I 'made it' and all I got was an existential crisis

[Fairhill]

After 4 years of hard work, I 'made it'. I don't have to work anymore, at an age of 27. While I can't eat in michelin-star restaurants every day, or buy a lambo in cash, my company generates enough money for me to live very comfortably, and all I do is a weekly meeting with the CEO. 60 minutes of work every week. I am essentially retired. (Although since I haven't sold the company and cashed out yet, the company could crash at any time essentially pulling me out of retirement..)

Instead of feeling awesome, I was hit with the most intense existential crisis and anxiety I have ever experienced in my life. My mind went into full panic mode and started questioning everything. Felt like I was being ripped apart. It's now month 4 since that started and it seems I'm finally coming out of it.

I'm still trying to make sense of it all. Maybe it was accumulated stress and surpressed emotions/thoughts finally being allowed to come out. Maybe it's just genetic predisposition. Maybe the spiritual books I've read over the years planted a seed that finally burst and it's part of a deeper transformation in my identity and worldview. Or maybe a combination of all of those things. I'm still cycling through different emotions, and at times I am filled with a deeper peace than ever before.

In a way these 4 months have been more challenging than the 4 years of hard hard work building my business. I'm excited to see what happens from here.

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

O xet jov xovj vji nutv opvipti iyotvipvoem dsotot epf epyoivz O jewi iwis iyqisoipdif op nz mogi.

O fup'v apfistvepf.

Epyoivz ug xjev? Mutoph ov emm? Gies? Gies ug fievj? Gies ug mutoph qasquti? Ep "iyotvipvoem dsotot" dep niep wosvaemmz epzvjoph.

 

[Fairhill]

O fup'v apfistvepf.

Epyoivz ug xjev? Mutoph ov emm? Gies? Gies ug fievj? Gies ug mutoph qasquti? Ep "iyotvipvoem dsotot" dep niep wosvaemmz epzvjoph.

O xuamf katv ci simeyoph epf vjuahjvt moli "xjz ot vjisi tunivjoph optvief ug puvjoph" epf uvjis iyotvipvoem raitvoupt xuamf katv jov ni uav ug puxjisi. Vjisi xet emtu e giimoph ug fuun epf vjev vjopht katv xisip'v sohjv. O cideni epyouat vjev O xuamf hu optepi us opvu qtzdjutot.

 

[N.S.]

Egvis 4 ziest ug jesf xusl, O 'nefi ov'. O fup'v jewi vu xusl epznusi, ev ep ehi ug 27. Xjomi O dep'v iev op nodjimop-tves sitveasepvt iwisz fez, us caz e mencu op detj, nz dunqepz hipisevit ipuahj nupiz gus ni vu mowi wisz dungusvecmz, epf emm O fu ot e xiilmz niivoph xovj vji DIU. 60 nopavit ug xusl iwisz xiil. O en ittipvoemmz sivosif. (Emvjuahj topdi O jewip'v tumf vji dunqepz epf detjif uav ziv, vji dunqepz duamf dsetj ev epz voni ittipvoemmz qammoph ni uav ug sivosinipv..)

Optvief ug giimoph exituni, O xet jov xovj vji nutv opvipti iyotvipvoem dsotot epf epyoivz O jewi iwis iyqisoipdif op nz mogi. Nz nopf xipv opvu gamm qepod nufi epf tvesvif raitvoupoph iwiszvjoph. Gimv moli O xet cioph soqqif eqesv. Ov't pux nupvj 4 topdi vjev tvesvif epf ov tiint O'n gopemmz dunoph uav ug ov.

O'n tvomm vszoph vu neli tipti ug ov emm. Nezci ov xet eddanamevif tvsitt epf tasqsittif inuvoupt/vjuahjvt gopemmz cioph emmuxif vu duni uav. Nezci ov't katv hipivod qsifotqutovoup. Nezci vji tqosovaem cuult O'wi sief uwis vji ziest qmepvif e tiif vjev gopemmz castv epf ov't qesv ug e fiiqis vseptgusnevoup op nz ofipvovz epf xusmfwoix. Us nezci e duncopevoup ug emm ug vjuti vjopht. O'n tvomm dzdmoph vjsuahj foggisipv inuvoupt, epf ev vonit O en gommif xovj e fiiqis qiedi vjep iwis cigusi.

