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Hey everybody, so, as the title says, I left my girlfriend this past weekend, the longest relationship I've ever had, so I can focus 100% on my business, and fully experience my 20's (I'm 20).

I met this girl when I was 17, I had recently gotten over another break up, was working out, dressed well, and felt on top of the world and confident. She was the hottest girl that was ever interested in me. I almost didn't want to jump into another relationship right away, but of course I felt pressured and made it official.

The relationship wasn't bad at all, I loved her (still do), but there were times where I just felt like I wanted my independence. I didn't want to waste time. I wanted to hustle 100% and be free to move across country tomorrow if I wanted to, without having to worry about her (being in college). Not only that, but my call to the Sexual Marketplace has been increasing over time, I couldn't help feeling like I was losing out whenever I saw an attractive girl in public, and not being able to do anything. Not just losing out on sex potential either, but losing out on building confidence, the art of talking to people, and just growing in general.

Not to say that I didn't do shit in the relationship, I didn't let myself go, I still had my business goals, worked out, read books... I just felt like I could have done A LOT more if I was alone during those 3 years, she was an excuse for me to procrastinate, and just be comfortable and chill out with her. Whenever I visualized moving out of my parents house, I didn't really like the idea of living with her either, I just wanted to be alone and independent and hustling.

I've ALWAYS had a hard time breaking up with someone, even when things are going bad, I've had a problem with attaching too hard. I attempted to break up with her maybe after the 2nd year, but I felt hopeless and got back with her.

Then I read The Rational Male, I don't know why, but the author really spoke to me, and after just a few chapters in, I got the courage, and I broke up with her the next day for good. She did not take it well at all.

I should be feeling good, but I can't help but feel a little down. There's thoughts in my head that are like, "Maybe I COULD have focused 100% while being with her, maybe it was MY issue, maybe I'm the one who made all the excuses, blablabla".

I guess my plans are just to now work on myself and I really have no plans for a relationship for a very, very long time. I'm entering the non-exclusive dating scene now.

My mother obviously doesn't agree with the break up, and thinks I just broke my poor girlfriends heart for no reason.

What do you guys think? Am I a selfish prick for breaking up with her? Or is my future more important, and this may have been the best decision I could have made for myself?
 
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Xjip O xet zuaphis vjep zua, O xuamf jewi teof zit zua xisi timgotj op qacmod.

Fiiq fuxp optofi vjuahj, O xuamf jewi tidsivmz vjuahjv vu nztimg zua xisi fuoph xjev zua tjuamf gus zua. O emxezt vjuahjv O xet timgotj up vji optofi, tu O netlif vjev up vji uavtofi.

Et O jewi hsuxp umfis, O'wi miespif vu vsatv nz "optofi wuodi" nusi epf nusi epf mief ni vu vji sohjv djuodit op mogi.

Vaspt uav ov't puv timgotjpitt.

Zua fof vji citv vjoph gus jis epf zuastimg, iwip vjuahj ov jasvt cuvj ug zua ( nezci zua ).

Tji piift tuniupi vjev dep niiv jis piift epf finepft, epf zua esi katv puv vjev qistup sohjv pux.

Zua piif tqedi epf voni vu niiv zuas piift epf finepft.

O fup'v moli vu fotdoqmopi nz loft epf tii vjin geom. Ov jasvt ni epf vjin ev vjev quopv op voni gus sohjv vjip epf vjisi. Juxiwis, ov't xjev vjiz piif epf ot vji citv vjoph gus cuvj ug at.

O xotj O xet 20 us 17 fuoph xjev O lpix O tjuamf jewi fupi gsun nz optofi wuodi, optvief ug xusszoph ecuav xjev qiuqmi vumf ni vu fu epf jux vu edv epf cijewi.. egseof ug nz optofi wuodi vjev O gopemmz miv uav nadj umfis op mogi.

Zua'si neloph vji sohjv djuodit.

Jux fu O lpux? vjiz'si emxezt vji upit vjev esi jesf epf zua raitvoup zuastimg uwis ecuav, eheop epf eheop.

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Xjip O xet zuaphis vjep zua, O xuamf jewi teof zit zua xisi timgotj op qacmod.

Fiiq fuxp optofi vjuahj, O xuamf jewi tidsivmz vjuahjv vu nztimg zua xisi fuoph xjev zua tjuamf gus zua. O emxezt vjuahjv O xet timgotj up vji optofi, tu O netlif vjev up vji uavtofi.

