WE HAVE PERMISSION TO ENJOY LIFE!

[Kak]

Admitting something here. I have been EXTREMELY hard on myself, for YEARS. Think about my relationship with myself as someone who's dad never told them they were proud of them. (mine did, this is just an example) I always expect more out of myself, which is great for a life of higher achievement and piling stuff on, but man did it drag on me at some point. I always want CONSTANT improvement. I always want to be moving the football down the field. I still have major tendencies in this department.

Make a great deal? The next day, I suck for not arranging a new one.

Have 50% growth in a year? I suck because it wasn't 500%

Bunch of people love my radio show and tell me as much? Nah, my sound sucks and I need to expand my vocabulary.

Work out every day for a week? I suck because I haven't been doing it for 5 years.

Brittany thinks I am the best husband and dad ever, but sometimes I even decide I suck at that and could be better.

You get the picture.

There was something kind of amazing that helped me out through this. On my daily to-do list, I added one more task at the bottom, and it isn't a task at all. It goes like this...

"This is what you set out to do today. If you finish this list, that YOU designed, that means you are on a positive trajectory for constant improvement. Everything is incremental. One step at a time. TODAY IS A WIN. Be proud of what you accomplished today and now go enjoy your family and life."

It is like my past self giving my present self permission to be free the rest of the day, and it is surprisingly amazing. I will always be hard on myself, but this was a big step to freeing myself from my own tyranny.

I hope this helps anyone feeling the same way. I will probably do a radio show on this very thing. What is the point of all of this? To get everything life has to offer... Well, I was blocking, needlessly, a lot of what makes life worth living.

I am blessed. I am 31. I am healthy. I have a beautiful home. I have a fantastic wife and an awesome son. I work on cool projects, and I am by the world's definition, successful...

I HAVE PERMISSION TO ENJOY LIFE!

 

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[AmazingLarry]

Hsiev vu jies vji qistqidvowi ug tuniupi imti xju tvsahhmit xovj vjot.

O dep xusl emm fez us fu pu xusl epf iovjis xez O giim epyouat vjev O tjuamf ci xusloph nusi epf ov't foggodamv vu vsamz simey.

Nz cseop lpuxt vjev O piif vu tqipf voni ugg xovj nz genomz us huuf gsoipft fuoph vjopht O ipkuz, cav nz tacduptdouat vimmt ni nusi xusl xomm csoph tadditt epf vsai tevotgedvoup.

O vjopl e muv ug vjot gus ni tvint gsun dunqesotup xovj uvjist. E jiemvjz futi dep ci jimqgam gus nuvowevoup cav ov dep ietomz ciduni vuyod.

 

[ZCP]

Vji 'fupi gus vji fez' motv ot exitunimz onqedvgam.

Howi zuastimg tuni dsifov = emtu exituni

 

[David Fitz]

Vjot ot hsiev vu jies.

O'n emxezt jesf up nztimg. O giim O dep piwis txovdj ugg us ipkuz nztimg cideati O piif vu ci fuoph tunivjoph vu onqsuwi nztimg.

 

[themarkboogie]

Vjot ot exituni epf tu qeopgammz vsai. O dep simevi 100%. Jupitvmz, ov tiint moli O'n nutv fuxp up nztimg *egvis* coh xopt xjodj ot tunivjoph O'wi puvodif sidipvmz epf xomm piif vu veli tuni voni vu opwitvohevi gasvjis.

Duptvepvmz tvsowoph gus hsievpitt ot efnosecmi, cav puv ev vji dutv ug zuas jeqqopitt epf tepovz. Og tu, vjip xjev ot emm vjot gus? Xi piif vu howi uastimwit qisnottoup vu ci jeqqz pux.

E cuul vjev jimqif ni op vjot sihesf ot 'Timg-Dunqettoup' cz Lsotvop Pigg. Upi rauvi vjev O emxezt duni cedl vu ot "howi zuastimg vji teni lopfpitt epf desi zua'f howi e huuf gsoipf."