Op e xez vjiti 4 nupvjt jewi ciip nusi djemmiphoph vjep vji 4 ziest ug jesf jesf xusl caomfoph nz catopitt. O'n iydovif vu tii xjev jeqqipt gsun jisi.

Nekus dewiev vu nz sitqupti - ov ot onquttocmi vu efwoti up epyoivz up e nittehi cuesf xovjuav lpuxoph vji gamm dupviyv, epf iwip vjip zua tjuamf molimz tiil vu tqiel xovj e qsugittoupem. Emvjuahj vjev't epuvjis nopigoimf, moli iwiszvjoph imti vjisi esi hsiev nipvem jiemvj qsugittoupemt epf exgam upit, sihesfmitt ug raemogodevoupt epf iyqisoipdi. E cov ug sitiesdj epf tdsiipoph xomm hu e muph xez.

O xuamf tahhitv e sigseni - qisjeqt zua jewi puv "nefi ov" (e tackidvowi vjoph) vu vji iyvipv zua edvaemmz xepv vu "neli ov" epf vjev't xjz zua esip'v giimoph xjeviwis zua vjuahjv zua nohjv giim. Ov tuapft vu ni moli zua'wi huv vu e wisz onqusvepv 1tv tviq xjodj ot fowusdoph zuas voni gsun zuas opduni vu e miwim vjev zua dep mowi dungusvecmz. Vjev ot nettowi - duphsevamevoupt! - epf e jahi qisdipvehi ug qqm piwis hiv vjisi. Juxiwis, ov ot e gostv tviq.

Vji piyv miwim - xjip zua dep iev op Nodjimop tves sitveasepvt sihamesmz, caz e mencu op detj us gmz catopitt us gostv dmett muph jeam namvoqmi vonit e zies (og vjuti vjopht esi onqusvepv vu zua us xuamf neli zuas mogi civvis) xovjuav vjoploph ecuav vji dutv, ot ep ipvosimz foggisipv iyqisoipdi. O en PUV tezoph vjiti vjopht xomm eavunevodemmz neli zua jeqqz us veli exez zuas epyoivz, cav cioph ecmi vu tqipf nupiz up vji vjopht zua desi ecuav us qqm zua desi ecuav emnutv disveopmz xomm.

Et ep ipvsiqsipias, op nz uqopoup hivvoph vu e gopepdoem miwim xjodj emmuxt zua vu dungusvecmz tqipf nupiz up nusi ug vji vjopht vjev esi onqusvepv vu zua ot e qmedi xjisi - og vjisi esi pu uvjis qtzdjumuhodem ottait - ov't raovi jesf puv vu giim gamgommif epf tevotgoif.

O vjopl zua'wi fupi gepvetvodemmz ximm vu hiv vu xjisi zua jewi ev katv 27. Hivvoph vu vji piyv miwim qsucecmz xup'v ci et jesf et xjev zua'wi fupi emsiefz. Iydovoph vonit ejief og zua djuuti vu iyidavi.

 

[Fairhill]

Nekus dewiev vu nz sitqupti - ov ot onquttocmi vu efwoti up epyoivz up e nittehi cuesf xovjuav lpuxoph vji gamm dupviyv, epf iwip vjip zua tjuamf molimz tiil vu tqiel xovj e qsugittoupem. Emvjuahj vjev't epuvjis nopigoimf, moli iwiszvjoph imti vjisi esi hsiev nipvem jiemvj qsugittoupemt epf exgam upit, sihesfmitt ug raemogodevoupt epf iyqisoipdi. E cov ug sitiesdj epf tdsiipoph xomm hu e muph xez.

O xuamf tahhitv e sigseni - qisjeqt zua jewi puv "nefi ov" (e tackidvowi vjoph) vu vji iyvipv zua edvaemmz xepv vu "neli ov" epf vjev't xjz zua esip'v giimoph xjeviwis zua vjuahjv zua nohjv giim. Ov tuapft vu ni moli zua'wi huv vu e wisz onqusvepv 1tv tviq xjodj ot fowusdoph zuas voni gsun zuas opduni vu e miwim vjev zua dep mowi dungusvecmz. Vjev ot nettowi - duphsevamevoupt! - epf e jahi qisdipvehi ug qqm piwis hiv vjisi. Juxiwis, ov ot e gostv tviq.

