How to improve socially:
You must be like a sponge and absorb the mannerisms and affectations of high status people.
High status behaviors:
Lack of emotion
Not needing approval
Relaxed body language
Etc. the list goes on and on
Adopt speech patterns and styles of people who are cool.
Think of a college football star at LSU. Think of the leader of a frat. Watch them. Watch movies.
Then you need an activity or a hook that you can use to bring people into your life or build something around. A club is kinda lame (usually. Being on a sports team is an automatic one. Parties are a great catch all. But it needs to be something that you can use to hyper optimize how you’ll build your social circle.
Do not do lame things. Go raise some hell with the boys. Invite some girls to go to the lake and play volleyball. Date a few of them.
It’s not about being “yourself”. There is no “yourself”. Anything you think is “you” is just an idea from a few years ago. You can be anything, so just be a winner.
You need to have a fun and exciting life that others want to be a part of.
You must be like a sponge and absorb the mannerisms and affectations of high status people.
High status behaviors:
Lack of emotion
Not needing approval
Relaxed body language
Etc. the list goes on and on
Adopt speech patterns and styles of people who are cool.
Think of a college football star at LSU. Think of the leader of a frat. Watch them. Watch movies.
Then you need an activity or a hook that you can use to bring people into your life or build something around. A club is kinda lame (usually. Being on a sports team is an automatic one. Parties are a great catch all. But it needs to be something that you can use to hyper optimize how you’ll build your social circle.
Do not do lame things. Go raise some hell with the boys. Invite some girls to go to the lake and play volleyball. Date a few of them.
It’s not about being “yourself”. There is no “yourself”. Anything you think is “you” is just an idea from a few years ago. You can be anything, so just be a winner.
You need to have a fun and exciting life that others want to be a part of.