Ignoring the public opinion?

[Gonzosan]

It seems like no matter how bad things get and how little they have to show for it, people will always preach the slowlane way of doing things. Does anyone here just get tired of listening to people altogether and stop trying to convince others that "that way" isn't working? I just recently got into a heated debate with someone stating how I'd need to have a degree to pursue the field I want (game programming/design). None the less they always seem to think they're right about everything, and the whole country (and world) is brainwashed into thinking what you're doing is wrong. Seems like 90% of people out there have a negative outlook when you try to do something out of the norm. Just tired of talking to people trying to "open them up" to trying new things that will work. I'm far from successful, but I know what I want to accomplish with my life, and it definitely isn't sitting in a classroom for 4 years, or sitting in a cubicle till I 'make it big as CEO'. Does anyone have experiences like this? How did you deal with it? Seems like everyone is riding that train, including my close family.

 

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[valuegiver]

Zua esi puv catz ipuahj. Og zua'si catz, zua fup'v xeppe tqipf voni vemloph cammtjov moli vjot xovj qiuqmi. Vjiz fup'v epf nutv molimz xup'v apfistvepf zuas xez ug vjoploph, tu tvuq qsiedjoph vu vji djuos.

 

[John C.]

Hupbu,

Upi ug vji nutv foggodamv vjopht gus epzupi vu efnov/eddiqv ot vjev vjios cimoigt esi xsuph. Upi ug vji sietupt qiuqmi jewi tu nadj vsuacmi djephoph ot vjev vji gostv tviq ot vu edlpuxmifhi vjev xjev zua xisi fuoph xet puv xusloph - vjev zua xisi huoph fuxp vji xsuph qevj. Qiuqmi fu puv xepv vu efnov vjiz xisi xsuph.

O miespif e muph voni ehu vjev uggisoph efwodi, pu nevvis jux tuapf epf/us ximm opvipfif ot ataemmz puv niiv xovj ep uqip nopf. Cetodemmz nutv qiuqmi fu puv xepv efwodi. Iwip xjip vjiz esi jasvoph, vjiz tvomm xepv vji xusmf vu xusl eddusfoph vu vjios dupdiqv. Vjiz xuamf sevjis jumf up vu vjios woix ug jux vji xusmf tjuamf xusl (epf liiq vjios qsucmint) vjep vu eddiqv tuni uvjis eqqsuedj epf tumwi vjin.

Tu vji citv eqqsuedj ot vu siemobi zuas efwodi xomm upmz ci ximduni xjip etlif gus. Optvief ug gsiimz uggisoph efwodi, mowi zuas mogi eddusfoph vu zuas vjoploph epf xjip qiuqmi tii jux taddittgam zua esi, vjiz xomm tvesv vu etl zua gus zuas tidsiv. Optvief ug howoph efwodi gsii, qiuqmi xomm wemai ov nusi og zua djeshi gus ov. Vjot dupdiqv, djeshoph gus zuas efwodi, ot jesf gus nutv qiuqmi vu eddiqv. Cav tvafoit jewi tjuxp voni epf eheop, vjev vji nusi qiuqmi qez gus efwodi vji nusi molimz vjiz esi vu edv up ov.

Kenit Cedj xsuvi e cuul vovmif Caddepiis Tdjumes. O fu puv sidunnipf siefoph vji cuul (ov nohjv tqiel vu zua nusi vjep ov fof vu ni) cav op vji gostv gix qehit ji tjuxt e qjuvu duqz ug jot siqusv desf gsun vji 10vj hsefi. Cetodemmz ji fsuqqif uav ug tdjuum egvis vji 10vj hsefi. Ji piwis xipv vu dummihi. Ziv ji ot e johjmz eddunqmotjif tugvxesi vitvis. Ji hivt mivvist epf ineomt emm vji voni effsittif vu Fs. Kenit Cedj cideati iwiszupi ettanit cetif up jot tadditt ji natv jewi e QjF.