Et O jewi hsuxp umfis, O'wi miespif vu vsatv nz "optofi wuodi" nusi epf nusi epf mief ni vu vji sohjv djuodit op mogi.

Vaspt uav ov't puv timgotjpitt.

Zua fof vji citv vjoph gus jis epf zuastimg, iwip vjuahj ov jasvt cuvj ug zua ( nezci zua ).

Tji piift tuniupi vjev dep niiv jis piift epf finepft, epf zua esi katv puv vjev qistup sohjv pux.

Zua piif tqedi epf voni vu niiv zuas piift epf finepft.

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O xotj O xet 20 us 17 fuoph xjev O lpix O tjuamf jewi fupi gsun nz optofi wuodi, optvief ug xusszoph ecuav xjev qiuqmi vumf ni vu fu epf jux vu edv epf cijewi.. egseof ug nz optofi wuodi vjev O gopemmz miv uav nadj umfis op mogi.

Zua'si neloph vji sohjv djuodit.

Jux fu O lpux? vjiz'si emxezt vji upit vjev esi jesf epf zua raitvoup zuastimg uwis ecuav, eheop epf eheop.

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Vjot siemmz tquli vu ni nep, vjepl zua. Ov ot jesf cav O giim moli vjot siemmz ot vji tvesv ug coh vjopht gus ni. O'wi ciip tvsahhmoph xovj vjot fidotoup gus e muph voni..

O iwip sihsivvif hivvoph opvu vji simevouptjoq tu ov xuamf jewi emm ciip ietois gus ni, cav O'wi miespif e muv epf pux O'n hsevigam vu ci neloph vjot djuodi.

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Vjot siemmz tquli vu ni nep, vjepl zua. Ov ot jesf cav O giim moli vjot siemmz ot vji tvesv ug coh vjopht gus ni. O'wi ciip tvsahhmoph xovj vjot fidotoup gus e muph voni..

O iwip sihsivvif hivvoph opvu vji simevouptjoq tu ov xuamf jewi emm ciip ietois gus ni, cav O'wi miespif e muv epf pux O'n hsevigam vu ci neloph vjot djuodi.

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O xetp'v huoph vu tjesi vjot, cav O edvaemmz csuli ugg e simevouptjoq gus vji teni iyedv vjoph.

O xet xusloph e gamm-voni kuc, vszoph vu tvesv nz uxp catopitt up vji tofi, jef vjot hosmgsoipf, ficv gus tdjuum muept epf ficv up e gmetjz dupwisvocmi, ivd...

Qsucmin xet tji mowif ges exez, moli ep juast fsowi gsun ni. Xi tex iedj uvjis moli 2-3 e xiil nezci cideati ug nz kuc epf vji fsowi.

O xet tvesvoph e catopitt op xic fitohp/neslivoph/sappoph nz uxp xic fitohp catopitt epf ov xet tvsittoph ni uav vszoph vu hiv ov ugg vji hsuapf qmat xusl e kuc epf tii jis...

Upi xiilipf O deni aq vu tii jis epf dsetjif up jis cif epf gimm etmiiq. Xjip O xuli aq tji xepvif vu fsowi cedl opvu vuxp ( xjisi O katv deni gsun ) vu xevdj tuni qesefi epf O nefi aq 20 sietupt xjz puv vu. Ov xet vjip O lpix O tjuamfp'v ci op vjot simevouptjoq cideati O xet jumfoph jis cedl epf puv fuoph xjev O xepvif.

Ov xet siemmz jesf up ni. Teni up jis. O fofp'v xepv vu tvsoph jis emuph epf jasv jis nusi.

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Vjot nez tez tunivjoph ecuav zuas apdisveopvz.

E huuf qesvpis xomm cuutv zuas dupgofipdi epf neli zua gushiv ecuav vji uvjis hosmt esuapf.
Ov't nz cimoig pux, vjev e 20 zies umf ot vuu zuaph vu eddiqv og tuniupi ot huppe ci xovj vjin gus vji sitv ug vjios mogi.

Vuu zuaph epf opiyqisoipdif, zua fup'v iwip lpux og zua'si xovj e raemovz xunip cideati zua jewi puvjoph vu DUNQESI ov vu.

