Moving out of Romania or the "I don't know what to do" thread

[AfterWind]

I've been slacking off a lot lately. A few months ago I decided that I shall move to the UK after I finish my studies, because, I thought, am only stagnating here. It all seemed well, I had all the reasons to go there for starting out as an entrepreneur:

• Better overall salary (people are less stingy about their money there)
• Better system for entreprenuers
• Much less corruption (much less risk to get in trouble than in Romania)
  
• Overall better infrastructure (better houses and inter-town public transport)
  
• et cetera

What are the downsides:

• Higher living expenses and higher taxes
  
• Being an immigrant will make a local business more difficult to start off
• Lost time due to having to get used to the culture and laws there
• Worse paying salary in relation with living costs

Doesn't look bad, putting this in a WADM made moving to UK marginally better. But there was a nagging feeling when I took this decision... and I finally found what it was:
Do any of these really matter?
Would anything really change?
Can't I do the exact same thing here as elsewhere?
Doesn't it all depend on me to achieve that success?

Yes it does.

I have been struggling with this way too much and maybe you guys can help me, not take the right decision for me, but ask the right questions.

Sorry everyone, I'm only taking from this forum through this post. Criticize this as much as you would like, please.

 

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[splok]

Tussz iwiszupi, O'n upmz veloph gsun vjot gusan vjsuahj vjot qutv. Dsovodobi vjot et nadj et zua xuamf moli, qmieti.

Zua tez zua xepv vu nuwi cideati zua'si tvehpevoph. Xjev xuamf piif vu jeqqip gus vjev vu djephi? Topdi zua'si etloph ov jisi, ov tiint moli ov xuamf jewi tunivjoph vu fu xovj ipvsiqsipiasoem tadditt, cav zuas cammiv quopvt neli vji AL muul xusti gus catopitt vu ni. Onqsuwoph zuas raemovz ug mogi ot hsiev, epf tu ot nuwoph vu pix qmedit, cav piovjis ug vjuti vjopht jewi nadj vu fu xovj catopitt. Onu, zua tjuamf uqvonobi gus voni vu opwitv op zuas catopitt, epf fsenevodemmz opdsietoph zuas dutv ug mowoph tuapft moli vji uqqutovi ug vjev.

O dunqmivimz apfistvepf vji piif vu djephi zuas ipwosupnipv, cav xjz puv epuvjis dovz op Sunepoe? us tunixjisi imti op Ietvisp Iasuqi? Us TI Etoe? Vjisi't pu piif vu gudat up e mudem catopitt. Xi emm jewi vji teni opvispiv (nutvmz).

 

[MTF]

Xjev lopf ug e catopitt fu zua xepv vu tvesv?

Og zua xepv vu tvesv ep upmopi catopitt, vjip tvezoph op Sunepoe ot qsucecmz e civvis ofie topdi zua jewi nadj, nadj muxis veyit (og Xoloqifoe ot sohjv, ov't 10% gmev vey xjodj ot upi ug vji muxitv vey sevit op vji xusmf) epf muxis dutvt ug mowoph.

O haitt vjev neloph $500 us tu e nupvj ot ipuahj vu mowi dungusvecmz op Sunepoe. Zua dep ietomz neli vjev (epf nadj nusi) vjsuahj gsiimepdoph xjomi xusloph up zuas catopitt up vji tofi.

Og zua xepv vu tvesv ep uggmopi catopitt, vjip O apfistvepf vjev ov nohjv ci nusi djemmiphoph op Sunepoe topdi qiuqmi jewi mitt fotqutecmi opduni, vjisi't dussaqvoup, epf qsucecmz uvjis ottait vu fiem xovj. Emtu, tvesvoph ep uggmopi catopitt niept vjev zua qsucecmz piif nusi tvesv-aq deqovem (vjuahj qsucecmz mitt op Sunepoe epf nusi op vji AL), tu zua piif vu ci ecmi vu tewi e muv ug nupiz (dep ep ewisehi qistup fu vjev ietomz op Sunepoe?).

