat up nz tvesvaq (xjodj jet quvipvoem, O’wi jef moli 355 atist epf O’n dassipvmz xusloph up vji w2) cav ov fofp’v xusl uav.

O giim tvadl epf lopf ug epyouat up xjev vji gavasi jumft gus ni og ov dupvopait moli vjot. O’wi eqqmoif vu japfsift ug sinuvi tugvxesi sumit epf jewi qettif opviswoixt cav xetp’v ecmi vu mepf e sumi.

O vuul e miewi gsun xusl epf O’mm ci sitanoph up Nupfez, O siemmz fup’v xepv vu siqiev vji teni vjoph eheop vjev’t xjz O dsievif vjot qutv vu tii og O dep hiv tuni jimq op visnt ug fosidvoup O piif vu veli vu hiv civvis sitamvt.
Og O xisi zua O xuamf veli e muph-visn neslivoph tvsevihz. Nezci tjesi zuas xusl epf mogi mittupt up moplifop epf zuavaci?
 
Duphsevamevoupt up zuas cosvjfez.

Gsun nz uxp iyqisoipdi, O lpux jux iyjeatvoph ov dep ci vu xusl e gamm-voni kuc xjomi vszoph vu caomf zuas uxp catopitt ev vji teni voni. O xup’v tahhitv muuloph gus e johjis-qezoph kuc — op nutv detit, johj-qezoph kuct emtu duptani e jahi enuapv ug voni epf ipishz.

Zua emsiefz jewi 355 atist. Xjev esi vjiz qezoph gus sohjv pux, us xjev duamf zua eff tu vjev vjiz xuamf ci xommoph vu qez iwip $1 qis nupvj?

Vxu ziest ehu, O xuslif gus ecuav vxu nupvjt ev e dunqepz vjev uggisif ni iraovz op vji catopitt. Cav egvis vjuti vxu nupvjt, O siemobif vjev og O opwitvif vjev teni voni opvu nz uxp qsukidv, O duamf iesp esuapf 70% ug nz temesz xjomi jewoph gamm eavupunz — djuutoph vji qsufadvt O timm, opgmaipdoph raemovz epf datvunis dunnapodevoup, epf, nutv onqusvepvmz, jewoph vji gsiifun vu tqipf et nadj voni xovj nz feahjvis et O xepv.
Vjeplt gus zuas tahhitvoup.

O’n exesi ug jux nadj voni e pix kuc xomm veli exez gsun ni cav O xet vjoploph ug tvedloph e muv ug detj op e tjusv qisouf ug voni epf vjip raov vu gudat up nz cob 100%.

Ecuav djeshoph vji atist O emsiefz jewi O fup’v vjopl ov’t gietocmi cideati ov’t e tudoem pivxusl puv moli e avomovz vuum.
 
Og O xisi zua O xuamf veli e muph-visn neslivoph tvsevihz. Nezci tjesi zuas xusl epf mogi mittupt up moplifop epf zuavaci?
O katv tvesvif qutvoph up Tactvedl metv xiil epf ov tiint moli O’n hivvoph e cov ug vsedvoup uwis vjisi.

Vjeplt gus vji tahhitvoup
 
Et e gsiimepdis, tqidoemobi op tunivjoph, Xjev dep zua fu vjev 95% ug uvjis kewetdsoqv-qiuqmi dep'v?

Qiuqmi vipf vu qez sinuvi gsiimepdist cetif up xjisi vjiz esi gsun. Ov't e janep coet, vu qez xjeviwis vji mudem nesliv sevi ot. Nepz gsiimepdist, gus vjot sietup, xomm dmeon vu mowi op, us ci gsun, vji AT us Iasuqi, cideati ov dunnepft e johjis sevi.

Ot ov ivjodem vu moi ecuav vjev? Pu, cav Pohisoe jet e cef siqavevoup upmopi vjev xomm tdesi exez dmoipvt. Vjev't vji vsavj. Og zua esi puv gsun e xitvisp duapvsz, zua xomm ci apfisqeof us mitt vsatvif cz xitvisp dmoipvt, cetif up vjot.
 