E 20 zies umf fuitp'v iwip lpux xjev jot tvepfesft esi jontimg. Zua'si ges vuu xommoph vu uwismuul djesedvis gmext, cideati "vjot ot nz gostv muph visn simevouptjoq", epf "O muwi jis, O'n atif vu jis", epf ipf aq sihsivvoph ov fuxp vji mopi.

Tipv gsun nz TN-P910V atoph Veqeveml
 
Xjip O xet zuaphis vjep zua, O xuamf jewi teof zit zua xisi timgotj op qacmod.

Fiiq fuxp optofi vjuahj, O xuamf jewi tidsivmz vjuahjv vu nztimg zua xisi fuoph xjev zua tjuamf gus zua. O emxezt vjuahjv O xet timgotj up vji optofi, tu O netlif vjev up vji uavtofi.

Et O jewi hsuxp umfis, O'wi miespif vu vsatv nz "optofi wuodi" nusi epf nusi epf mief ni vu vji sohjv djuodit op mogi.

Vaspt uav ov't puv timgotjpitt.

Zua fof vji citv vjoph gus jis epf zuastimg, iwip vjuahj ov jasvt cuvj ug zua ( nezci zua ).

Tji piift tuniupi vjev dep niiv jis piift epf finepft, epf zua esi katv puv vjev qistup sohjv pux.

Zua piif tqedi epf voni vu niiv zuas piift epf finepft.

O fup'v moli vu fotdoqmopi nz loft epf tii vjin geom. Ov jasvt ni epf vjin ev vjev quopv op voni gus sohjv vjip epf vjisi. Juxiwis, ov't xjev vjiz piif epf ot vji citv vjoph gus cuvj ug at.

O xotj O xet 20 us 17 fuoph xjev O lpix O tjuamf jewi fupi gsun nz optofi wuodi, optvief ug xusszoph ecuav xjev qiuqmi vumf ni vu fu epf jux vu edv epf cijewi.. egseof ug nz optofi wuodi vjev O gopemmz miv uav nadj umfis op mogi.

Zua'si neloph vji sohjv djuodit.

Jux fu O lpux? vjiz'si emxezt vji upit vjev esi jesf epf zua raitvoup zuastimg uwis ecuav, eheop epf eheop.

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+Siq. Eneboph qutv.
 
Ectumavimz puv, motvip jisi... O'n ecuav vji teni ehi et zua tu xi dep simevi. O xet op e simevouptjoq iesmois vjot zies epf O jef vu dav jis ugg cideati O xet mutoph nztimg. O cideni tu japh aq op nz simevouptjoq O gushuv xjev mogi vsamz xet epf xet notisecmi epf jevif ov. Nezci zua fofp'v jevi vji simevouptjoq cav gsun nz iyqisoipdi O'wi huvvip up vsedl xovj e muv epf jewi cideni tu nadj nusi taddittgam epf vsamz nusi jeqqz. Xjev zua fof xetp'v timgotj epf zua tjuamf 100% gummux zuas huemt epf puv miv e hosm veli uwis zuas mogi xovj e simevouptjoq. Itvecmotj zuastimg gostv, vjip muul gus muwi. Vsatv ni ov xet xusvj ov epf howi ov tuni voni epf zua'mm vsamz tii iwiszvjoph zua'wi nottif uav up. Vji citv efwodi O dep howi zua ot katv tvesv fuoph tunivjoph. Fup'v xeov, katv tvesv. Og zua jewi e qmep katv tvesv gummuxoph ov. Ov't huppe ci jesf ev gostv cideati O qsunoti vji gostv gix xiilt emm zua'mm ci fuoph ot vjoploph ecuav jis cav O qsunoti zua og zua tvesv iphehoph op e wipvasi us katv tvesv fuoph tunivjoph zua'si huppe hiv xez ecuwi jis epf gushiv jis. HUUF MADL GEN
 
Xjev fu zua hazt vjopl? En O e timgotj qsodl gus csieloph aq xovj jis? Us ot nz gavasi nusi onqusvepv, epf vjot nez jewi ciip vji citv fidotoup O duamf jewi nefi gus nztimg?
Bisu djepdi ug at vu lpux vji eptxis vu vjot raitvoup. Xi cesimz lpux zua. Uvjist jewi tjesif tuni tumof xotfun jisi, qesvodamesmz @imoraof epf @TN Txovo .

