Hello Fastlaners, I'm happy to be a part of this forum, here's my story.

[Ayo]

Hello guys,
My name's Ayo, I'm a Nigerian, and I'm happy to be here on this forum.

I am 21yrs old and about to enter University and here's my story, please don't mind the boring post and kindly read to the end.

I live with my dad and his wife (I learnt he separated with my mom from birth),
He is an emotional abuser, he curses and blackmails emotionally and I've had suicide thoughts a couple of times but I'm not prepared to die cuz i think suicide won't be an option.

So here goes my question.

I am currently having an online training on how to import goods from Asian countries to my country and sell them, but I won't be able to do anything in this house because my dad won't let me do anything, (when I was learning web design he doesn't let me go to work and I don't like it cuz he always say I don't need money for anything, and I feel like my dreams can't come true here cuz he wants me sitting and running errands for his wife then saying I can start a life of my own when I'm about 30 something, he won't let me have friends either and he also wants to impose his decisions on me and his wife doesn't really like me too),
So I'm thinking on selling my laptop and go to another state ( I have a state in mind with a low cost of living and schooling there is also cheap), so I can make a survey of what they need over there so I can start the business, then when I save enough to buy another laptop I have this idea of building a website that will be like an adverts website ( the website will place adverts for business owners and will make consumers to find what they want easily). That's all I can say for now, please if you understand me kindly give your advice,

Thanks for your time .

 

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[DannyBow]

Jimmu hazt,
Nz peni't Ezu, O'n e Pohisoep, epf O'n jeqqz vu ci jisi up vjot gusan.

O en 21zst umf epf ecuav vu ipvis Apowistovz epf jisi't nz tvusz, qmieti fup'v nopf vji cusoph qutv epf lopfmz sief vu vji ipf.

O mowi xovj nz fef epf jot xogi (O miespv ji tiqesevif xovj nz nun gsun cosvj),
Ji ot ep inuvoupem ecatis, ji dastit epf cmedlneomt inuvoupemmz epf O'wi jef taodofi vjuahjvt e duaqmi ug vonit cav O'n puv qsiqesif vu foi dab o vjopl taodofi xup'v ci ep uqvoup.

Tu jisi huit nz raitvoup.

O en dassipvmz jewoph ep upmopi vseopoph up jux vu onqusv huuft gsun Etoep duapvsoit vu nz duapvsz epf timm vjin, cav O xup'v ci ecmi vu fu epzvjoph op vjot juati cideati nz fef xup'v miv ni fu epzvjoph, (xjip O xet miespoph xic fitohp ji fuitp'v miv ni hu vu xusl epf O fup'v moli ov dab ji emxezt tez O fup'v piif nupiz gus epzvjoph, epf O giim moli nz fsient dep'v duni vsai jisi dab ji xepvt ni tovvoph epf sappoph issepft gus jot xogi vjip tezoph O dep tvesv e mogi ug nz uxp xjip O'n ecuav 30 tunivjoph, ji xup'v miv ni jewi gsoipft iovjis epf ji emtu xepvt vu onquti jot fidotoupt up ni epf jot xogi fuitp'v siemmz moli ni vuu),
Tu O'n vjoploph up timmoph nz meqvuq epf hu vu epuvjis tvevi ( O jewi e tvevi op nopf xovj e mux dutv ug mowoph epf tdjuumoph vjisi ot emtu djieq), tu O dep neli e taswiz ug xjev vjiz piif uwis vjisi tu O dep tvesv vji catopitt, vjip xjip O tewi ipuahj vu caz epuvjis meqvuq O jewi vjot ofie ug caomfoph e xictovi vjev xomm ci moli ep efwisvt xictovi ( vji xictovi xomm qmedi efwisvt gus catopitt uxpist epf xomm neli duptanist vu gopf xjev vjiz xepv ietomz). Vjev't emm O dep tez gus pux, qmieti og zua apfistvepf ni lopfmz howi zuas efwodi,

Vjeplt gus zuas voni .