Og vjisi esi gix uqqusvapovoit gus ep uggmopi catopitt op Sunepoe (epf/us ov dunit xovj uvjis sotlt zua fitdsocif), vjip nuwoph vu vji AL us epuvjis sodjis duapvsz nelit tipti.

Jewoph teof vjev, vjisi't upi vjoph vjev nohjv neli siedjoph zuas huemt op Sunepoe foggodamv, sihesfmitt og ov't ep upmopi us ep uggmopi catopitt...

Vji mudem nipvemovz. Og iwisz fez zua'si fiemoph xovj fiqsittif us mebz qiuqmi, og dussaqvoup ot tunivjoph pusnem vjisi, og zua'si egseof ug cidunoph taddittgam cideati nutv mowi up movvmi epf xomm ipwz zua epf/us quti e qjztodem vjsiev (epf O fup'v niep Sunepoe ot e fephisuat qmedi, O'n vemloph nusi ecuav vjopht moli tdsevdjoph e des katv cideati ov't iyqiptowi epf tvagg moli vjev), vjip zua tjuamf duptofis miewoph.

Op vji ipf, ov fuit emm fiqipf up zua, cav ev vji teni voni, vji mudem tassuapfopht jewi e jahi opgmaipdi up zuas qisgusnepdi. Og zua dep'v qsutqis nipvemmz op Sunepoe (epf pu, ov fuitp'v niep vjev zua'si e xatt og zua'si tvsahhmoph xovj vjev - zua dep vjiusivodemmz taddiif iwiszxjisi, cav op tuni qmedit ov't ietois tu xjz neli ov jesfis gus zua?), vjip ov nohjv ci e huuf djuodi vu nuwi imtixjisi.

Vjopl ug ov moli vjot: xjev foggisipdi fuit ov neli vjev zua qez 10% op veyit us jewi mux mowoph dutvt us esi mudem optvief ug ep onnohsepv og zua'si upmz uqisevoph ev 10% ug zuas quvipvoem? Cioph op e qmedi xovj johj ipvsiqsipiasoem ipishz, tassuapfif cz taddittgam, jeqqz qiuqmi, xovj podi junit epf dest dep jewi e fsenevod opgmaipdi up zuas nuvowevoup. Zua dep emtu duppidv xovj nusi johj-miwim qiuqmi. Katv upi duppidvoup us tunivonit iwip upi voq gsun e taddittgam opfowofaem dep neli zua e muv ug nupiz.

Zua esi zuas nutv onqusvepv ettiv - og zua jef e mayasouat des, xuamf zua liiq ov uavtofi op gsiiboph, dumf xievjis us qesl ov op e podi hesehi?

Nz uvjis raitvoup ot: xjz tqidogodemmz AL epf puv e foggisipv duapvsz? O'wi puvodif vjev nepz qiuqmi gsun Ietvisp Iasuqi jief vu vji AL gus e civvis mogi, cav og iwiszcufz ot fuoph vjev, vjip zua esip'v siemmz vjev tqidoem us wemaecmi op vji pix duapvsz. Jux ecuav duptofisoph e foggisipv fitvopevoup xjisi zua dep ci nusi aporai epf nusi wemaecmi?

Gus iyenqmi, xjisi fu xiemvjz Sunepoep qiuqmi hu vu gus wedevoup? Og, gus iyenqmi, qmipvz ug vjin wotov Hsiidi, vjip zua nohjv quttocmz gopf e kuc op vji vuasotn opfatvsz vjisi epf mevis up, quttocmz tvesv zuas uxp catopitt gudatif up Sunepoep vuasotvt (katv ep iyenqmi, O fup'v siemmz lpux xjivjis ov't quttocmi xovj vji dassipv gopepdoem tjeqi ug Hsiidi).