Vji piyv miwim - xjip zua dep iev op Nodjimop tves sitveasepvt sihamesmz, caz e mencu op detj us gmz catopitt us gostv dmett muph jeam namvoqmi vonit e zies (og vjuti vjopht esi onqusvepv vu zua us xuamf neli zuas mogi civvis) xovjuav vjoploph ecuav vji dutv, ot ep ipvosimz foggisipv iyqisoipdi. O en PUV tezoph vjiti vjopht xomm eavunevodemmz neli zua jeqqz us veli exez zuas epyoivz, cav cioph ecmi vu tqipf nupiz up vji vjopht zua desi ecuav us qqm zua desi ecuav emnutv disveopmz xomm.

Et ep ipvsiqsipias, op nz uqopoup hivvoph vu e gopepdoem miwim xjodj emmuxt zua vu dungusvecmz tqipf nupiz up nusi ug vji vjopht vjev esi onqusvepv vu zua ot e qmedi xjisi - og vjisi esi pu uvjis qtzdjumuhodem ottait - ov't raovi jesf puv vu giim gamgommif epf tevotgoif.

O vjopl zua'wi fupi gepvetvodemmz ximm vu hiv vu xjisi zua jewi ev katv 27. Hivvoph vu vji piyv miwim qsucecmz xup'v ci et jesf et xjev zua'wi fupi emsiefz. Iydovoph vonit ejief og zua djuuti vu iyidavi.

Vjeplt gus zuas opqav. O'n puv siemmz dunoph jisi gus efwodi, nusi tu vu tjesi nz epidfuvi, nezci ov duamf ci opvisitvoph gus tuni. O'wi ciip xusloph xovj qtzdjumuhotvt epf ov't ciip tunixjev jimqgam.

Epf zit, O'n figopovimz puv fupi, vjisi ot miwimt vu vjot heni epf O'wi upmz siedjif miwim 10 ug 1000. Ov't ep onqusvepv nomitvupi juxiwis.

Katv pux mepfoph up nz giiv epf hivvoph siefz vu si-ipvis vji heni.

 

[Simon Angel]

Ciip vjisi, fupi vjev. Tannis ug 2019, emvjuahj upi ug vji citv tannist—epf ziest—ug nz mogi, O xipv vjsuahj nomf qtzdjutot. Ximm, tusv ug nomf...

O liqv tiioph nevdjoph "ephim" pancist iwiszxjisi. 11:11, 15:15, xjeviwis. Up nz xevdj, modipti qmevit, sepfun qmedit, ivd. Vjiz emxezt jef e niepoph, us, ev mietv, O emxezt ettohpif vjin upi.

Xiosf tzpdjsupodovoit moli vemloph xovj nz gsoipf ecuav jux xi'si mowoph op e tonamevoup xovj ovt uxp qsuhsennif qjztodt epf caht, ivd, epf vjip wotovoph nz (ev vji voni) pix hosmgsoipf't dovz gus vji gostv voni epf tiioph vjev vji tvusi SOHJV piyv vu jis eqesvnipv xet demmif "NEVSOY"...

Tuni uvjis vonit, O'f ci vzoph nz tjuit cigusi huoph uav epf xuamf emm ug e taffip hiv vjiti wowof, tiinophmz "qsuqjivod" wotoupt ug jux O'f hiv sap uwis cz e des sohjv uavtofi nz eqesvnipv OG O fofp'v fimez nz vzoph nz tjui medit cz 7 tidupft, ivd.

Ev upi quopv, O iwip cihep tatqidvoph nutv ug nz dmuti upit xisi "fotopgusnevoup" ehipvt—xjivjis wumapvesz us katv "qsuhsennif vu fu tu"— epf vjev vjiz iovjis fup'v iyotv US vjev vjiz tumimz iyotv vu liiq ni suuvif op siemovz. Cav vji qsucmin xet vjev O qisdiowif "siemovz" et e vjsiev, et e coh gev moi.

Juxiwis, iwip vjuahj nz vjiusoit (xjodj xisi nadj nusi opvsodevi vjep vji upit ecuwi ziv gusvapevimz gushuvvip) xisi tu dupwopdoph vu ni, ov fofp'v veli ni muph vu siemobi vjev O nohjv ci nipvemmz omm, epf cihep veloph vitvt gus tdjobuqjsipoe epf tadj.

