It sure seems like you're full of confusion at the moment. I got a little angsty from just reading your post.
I'm going to give you some advice that I wish I had earlier in life. It's going to set you free from this indecision in just a few minutes.
I've moved 4000 miles for school. I've done business in several countries. And this realization didn't hit me until I met a great mentor at a time where I was in the midst of a small nervous breakdown where I was about to give up on my dreams.
First let me start by saying there are only six situations that can be controlled in life.
This forum mostly relates to #2 and #6. And your post made me a bit angsty because it talked about #1, #2, #3, #6.
The fact is: it's not really possible to make 4 life choices at once. This is the same thing I was doing to myself throughout University. I was telling myself, life would be better if only I had these FOUR major changes. Basically what I was saying was that I was unhappy with at least 4/6ths of my life, and you're doing the same here.
Isn't that stressful? Isn't it depressing? Is it possible you're trying to do too much at once?
My way out was to make my focus as narrow as possible and accept the rest for now.
Identify What You Truly Want
What is your goal in life right now? To make your ecommerce business become "how you make your living"?
Identify What's in Your Way
To accomplish that, you're going to need more time? To get more time you're going to need less of a commute?
Let your Focus be Ruthless
Does it really F*cking matter if you have friends right now? Since your business is already going, does it matter if you live elsewhere that makes you feel good?
Your answers will be different, I'm sure, but you must choose one change at a time. You will drive yourself crazy thinking of four major life choices at once. Not to mention you may fail your business because you have too much other stuff on your mind.
It's time for a reset, brother. Be focused (keep your vision narrow) on one choice at a time and you will be the most decisive person on the planet.
I'm going to give you some advice that I wish I had earlier in life. It's going to set you free from this indecision in just a few minutes.
I've moved 4000 miles for school. I've done business in several countries. And this realization didn't hit me until I met a great mentor at a time where I was in the midst of a small nervous breakdown where I was about to give up on my dreams.
First let me start by saying there are only six situations that can be controlled in life.
- Where you live
- How you make a living
- Who you spend your time with
- The shape of your body and what you eat
- The car that you own
- The hobby that you have at night
This forum mostly relates to #2 and #6. And your post made me a bit angsty because it talked about #1, #2, #3, #6.
The fact is: it's not really possible to make 4 life choices at once. This is the same thing I was doing to myself throughout University. I was telling myself, life would be better if only I had these FOUR major changes. Basically what I was saying was that I was unhappy with at least 4/6ths of my life, and you're doing the same here.
Isn't that stressful? Isn't it depressing? Is it possible you're trying to do too much at once?
My way out was to make my focus as narrow as possible and accept the rest for now.
Identify What You Truly Want
What is your goal in life right now? To make your ecommerce business become "how you make your living"?
Identify What's in Your Way
To accomplish that, you're going to need more time? To get more time you're going to need less of a commute?
Let your Focus be Ruthless
Does it really F*cking matter if you have friends right now? Since your business is already going, does it matter if you live elsewhere that makes you feel good?
Your answers will be different, I'm sure, but you must choose one change at a time. You will drive yourself crazy thinking of four major life choices at once. Not to mention you may fail your business because you have too much other stuff on your mind.
It's time for a reset, brother. Be focused (keep your vision narrow) on one choice at a time and you will be the most decisive person on the planet.
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