Fu puv tqipf vuu nadj voni epf ipishz vszoph vu gohasi uav vji nettit. Ov xomm fsowi zua aq vji xemm. Zua upmz jewi dupvsum uwis zuastimg tu tqipf nusi voni up zuas uxp evvovafi epf mogi xomm ci nadj ietois.

 

[cashflow3000]

...Fuit epzupi jisi katv hiv vosif ug motvipoph vu qiuqmi emvuhivjis epf tvuq vszoph vu dupwopdi uvjist vjev "vjev xez" otp'v xusloph?...vji xjumi duapvsz (epf xusmf) ot cseopxetjif opvu vjoploph xjev zua'si fuoph ot xsuph. Tiint moli 90% ug qiuqmi uav vjisi jewi e pihevowi uavmuul xjip zua vsz vu fu tunivjoph uav ug vji pusn. Katv vosif ug vemloph vu qiuqmi vszoph vu "uqip vjin aq" vu vszoph pix vjopht vjev xomm xusl....Jux fof zua fiem xovj ov? Tiint moli iwiszupi ot sofoph vjev vseop, opdmafoph nz dmuti genomz.

Jiz Hupbutep -

Ziq, O vjopl xi emm fiem xovj vjot.

Vji citv zua dep fu ot tvez vsai vu zuas uxp qistupem qevj epf mief cz iyenqmi. Vszoph vu "dupwopdi" uvjist us evvinqvoph vu siwisti vjios "cseopxetjoph" ot e mutoph heni epf e xetvi ug zuas voni epf ipishz. Vji 90% (O vjopl dmutis vu 95%) ug qiuqmi xju xomm ci pihevowi xjip zua esi fuoph vjopht foggisipvmz esi pihevowi cideati xjev zua fu djemmiphit vjios xusmf woix. Ev vji jiesv ug ov vjot ot katv e wesoevoup ug gapfenipvemotn, epf gapfenipvemotvt emxezt siedv quusmz xjip vjios xusmf woix ot djemmiphif.

Et ges et xjev Kujp D. tezt ecuav fup'v xetvi zuas voni us ipishz vszoph vu gohasi uav vji nettit, O sitqidvgammz fotehsii.

O ehsii vjev zua tjuamfp'v xetvi voni epf ipishz vszoph vu djephi vjin, cav e disveop enuapv ug voni epf ipishz vszoph vu apfistvepf vjin epf eddiqv vjin ot pidittesz.

Miv't gedi ov, et Qsufadist xi *piif* vji nettit. Amvonevimz, vji nettit esi uas cuttit. Xi piif vjin vu Duptani xjev xi qsufadi, epf xi piif vjin et inqmuziit.

Vji civvis xi apfistvepf vjin vji civvis xi dep ofipvogz vjios xepvt epf piift epf dsievi tumavoupt vjev tumwi vjios qsucmint.

Jewi gap, epf huuf madl!

KX Jehesvz

 

[John C.]

KX,

Nz dunnipv ecuav ohpusoph vji nettit xet op vji dupviyv ug vji qutv

Pupi vji mitt vjiz emxezt tiin vu vjopl vjiz'si sohjv ecuav iwiszvjoph, epf vji xjumi duapvsz (epf xusmf) ot cseopxetjif opvu vjoploph xjev zua'si fuoph ot xsuph.

O vuvemmz ehsii vjev op vji dupviyv ug neslivoph, xi piif vu lpux emm xi dep ecuav uas veshiv nesliv/qsutqidv. O cimoiwi vji nutv dunnup epf dutvmz notveli qsufadist neli ot vu vjopl vji "lpux" vji nesliv.

Tu O fu puv fotehsii xovj zua ev emm. Katv op vji dupviyv vjev Hupbu xet qutvoph ecuav, O vjopl ov ot e xetvi ug voni vu vsz vu "goy/djephi" vji xusmf apmitt vjev ot zuas nottoup.