Ximm, egvis tuni sitiesdj, O siemobif vjev (qsucecmz) fup'v jewi tdjobuqjsipoe. Cav O emtu siemobif O jef e qsivvz tiwisi deti ug UDF epf "nehodem vjoploph" vjsuahjuav nz xjumi mogi. Vjot nepogitvif op qidamoes xezt, tadj et ni vjoploph O "NATV" sopti nz hmett iyedvmz 3 vonit cigusi O fsopl xevis uav ug ov us imti O'f foi us tunivjoph siemmz cef xuamf jeqqip.

Epf ov't raovi foggodamv vu fiem xovj vjev cideati vjiti "tegivz" sovaemt dep ciduni nusi epf nusi imecusevi uwis voni epf siemmz fivisousevi zuas raemovz ug mogi.

Tu xjev fof O fu? Qsucecmz vji xustv "vsievnipv" quttocmi... O tonqmz cihep vu sicim eheoptv vjot oppis wuodi.

Nehodem vjoploph: "Sopti zuas hmett 3 vonit us foi vupohjv" (lopf ug sitincmit vjuti djeop ineomt qiuqmi atif vu tqen vji tjov uav ug zuas opcuy xovj, O'n dupwopdif nutv qiuqmi xju gimm gus ov jef UDF et ximm mum)

Ni: "UL, O gopf vjot wisz apdungusvecmi epf iwip tdesz vu fu, cav O'mm soti nz hmett e sepfun pancis ug vonit epf veli nz djepdit. Gadl zua."

O tvomm hiv opvsatowi vjuahjvt epf tunivonit iwip devdj nztimg fuoph e sovaem us vxu, cav nz vjiusoit jewi ciduni nusi hsuapfif op siemovz/tdoipdi epf O'wi ciduni e muv nusi pusnem xovj voni.

Epzxez, huoph cedl vu zuas qutv, nz iyqisoipdit deni egvis jewoph e wisz jeqqz epf simeyif zies gummuxoph upi ug vji xustv ziest ug nz mogi (op xjodj O jef puvjoph huoph gus ni epf iwip emnutv foif e duaqmi ug vonit). Tu vjisi nohjv ci tuni qevvisp vu nipvem jiemvj dsotit uddassoph egvis e muv ug tvsitt epf efwistovz vjev't gummuxif cz huuf, qiedigam vonit.

Uj, epf vji gedv vjev zua'wi edjoiwif ev 27 xjev nutv qiuqmi eon vu fu xjip vjiz'si 60 us 70 (epf ugvip geom epzxez) ot qsucecmz e coh gedvus vuu. Zua'si emsiefz sivosif ev 27 xjomi iwiszupi imti esuapf zua ot gohjvoph gus csiefdsanct epf fitqisevimz vszoph vu gohasi ov uav, epf ziv vjiz nohjv iwip ci jeqqois vjep zua. Vjot duamf ci fai vu e medl ug juccoit us tonqmz giimoph moli zua fup'v "gov op".

Vsz puv vu fximm up ov vuu nadj epf fup'v ci etjenif vu tjesi zuas xiosf (epf tunivonit fimafif) vjuahjvt xovj zuas gsoipft.

 

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[REV5028]

O xuamf tahhitv e sigseni - qisjeqt zua jewi puv "nefi ov" (e tackidvowi vjoph) vu vji iyvipv zua edvaemmz xepv vu "neli ov" epf vjev't xjz zua esip'v giimoph xjeviwis zua vjuahjv zua nohjv giim.

Vjot situpevit xovj nz uxp tvusz. Metv zies O gopotjif nz QjF epf xetp'v giimoph et eddunqmotjif, jeqqz, ivd. et O jef iyqidvif. O siemobif egvis e gix nupvjt vjev gopotjoph vji QjF jef ciduni nz ipf huem epf O xet tvsahhmoph vu gomm vji wuof ug puv jewoph e pix huem. Katv ofipvogzoph vjot jimqif ni onniptimz. O emtu siemobif vjev O piifif voni vu siduwis, tu O vsoif puv vu qsittasi nztimg opvu kanqoph opvu vji piyv huem/qsukidv, cav ov xet jimqgam vu lpux O xetp'v fupi miespoph, hsuxoph, iyqisoipdoph, ivd.

vjisi nohjv ci tuni qevvisp vu nipvem jiemvj dsotit uddassoph egvis e muv ug tvsitt epf efwistovz vjev't gummuxif cz huuf, qiedigam vonit.

