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Hey there fellow fastlaners,

My name is Chandler Ruffini, I'm brand new here and every bit of excited to join you all and to start by telling you a little bit of who I am and my story.

I come from a pretty good home, while not “foundationally” sound my parents are still together and gave me and my younger brothers everything we could ever want or need, so I really can’t complain. For as long as I can remember though my parents have struggled job to job, paycheck to paycheck, they were always on the verge of poverty and on the verge of falling apart. They stuck it out though and continuously pushed through the hard times to ensure we had the best life they could provide and I could not be more appreciative of them both. My parents are the most hardworking people I personally know and through the whole time reading THE MILLIONAIRE FASTLANE all I could think of, besides my own actions, was their life decisions and how they swept through life both riding the curb between the sidewalk and the slow lane. I constantly reflected on the jobs they worked, the time they wasted and the money they spent to provide for us kids. My mom loved us more than anyone could possibly love someone and her actions constantly proved it. My dad also loved us beyond belief but he had to constantly fall into the position to provide like most of the families during my childhood. He has always had a special mind though, constantly coming up with new inventions and ideas for businesses. I can only wish I knew what I do today, having read this book, and I could bring it to the table for my family back 5,10,15 years ago. I can remember being maybe 7 or 8 years old and hearing my dad pitch this idea... I’m not sure how familiar everyone is on vine or meme culture but if you are then you would have seen within the last couple years a video or a whole ton of videos with a setup and then cut to this dude sitting on the couch with a phone in hand and then “cue punchline” DEEZ NUTS.. I’m still convinced my father may have predicted the future but he said he wanted to start a nut company, yes like a cashews and almonds nut company, called “DEEZ NUTS” and to be honest, I’m not sure why he never did, cause I thought it was hilarious then and if you look at the 41Million views on the original video, it clearly still is now. Maybe it was the fact that the rest of my family just laughed it off and thought it was funny but none of them knew the true value of business and didn’t encourage him to pursue it and never thought about how this could be a huge franchise or anything close to the sense like he did, so he never even attempted to even bring his idea to fruition. If I could go back to my small 4ft nothing self i'd run up and smack him right in the side of the head say “start the business dad, take your idea and run with it until it works, screw Planters”. Although over the next many years of my life my dad had a ton of brilliant ideas, my parents only successfully started one business, emphasis on the started. They created this little candy shop and while they had a good following and great business plan, the location was just simply not right and could not come even close to meeting any parts of “the law of effection”. Skipping ahead to now (sorry for the rambling) I have been in the US Navy for almost 6 years and while it has given me an immense sense of purpose and discipline, I can wholeheartedly say I’m ready to move on and begin my journey to a greater sense of purpose and accomplishment. I have only a few short months lefts so I’m super excited to be able to finally have an open schedule and ultimately the time to chase after the goals I personally want to achieve. I have been stuck in and became accustomed to an environment of 6 am to 6 pm working days and sometimes much beyond that, so I can easily say, I’m ready to take on equal time and effort to benefit the world around me and myself based on my terms and visions. I want to close this rather personal and lengthy intro to myself by saying thank you to @MJ DeMarco for not only changing my life with his book but introducing me to this incredible platform. I also want to thank him and everyone on THE FASTLANE FORUM for the knowledge you have already brought me in my short time here and all that is still to come.


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Fu huuf, Foi hsiev

-Djepfmis Saggopo
Jimmu Djepfmis,
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