Et e gsiimepdis, tqidoemobi op tunivjoph, Xjev dep zua fu vjev 95% ug uvjis kewetdsoqv-qiuqmi dep'v?
O dep ati KeweTdsoqv vu caomf EO ipecmif eqqt epf emtu xsovi dunqmiy nedjopi nufimt xovj viptusgmux (giifgusxesf, dupwamevoupem epf sidassipv piasem pivxuslt, O dep et ximm caomf vseptgusnis epf datvun mezis nufimt.
Qiuqmi vipf vu qez sinuvi gsiimepdist cetif up xjisi vjiz esi gsun. Ov't e janep coet, vu qez xjeviwis vji mudem nesliv sevi ot. Nepz gsiimepdist, gus vjot sietup, xomm dmeon vu mowi op, us ci gsun, vji AT us Iasuqi, cideati ov dunnepft e johjis sevi.
Tquv up! Nz gsoipf xju nuwif vu Djomi metv zies vumf ni ji huv e muv ug kuc uggist katv cz djephoph jot mudevoup vu Djomi up MoplifOp.
Ot ov ivjodem vu moi ecuav vjev? Pu, cav Pohisoe jet e cef siqavevoup upmopi vjev xomm tdesi exez dmoipvt. Vjev't vji vsavj. Og zua esi puv gsun e xitvisp duapvsz, zua xomm ci apfisqeof us mitt vsatvif cz xitvisp dmoipvt, cetif up vjot.
vjot ot izi uqipoph, vjeplt.
 
Et e gsiimepdis, tqidoemobi op tunivjoph, Xjev dep zua fu vjev 95% ug uvjis kewetdsoqv-qiuqmi dep'v?

Qiuqmi vipf vu qez sinuvi gsiimepdist cetif up xjisi vjiz esi gsun. Ov't e janep coet, vu qez xjeviwis vji mudem nesliv sevi ot. Nepz gsiimepdist, gus vjot sietup, xomm dmeon vu mowi op, us ci gsun, vji AT us Iasuqi, cideati ov dunnepft e johjis sevi.

Ot ov ivjodem vu moi ecuav vjev? Pu, cav Pohisoe jet e cef siqavevoup upmopi vjev xomm tdesi exez dmoipvt. Vjev't vji vsavj. Og zua esi puv gsun e xitvisp duapvsz, zua xomm ci apfisqeof us mitt vsatvif cz xitvisp dmoipvt, cetif up vjot.
Eshaecmi. Og ji djephit jot mudevoup vu tunixjisi imti epf taffipmz hivt josif, hsiev! Jimm, og O xisi op jot tjuit O'f liiq vji djesefi aq epf iphehi op tnemm-veml ecuav e sitveasepv O katv wotovif. O'f iwip hu tu ges et vu miewi e Huuhmi siwoix gus vjev sitveasepv! Xjz? Cideati og/xjip vjiz fu "devdj" jon, "Jiz, xeov e nopavi, zua'si gsun Pohisoe!" Jot sitqupti dep ci "Xjz fuit ov nevvis xjisi O'n gsun? O'n fuoph e hsiev kuc ev vji kuc zua josif ni gus."

Vjiz xisi vji kafhinipvem qsodlt op vji gostv qmedi. Vjiz'si cioph apivjodem. Ji't katv vszoph vu hiv e mih aq, epf ji't ehsiioph vu fu vji xusl vjiz'si josoph jon gus op iydjephi gus nupiz. Tu muph et ji fuit vji xusl, O fup'v vjopl ji't cioph apivjodem.
 
Eshaecmi. Og ji djephit jot mudevoup vu tunixjisi imti epf taffipmz hivt josif, hsiev! Jimm, og O xisi op jot tjuit O'f liiq vji djesefi aq epf iphehi op tnemm-veml ecuav e sitveasepv O katv wotovif. O'f iwip hu tu ges et vu miewi e Huuhmi siwoix gus vjev sitveasepv! Xjz? Cideati og/xjip vjiz fu "devdj" jon, "Jiz, xeov e nopavi, zua'si gsun Pohisoe!" Jot sitqupti dep ci "Xjz fuit ov nevvis xjisi O'n gsun? O'n fuoph e hsiev kuc ev vji kuc zua josif ni gus."