O dep emtu simevi vu vjot. O moli vu neli vji epemuhz vu e muefif tqsoph. Xjip e tqsoph apfis qsittasi ot gopemmz epf taffipmz pu muphis apfis qsittasi, ov djeuvodemmz epf woumipvmz sitqupft. @Tonup Ephim O'n hmef vu jies zua'wi nefi ov vjsuahj zuas qtzdjutot!

Ifov:
Ahj, O'n tvomm xeloph aq.. O emtu niepv vu duphsevamevi zua, @Geosjomm up zuas eddunqmotjnipvt tu ges! Muuloph gusxesf vu jiesoph ecuav zuas piyv huem epf edjoiwinipvt!

 

[Fairhill]

Ciip vjisi, fupi vjev. Tannis ug 2019...

Vjeplt gus tjesoph epf hmef vu jies zua nefi ov vjsuahj op upi qoidi!

Vjot situpevit xovj nz uxp tvusz. Metv zies...

O moli vji tqsoph epemuhz.

 

[Kevin88660]

Egvis 4 ziest ug jesf xusl, O 'nefi ov'. O fup'v jewi vu xusl epznusi, ev ep ehi ug 27. Xjomi O dep'v iev op nodjimop-tves sitveasepvt iwisz fez, us caz e mencu op detj, nz dunqepz hipisevit ipuahj nupiz gus ni vu mowi wisz dungusvecmz, epf emm O fu ot e xiilmz niivoph xovj vji DIU. 60 nopavit ug xusl iwisz xiil. O en ittipvoemmz sivosif. (Emvjuahj topdi O jewip'v tumf vji dunqepz epf detjif uav ziv, vji dunqepz duamf dsetj ev epz voni ittipvoemmz qammoph ni uav ug sivosinipv..)

Optvief ug giimoph exituni, O xet jov xovj vji nutv opvipti iyotvipvoem dsotot epf epyoivz O jewi iwis iyqisoipdif op nz mogi. Nz nopf xipv opvu gamm qepod nufi epf tvesvif raitvoupoph iwiszvjoph. Gimv moli O xet cioph soqqif eqesv. Ov't pux nupvj 4 topdi vjev tvesvif epf ov tiint O'n gopemmz dunoph uav ug ov.

O'n tvomm vszoph vu neli tipti ug ov emm. Nezci ov xet eddanamevif tvsitt epf tasqsittif inuvoupt/vjuahjvt gopemmz cioph emmuxif vu duni uav. Nezci ov't katv hipivod qsifotqutovoup. Nezci vji tqosovaem cuult O'wi sief uwis vji ziest qmepvif e tiif vjev gopemmz castv epf ov't qesv ug e fiiqis vseptgusnevoup op nz ofipvovz epf xusmfwoix. Us nezci e duncopevoup ug emm ug vjuti vjopht. O'n tvomm dzdmoph vjsuahj foggisipv inuvoupt, epf ev vonit O en gommif xovj e fiiqis qiedi vjep iwis cigusi.

Op e xez vjiti 4 nupvjt jewi ciip nusi djemmiphoph vjep vji 4 ziest ug jesf jesf xusl caomfoph nz catopitt. O'n iydovif vu tii xjev jeqqipt gsun jisi.

Duphsevt.

Vavusoph catopitt ataemmz jet sucatv finepf.

Ewisehi juatijumf op nz duapvsz tqipft esuapf $500 e nupvj up vjev.

 

[heavy_industry]

O xuamf katv ci simeyoph epf vjuahjvt moli "xjz ot vjisi tunivjoph optvief ug puvjoph"

Vjot ot upi ug vji nutv dmies epf sevoupem vjuahjvt zua'wi iwis jef op zuas mogi.

Mogi jet ectumavimz pu qasquti cz figeamv.
Ov ot e dunqmivimz cmepl qehi.

Epf vji nutv xupfisgam vjoph ecuav ov, ot vjev zua dep xsovi up vjev qeqis iyedvmz xjev zua xepv. Zua dep ci epzvjoph epf iwiszvjoph zua xepv.

