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Hey,
Sam is my name, even if it is not me
Kinda woo-woo start though
I am happy to be here with a group of people so kind, that they actually tell the truth about becoming wealthy in this world that is slowly becoming more pure (hope so)
I have fewer problems after reading certain mindset and execution gold threads, but maybe sharing my personal issues can actually solve them
I present you yet another opportunity to help a person, because why not think of a problem as an opportunity to share, make friends and connections and simply have fun?
I've read quite few books on essential topics of mindset, such as buddhism, stoicism and non duality, it gave me a lot of peace ️
I only have few tendencies
I am happy to let go of them, but here's a help needed maybe
ADHD kinda symptoms, maybe just a lack of discipline
I have tendency to get tired easily, be lethargic, then hyperactive, then shameful, and this interruptions that make me think, hard to sit still, and just focus on one thing at a time, mind is scattered and wandering all the time, hard to stick to a certain routine, path, one goal; okay, here is more ambitious one, let's abandon first one for a newer shinier thing, because what if we lose everything, what if we miss out, as if you can get everything, this greed and pride to be the best eats me alive, dramatic, but comically it can be solved after this thread
Overhelping, like literally yesterday was coaching my friend for 6 hours free, then another guy for 3 hours, when someone has a trouble my kindness kills me
I have tendency to help, never think of myself, be foolishly honest,
I am clarified on solutions to A LOT of problems, and my ability to listen, coach, guide and lead is my curse and blessing
I have tendency to use this clarity of life on other people too much without actually caring about myself, focusing, setting boundaries, saying "no", but someone said it is called codependency or whatever, but therapeutic kinda mental disorderism sucks because it makes symptoms stronger and gives you +50% boost to problems, with few solutions
I just want to let go of this problems, relax and sit here in peace
I have tendency to let go of my own stuff, for just talking out someone's problems
I have the tendency of me that is complete opposite of first issue with ADHD symptoms
Overcaring, sharing, solving, helping, pleasing, sacrificing and simply being selfless dumb altruistic prick who cares so little about himself that he would die for a stranger with no priorities
I want to let go of both tendencies, find a better way, and peace
It is my only problem;
I let go of these two and what happens, in a short period amount of time my business, relationships and happiness increase by 10x and other people won't suffer that much too
My little secret is also my tendency to need approval for every change or action, like writing this post, solutions can be obvious, you can find 'em on internet,
I write these to either get a really good book advice or inspiration, or maybe just approval, maybe this is the root diagnosis and problem?
Approval before doing anything looks kinda stupid.
Actually constant comparison, like literally CONSTANTLY trying to be the best, comparing people around to me not inspiration, but envy and grief probably
Regret tendency, which is like grief, and constant attachment to what success you would have if you just did XYZ makes me sick kinda
I will literally send $10.000 after making it to the person who solves this shit
I am so F*cking tired of this exact problems, nothing more needed, just an advice, experience, books, whatever material everyone
Paradox of choice and A LITTLE BIT OF PERFECTIONISM maybe, like tryna be the best, choosing an optimal option, and fearing that you'll go to the road most traveled
Inconsistency or fear of it, like an instant lose of interest, and just boredom, or also fear of it
Impatience, rushing too much, emotional rollercoasters
What books, stories, articles, material and maybe personal success you have with ADHD tendencies and also people pleasing and "codependency" because it would SKYROCKET my life, just your simple advice with a sincere intention ✌️
I don't overthink as most people tell me, 80% day filled with silence, but this 20% is crying out for help
Sam is my name, even if it is not me
Kinda woo-woo start though
I am happy to be here with a group of people so kind, that they actually tell the truth about becoming wealthy in this world that is slowly becoming more pure (hope so)
I have fewer problems after reading certain mindset and execution gold threads, but maybe sharing my personal issues can actually solve them
I present you yet another opportunity to help a person, because why not think of a problem as an opportunity to share, make friends and connections and simply have fun?
I've read quite few books on essential topics of mindset, such as buddhism, stoicism and non duality, it gave me a lot of peace ️
I only have few tendencies
I am happy to let go of them, but here's a help needed maybe
ADHD kinda symptoms, maybe just a lack of discipline
I have tendency to get tired easily, be lethargic, then hyperactive, then shameful, and this interruptions that make me think, hard to sit still, and just focus on one thing at a time, mind is scattered and wandering all the time, hard to stick to a certain routine, path, one goal; okay, here is more ambitious one, let's abandon first one for a newer shinier thing, because what if we lose everything, what if we miss out, as if you can get everything, this greed and pride to be the best eats me alive, dramatic, but comically it can be solved after this thread
Overhelping, like literally yesterday was coaching my friend for 6 hours free, then another guy for 3 hours, when someone has a trouble my kindness kills me
I have tendency to help, never think of myself, be foolishly honest,
I am clarified on solutions to A LOT of problems, and my ability to listen, coach, guide and lead is my curse and blessing
I have tendency to use this clarity of life on other people too much without actually caring about myself, focusing, setting boundaries, saying "no", but someone said it is called codependency or whatever, but therapeutic kinda mental disorderism sucks because it makes symptoms stronger and gives you +50% boost to problems, with few solutions
I just want to let go of this problems, relax and sit here in peace
I have tendency to let go of my own stuff, for just talking out someone's problems
I have the tendency of me that is complete opposite of first issue with ADHD symptoms
Overcaring, sharing, solving, helping, pleasing, sacrificing and simply being selfless dumb altruistic prick who cares so little about himself that he would die for a stranger with no priorities
I want to let go of both tendencies, find a better way, and peace
It is my only problem;
I let go of these two and what happens, in a short period amount of time my business, relationships and happiness increase by 10x and other people won't suffer that much too
My little secret is also my tendency to need approval for every change or action, like writing this post, solutions can be obvious, you can find 'em on internet,
I write these to either get a really good book advice or inspiration, or maybe just approval, maybe this is the root diagnosis and problem?
Approval before doing anything looks kinda stupid.
Actually constant comparison, like literally CONSTANTLY trying to be the best, comparing people around to me not inspiration, but envy and grief probably
Regret tendency, which is like grief, and constant attachment to what success you would have if you just did XYZ makes me sick kinda
I will literally send $10.000 after making it to the person who solves this shit
I am so F*cking tired of this exact problems, nothing more needed, just an advice, experience, books, whatever material everyone
Paradox of choice and A LITTLE BIT OF PERFECTIONISM maybe, like tryna be the best, choosing an optimal option, and fearing that you'll go to the road most traveled
Inconsistency or fear of it, like an instant lose of interest, and just boredom, or also fear of it
Impatience, rushing too much, emotional rollercoasters
What books, stories, articles, material and maybe personal success you have with ADHD tendencies and also people pleasing and "codependency" because it would SKYROCKET my life, just your simple advice with a sincere intention ✌️
I don't overthink as most people tell me, 80% day filled with silence, but this 20% is crying out for help
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