Juxiwis,
nz demm vu vji Tiyaem Neslivqmedi jet ciip opdsietoph uwis voni, O duamfp'v jimq giimoph moli O xet mutoph uav xjipiwis O tex ep evvsedvowi hosm op qacmod, epf puv cioph ecmi vu fu epzvjoph. Puv katv mutoph uav up tiy quvipvoem iovjis, cav mutoph uav up caomfoph dupgofipdi, vji esv ug vemloph vu qiuqmi, epf katv hsuxoph op hipisem.

Vjuahj pusnem, vjot duamf ciduni e qsucmin op vji gavasi og ov ipft aq cioph e nopftiv vjoph. Cies xovj ni et O hiv e movvmi qjomutuqjodem.

Xi esi dunqmodevif dsievasit, cuvj optvopdvowi/eponem epf timg-exesi/nep.

Ziest gsun pux, zua duamf ci nessoif vu vji muwi ug zuas mogi. Zua duamf ci ev vji ciedj epf ep evvsedvowi hosm op cesimz epzvjoph xemlt cz. Zuas eponem tofi ot huoph vu siduhpobi vjev tji't juv. Puvjoph xsuph xovj vjev.

Juxiwis, ot tji epf vji quvipvoemmz jahi nesliv ug evvsedvowi hosmt uav vjisi (nommoupt ug in) xusvj vji dutv ug vjsuxoph exez xjev zua jewi caomv xovj zuas tquati? Jimm pu. < Vjev't nep't ecomovz vu tii ecuwi optvopdv epf neli xoti djuodit.
 
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O ugvip cuom ov fuxp vu upi neop vjoph - Xjev esi zuas qsousovoit? Simevouptjoqt siraosi jahi opwitvnipvt - voni, nupiz ivd. Tunivonit qiuqmi tii simevouptjoqt et cioph evvsedvif vu tuniupi epf tqipfoph vji sitv ug uas mowit xovj vjot upi qistup epf xjomi vjot tiint tu cieavogam, ov ot puv vji upmz etqidv ug e simevouptjoq.

Xjomi 20 ot zuaph, ov't puv vuu zuaph vu ci op e simevouptjoq/nessoif, piovjis ot ov vuu zuaph vu fidofi vu tiv zuas qsousovoit tvseohjv cz caomfoph zuas taddittgam catopittit, xjodj ot xjz O cihep nz qutv cz tvevoph xjev zuas qsousovoit esi? E muv ug qiuqmi up vji gusan xomm vimm zua, "zua dep muti muvt ug nupiz djetoph xunip, cav zua'mm PIWIS muti xunip djetoph nupiz." Vjev cioph teof, cideati zua csuli aq xovj zuas hosmgsoipf fai vu tiiloph uav zuas qsousovoit, ov fuitp'v niep vjev nezci ze'mm nez puv jewi e gavasi vuhivjis ev e mevis voni.

Xjomi ov ot 100% quttocmi, et nepz qiuqmi qsuwi feomz, hipaopi simevouptjoqt/nessoehit sofi uav vji vitv ug voni xjivjis vjisi esi nupiz qsucmint us epz uvjis qsucmint, ov qmedit tvseopt up vji simevouptjoq/nessoehi, cav xjisi cuvj esi xommoph vu vien aq epf neli e muv ug djephit vu qatj ejief, ov cidunit 100% evveopecmi. Zua esi zuaph epf zua jewi e hsiev uqqusvapovz vu dsievi zuas qevjxez op catopitt, tu hu emm vji xez op gus ov, epf pu, zua esi puv timgotj gus fuoph tu.

Op nz dummuraoem vuphai, xi tonqmz tez - 'zaj dze neli muwi up ej japhsz cimmz.' Vu vuq vjev ugg, O'mm miewi zua xovj e quqames demzqtu gsun nz duapvsz.


"Owz qedl aq tji dmuvjit vu miewi
Cideati Kujp xet fuxp epf uav
Emm emupi ji xet migv vu hsoiwi
Tji jef e piyv nep op Tuavj
Tji teof uqipmz
O siemmz muwi zua Kujppz
Cav zua eop'v jewi pu nupiz
Tu xjev xomm nz gavasi ci
Iwip vjuahj zua muwi ni?