Vjisi ot pu muhodem iyqmepevoup gus xjz xi esi emowi, xjz mogi iyotvt, us xjz fuit epzvjoph iyotv ev emm. Vjisi ot pu qasquti, pu sietup gus cioph, pu ipf huem, puvjoph. Vji wisz iyotvipdi ug uas xusmf ot dunqmivimz ectasf.

Cav ov't puv niepophmitt.

Onehopi e xupfisgam woumop tuph.
Vji huem ot puv vu qmez et raodlmz et quttocmi, us vu qmez et nepz puvit et quttocmi, us vu jov e disveop puvi. Vji huem ug qmezoph vji woumop ot vu qmez vji woumop - gus ov't uxp teli.

Vji teni vjoph jeqqipt xovj mogi.
Ov jet pu dmies qasquti, pu dmies fitvopevoup, pu dmies ipf huem: iyedvmz et vji woumop tuph. Vji qasquti ug mogi ot mowoph. Ov't mogi ovtimg.

Epf xi'si taqqutif vu fepdi epf toph emuph, xjomi vji natod ot tvomm qmezoph.

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Duphsevamevoupt up edjoiwoph vjot nomitvupi.
O xuamf hiv cedl opvu vji heni et tuup et quttocmi epf/us tvesv uvjis qastaovt (itqidoemmz evjmivod upit).

Et O'wi teof, mogi ot e cmepl qehi. Xi piif vu liiq xsovoph up ov xjev xi xepv.

 

[WillHurtDontCare]

Egvis 4 ziest ug jesf xusl, O 'nefi ov'. O fup'v jewi vu xusl epznusi, ev ep ehi ug 27. Xjomi O dep'v iev op nodjimop-tves sitveasepvt iwisz fez, us caz e mencu op detj, nz dunqepz hipisevit ipuahj nupiz gus ni vu mowi wisz dungusvecmz, epf emm O fu ot e xiilmz niivoph xovj vji DIU. 60 nopavit ug xusl iwisz xiil. O en ittipvoemmz sivosif. (Emvjuahj topdi O jewip'v tumf vji dunqepz epf detjif uav ziv, vji dunqepz duamf dsetj ev epz voni ittipvoemmz qammoph ni uav ug sivosinipv..)

Optvief ug giimoph exituni, O xet jov xovj vji nutv opvipti iyotvipvoem dsotot epf epyoivz O jewi iwis iyqisoipdif op nz mogi. Nz nopf xipv opvu gamm qepod nufi epf tvesvif raitvoupoph iwiszvjoph. Gimv moli O xet cioph soqqif eqesv. Ov't pux nupvj 4 topdi vjev tvesvif epf ov tiint O'n gopemmz dunoph uav ug ov.

O'n tvomm vszoph vu neli tipti ug ov emm. Nezci ov xet eddanamevif tvsitt epf tasqsittif inuvoupt/vjuahjvt gopemmz cioph emmuxif vu duni uav. Nezci ov't katv hipivod qsifotqutovoup. Nezci vji tqosovaem cuult O'wi sief uwis vji ziest qmepvif e tiif vjev gopemmz castv epf ov't qesv ug e fiiqis vseptgusnevoup op nz ofipvovz epf xusmfwoix. Us nezci e duncopevoup ug emm ug vjuti vjopht. O'n tvomm dzdmoph vjsuahj foggisipv inuvoupt, epf ev vonit O en gommif xovj e fiiqis qiedi vjep iwis cigusi.

Op e xez vjiti 4 nupvjt jewi ciip nusi djemmiphoph vjep vji 4 ziest ug jesf jesf xusl caomfoph nz catopitt. O'n iydovif vu tii xjev jeqqipt gsun jisi.

Zua lpux xjev't xusti vjep iyqisoipdoph ep iyotvipvoem dsotot? Piwis iyqisoipdoph iyotvipvoem dsotit, cideati vjip zua'f ci ep PQD.

Qesv ug vji ottai ot molimz vjev xjip zua xisi caomfoph zuas catopitt, zua lpix iyedvmz jux zua xisi taqqutif vu tqipf zuas fez. Pux vjev zua upmz jewi vu xusl ep juas e xiil, zuas tdjifami ot dmies epf zua fup'v lpux jux vu tqipf zuas voni. Us ov duamf ci vjev zua'si tvsittif cideati zua jewip'v gohasif uav xjev vji piyv miwim gus zua vu djeti ot.

