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  1. Mr4213

    Habits of the Unscripted

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    Oh, I see. Well recently I've just been focusing on my habits and grinding them out every day. Learning to fall in love with the process and focusing on the fundamentals. Ideally within this next year I'll be in a good position to take action in starting a new business.
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    Habits of the Unscripted

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    Besides investing, have you built any businesses at this point? In both of those examples it looks like you completely forfeited control. Why not take that $15k and instead invest it in your own business and have more influence over the outcome?
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    The Great Rat-Race Escape by MJ DeMarco, Now Available (All formats!)

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    Seeing this post just made my day
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    Habits of the Unscripted

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    I actually feel like this habit you mentioned could be improved. The issue I see with it is that it is lacking clarity and simplification. IMO, you're not talking about specifics. You're simply stating what you arent going to do. "I'm not going to be unproductive" Here is an example of a...
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    Eliminating action faking -- Learning vs Executing in copywriting and sales

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    You'll never be "ready" It doesn't exist so I'd recommend not waiting for "some point" in which you're ready to materialize. Growth comes from doing. Thinking about doing things doesn't get things done. I'd sit down and come up with just one small thing you can do each day that moves the ball...
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    My family is toxic, what to do?

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    I appreciate all of the support from this forum over the years. It's been a rough ride but I'm still extremely motivated and grateful for my life. It's a blessing. God is good. At this point I found an apartment parking lot spot that I park in every night and I sleep there. It's 10 minutes...
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    My family is toxic, what to do?

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    Yeah it's unfortunate. He was only 26. It's been rough and I'm tired.
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    My family is toxic, what to do?

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    Sorry for the incredibly late reply. My brother died last week from an OD. Currently I'm in the Houston area living out of my car. Not ideal... but not that bad either. Got a great job as a ranch hand making $15/hr. I'm gonna make it, but it'll take time to climb out of my hole and save up...
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    My family is toxic, what to do?

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    Update Got in contact with a good friend. He's offering me a place to stay and a job. Super thankful. On my way to Lubbock.
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    My family is toxic, what to do?

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    I appreciate the support. None of this was planned. It was more of a sudden realization of just how bad the environment was that I was living in. I just got in my car and left. I kept driving and driving until I ended up in Los Angeles. I didn't really pick this place, just ended up here. I...
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    My family is toxic, what to do?

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    Wanted to update this thread. Everything came to a head. Specifics aren't necessary. I left that toxic place and drove and drove and drove. Ended up in Los Angeles (from Texas) Homeless in car. Have a few hundred to my name. Moving spots and sleeping in car every night. I do want to add...
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    Do you use your environment?

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    I think I'm going to update this thread as I come across more examples from my own life. Previously I discussed using the environment to "remember" for you. This time I'm going to provide a different example of using the environment. In the past I smoked A LOT. I had a vape so it was...
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    My family is toxic, what to do?

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    Wow, I wasn't expecting so many replies. There's a lot here so I'll just reply with one big message. I genuinely really appreciate everyone taking the time to provide advice. Very grateful for this community and for this forum. My sibling developed a very nasty addiction to marijuana and...
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    My family is toxic, what to do?

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    Thank you for the response. I agree with the mindset. If relationships arent making me better (and I'm not making the other person better) I'm completely willing to drop the whole thing. However, admittedly in this situation it's difficult. My sibling is on a death path and I know at the...
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    My family is toxic, what to do?

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    I appreciate the reply and I completely agree. The relationships screwed up my development at a young age and caused a multitude of issues that I've only recently begun to understand and correct. I'm no longer carrying the baggage in my life and have learned what healthy relationships look...
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    My family is toxic, what to do?

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    Recently I've provided as much value as I've been able to with this forum. Today I would like to ask for some help myself. I am living in an extremely toxic environment. My entire family is toxic. I accept responsibility and accountability for where and who I am in life today. I made...
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    Disrupting bad habits.

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    Can't tell it you mean this as a genuine compliment or sarcasm haha. If it's a genuine comment then I'm glad I was able to provide some sort of value to you. If not then I'm sorry that I wasn't
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    Do you use your environment?

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    I really like the idea of brushing teeth in the shower. That's much more efficient and effective. I am going to start incorporating that into my shower process. Thank you! My shower process is that I start washing my head and gradually move to each part of my body in the same order while asking...
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    Are you consistent?

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    If you're having issues with consistency (which I did for most of my life too) Then build a small habit that you are consistent on and slowly build on it. Example Every time you walk out your door think of one thing you are grateful for. Super fast and easy. You'll start to notice the...
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    Disrupting bad habits.

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    Quick way to disrupt bad habits. Change the order. Example. I use to have a bad process for work. I changed where I parked. I created an entire system for how I park and walk from my car to inside where I work and then the entire process for what I do once I'm at work. It's effective.
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