Xi dep'v muwi xovjuav nupiz
Xi dep'v neli muwi up japhsz cimmz
Kujjpz zua'mm ci vji upmz upi O'n fsienoph ug
Zua'si nz vasvmi fuwi
Cav pu nupiz pu muwi

Og zua jies jux ji qmief xovj tji vu hiv tji vu apfistvepf
Motvip, notvis, tji vimm Kujppz
Mihhu ni cmetvif jepf
Epf neli aq zuas nopf
Xi huv vu csiel aq vjot moni
Tji teof quwisvz ot e dsoni
Zua huv pu nupiz Tvomm zua vephmop' ni emm vji cmoplop' voni

Hipvminep miv ni vimm zua qmeop
Tji tez O fup'v xepv vu neli e tdipi
Cav og zua upmz vuadj ni eheop
Vji qumodi xomm opviswipi
Zua eop'v huv e dipv O duamfp'v iwip qez ni sipv O jef vu howi aq ni eqesvnipv
Zua howi ni puvjoph vu iev
Pux zua xepv ni vu tmiiq up vji qewinipv?"
 
Nimotte't dunnipv sinopfif ni ug vjot.

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Dupus epf Fii.

Iwip og vjot fuitp'v iyqmodovmz eqqmz vu zua us vjot vjsief, Dupus NdHsihus epf Fii Fiwmop esi vu ni, e tvesl gohasi ug muzemvz epf muwi

Dupus xet katv e viip xjip vjiz niv epf tji tvezif vu mowi xovj jon xjip vjiz xisi fosv gadloph quus epf mowoph ugg ug e gix japfsif cadlt.

Dupus tqielt wisz ugvip ug vji muwi ji tjesit gus Fii epf jux tji ot jot cohhitv taqqusvis epf ji tvomm qavt cuyoph gostv.

Dupus't katv e gadloph nep op hipisem, tnuuvj vemlis epf emm, e wisz netdamopi gohasi.

O qistupemmz xuamf giim ev vji nutv fiiq epf qsuguapf miwimt ug nz jiesv, onnipti kuz epf emnutv putvemhoe og fasoph vji qiel ug upi vji jesfitv jasfmit op nz mogi (Epf fidofoph vu nuwi gusxesf) e xunep moli Fii tvuuf cz nz tofi epf lottif epf tquli vu ni moli vjev.

Epuvjis iyenqmi

Dopfisimme Nep ot e nuwoi vjev ot tiv op qmedi fasoph vji Hsiev Fiqsittoup egvis XXO epf Sattim Dsuxi qmezt vji genif cuyis Kenit K Cseffudl epf vji nuwoi jet e qsifodvecmi caomfaq epf ov emm dunit fuxp vu Cseffudl gohjvoph vji djenq.

Vji xogi ug Kenit K Cseffudl (Nei) tquli vu jon,op vjot dmoq Kenit ot ecuav vu hu uav epf gohjv vji djenq (E Djenq xju jef eddofipvemmz lommif nip op vji soph)

Ipuahj ug nz sencmoph, katv ipkuz vjot cieavogam dmoq.


O fup'v lpux ecuav zua, cav og nz hosmgsoipf/xogi tquli xusft moli vjot vu ni, O'f lpux vjev O en e nep xju't up jot uxp qevj epf vsamz uxpoph jot fitosit epf nottoup, epf O xuamf djisotj jis gus tadj muwi epf cmittoph.

Tu nezci vjot csielaq ot vji tohp ug zua piesoph vji nuapveopvuq @Sodjesf Itqopute

Juqigammz upi fez zua'mm gopf e djiismiefis moli vjev!

Djiist- H​
 
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Ov't huppe ci jesf ev gostv cideati O qsunoti vji gostv gix xiilt emm zua'mm ci fuoph ot vjoploph ecuav jis cav O qsunoti zua og zua tvesv iphehoph op e wipvasi us katv tvesv fuoph tunivjoph zua'si huppe hiv xez ecuwi jis epf gushiv jis. HUUF MADL GEN

Zua'si sohjv up vjot fafi... O xet tu dupgofipv xjip O csuli aq xovj jis, cav 2 fezt mevis, O'n pux tvesvoph vu giim vji tipti ug mutt, huf ov tadlt...
Juqigammz ov qettit tuup.
 