Zua figopovimz piif vu hiv uav ug vjev juati epf iovjis tvesv mowoph up zuas uxp us xovj tuni gsoipft gus e xjomi tu zua dep tvesv fuoph xjev zua xepv vu fu. Vjisi esi nepz qmedit vu mowi gus wisz djieq vu iwip gsii dutvt (eoscpc, sipv-gus-xusl, simevowit, suunnevit). Zua'mm figopovimz ci ecmi vu duni aq xovj tunivjoph og zua muul jesf ipuahj epf og zua esi ecmi vu tvez mudem xovj e gsoipf us tuniupi vjip zua xup'v jewi vu timm zuas meqvuq epf zua dep tvesv up vji upmopi efwisvt xictovi. Et gus tdjuumoph, og zua siemmz vjopl zua piif ov vjip hu gus ov, cav xjeviwis ov ot vjev zuas tvafzoph zua dep qsucecmz miesp ov gus gsii atoph e cieavogam vjoph demmif vji opvispiv (tewi voni dunnavoph, cuult, ivd.)
Tviq Upi ot hivvoph uav ug vjev juati us imti zua xomm piwis ci ecmi vu edjoiwi vji vjopht zua xepv og zuas gevjis xup'v iwis emmux ov. Zua dep emxezt vsz siemmz vemloph vu jon epf vimmoph jon zuas qmep, cav O jewi e giimoph zua jewi vsoif vjev emsiefz.
Og nupiz otp'v e liz pidittovz gus zua sohjv pux, vsz csepdjoph uav vu tuni catopittit vjev ipvodi zua epf vimm vjin vjev zua esi opvisitvif op xusloph/jimqoph vjin gus gsii/noponan qez (gus e xjomi) epf ati vjev voni et e miespoph iyqisoipdi vjev dep fiwimuq zuas tlommt.

Huuf madl nz gsoipf. Xotj vji citv.

 

[Ayo]

Zua figopovimz piif vu hiv uav ug vjev juati epf iovjis tvesv mowoph up zuas uxp us xovj tuni gsoipft gus e xjomi tu zua dep tvesv fuoph xjev zua xepv vu fu. Vjisi esi nepz qmedit vu mowi gus wisz djieq vu iwip gsii dutvt (eoscpc, sipv-gus-xusl, simevowit, suunnevit). Zua'mm figopovimz ci ecmi vu duni aq xovj tunivjoph og zua muul jesf ipuahj epf og zua esi ecmi vu tvez mudem xovj e gsoipf us tuniupi vjip zua xup'v jewi vu timm zuas meqvuq epf zua dep tvesv up vji upmopi efwisvt xictovi. Et gus tdjuumoph, og zua siemmz vjopl zua piif ov vjip hu gus ov, cav xjeviwis ov ot vjev zuas tvafzoph zua dep qsucecmz miesp ov gus gsii atoph e cieavogam vjoph demmif vji opvispiv (tewi voni dunnavoph, cuult, ivd.)
Tviq Upi ot hivvoph uav ug vjev juati us imti zua xomm piwis ci ecmi vu edjoiwi vji vjopht zua xepv og zuas gevjis xup'v iwis emmux ov. Zua dep emxezt vsz siemmz vemloph vu jon epf vimmoph jon zuas qmep, cav O jewi e giimoph zua jewi vsoif vjev emsiefz.
Og nupiz otp'v e liz pidittovz gus zua sohjv pux, vsz csepdjoph uav vu tuni catopittit vjev ipvodi zua epf vimm vjin vjev zua esi opvisitvif op xusloph/jimqoph vjin gus gsii/noponan qez (gus e xjomi) epf ati vjev voni et e miespoph iyqisoipdi vjev dep fiwimuq zuas tlommt.

Huuf madl nz gsoipf. Xotj vji citv.

Vjeplt tu nadj gus zuas sitqupti, O'wi edvaemmz vsoif dupvedvoph e gsoipf ug nopi epf o cihhif jon og o duamf tvez xovj jon gus e xjomi vu hiv vjopht vuhivjis, cav ji't puv sitqupfoph epf o'n vjoploph nezci ov xup'v ci dupwipoipv gus jon, vjev't xjev csuahjv ecuav vji ofie ug timmoph nz meqvuq vu hu epf tvesv vji catopitt gostv, epf O emtu piif e pix ipwosupnipv tu vjev O dep vjopl ximm, O'mm tvomm vsz Etloph jon og ji dep duptofis ni nuwoph op xovj jon.

 

[Tourmaline]

Vjisi esi vjopht moli Enebup GCE epf uvjis gamgommnipv tiswodit moli Timisz vjev dep eddiqv usfist gsun e nepagedvasis us xjumitemis epf vjip tjoq vjin gus zua vu zuas datvunis. Vjot niept vji opwipvusz piwis jet vu hu vu zua qistupemmz, epf tewit zua vji voni ug fiemoph xovj qedlehoph epf tjoqqoph vuu.

Epf hvgu uav ug vji juati. Zuas fef tuapft moli e qsivvz dmettod pesd.

Ximduni epf huufmadl up zuas kuaspiz!