Apologies to all for not replying sooner. I have been lurking in the background.
Read Psycho Cybernetics by Dr. Maxwell Maltz, and 177 Mental Toughness Secrets by Steven Siebold.
Before I posted I actually downloaded a couple of Kindle samples related to mindset - one of them being 177 Mental Toughness Secrets as well as Mental Strength - Control Your Mind and Achieve Your
Goals by Iain Abernethy (if anyone is interested). Bounce - The Myth of Talent and the Power of Practice by Matthew Syed also looks like a good read.
Sure you're emotionally equipped! Trust me there's nothing you can't overcome in life. Mental is strengthening your mind. Getting rid of the negative thoughts from toxic people in your life. As I've told some of the people I've already helped, write down all the negative things people to say to you that are significant in your life. Write down the ones that you tell yourself. And look at those thoughts. Are they truth about you? No they're not!
Years of negative thinking and stress (most likely self-inflicted) has taken it's toll. If there is anything I want to achieve this year it would be to overcome this.
I often have thoughts like this:
I wish I was 10 years younger (I used to wish I was 5 years younger 5 years ago)
I wish I listened to my Dad and not gone to university and started working with him (although, my Dad is an autocrat and my Mum used to be a worrier - it would have driven me insane)
I wish when I failed my first year in my degree my university didn't let me back in - who knows where I might be today
I wish I was never fat
I wish this..
I wish that..
I've heard good things about meditation but like with many things I've not taken action.
You are capable of doing what you want. You just are. That's not motivational speech. It's just the truth.
This really stood out for me. Thanks Even Steven.
Start watching comedy, you're too stifled and resisting isn't going to help, get in touch with who you are.
You need to relax and go back to how you were as a kid, I'm sure you didn't have today's issue's.
I rarely watch anything these days - I think I somehow convinced myself that if I stopped watching TV I would be a better person for it and achieve so much more. How was wrong I?
What happened to you?
I'm asking because you said that you didn't use to be this way. What we experience molds us. I went through something similar.
I'm not sure what started it.
Maybe it was because I had a hard time making friends during my first couple of years at university and I never got the work-life balance right (constantly stressed)
Maybe it was my Dad's affair and not being man enough to confront him? - I think I will read Toxic Parents.
Maybe it is just constant negative thoughts?
My interest is in why do you want to be an entrepreneur? I think being an entrepreneur is awesome, and you should totally go for it, but I want to know what is it for you that has you want to be an entrepreneur?
I read
TMF a year ago - never took any action though.
I attended a friends wedding last October in Singapore. He asked me when I was coming to work out there. I told him never - life is easy in the UK, I like 8 hour days and 5 weeks holiday a year (I didn't want to tell him about my problems) to which he replied where is your F*cking drive man?
I think me wanting to be an entrepreneur is so I can say I haven't wasted my life.
I'll be able to focus on improving myself once I have more free time. i.e. rich
(On reading back it looks like a mishmash of my thoughts - I swear I was going somewhere with this)
I have taken some action - I've sourced products from China and added my own branding. I will be attempting to sell via Instagram. But what should have taken me 4 weeks has taken 12 and I'm still not ready yet. I didn't validate, I constantly question whether this is the right product, am I really adding value or just selling things online, is the name good enough, does the logo look a bit shit, is the packaging good enough? Am I really being an entrepreneur?
Thanks for all the replies. I really wanted to address everybody's posts. I think it is clear - I am a victim of my own mind.