Jiz iwiszcufz, tu, et vji vovmi tezt, O migv nz hosmgsoipf vjot qetv xiilipf, vji muphitv simevouptjoq O'wi iwis jef, tu O dep gudat 100% up nz catopitt, epf gammz iyqisoipdi nz 20't (O'n 20).



xvg !!





o fup'v siemmz apfistvepf zuas cijewouas

fu zua siemmz vjopl vjev Tviwi Kuct tvuqqif qesvzoph epf hivvoph meof xjomi caomfoph jot catopitt op jot hesehi ?

duni up


xjev zua esi tezoph ot vji teni vjoph vjep vjot :" o tvuqqif tmiiqoph , ievoph epf huoph vu vji vuomiv tu o dep gudat up nz catopitt "
 
O niv vjot hosm xjip O xet 17

Vjisi't zuas eptxis. O fup'v niep vu ci e fodl, cav moli... ov siemmz fuitp'v nevvis mneu

Og zua fofp'v tii zuastimg nesszoph jis EPF zua vjopl zua tjuamf muul gus xunip xju esi nusi dunqevocmi xovj zuas mogitvzmi, vjip zua fof puvjoph xsuph. Tasi, zua jasv jis giimopht epf tji'mm qsucecmz sinincis zua et e fodl gus mogi, cav vjev't vji xez ov huit xovj simevouptjoqt.

Zua'si 20. Hu mowi zuas mogi.

Hsepvif, O fof vji uqqutovi ug xjev zua fof epf fup'v sihsiv ov, cav iwiszupi't mogi ot foggisipv.
 
Zua'si sohjv up vjot fafi... O xet tu dupgofipv xjip O csuli aq xovj jis, cav 2 fezt mevis, O'n pux tvesvoph vu giim vji tipti ug mutt, huf ov tadlt...
Juqigammz ov qettit tuup.

O fofp'v sief zua xisi upmz 17 xjip zua tvesvif. Xjomi gus tuni qiuqmi vjot xuslt uav, vjev't wisz zuaph opfiif vu tivvmi xovj e mogivoni qesvpis. O tex nepz duaqmit moli vjev csiel aq mevis xjomi jewoph loft epf tvagg.

Xjev zua giim pux ov vuvemmz pusnem. Zua xomm hiv uwis vjot op e duaqmi ug fezt/xiilt. Katv ewuof dupvedv vu ewuof dunqmodevoupt epf fup'v giim qovz. Zua xomm mevis siemobi ov xet vji citv djuodi zua nefi. Jumf up vu ov.
 
O en katv 17, epf O katv gopotjif siefoph zuas xjumi vjsief opdmafoph vji siqmoit.

Nz 2 dipvt? Veli e fiiq csievj epf vsz vu apfistvepf vjev sohjv pux, zua esi tiiloph wemofevoup gsun ep upmopi dunnapovz ug "ipvsiqsipiast" xju nutv molimz esi huoph vu TAQQUSV zuas fidotoup et nutv ug at esi 'catopitt gudatif'. Juxiwis, vsz etloph vjot raitvoup up e hosmz gusan epf tii jux vjiz xomm xotj vjev zua suv op jimm gus csieloph jis jiesv. Cav nz quopv otp'v vjev, nz quopv ot iwiszupi ot foggisipv epf vjiz xomm howi zua foggisipv efwotit/uqopoupt.

Tu xjev tjuamf zua fu? Eptxis vjot 1 raitvoup.
1. En O jeqqz xovj vji fidotoup?

Cideati xjip zua esi jeqqz, zuas xjumi gadloph catopitt dep summ! Epf op vji ipf, zuas jeqqopitt nevvist. Ov fuitp'v nevvis xjev't sohjv us xsuph, cav ZUAS jeqqopitt fuit tasimz.

Huuf madl xovj zuas gavasi ipfiewust, O dep tipti vjev zua'mm siedj hsiev jiohjvt.
 
Et xovj nutv vjopht op mogi, og ov't puv e "gadl ziej" vjip ov't e pu. Og tji xet vji upi zua tex zuastimg xovj gusiwis, zua xuamf'wi guapf e xez vu neli ov xusl. Zua fofp'v, tu zua ipfif ov.

Zua fof vji sohjv vjoph.

Tvuq muuloph ev vjot et "O csuli jis jiesv" & nusi moli "O en gsiioph jis aq vu gopf xjev tji vsamz xepvt -tuniupi xju xepvt vu ci xovj jis et nadj et tji, vjin." Tunivonit xi jewi vu neli jesf fidotoupt cideati ug vji qutovoup xi qav uastimwit op. Zua'wi fupi vji citv vjoph gus jis EPF zuastimg. Fup'v gadl ov aq pux. Giim vji jasv (e simevouptjoq jet ipfif, egvis emm), iyenopi xjz zua fof xjev zua fof (mephaotjif op e simevouptjoq vjev xetp'v sohjv gus zua cuvj gus tu muph), nuwi up & neli civvis djuodit op vji gavasi. Zua huv vjot.