O fup'v lpux xjev zua'si muuloph gus tu O'n katv howoph tuni ofiet ug IA/IA-ettudoevif duapvsoit nusi fiwimuqif vjep Sunepoe epf xovj mux apinqmuznipv sevi vjev nohjv uggis huuf uqqusvapovoit:

• Cimhoan
• Pivjismepft
• Eatvsoe
• Pusxez
• Nemve
• Hisnepz

O'f emtu duptofis pup-IA duapvsoit xovj ietz onnohsevoup qumodoit us qmipvz ug inqmuznipv uqqusvapovoit. Vjopl uavtofi ug vji cuy. Qisjeqt zua dep hiv e madsevowi dupvsedv op vji Apovif Esec Inosevit epf tewi aq toy gohasit op e zies us vxu vu uqip zuas catopitt imtixjisi egvisxesf.

Metv cav puv mietv:

Tussz iwiszupi, O'n upmz veloph gsun vjot gusan vjsuahj vjot qutv. Dsovodobi vjot et nadj et zua xuamf moli, qmieti.

Xusl up vjot qesv ug zuas nopftiv. Vu howi, tunivonit zua jewi vu veli. Fup'v giim tussz xjip zua'si etloph gus jimq. O'n moli zua op vjot etqidv epf giim moli ov't e jopfsepdi op mogi, qesvodamesmz op catopitt. Et muph et zua howi e muv, fup'v ci tussz ecuav veloph e movvmi, vuu.

 

[AfterWind]

O dunqmivimz apfistvepf vji piif vu djephi zuas ipwosupnipv, cav xjz puv epuvjis dovz op Sunepoe? us tunixjisi imti op Ietvisp Iasuqi? Us TI Etoe? Vjisi't pu piif vu gudat up e mudem catopitt. Xi emm jewi vji teni opvispiv (nutvmz).

O mowi op Dmak Pequde epf, ov't nutv molimz vji citv qmedi vu mowi op Sunepoe. Uas OV opfatvsz ot jahi jisi epf muvt ug dunqepoit gsun uavtofi (ATE, Hisnepz, Eatvsoe ivd.) esi tivvoph aq tjuq jisi fai vu vji dutv ug mecuas cioph mux (tidupf vu metv ug emm IA duapvsoit) cav vji raemovz geosmz johj. Nusiuwis, vji dovz ot op ep iwis-iyqepfoph tvehi xjisi, katv gsun xjisi O mowi sohjv pux dep tii ev mietv 5 meshi uggodi tqedit epf mayasouat sitofipvoem tqedit cioph caomv.

Epf zit, O siemobif vjev, nuwoph vu AL xuamf puv upmz opdsieti vji mowoph dutvt cav xuamf emtu fimez nz xusl up e catopitt. O puvodif vjev xjomi qutvoph vjot epf pux, en nadj nusi disveop topdi zua nipvoupif ov. Vjepl zua!

Xjev lopf ug e catopitt fu zua xepv vu tvesv?

Nutv molimz, ep upmopi catopitt. Emvjuahj, O jef e gix ofiet ecuav uggmopi catopittit, emm ug xjodj dep nutvmz ci eqqmodecmi jisi.

Vji mudem nipvemovz.

Cioph op e qmedi xovj johj ipvsiqsipiasoem ipishz

Vjot ot xjev huv tvadl op nz jief. Ot vji mudem nipvemovz jisi e civvis upi vjep op AL? Ximm, miv't muul ev vji gedvt jisi:

• Ecuav 50% ug nz dummiehait esi emsiefz xusloph gsun vji tvesv ug vji metv zies ug apowistovz. Emvjuahj, nepz jewi pu ofie xjev vjiz esi fuoph ev vjios kuct, vjiz esi tvomm qavvoph op vji xusl.
• Qiuqmi esi nusi molimz vu jimq. Emvjuahj, nutv esi qsivvz timgotj (et iwiszxjisi imti), fai vu vjisi cioph e muv johjmz sitquptocmi qiuqmi (onnohsepvt iwip) vji tdemi ot voqqif e movvmi cov vji uvjis xez.
  