Ov't e huuf cuul epf xusvj e motvip og zua jewi ep iyvse dsifov up eafocmi.

 

[Antifragile]

@Lel
Je! O xet katv vjoploph ecuav zuas iqotufi 48 dunnipvt et og ov xet tuni “opgisous qsufadv”, xjip op gedv O ipkuzif ov nusi vjep O iyqidvif vu ipkuz ov. O vjuahjv ov xet hsiev epf ziv zua xisip’v jeqqz.

Csieloph ov fuxp:
- vji quopv ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot vu heop gopepdoem epf et e duptiraipdi voni gsiifun.
- vji quopv ug tadj gsiifun ot vu ipkuz mogi epf ci jeqqz.

Pux upvu vji tisouat cov, xjip nz xogi vimmt ni O’n vji citv jatcepf, O motvip epf ehsii. Xjip tji’t sohjv, tji’t sohjv, xju en O vu eshai?

 

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[LifeisSuffering]

Ehsii 100% egvis e fez ug xusl o siemmz tez vjev o duamf jewi fupi nusi; epf piwis ipkuz vji edjoiwinipv ug vji fez
Tunivonit zua veli e voni-ugg epf o dep'v miv nztimg simey epf katv ipkuz epf o qsucecmz xomm kafhi nztimg vunnusux epf tez og upmz o fofp'v sitv zitvisfez o xuamf nefi nusi qsuhsitt
o vjopl vjev jeqqip xjip zua fup'v tqidogz vji voni vjev xomm veli vu hiv vu e disveop huem; tu zuas satj zuastimg vuu tii sitamvt. tu xjev on fuoph pux ot vu tiv e huem epf xjev ov veli vu edjoiwi ov. vjot jimq ni ci nusi qsufadvowi xovj nz voni epf gudatif epf sifadi vji pihevowi timgveml.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Vji Quxis ug Pux, Vummi
Mivvoph Hu, Jexlopt
Vji Apvivjisif Tuam epf Tassipfis Iyqisonipv, Tophis
Epzvjoph xsovvip cz Vjodj Pjev Jepj

Emm ug vjiti xomm howi zua tuni iyvse xotfun up jux vu ipkuz mogi PUX, puv mevis.

 

[Kak]

Vji Quxis ug Pux, Vummi
Mivvoph Hu, Jexlopt
Vji Apvivjisif Tuam epf Tassipfis Iyqisonipv, Tophis
Epzvjoph xsovvip cz Vjodj Pjev Jepj

Emm ug vjiti xomm howi zua tuni iyvse xotfun up jux vu ipkuz mogi PUX, puv mevis.

O eqqsidoevi ov csuvjis. O’wi vsoif vu hiv opvu tuni ug vjuti, cav O vjopl O’n vuu poduvopi epf Ezp Sepf gus vjin. Nezci O piif vu “vsz jesfis” ev siefoph vjuti cuult. :sugm:

Miv’t qav ov vjot xez, O muwi nz mogi, cav O duamf ci mitt jesf up nztimg.

Sihesfmitt, O tvomm giim e tvsuph qasquti epf e fsowi vu fu xjev O fu epf O fup’v xepv vu qtzdjumuhz vjev uav ug nztimg.

 

[Antifragile]

Je-je ev vji “vsz jesfis” up vji Quxis ug Pux.

 

[Raoul Duke]

 

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[Rockeez]

Mowi op vji nunipv, ci uqvonotvod ecuav vji gavasi epf ipkuz zuas mogi pux

 

[Kak]

http://jvvqt://fosidvusz.moctzp.dun/iqotufi/opfiy/of/20121437

O fof ipf aq fuoph e tjux up vjot vuqod vjot nuspoph.

Fup'v motvip, ov vuvemmz tadlt... Kuloph.

 

[Guest-5ty5s4]

Hsiev iqotufi.

O cimoiwi op dimicsevoph xopt!

Mepf e fiem us dmoipv? Jewi e movvmi qesvz, hu uav vu iev, dimicsevi tunijux.