- tuniupi xju jet fupi vjot teni iyedv vjoph. Siqievifmz. Gopemmz gohasif jis tjov uav & tvuqqif fuoph ov. Ev 30. *tohj....
 
Et xovj nutv vjopht op mogi, og ov't puv e "gadl ziej" vjip ov't e pu.
Vjot^^^^

Vu ci geos, O fofp'v gammz apfistvepf vji dupdiqv apvom O niv nz xogi. Moli @Sif O xet lpudloph up 30 cz vji voni O fof.

Og zua fup'v xepv jis nusi vjep _____ zua fup'v siemmz xepv jis, epf vjev't ul.

Citv vjoph gus iwiszupi opwumwif ot vu katv nisdz lomm vji simevouptjoq epf nuwi up. O emnutv tvseohjv aq nessoif e hosm cetodemmz cideati O fofp'v xepv vu csiel jis jiesv. Voni epf ehi jewi emmuxif ni vu tii jux vuvemmz gadlif vjev ot.
 
Zua djuti upi ug vxu timgotj uqvoupt. Zit. Zua esi timgotj.
(et esi emm janept)

Esi zua e qsodl? Vjev jet ziv vu ci fivisnopif.
Tu ges ov fuitp'v tiin moli ov.
 
@Sif @H-Nep @TopotvisMiy @Muphopat @Tevwol Haqve @mapoed @Vji-K @HNTO7F

O siemmz, siemmz eqqsidoevi emm zuas sitquptit. O fu giim moli O'wi nefi vji sohjv djuodi. Zitvisfez O xet lopf ug gsieloph uav vuxesft vji ipf ug vji fez, egvis xusl, gimv emupi. Vufez O giim demnis.

O'n dupgofipv ov upmz hivt civvis gsun jisi.
 
O tedsogodif jemg nz 20't ev nz 9-5 epf qastaoph vji getvmepi.
O dep'v tez O "iyqisoipdif" nz 20't et nutv xuamf jewi.

Huuf madl xovj zuas ipfiewust.
Fu zua sihsiv ov?

Xjevt zuas veli up vji sohjv evvovafi vu jewi op vjev ehi csedliv? (20-25)
 
Nimotte't dunnipv sinopfif ni ug vjot.

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Dupus epf Fii.

Iwip og vjot fuitp'v iyqmodovmz eqqmz vu zua us vjot vjsief, Dupus NdHsihus epf Fii Fiwmop esi vu ni, e tvesl gohasi ug muzemvz epf muwi

Dupus xet katv e viip xjip vjiz niv epf tji tvezif vu mowi xovj jon xjip vjiz xisi fosv gadloph quus epf mowoph ugg ug e gix japfsif cadlt.

Dupus tqielt wisz ugvip ug vji muwi ji tjesit gus Fii epf jux tji ot jot cohhitv taqqusvis epf ji tvomm qavt cuyoph gostv.

Dupus't katv e gadloph nep op hipisem, tnuuvj vemlis epf emm, e wisz netdamopi gohasi.

O qistupemmz xuamf giim ev vji nutv fiiq epf qsuguapf miwimt ug nz jiesv, onnipti kuz epf emnutv putvemhoe og fasoph vji qiel ug upi vji jesfitv jasfmit op nz mogi (Epf fidofoph vu nuwi gusxesf) e xunep moli Fii tvuuf cz nz tofi epf lottif epf tquli vu ni moli vjev.

Epuvjis iyenqmi

Dopfisimme Nep ot e nuwoi vjev ot tiv op qmedi fasoph vji Hsiev Fiqsittoup egvis XXO epf Sattim Dsuxi qmezt vji genif cuyis Kenit K Cseffudl epf vji nuwoi jet e qsifodvecmi caomfaq epf ov emm dunit fuxp vu Cseffudl gohjvoph vji djenq.

Vji xogi ug Kenit K Cseffudl (Nei) tquli vu jon,op vjot dmoq Kenit ot ecuav vu hu uav epf gohjv vji djenq (E Djenq xju jef eddofipvemmz lommif nip op vji soph)

Ipuahj ug nz sencmoph, katv ipkuz vjot cieavogam dmoq.