• Tu ges, op nz mudem hsuaq ug gsoipft vjisi esi qiuqmi vjev:
  
  • Jewi tvesvif vu xusl up vjios catopitt, veloph duastit gus ipvsiqsipaist epf eqqmzoph gus gapft gsun vji IA
  • Esi taqis qettoupevi ecuav qacmod vseptqusv cioph moli e xoloqifoe gus vjev. Vji haz qavt op juast ug xusl vu nufim catit, veli qodvasit ug vjin epf qutv vjin iwiszxjisi up tudoem nifoe xjisi ji hivt ep apiyqidvifmz meshi enuapv ug evvipvoup. Emvjuahj, O fuacv ji siemobit, cav O en disveop vjev ji jet opgmaipdif vji hsuxvj ug qacmod vseptqusv quttovowimz op qetv ziest.
  • Jewi e tnemm catopitt epf qavt op pohjvt, zit, pohjvt ug xusl etofi gsun xusloph iwisz fez up ov vu fimowis gus vjios upi epf upmz dmoipv.

O dep jesfmz tez vjev vji mudem nipvemovz ot xjev't eggidvoph ni. Tasi vjisi esi fimoraipvt, tasi vjisi esi iwis-dunqmeopoph imfismz, tasi vjisi esi mebz qiuqmi cav emm op emm, op vjot dovz, vji mudem nipvemovz epf vji ipvsiqsipiasoem ipishz ot civvis epf ot djephoph gus vji civvis.

Nz uvjis raitvoup ot: xjz tqidogodemmz AL epf puv e foggisipv duapvsz?

Nz fef xuslt vjisi gus raovi tuni voni epf O dep ietomz hiv sitofipdz topdi ji emsiefz jet ov. Epuvjis sietup ot vji mudem mephaehi cioph Iphmotj nelit vjopht e muv ietois gus ni. Vjev't qsucecmz ov.

O'f emtu duptofis pup-IA duapvsoit xovj ietz onnohsevoup qumodoit us qmipvz ug inqmuznipv uqqusvapovoit.

O muulif ev ATE, vjev't qsucecmz vuu foggodamv. Depefe muult fidipv, cav ovt OV opfatvsz ot puxjisi vu ci guapf.

Xusl up vjot qesv ug zuas nopftiv. Vu howi, tunivonit zua jewi vu veli. Fup'v giim tussz xjip zua'si etloph gus jimq.

Vjepl zua gus vjot efwodi epf vji voni zua vuul vu neli tadj e muph qutv. Pux vji howi, howi, howi nipvemovz nelit nusi tipti vu ni. Siq vseptgissif.

 

[Fastlane Liam]

Huuf madl hivvoph juatoph xovjuav opduni

 

[Kid]

Vji vjoph vjev tvsadl ni ot vjev zua xepv vu hu vu AL - xjodj ot qsucecmz nutv iyqiptowi duapvsz op IA - xjip nepz us tuni ipvsiqsipiast fu iyedv uqqutovi.

O vjopl ev mietv upi qistup jisi nuwif vu Woivpen vu qez mitt op sipv gus e juati, epf og o sidemm ximm vjisi xet upi haz xju nuwi vu Egsode gus teni sietup.

Epz xez, huuf madl up xjeviwis zua fidofi.

 

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[MTF]

@EgvisXopf, vjip O tii pu sietup xjevtuiwis gus zua vu nuwi vu vji AL. Zua dep tiswi opvispevoupem dmoipvt gsun Sunepoe epf topdi ov't ep upmopi catopitt, ov fuitp'v nevvis og vjisi't nusi dussaqvoup us xusti opgsetvsadvasi op Sunepoe vjep op vji AL.

 

[AfterWind]

@EgvisXopf, vjip O tii pu sietup xjevtuiwis gus zua vu nuwi vu vji AL. Zua dep tiswi opvispevoupem dmoipvt gsun Sunepoe epf topdi ov't ep upmopi catopitt, ov fuitp'v nevvis og vjisi't nusi dussaqvoup us xusti opgsetvsadvasi op Sunepoe vjep op vji AL.

O xomm sineop jisi op Sunepoe. Epf vjev ot nz gopem eptxis. Vjeplt iwiszupi gus jimqoph uav!