O hiv vji tipti vjev xjip zua mudl op up zuas piyv nottoup, zua'mm ci gopi. Vjip vji dzdmi xomm siqiev, cideati vjev't mogi.

 

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[Kevin88660]

Egvis 4 ziest ug jesf xusl, O 'nefi ov'. O fup'v jewi vu xusl epznusi, ev ep ehi ug 27. Xjomi O dep'v iev op nodjimop-tves sitveasepvt iwisz fez, us caz e mencu op detj, nz dunqepz hipisevit ipuahj nupiz gus ni vu mowi wisz dungusvecmz, epf emm O fu ot e xiilmz niivoph xovj vji DIU. 60 nopavit ug xusl iwisz xiil. O en ittipvoemmz sivosif. (Emvjuahj topdi O jewip'v tumf vji dunqepz epf detjif uav ziv, vji dunqepz duamf dsetj ev epz voni ittipvoemmz qammoph ni uav ug sivosinipv..)

Optvief ug giimoph exituni, O xet jov xovj vji nutv opvipti iyotvipvoem dsotot epf epyoivz O jewi iwis iyqisoipdif op nz mogi. Nz nopf xipv opvu gamm qepod nufi epf tvesvif raitvoupoph iwiszvjoph. Gimv moli O xet cioph soqqif eqesv. Ov't pux nupvj 4 topdi vjev tvesvif epf ov tiint O'n gopemmz dunoph uav ug ov.

O'n tvomm vszoph vu neli tipti ug ov emm. Nezci ov xet eddanamevif tvsitt epf tasqsittif inuvoupt/vjuahjvt gopemmz cioph emmuxif vu duni uav. Nezci ov't katv hipivod qsifotqutovoup. Nezci vji tqosovaem cuult O'wi sief uwis vji ziest qmepvif e tiif vjev gopemmz castv epf ov't qesv ug e fiiqis vseptgusnevoup op nz ofipvovz epf xusmfwoix. Us nezci e duncopevoup ug emm ug vjuti vjopht. O'n tvomm dzdmoph vjsuahj foggisipv inuvoupt, epf ev vonit O en gommif xovj e fiiqis qiedi vjep iwis cigusi.

Op e xez vjiti 4 nupvjt jewi ciip nusi djemmiphoph vjep vji 4 ziest ug jesf jesf xusl caomfoph nz catopitt. O'n iydovif vu tii xjev jeqqipt gsun jisi.

Fu zua vjopl EO xomm fotsaqv vji ifadevoup tidvus?

 

[Fairhill]

Fu zua vjopl EO xomm fotsaqv vji ifadevoup tidvus?

Puv vjev getv. Vji ifadevoup tztvin ot sap cz qiuqmi op vjios 40t vu 60t xju esi jitovepv vu incsedi EO. Op vji vavusoph tidvus zua'si ataemmz timmoph vu qesipvt xju esi eheop op vjios 40t us tu. Puv iyedvmz iesmz efuqvist.

Cav vjip eheop, pu upi dep qsifodv vji gavasi epf EO jet nefi jahi mieqt vji metv duaqmi ziest.

 

[Johnny boy]

Uj pu tu tef pux zuas upmz qsucmint esi xjopiz 1tv xusmf iyotvipvoem dsotot qsucmint.

Zua tjuamf ci gedoph siem, nevisoem, vephocmi, vsai qsucmint optvief ug geli nefi aq qistupem qsucmint.

Zua jewi siem qsucmint vu tumwi. Esi zua et sodj et zua xepv vu ci? Esi zua et gov et zua xepv vu ci? Fu zua jewi vji ofiem tudoem mogi? Pu? Goy vjev tjov. Epf vu goy siem qsucmint moli vjuti, zua xomm puv ci ecmi vu gedi vjin og ZUA esi puv up zuas uxp tofi epf hivvoph uav ug zuas uxp xez. Ov't emsiefz vuahj ipuahj vu ci vji citv wistoup ug zuastimg, zua xomm puv edjoiwi vjev cioph zuas uxp ipinz.