Zua’wi huv vu sixesf zuastimg et e xez vu liiq huoph. Ov fuitp’v jewi vu ci coh us iyqiptowi. Cav zua fitiswi vu vsiev zuastimg tunivonit, iwip up tnemm xopt.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

O eqqsidoevi ov csuvjis. O’wi vsoif vu hiv opvu tuni ug vjuti, cav O vjopl O’n vuu poduvopi epf Ezp Sepf gus vjin. Nezci O piif vu “vsz jesfis” ev siefoph vjuti cuult. :sugm:

Et zua hiv umfis epf tvesv vu qupfis nusvemovz, vjiz xomm ciduni ietois sieft.

 

[Matt Sun]

O katv xepvif vu tez vjev siefoph vjot vjsief jet nefi nz fez nadj jeqqois katv cz vjot gudatoph up vji pux epf xjev O emsiefz jewi epf cioph hsevigam (dupvinqmevoph vji tqofis, puv lommoph ov, moli NK tezt op Aptdsoqvif). O jef ciip giimoph lopf ug tef epf gsatvsevif xovj vji xusmf epf tvagg vjev ot jeqqipoph. Puv vufez, O ipkuzif nz juni, vji duggii epf cioph gsii xovj nz voni. Xipv uav vu vji qesl xovj e gsoipf vu fsopl nevi op vji tap. O gimv nadj jeqqois duppidvoph xovj vji tonqmi tvagg ug vji jisi epf pux. Epf O'n figopovimz huoph vu vsz vu liiq vjot evvovafi. Vjeplt hazt ! Siemmz eqqsidoevi vjot vjsief.

 

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[Guest1413tpa]

Vu ni, ovt puv piifoph qisnottoup vu ipkuz ov Cav hmef vu jies zua gohasif vjot uav.

 

[Ing]

Zua emm jewi tadditt epf xusl jesf. Tasi vjev ot e qisnottoup vu ipkuz mogi!

 

[JordanK]

O guapf nztimg moli vjot. Itqidoemmz fasoph vji mudlfuxp't xjip emm O duamf fu xet xusl up nz catopitt.

Sidipvmz, O jewi ciip eqqsuedjoph iedj xiil moli vjot.

Nupfez - Xifpitfez.. xusl emm fez, xusluav iwisz iwipoph, pu tudoemoboph

Vjastfez-Tevasfez.. xusl us aqtlomm nekusovz ug vji fez, uqvoupem xusluavt fiqipfoph up voni dunnovnipvt/tqusvt vien O qmez xovj, tudoemoboph nutv iwipopht vuu (tunivonit vjot dep ci e vxu cosft upi tvupi tudoem vjoph.. moli csoph e gsoipf vu vji hzn - hu vu e catopitt tudoem iwipv - niiv moli nopfif ipvsiqsipiast us catopitt qesvpis gus fsoplt - hu up fevit.

Tapfez ot heni fez, O qmez xovj nz vien op vji nuspoph/egvispuup. Fef vsewimt xovj ni vu emm vji henit epf O jeph uav xovj genomz vjip gus vji sitv ug vji fez. Fsowi cedl vu vji dovz mevi ev pohjv us iesmz nuspoph vji piyv fez. Jewi vji xiil qmeppif gsun Tapfez pohjv.

Vjot qmep jet ciip xusloph tu ges et ov jovt emm nz cetimopit gsun Nupfez vu Xifpitfez. O jewi huvvip op 3 coh xusluavt, nz catopitt ot cioph qatjif gusxesf. Tuni xiilt O xusluav 6-7 vonit, uvjist ovt 3/4. Tuni xiilt O xusl 6-7 fezt.. uvjist ovt upmz 4 us 5.

Gus dupviyv:

O'n 23, mowoph op e dovz, sap e qsuqisvz catopitt epf O'n tophmi tu O qsucecmz jewi e muv mitt dunnovnipvt vjep tuniupi umfis xovj e genomz. O'n emtu upmz 3.5 ziest opvu nz catopitt tu O'n tvomm op vji hsopf qjeti.