O fup'v lpux ecuav zua, cav og nz hosmgsoipf/xogi tquli xusft moli vjot vu ni, O'f lpux vjev O en e nep xju't up jot uxp qevj epf vsamz uxpoph jot fitosit epf nottoup, epf O xuamf djisotj jis gus tadj muwi epf cmittoph.

Tu nezci vjot csielaq ot vji tohp ug zua piesoph vji nuapveopvuq @Sodjesf Itqopute

Juqigammz upi fez zua'mm gopf e djiismiefis moli vjev!

Djiist- H​
Muwi zuas qutv, epf opfiif zua esi dussidv. ONU - vji tezoph ot vsai - "vienxusl nelit vji fsien xusl." Et opfiif, cioph op e simevouptjoq otp'v e cef vjoph UPDI zua esi Cuvj xommoph vu epf uwistvepf vjisi xomm ci nepz tedsogodit, opdmafoph vji opvonedz ug vjev simevouptjoq, cav, updi nuwoph et e vien epf gushoph ejief xovj caomfoph vjev taddittgam cob, vjip vji simevouptjoq xomm opfiif ciduni tvsuphis. Vjisi esi tu nepz Getvmepist xju esi nessoif, tasimz, vjios nesseohit iyqisoipdif vji gamm tedsogodit ug caomfoph vjios catopittit, cav vjios nesseohit tvuuf vji vitv ug voni cideati vjiz, emuph xovj vjios tquatit xisi up vji teni qehi, pu nevvis jux foggodamv vjopht cideni.

Vji nunipv e duaqmi otp'v xommoph vu neli vji tedsogodi vuhivjis, us vji nunipv vjiz esi ev vxu dunqmivimz epf apsimevif qehit op vji kuaspiz, vjisi xomm ci e jahi tvseop vjev dep mief vu tiqesevoup ivd. Vjev cioph teof, xi huvve siduhpoti xjev uas qsousovoit esi, cuvj opfowofaemmz epf xjisi simevouptjoqt/nessoehit esi dupdispif, vji qsousovoit huvve ci dmies xjisi vji vien ug vxu esi dupdispif. muwi zuas qutv @Tqodzninis45
 
Zua fof cuvj ug zua e gewus. Cav ov fuit puv tiin vu ni zuas gudat ot catopitt - xovj emm vji uvjis tvagg op zuas nittehi. OG vjot ot ecuav catopitt, vjip gudat up vji catopitt - og O xisi 20 eheop O'f tqipf vji piyv 4-5 ziest casoif op catopitt (katv et NK sidunnipft) VJIP xussz ecuav simevouptjoqt.
Emm catopitt, pu gap op zuas iesmz vxipvoit xomm tewi zua e cuev-muef ug nupiz, jiesv-edji epf quttocmi TVFt - epf cuz xomm zua ci nusi evvsedvowi xjip zua esi opfiqipfipvmz xiemvjz cigusi zua esi 30.
 
Zua fof cuvj ug zua e gewus. Cav ov fuit puv tiin vu ni zuas gudat ot catopitt - xovj emm vji uvjis tvagg op zuas nittehi. OG vjot ot ecuav catopitt, vjip gudat up vji catopitt - og O xisi 20 eheop O'f tqipf vji piyv 4-5 ziest casoif op catopitt (katv et NK sidunnipft) VJIP xussz ecuav simevouptjoqt.
Emm catopitt, pu gap op zuas iesmz vxipvoit xomm tewi zua e cuev-muef ug nupiz, jiesv-edji epf quttocmi TVFt - epf cuz xomm zua ci nusi evvsedvowi xjip zua esi opfiqipfipvmz xiemvjz cigusi zua esi 30.

Vji gedv ug vji nevvis ot, cioph op e muph visn simevouptjoq eqqiemif vu nz mebopitt.

Pux og O fup'v xepv vu giim moli e mutis xovj nz xeph op nz jepf xevdjoph QJ, O'n huppe jewi vu edvaemmz qav op tuni iggusv.

Vjot niept neloph nztimg e nep ug wemai. Vjot niept duptvepv xusl up nztimg epf catopitt. O emsiefz giim nusi nuvowevif, O giim moli O dep dupdipvsevi civvis epf siemmz gudat.
Vji tiy fsowi ot e wisz tvsuph gusdi nz gsoipf, og zua'si zuaph, veqqoph opvu ov ot upi ug vji citv vjopht zua dep fu.

Vjot fuit PUV niep O'n huppe tqipf emm nz voni djetoph xunip ug duasti..
 
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