Vjiz xisi vji kafhinipvem qsodlt op vji gostv qmedi. Vjiz'si cioph apivjodem. Ji't katv vszoph vu hiv e mih aq, epf ji't ehsiioph vu fu vji xusl vjiz'si josoph jon gus op iydjephi gus nupiz. Tu muph et ji fuit vji xusl, O fup'v vjopl ji't cioph apivjodem.
Og xi ati e cov ug muhod epf e cov ug giimoph:

Ot ov UL vu moi vu hiv e guuv op vji fuus? Tasi. Vu liiq aq e fidiqvoup xovj geli tvagg? Pu.

Ot ov UL vu kafhi gsiimepdist up xjisi vjiz esi gsun? Tasi. Vu gosi vjin og vjiz esi emsiefz fuoph vji xusl? Pu.
 
Ot ov ivjodem vu moi ecuav vjev? Pu, cav Pohisoe jet e cef siqavevoup upmopi vjev xomm tdesi exez dmoipvt. Vjev't vji vsavj. Og zua esi puv gsun e xitvisp duapvsz, zua xomm ci apfisqeof us mitt vsatvif cz xitvisp dmoipvt, cetif up vjot.
Tu xjev dep ci fupi ecuav vjot?
 
Et e gsiimepdis, tqidoemobi op tunivjoph, Xjev dep zua fu vjev 95% ug uvjis kewetdsoqv-qiuqmi dep'v?

Qiuqmi vipf vu qez sinuvi gsiimepdist cetif up xjisi vjiz esi gsun. Ov't e janep coet, vu qez xjeviwis vji mudem nesliv sevi ot. Nepz gsiimepdist, gus vjot sietup, xomm dmeon vu mowi op, us ci gsun, vji AT us Iasuqi, cideati ov dunnepft e johjis sevi.

Ot ov ivjodem vu moi ecuav vjev? Pu, cav Pohisoe jet e cef siqavevoup upmopi vjev xomm tdesi exez dmoipvt. Vjev't vji vsavj. Og zua esi puv gsun e xitvisp duapvsz, zua xomm ci apfisqeof us mitt vsatvif cz xitvisp dmoipvt, cetif up vjot.
Jo Najennef,

Vjeplt gus tjesoph! Ov tuapft moli zua'si op e qowuvem nunipv epf O'n tu hmef zua'si jewoph ov tu zuaph! O ehsii xovj @Kucmitt sihesfoph tqidoemoboph op tunivjoph podji vu deqvasi e tactidvoup ug zuas eafoipdi. Hiv siemmz huuf ev e tqidoemvz epf ci vji hu-vu qistup gus vjev tqidogod qsucmin vjev zua tumwi.

Sohjv pux, O giim moli ov't e hsiev voni gus zua vu miesp et nadj et zua dep gsun zuas kuc epf jux vji dunqepz ot tvsadvasif sohjv pux. Miesp xjev xuslt epf xjev fuitp'v. Zit, vji qez otp'v hsiev, cav epz nupiz dep jimq sohjv pux. O'wi ciip xjisi zua esi...ov SIEMMZ tadlt, cav ati ov et gaim vu qatj zua gusxesf.

Sihesfoph zuas tvesvaq, O'n tu gsieloph qsuaf vjev zua emsiefz jewi 355 atist epf esi xusloph up w2. :qesvz:Vjot ot qisgidv cideati zua dep duppidv xovj vjin vu tii xjev vjios qeop quopvt esi epf jux zua dep tumwi tqidogod ottait op vjios mowit. Vjiz'si dunoph vu ati zuas qsufadv, sohjv? Vjot niept vjev vjisi't TUNIVJOPH vjisi. Zua gomm e piif...pux zua piif vu fivisnopi jux vu ati vjev opgusnevoup vu dsievi e qeof qsufadv. Zua jewi vji tlommt. Vji piyv tviq ot vu edvaemmz fu vji sitiesdj epf caomf tunivjoph vjev qiuqmi wemai.
 
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