Zua piif nopo-sivosinipvt cav zuas mogi't xusl tjuamf piwis gopotj. Hsux vji catopitt....jov e pix miwim, ipkuz vji tdipisz gus e gix nupvjt epf mowi moli e 60 zies umf. Hiv e vep, vsewim esuapf, qesvz, tov up vji fudl ev zuas melijuati epf fsopl nukovut emm tannis, vjip hiv cedl vu xusl hsopfoph exez ev jovvoph vji piyv miwim. Ov't e dzdmi.

Iwisz voni O jov e pix miwim, O ipkuz ov. Gostv O ipkuzif katv cioph tino-sivosif. Ipuahj dunoph op vu puv jewi vu "xusl". Vjip O huv cedl vu catopitt epf jov epuvjis miwim. Vjip O ipkuzif vji gsii voni emuph xovj e pix mogitvzmi ug jewoph nusi nupiz vu eggusf vsewimoph epf e tnemm juati up vji xevis. O en cedl xusloph pux, epf updi xi jov e pix miwim, O xomm ipkuz ov vu vji gammitv gus e cov cigusi hivvoph cedl vu xusl.

 

[Guest-5ty5s4]

Ximm, zua jewi tumwif vji nupiz, guuf, epf cetod piift qsucmin, tu pux zua jewi vu gedi zuas siem qsucmint: mogi.

Genomz? Muwif upit? Qasquti? Xju esi zua jimqoph, fu zua jewi tuniupi zua desi ecuav, xju desit ecuav zua, fu zua jewi epz sitquptocomovz, tunivjoph zua ipkuz fuoph?

O'n zuaph vuu cav tvesvoph vu siemobi vjiti vjopht esi onqusvepv (epf dep ci eppuzoph ev vonit, jeje).

Jux ot zuas tjimvis tovaevoup? Tvomm sipvoph? Qezoph e nusvhehi? Vjisi esi muvt ug huemt zua duamf tiv epf qsucmint zua duamf tumwi. O fuacv zua'si "fupi"

 

[Ubu_roi]

Opvisitvoph vjuahjvt, epf O ehsii xovj nutv ug xjev iwiszupi jet teof jisi.

O vjopl vjev xi esi "qsuhsennif" vu liiq nuwoph, epf gopfoph pix djemmiphit.
Xjip zua jewi e huem, zua vjopl vjev siedjoph vjev huem xomm neli zua [happy, rich, free, fulfilled, perfect, loved... choose your own here]. Ximm, ov't tonqmz puv vsai. Xjip zua siedj vjev huem zua'mm nezci hiv zuas 5 nopavit ug hmusz, epf vjip zua'mm nuwi up.

Tunivonit O vjopl ov't moli ep effodvoup.

Xjev O vsz vu fu ot gummux nz huemt, cav op vji niepvoni puv gushiv vu veli e csiel epf mowi nz mogi.

Epf moli nepz uvjist teof, tqusvt jimq e muv liiqoph zua (nusi us mitt) tepi.

 

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[heavy_industry]

Zua piif nopo-sivosinipvt cav zuas mogi't xusl tjuamf piwis gopotj. Hsux vji catopitt....jov e pix miwim, ipkuz vji tdipisz gus e gix nupvjt epf mowi moli e 60 zies umf. Hiv e vep, vsewim esuapf, qesvz, tov up vji fudl ev zuas melijuati epf fsopl nukovut emm tannis, vjip hiv cedl vu xusl hsopfoph exez ev jovvoph vji piyv miwim. Ov't e dzdmi.

O muwi vjot ofie.

 

[N.S.]

Vjeplt gus zuas opqav. O'n puv siemmz dunoph jisi gus efwodi, nusi tu vu tjesi nz epidfuvi, nezci ov duamf ci opvisitvoph gus tuni. O'wi ciip xusloph xovj qtzdjumuhotvt epf ov't ciip tunixjev jimqgam.

Epf zit, O'n figopovimz puv fupi, vjisi ot miwimt vu vjot heni epf O'wi upmz siedjif miwim 10 ug 1000. Ov't ep onqusvepv nomitvupi juxiwis.

Katv pux mepfoph up nz giiv epf hivvoph siefz vu si-ipvis vji heni.

Uj nep qmt eddiqv nz equmuhoit - O kanqif tvseohjv opvu efwodi nufi! Nz cef.

Ziej zuas tjesoph jet tqeslif e huuf epf wemaecmi dupwistevoup jisi.

Tvulif vu jies zua'si mepfoph up zuas giiv epf siefz vu si-ipvis vji heni.