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Have been seeing a gal for a few months now. While we are pretty in to each other, similar sense of humor, musical tastes, food likes, and amazing sex, there has always been something beneath the surface that has bugged me, but I could not put my finger on it. I thought maybe it had something to do with our age difference (she's 10 years younger), but then I realized that her youth is not a bad thing at all.
In my world, this would be enough for me to consider marrying her.
This theme "she's not fastlane" often repeats here on forum and I just don't get it. Why does she have to be into it? Are you in emotional or business relationship with her?
If you agree on everything and are the same, where will be the passion, where will be inspiration, where will be a different perspective, where will be the tease?
Many of my girlfriends and friends are "sidewalkers", "slowlaners"... So what? They're great people. I love them and need them.
She has no concept of what I am building and working toward.
Well you can give her a concept. Why does she even have to know and understand the details. Just explain in terms she'll understand.
Either in a really passionate way, or by giving her a taste of what the bright future will be like (if your business has already taken off to some level, provide her a nice experience out of her current reality and then explain it was possible thanks to your business).
Your woman can support you without fully understanding what you do, it's about trust.
So many times I got up before my gf, turned on the computer and started coding. Then after a while I turn to look at my beauty...and realize she's awake and silently looking at me, with smiling eyes full of love. She LOVES how her man is passionate and determined. Man with a direction. The one she WANTS to follow.
So my suggestion - compromise. Cuddle in the evening, and then wake up before her and do whatever you are doing.
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