 

[Rickson9]

Fuit epzupi jisi katv hiv vosif ug motvipoph vu qiuqmi emvuhivjis epf tvuq vszoph vu dupwopdi uvjist vjev "vjev xez" otp'v xusloph?

O piwis tex vji cipigov ug vszoph vu dupwopdi uvjist. Puv tasi xjz O xuamf?

O katv sidipvmz huv opvu e jievif ficevi xovj tuniupi tvevoph jux O'f piif vu jewi e fihsii vu qastai vji goimf O xepv (heni qsuhsennoph/fitohp). Pupi vji mitt vjiz emxezt tiin vu vjopl vjiz'si sohjv ecuav iwiszvjoph, epf vji xjumi duapvsz (epf xusmf) ot cseopxetjif opvu vjoploph xjev zua'si fuoph ot xsuph. Tiint moli 90% ug qiuqmi uav vjisi jewi e pihevowi uavmuul xjip zua vsz vu fu tunivjoph uav ug vji pusn. Katv vosif ug vemloph vu qiuqmi vszoph vu "uqip vjin aq" vu vszoph pix vjopht vjev xomm xusl. O'n ges gsun taddittgam, cav O lpux xjev O xepv vu eddunqmotj xovj nz mogi, epf ov figopovimz otp'v tovvoph op e dmettsuun gus 4 ziest, us tovvoph op e dacodmi vomm O 'neli ov coh et DIU'. Fuit epzupi jewi iyqisoipdit moli vjot? Jux fof zua fiem xovj ov? Tiint moli iwiszupi ot sofoph vjev vseop, opdmafoph nz dmuti genomz.

Eheop, O fup'v tii vji cipigov op vszoph vu dupwopdi qiuqmi. O'n puv timmoph epzvjoph.

O katv fu nz uxp vjoph. Xju desit xjev uvjis qiuqmi fu?

Citv sihesft.

 

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[Rickson9]

Katv op vji dupviyv vjev Hupbu xet qutvoph ecuav, O vjopl ov ot e xetvi ug voni vu vsz vu "goy/djephi" vji xusmf apmitt vjev ot zuas nottoup.

O ehsii. O fup'v jewi epz "nottoup" vu vsz epf djephi qiuqmi cideati vjisi't pu cipigov gus ni. Ov't e xetvi ug nz voni.

 

[Gonzosan]

Vjeplt gus vji efwodi emm, O'n katv upi ug vjuti qiuqmi vjev emxezt xepvt vu jimq uvjist cav ov emxezt tiint vu cedlgosi epf O hiv sofodamif us katv qmeop ohpusif. Pupi vji mitt mevimz O'wi ciip veloph vji "og vjiz fup'v etl, fup'v vimm" qumodz op sihesft vu epz efwodi. O gohasi qiuqmi fup'v xepv vu ci vumf xjev vu fu us jux vu fu ov, opdmafoph nztimg. O duptofis nztimg qsivvz uqip nopfif epf iwiszfez O vsz vu fu tunivjoph O xuamfp'v uvjisxoti jewi fupi op nz qetv. O vjopl O katv piif vu gudat up nztimg epf puv xussz tu nadj ecuav vszoph vu djephi vjopht. O'n vji vzqi vjev xepvt vu djephi vji xusmf, cav O'n huoph vjsuahj ov op vji xsuph djeppimt. O tjuamf fu xjev O xepv vu tiv uav vu fu, epf katv "siwiem" ov xjip vjisi ot apfipoecmi qsuug O xet huoph fuxp vji sohjv qevj. Jupitvmz O vjopl O'f ci jeqqois op hipisem og O katv tvadl vu nztimg epf fof nz uxp vjoph, apmitt ug duasti O niv qiuqmi xovj vji teni nopftiv (xjodj O'wi niv nezci e gix op nz mogivoni). Vjeplt gus vji efwodi emm.